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#it's selfcare guys
o0kawaii0o · 14 days
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oh mama
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beverage2000 · 9 months
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Reminders 4 me and anyone
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icantdothistodaybruh · 8 months
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It seems this year I have only two styles with no in-between what so ever, and looking at them in comparison is driving me insane just a lil bit
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queermasculine · 1 year
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how to know if you're a straight trans man or a butch
i've always known very strongly that i wasn't a man, so i have no personal struggle from which to draw insight here, but when it comes down to it i think the best way to get to know yourself is to ask yourself what it is that you actually want. how do you want others to see you? how do you want to live?
do you want to live life as a straight trans man? if so, that's probably the right path for you. do you want to live life as a butch lesbian? then that's probably the right path for you. you've lived both lives and can't bear the thought of abandoning one for the other? sounds like you were meant to be both. you can be a butch trans guy if you want to— you wouldn't be the first. as uncomfortable as some people are with this fact, it nonetheless remains a reality; there have always been people who have made their homes and lives in the crossing where our identities intersect, and you can too, if that feels right to you.
it's been said before but i'll say it again.. when it comes to figuring yourself out, an infinitely more helpful question than "what am i really?" is "what do i want?" i said i've always known very strongly that i wasn't a man. this is how i know: i just don't want to be one. i don't want to be seen that way. there is some comfort in strangers assuming i'm a cis guy, sure (sometimes it feels safer that way, sometimes it's nice to be reminded that the masculinity i present to the world is real) but when i think of my closest loved ones, i don't want them to see me as a man. i want them to see me as a transmasculine butch, a genderqueer dyke, a lesbian. and that desire to be seen a certain way by those i hold dearest, that's what guides me in life and ultimately defines me.
"ok but... how do i know what i want?" that's a tougher one, i'll admit. just by living i guess. by meeting new people, by keeping an open mind, by trying new things and continuing to learn more about what it is you like and don't like. i was 20 when i'd finally lived enough to know what i wanted. it might take longer for you than that.
fortunately, you don't actually need to have any of this shit figured out to move forward. before i found my butch identity i spent years describing myself as "uhhh some sorta non-binary i guess" and none of my queer/trans friends minded the fact that i didn't have all the details down yet. they knew my chosen name and my pronouns and that was enough for them, and i didn't spend a whole lot of time worrying about it either. you don't need to force yourself to choose between labels right now if you're not ready. you can let the answers come to you.
in the meantime, just fill your life with things that make it worth living. you don't have to know for sure that you're a guy to get that binder or that packer or to go on testosterone, and you don't need to know for sure that you're a butch to hang out with dykes and to have lesbian sex and so on and so on...
just live the life you want to live. you can figure out what to call it later.
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blackplaaague · 8 months
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Hey! You! EAT DINNER or LUNCH or SOMETHING if you're hungry! USE THE RESTROOM! If you take medications and haven't had them yet, TAKE 'EM!
THIS IS AN OFFICIAL TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF POST!
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technologyvoid · 6 months
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I am literally the worst person you could've asked for spotting Easter eggs-
The only thing I found (does it even count?) Is Matpat
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Ok so
Riiiight before that, when Burt walks in from the left. Look at the door behind him :›
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MIKOTO KAYANO AT THIS TIME i love you so much….. my little mipy…….. my bingus even…………
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emerging from the pillow fort in the corner of ur room HERE I AMMM!! hi ari how are u ari?? how is uni? i am here with a very VERY important question it's crucial to our friendship - dr. pepper yes or no?
- @softgirlgonehaywire
MICKEYYYY HI HELLO i am sliding a bag of chips under ur pillow fort <333 playing lofi music so u can sleep <3333
IM DOING GOOD ive been rlly rlly busy and tired BUT i just finished my first course so now i have a bit of free time until the next one starts hehe. im so relieved bc i havent been able to write or read OR plan my movie night but now i finally can!! :3 HOW ABT U MICKEY how is work??? its only a couple weeks left now right?? how r u feeling? have things been going well? <333
but okok. abt ur question. i am shaking n shivering in fear but i cant lie to u .
….. im kind of addicted to dr pepper </3 as a kid my siblings would always go for the classic coke or pepsi and i wanted to be the quirky alien child so i went w pepper but now its like . my comfort drink PHSKDHD ….. i just . i like the name and taste ok … it tastes like laundry detergent and cherries and i think its good …… 👉👈
HOPEFULLY U R ALSO A DR PEPPER ENJOYER or else im expecting an instant block bUT i trust our brain connection yknow …. u love dr pepper soooo bad……. im manifesting it
UR SO SWEET FOR CHECKING IN MICKEY <333 i have a question for u too actually!! what r ur go-to movie snacks… sodas……… etc…. 🧐🧐 what do u recommend for the overall experience i am looking to learn
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linked-maze · 2 years
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Sorry no updates this time!  was too busy playing minecraft and skyward sword this week XD
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notabled-noodle · 2 years
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me to myself: I will block the assholes and move on. I will not engage. I will not argue with them. I will block them and move on with my day. I will not answer back. I will block them —
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cryingforcrocodiles · 8 months
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oh thank you god for having an event happening near me so i can Leave and not watch this
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humanitysong · 11 months
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also food for thoughts : re,m died for humans in one big gesture but. isn't. va.sh kinda doing the same just. slower. it's not like, he means or wants to die but with how he treats people, how he gets hurt to protect people he sure is following re.ms legacy.
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somesmartsmarties · 1 year
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I love that these two share a voice actor
Even better, their voice is literally the same except Richtofen sounds more insane sometimes depending on which Richtofen it is
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I don’t know who that first fella is but I can just hear what he would sound like AHSBDUWBDJSNDJ
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citizenoftmrrwlnd · 2 years
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self care for : mr. wolf (the bad guys) with a be gay do crimes vibe, wolves, stim toys, candles, and soft things
requested by 🦊anon
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solpng · 2 years
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i am currently once again in the middle of a fight between my brother and his wife 🤡
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A woman on twitter asked men to give women some relationship advice. The mic got dropped.
High value women are often blamed for the men that they attract, but come on now. EVERY GORGEOUS WOMAN knows that everyone loves honey and light.
Rather a man is good or bad, he's attracted to the light of a divine woman. But a woman must know how to choose HER KING. 👑
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