#irl!convo

[lovedazai]

idk entirely how to phrase this but I'll try my best,, do you have any advice on jst like. letting go? I'm in my mid 20s and Ive never even held hands with a guy, so ofc I'm still a virgin too and I feel rly rly bad abt it even tho I knw my circumstances never rly allowed for anything. and I'm trying to find ways to get rid of the bad feelings but it's hardd. I know this ws out of nowhere so ty for any answer you give!!

aw nonnie im so so sorry :( but listen !! theres nothing wrong w going thru the grieving process for the life u couldve had if things were different. i feel like that can be something v cathartic !! i know its easy to feel like ur falling behind on certain things, but i promise ur not. theres no real timeline for stuff like that u know?? everyones life is different. maybe if u start to think of sex as something ur going to enjoy w someone u love one day instead of viewing it as a milestone u had to reach at a certain age, ur feelings may change a little? i rlly hope u start to feel better soon, im certain ur going to meet someone & get to do all the fun things u’ve been waiting for !! sending u lots of love <33

#valentines #irl!convo

[girlwithherheadinthestars]

father figure prompts pt. 2 (cw: daddy issues)

because like. teachers who have adopted the traumatized gifted kids in their classes as their children >>>>>>

"you need a break. you're working too hard."

"i don't care that you didn't do that assignment i'm more worried about the fact that you're crying."

bursting into his office whenever you're upset: are you busy?

^him: yes. (closes his laptop) what's up?

^me: aren't you...

^him: your principal can go step off a balcony. this is clearly more important.

"you're more than just smart. you're funny and sweet and talented -- don't let anyone reduce you to just smart."

"i'm so scared for the midterm if i'm being honest."

^"why? your worst grade in my class is a 95."

^"yes but i don't want to disappoint -- "

^"get a B."

^"what?"

^"i'm being serious. get a B. that's more than enough. don't kill yourself overstudying for a perfect score."

"you're literally a child. this isn't your responsibility. don't worry about it. just...go have fun."

"stop studying and go out please for the love of god."

part. 1

part. 3

#had similar convos irl tbh it healed my heart #tag me if you use one of these i would love to read <3 #writeblr #writing #spilled ink #writing prompts #father figure #father figure prompts #gifted kid syndrome #dialogue prompts #character dialogue #dialogue prompt #writing dialogue #dialogue ideas #writing ideas #creative writing #prompts

[mischas]

The O.C. 1.02 The Model Home

#theocedit #teendramaedit #smallscreensource #filmtvdaily #tvarchive #dailyflicks #adam brody #mischa barton #marissa cooper #seth cohen #seth x marissa #the oc #usercallie #safflowerseason #unlikely-alliance #addys-beth #tusermanon #season 1 #1x02 #* #'it's a show about two brothers' kiss my ass! #they wouldn't even HAVE a show were it not for her #they didn't even have the decency to add in the music chapter of the book that the car scene here came from an adam/mischa convo irl #because god forbid they cop to her being integral to its origins and also that they all hung out with a 17 y/o! some more than others! #anyway love my stoner loser musical besties #i read OTR because of them when i was in high school #also throwback to when i went to this diner irl and sat in this very booth

[trafclgarlaw]

*Luffy busting into Law's room at 2am*

Luffy: Torao i have an emergency

Law: what

Luffy: why is it called a chicken dance if i dont get any chicken when i dance??? ive been dancing for-

Law:

Law: get the fuck out

#one piece #trafalgar law #correct one piece quotes #lawlu #lawluffy #incorrect one piece #luffy #monkey d. luffy #based on an irl convo i had with a friend wtf

[wyrddogs]

Something something just because the dog isn't flashy doesn't mean it's not driven. Just because it's not screaming doesn't mean it's not in drive.

Just because the dog is best suited for trailing, locating, and flushing game and thus rarely gets to participate in killing game, doesn't make it less important than the team members who are better at killing. The killing might be the flashiest and most exciting part, but it isn't the most important part. The dogs that kill won't be able to do that if the dogs that flush don't put the game into the position to be killed.

Grumbly venting brought to you a conversation with someone who thinks the actual kill is the most important part of hunting. And who thinks that only badass, hardcore, drivey, screamy dogs that murder are good hunting dogs.

#random things that irk me #hunting #to be clear I am not even a hunter #sometimes I hunt with my dog #but I am not a hunter #I do not live that lifestyle #but I still go out and put up rats and rabbits both alone and with friends #I put in the work #so it is annoying for someone who does not put in that work #to obliquely put my dog down because he is better suited for flushing than killing #and he doesn't have the flashiness of a terrier #he is very workmanlike and not exciting to watch #but he gets the job done #it does not make him a less important team member #than the flashy terriers who kill the game he drives into their mouths #also this isn't about anyone online #it's an irl person I had a convo with

[milfsincrime]

jj: at what age do we consider a milf to be a milf regardless of whether they are indeed a mother??

emily: and who are you considering when you ask this question?

jj: ..you

#criminal minds #jemily #emily prentiss #jennifer jareau #jennifer jj jareau #jj jareau #paget brewster #aj cook #incorrect jemily #jemily incorrect #jemily incorrect quotes #incorrect jemily quotes #criminal minds incorrect quotes #criminal minds incorrect #incorrect criminal minds #incorrect criminal minds quotes #emily x jj #jj x emily #irl convo as incorrect quote #milfsincrimeposts

[infintyonhigh]

kinda fucked how there isnt an all girl fall out boy cover band called. well, called fall out girl

#are cover bands even a thing anymore they should be #anyway train of thought brought to u by the ongoing convo me and my irl been having #about the bnd2 vinyl in the barbie movie #v minor barbie spoilers ahead: and how it shouldnt be in that scene bc fall out boy is for the girls and the gays #isa.txt

[menlove]

I love people who are so open about being into fandom in public. asked a customer if she had any plans for the day and she said going home and reading fanfiction. good for her frankly

#did she smell it on me #we got into a convo abt how devestating it is to stay up reading a 300k fic #I so badly wanted to know what ship she's reading HSHSHSJSJ #but then she would've asked me in turn and I could not tell a soul irl that it's the fucking beatles rn

[rising-normal-type-star]

Anyway it is always morally correct to make people abusing their power feel every bit of pain they caused ✨✨

#ceti the rising star!! #pokeblogging #pokémon irl #pokémon rp #rotomblr #rotumblr #// inspired by a discord convo

[vampiricsheep]

Don't think I've seen this question make the rounds before, so:

Do any of your OCs hunt/fish/trap? Who taught them, and why do they do it? Do they have preferred gear or quarry?

#question brought to you by hunting coming up in all my classes simultaneously and bringing it back to mind #fishing is in here bc it ends up in these irl convos but I suppose it does feel like a gimme after gw2 added it #(and it's popularity as a minigame in many games as well) #but here I'll go first. my ex mordrem Merlin fur-traps in the shiverpeaks for income #he'll eat the meat of what he catches and splits w/ his nightmare hound (do u think fern/nm hounds can swallow bird bones? much 2 think abt #less wasteful and lessens what he has to pack when camping out in remote places for long periods of time #he was a deadshot with a bow as a young sprout but mordremoth got him early and uh. well that bow ended up integrating with his arm #which is why he's missing his right :) that's a story in and of itself though #but yeah so no bow-hunting or any marksmanship really #though he can throw an axe pretty well if needed #alright I have others but it's bedtime and this is a tag novella already #gw2 #<- will it even find its way into the tag? who can say LOL anyways gnite! or good morning!

[lovedazai]

In reply to the anon, who never held hands: i feel the same. I'm in my mid/late twenties and the one guy i kissed was when i was 17 and i didn't even really like him like that (and there wasn't anymore than kissing either). It was just weird for me. And i've had nobody show interest in me since then. I think sometimes feel like I'm just unlovable and the way most "friends" end up treating me reinforces that point. I am currently fighting really hard not to let that get to me, but most days i lose that fight. What often helps me is taking myself on dates, like actually going out to a cafe or something.

lots of love

listen if i ever see ur friends its going down ᕦ(ò_óˇ)ᕤ you’re just as deserving of love and attention as everyone else, and you deserve friends who make you feel like you’re capable of attaining all of those good things too. theres people out there who you may not have met yet who are your people and i promise you’ll find each other one day

i adore me time too !! taking myself cafe hopping or window shopping are some of my fav things to do (ㅅ´ ˘ `) its v grounding for me. im so happy you have something that makes you feel better when you’re down !! but im so sorry you’re feeling like this at all. i already said it, but you are lovable, and even if things feel hopeless now, it won’t be your forever :( there’s so many years ahead of you and there’s so many ppl you haven’t met yet !! hang in there lovely <33 it will get better i promise

#valentines #irl!convo

[mxtxfanatic]

Interesting commentary about how most people will identify with victims/victimhood while feeling discomfort when others identify with perpetrators, especially given the fact we live in societies (at least the one I’m in and the one that book was written in) that habitually materially revile victims on every level while championing and supporting perpetrators of certain violence.

#human reads time limited hunt #this convo comes up cause jiang lian is explaining to shi shanyan #how he wishes yan junxun would get at least one case wrong #because his ability to empathize with serial killers to this degree #unsettles ‘normal folks’ #but at the same time #is anyone *really* indentifying with the victims? #because the only reason why the crimes in this book happened #are because neither people nor institutions helped ANY actual victims #in fact they were using actual victims’ stories for prestige and ego boosts #even the victim-turned-serial-killer is using revenge killing *other* people’s assaulters #to make herself feel better #and because of that she ends up fucking up #and murdering an innocent man! #anyways reminds me of that study on kids #that said that showing bullying in kids shows #actually doesn’t prevent bullying #because bullies identify with the victims in shows #while adopting the fictional bullies’ tactics irl #so no lessons were learned #because nobody identified themselves as having the capacity to harm #or at least to harm the ‘undeserving’ #weaponization of victimhood and the aesthetics of innocence and docileness #or something like that #time limited hunt

[badnewswhatsleft]

14 what a catch, donnie mv - commentary (patrick, joe, andy)

#fall out boy #patrick stump #pete wentz #andy hurley #joe trohman #time capsule #on film #bndv1dvd #i want to have listened in on that pete+alan ferguson convo abt this treatment. this sentimental melancholic patrick-centric treatment. #0:35 patrick considered this one of the best songs they ever wrote... literally speak your truth say it so loud i am always listening king #1:53 i like that he knows jonathan livingston seagull as the movie first and foremost and not as. the novella. #4:13 the joetrick hug was scripted and patrick would never hug joe irl its so joever /j #i love this mv so much i bought it with actual monetary currencyfrom itunes in like 2012 #and such is the nature of itunes purchases that it inexplicably followed me on EVERY device since then #when my own music files photos documents dont got me i know this 2012 purchase of the what a catch donnie mv got me #i believe there may be an additional carpal tunnel one but im still waiting for the jp edition in the mail.. if it's true i will upload! #if it's not true then ig i'll just go fuck myself

[riacte]

how it started:

one ren peeing twaddle conversation later:

#ria.txt #💀💀💀 #this isn't even including the 'blimey ren i'm worried for you' #me at the start of the stream: funny how ren calls him unlucky with the ladies when 70% of his fans are down bad for him #me in tears in the middle of the stream: with all respect i understand now. #false's chats are environmental storytelling #also the way she came back and was like 'what happened' and then the pee convo and she left 💀 #and ren said he scared her away 💀 #its so funny how it started out as like :) yeah i'll help you with vh. lets discuss british biscuits. whats a rusk. #and then: its vulnerable when i eat with someone. and then the pee convo #normal ren stream trajectory but its stillllllllll so fucking funny #false at the start 'don't leave me alone 🥺' #false at the end 'bye im never seeing you again' #false and doc next time they meet up with ren irl: 🧍🧍 #nooooooo bc why did he have to talk abt All Of That with two ppl he met irl and has prob ate with #ren's mods are the real heroes of the story #AT LEAST THE RUSK DESCRIPTION WAS NORMAL. #fuck it. im tagging ren #rendog #the rd difference #pogsupremacy

[italoniponic]

Ace: Can I ask you something? Buying pans, kitchen utensils, towels and such are more fun when you're an adult?

Crewel: It's... *thinks about it* yep

#twisted wonderland #ace trappola #divus crewel #twst incorrect quotes #source: an irl convo between me and my mom at the center #this question has been haunting me since i was 7 #and going shopping for home things was (still is) a torture #cherry's mumbling about twst

[quotidian-oblivion]

The Family Tumblrweed

Soooooooo I accidentally created a found family AU in real life. And based on this poll and other incidents, I stumbled upon the decision to sort this out and make a tumblr family tree tumblr family tumblrweed a family tumblrweed.

Please, do note, that not all of my lovely lovely awesome super amazing cool brilliant charming enchanting fascinating fabulous great mutuals are not present in the tree, but very much in my heart (i will die for you all.) These are just the mutuals who I talk to and also some friends (irl and offline).

THE BIOS

So I asked everyone in the Tumblrweed to give one thing they noticed/liked about me and this is the full list (along with like a couple of my personal additions):

THE CHART

Nog came up with the strikethrough title and Lexi came up with the current title so either/or can be used

Vibey helped with choosing a canva template

PLEASE NOTE THAT THERE ARE SOME MUTUALS WHO I DON’T KNOW AS WELL AND THUS HAVE SHORTER DESCRIPTIONS BUT THIS DOESN’T MAKE ME THINK ANY LESS OF YOU GEYIRFB

@sardonic-sprite @pevensiechase @tristicorde @ah0yh0y @betterthanbatman1 @mispeltnostalgia @cygnusdoesthings @birdybat @periwinkle-the-11th @datrandokat @wakkoroni @foursixtwonineoh-pieces-of-lego @themundanemudperson @tireddruid @marithefriendlyghost @phytothecryptid @milky-fresh-bones @somerando369

#quotidian convos #the tumblr family tree #the tumblr family tumblrweed #the family tumblrweed #tumblr family tree #tumblr family tumblrweed #family tumblrweed #tumblr family #irl found family au #help the tumblrweed is spiky #we heart internet found family #whoops i tripped and stumbled into a found family au