#i want a group hug

[endartea]

Ok, so, I have an idea. Since Zhongli is y'know more than 6000 years old, and has experienced more wars than any other being in Teyvat. And is the one with the most traumatic experiences.

I think you know where this is going; but this man HAS to have got severe PTSD. Like crippling shit. Because I'm sorry, but you're not escaping atleast 2000 years worth of fighting and war time without some shit messed up in your mind.

Zhongli also lost Guizhong, his best friend, in their own home. So that's a plus.

So, with all of that I headcanon that:

First off, Zhongli still obviously suffers from PTSD in his daily life. So things like sudden but loud noises definetly make him want to arm himself with his spear.

Second, let's not forget that he's a dragon deity. So, he's obviously very wise. But that has to be balanced between his wiseness and his absolute suffering.

I will not stop publishing posts about how Zhongli is not a force of nature. Until atleast a quarter of the fandom, get it inside of their head that Rex Lapis, is very much a being just like say, Barbatos (who is also very traumatized by the loss of his friend and warfare, but hides it behind a cheery facade.) or maybe even say Ei or Nahida. Who are probably the most obviously traumatized between all 4 archons we've met so far. But that doesn't mean they're the most traumatized, hence why I even bothered to make this post.

Now, I'm not trying to get everybody to invalidate Nahida's trauma, or Ei's absolute shit trial with life, nor am I trying to get people to start babying Zhongli.

Just because he has trauma, doesn't mean that changes his canon personality gets retconed. I'm saying that trauma made him what he is today. And if you have ever heard his voicelines, you know he absolutely treasures ALL of his friendships, and holds his relationships with his friends very close to himself. As they are all dear to him.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk. Next time I will be back, but with even more talk about all the Archon's trauma. And possibly other characters.

#zhongli #genshin impact #headcanons #character whump #whump #Rex Lapis #Archons #Venti #Barbatos #Ei #Nahida #Raiden Shogun #help i love them all way too much #i want a group hug #also #all of this post is ab trauma #so yeah #Trauma

[hoshikorii]

Family Group hugs

Be a good proton, but keep your expectation down, Caine.

"..It brings my digital heart GREAT joy to see you're all satisfied and happy!"

"LET GO OF US YOU [@#$%&] PAIR OF DENTURES I SWEAR I-"

"ooh, a chimaera birdwing!"

#the amazing digital circus #tadc caine #tadc ragatha #tadc gangle #tadc pomni #tadc jax #tadc kinger #tadc zooble #Just a sprinkle #bunnydoll #jax x ragatha #Found family #I fucked up the anatomy #Caine is a sweetheart #And a menace. #Fluff #messy #Caine just want them to be happy #One big cartoony hugs! #group hug #Get it? #Proton..positive? #Legends know that reference #Guys this is getting scary lmao #3000..

[charleezard]

I'm so tired and sad. Everywhere I look I see Jewish people feeling lonely and isolated because they lost so many friends and they feel like they can't find anyone who actually cares and understands them. I wish I could just be everyone's friend.

If you're Jewish, or converting, and you need a friend, don't hesitate to DM me or get in contact in some way. I know it's not much, and I know most people won't even see this, but idk it's a start. Don't be shy, I won't judge you. Please reach out if you want to or need to

#jumblr #judaism #am yisrael chai #jewish #jewish convert #i just want to give yall a group hug #we really need better support systems

[peachyutdr]

i finished it, was kicked out of the game, and then spent the next 10 minutes drawing this. i will now go take a shower, most likely cry, and then go through the emotional turmoil of convincing myself to reset so i can do a geno run. i hate it here :D

#undertale yellow #uty #my art #<- ifg #spoilers under these tags beware. although it is mostly just me being very very sad #that entire thing was heart wrenching. anyways #CEROBAS FIGHT??? HELLO??? #i had to exit out of it the first time (i got to the last phase) to get better items but i came back and won pretty quickly #but THE CUTSCENES?!?!? #JFC NO WONDER THIS WOMANS SO MESSED UP. HER HUSBAND PRACTICALLY DIED IN HER ARMS AND THE LAST THING HE LEFT HER WITH- HIS DYING WISH- COULD #ONLY BE FULFILLED BY PUTTING THEIR ONLY CHILD IN DEATHS WAY. AND THEN WHEN SHE TOOK THAT RISK THE WORST THING HAPPENED AND SHE NOW HAS TO #LIVE WITH THE GUILT OF BEING THE ONE TO. MOST LIKELY. KILL HER ONE AND ONLY DAUGHTER #ALL THE WHILE SHE WAS PUSHING AWAY HER CHILDHOOD BEST FRIEND AND CONVINCING HERSELF THAT SHE WAS IN THE RIGHT TO SACRIFICE CLOVER WHO HAD #BEEN ONLY KIND MERCIFUL AND JUST THIS WHOLE TIME. EVEN TO THOSE WHO WERE TRYING TO KILL THEM. FUCK. #AAND WHEN CLOVER HUGGED HER I DOUBLED OVER IRL BC *THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WANTED TO DO IN THAT MOMENT* I HATE IT (read: love it) HERE #n dont even get me STARTED on after that. when clover started moving on their own and the gd white screen came up and we got flashbacks of #everyone's words. thats when the tears rlly started coming bc it clicked for me. 'oh. this is it. isn't it?' and IT WAS #WHEN THEY GAVE THEIR FUCKIGN HAT AND GUN AWAY TO MARTLET AND STARLO WELL THATS WHEN I REALLY STARTED CRYING #AAND THE GROUP HUGG #I WAS SOBBING WHENEVER I HAD TO WATCH THEM CRAWL UP AGAINST THE WALL AND DIE AND HAVE FLOWEYS WORDS PLAY OVERHEAD #AND THE FUCKOGN #THE F U C K I N G #AFTEWRCREDITS SCENE WHERE WE GOT THE 'You heard someone calling for help. You answered.' I GOT CHILLS SO BAD #to think that all the other souls have stories just as expansive and emotional as clover n frisks. how fucked up is that. in a good way tho #and finally the last scene where we got all 4 of our main friends sending us off in waterfall and we see clovers items end up in the dump #just waiting to be found by bratty and catty. fucken hell man this was a masterpiece #anyways time to reset and obliterate everyone and never emotionally recover from that ever!! really is feeling like 2016-17 again w the way #this game has me sobbing my eyes out and feeling the guilt of knowing that i dont HAVE to kill them all but im too curious not to #oh well. at least i have the balls to do it this time around instead of letting a youtuber do it for me ig

[tatakaeeren]

Reiner and Annie hug :')

#reiner braun #annie leonhardt #snk #snk spoilers #snkgraphic #snkedit #aotedit #snkgifs #shingeki no kyojin #aot #attack on titan #torisnkgifs #akjhdkajhkda I want a hug tooooo #*groups huggg* #usergokalp #usergojoana #userokkottsus #userdabiluna #useraki

[saint-bestial]

no but fr getting to the end of witw and expecting a giant guy battle only for it to be resolved with love and tenderness shattered me. subverting that expectation was so much more cathartic than going the obvious route. warframe's recent trend of meeting anger, pain, and sorrow with understanding is sooo fucking good. this used to be a space ninja game but nah this is the space therapy game. with guns.

#warframe spoilers #whispers in the walls #the entire cast of wf needs a hug tbh #dude i wanted to like. put my hand on loid's shoulder or something cause damn 😭 #i think this is my favorite syndicate group in the whole game #i feel so emotionally attached to all of them i just want them to be ok

[sorrelpaws]

the codependency is mutual btw pr*ship dni

#rick and morty #rick sanchez #morty smith #i realize i draw a lot of angry morty pathetic rick so idk #not exactly an angry rick he just doesnt know how to deal with any complex emotions #hes like ok. bring it in buddy. and then considers his job done #im a sucker for mortys inevitable emotional outburst and like. obvs i want him to be angry and whateva #but then hed be like aw rick im sorry for yelling. aw man this sucks im kinda terrible for this. even tho hes completely justified #UGHHHHH THEYRE SO FUCKED UPPPPPPPP I HATE THEMMEMMMMMMM #added tha dni bcs god knows i cant draw these two hugging or whatever without a certain group of ppl misinterpreting it

[braxiatel]

Having been in that place of “so many long distance friends all in one place!!” A couple of times I just can’t help but feel so much second hand happiness for the cc hermits. You could tell the entire weekend that they were all so giddy - from raising $800k for charity over two days, yes - but also from just being in the same space. Getting to hug and play fight and shoot each other with nerf guns and bringing treats from home for everyone to try.

It just makes you think, you know. I mainly deal with the characters they play, and try very hard to separate those characters from their creators, but at the end of the day all of the love that they pour into their characters and the world they make together is all down to how much they also love each other irl. And good for them, good for them. I hope they had just as much, if not more, time off the clock to just hang out together

#hermitcraft #hermitcraft charity stream #looking at cc Scar buying those mugs and thinking yeah. yeah I would do that with my friends’ work too #I recognise that this is parasocial #but I reject the notion that it is so in a harmful way #I personally believe pretty much everyone in the fandom is parasocial with the hermits #since part of the product they are selling is just ‘imagine if you had a huge group of friends to good around in minecraft with’ #*goof #anyway I just wanted to put that out there #me being happy about other people’s happiness isn’t harmful #if I had turned up at the event expecting them to share that happiness with me it would have been #but I digress #I’m just happy to see people happy #it’s like when you’re at the airport and you see two people run to hug each other you know? #you can’t help but feel their joy #the void collection

[mamawasatesttube]

hi im lost in the kon & clark + kon & the kents sauce today.

thinkin about how clark takes him to live with ma and pa shortly after "our worlds at war" - after kon has lost guardian, and now mickey and dubbilex and everyone he knew at cadmus has vanished and left him on his own. after he's been used and discarded by knockout, tana, and rex leech. he's not even two years old and there is a whole list of adults who he relied on and who he's already lost because, as he believes, of his own inability to be what they needed him to be. he wasn't savvy enough to realize rex was using him for money, he wasn't heroic enough to save knockout from herself, he wasn't mature enough for tana to love him, he wasn't good enough of a superhero to prevent guardian from being killed in the leadup to everything with apokolips...

anyway, what i'm getting at is that he's used to nearly all of his relationships with adults having a time limit, and to being left alone to fend for himself when that time limit runs out. so, uh, the first time he has any sort of argument with clark, or clark expresses any frustration with him...

which, imo, is extremely possible because, like. kon's an impulsive kid who doesn't always listen to others or ask for help when he needs it (partly because he's so used to fending for himself!) and clark definitely has a protective streak, and i think it'd frustrate clark that kon didn't even tell him he had nowhere to go after cadmus went underground. like he gets that kon's got issues but also Please For The Love Of God. People Who Love You Want To Help You But You Have To Tell Them You Need Help. he wants to help and protect kon but kon doesn't even realize the things he's gone through are fucked up and that he shouldn't have had to deal with them, let alone on his own. suggesting that he should lean on others would make him bristle. and he definitely doesn't want to be a bother or a burden on superman.

so it's a point of contention but like, the love is there. it's a point of contention BECAUSE the love is there.

anyway i'm just thinking of the first time clark tries to talk to kon about opening up and asking for help and telling him or ma or pa or lois when something is up, and kon getting mad at him because he can handle himself and he's not incompetent, and clark being like that's not what i'm trying to say at all, i'm plenty competent and i lean on people when i need to and so should you. but kon's a traumatized and headstrong teenager who doesn't want to hear it, even (especially) from his idol, and clark gets a little frustrated, and then kon ??? stops arguing and just gets really disproportionately upset out of the blue??? and shuts down and then runs off??? and clark doesn't understand what happened exactly but clearly SOMETHING is wrong. figures he'll give kon some space and talk to him again in the evening when he's had a chance to cool off.

instead not even an hour later martha kent hollers for clark to get over to kansas and explain his side of things because she KNOWS the boy she and jonathan raised would Never have told kon he's sick of cleaning up his messes and wants him out of his parents' house and might even be planning to take his name back from him. (clark, hearing this: HE THINKS I WHAT???????? D: D: D:)

(ma sent pa to check on kon when he didn't come down for dinner and pa found him sniffling and stuffing clothes into a suitcase. he said clark hadn't told him to get out yet but it was only a matter of time. they are gonna have a nice long family heart-to-heart and at the end of it pa is going to have to talk ma down from hunting down rex leech with a shotgun.)

anyway kon gets a Really good family group hug that he TOTALLY doesn't cry about (he's cool as a cucumber about it!! really!!) and gets whacked across the head with a boatload of affirmations and reassurances that even if any of them ever argue, his place here and his name and status as part of the family are never going to be in question. (ma wants the shotgun again when he seems genuinely surprised by this.) it might even be the origin of them coming up with "conner kent". a second name just for him, as part of clark's family on earth too.

i am just. so not immune to stories about a little guy who's not used to having a family Getting A Family you know?????

#rimi talks #rambles #its a fic idea technically but i still want to workshop it more. its about how kon is 16 and not good at healthy communication #hes a kid who's used to being a commodity first and foremost not a kid and it fucks with his perceptions of his relationships esp w adults #also for the record i do think martha kent should be allowed to go after rex leech with her shotgun if she so desires #but mostly its about kon getting a big family group hug. you know his touch-starved ass will cry #kon #clark #ma kent #pa kent

[floaties-for-arsene]

Oh no! He’s a little fucked up actually

Continuing with my Ryomina swap AU hehe.. instead of Ryoji being the Nyx Avatar here, Minato is the one to be taken over by Nyx 🥲

Fun fact! The blue eye is the only part of his form Minato can control and he’s constantly looking at Ryoji! 🥲🥲🥲🥲

#minato arisato #makoto yuki #nyx avatar #persona 3 #p3 #ryomina swap au #my art #here he is!!! my favorite little guy!!! #I love his design here tbh he’s so pretty ughjshshah #I want there to be a scene where minato can actually just exist in this form and receive the biggest group hug #I wanted to portray the struggle for control between minato and nyx here and also #the fact this isn’t nyx’s original harbinger #makes him a lot weaker than ryoji was and a lot more messed up I guess #hehe :)

[babacontainsmultitudes]

AND THERE'S JUST SOMETHING SO FUCKING POETIC ABOUT THESE DAMN KIDS ALL HUGGING EACH OTHER AS THE HOUSE LITERALLY BURNS DOWN AROUND THEM

#FUCK MAN #dndads #dungeons and daddies #dndads spoilers #dndads s2 ep 31 #the feels are actually unreal this episode #lincoln li wilson #scary marlowe #normal oak swallows garcia #taylor swift #taylor swift dndads #normal #Really want fanart of them hugging :( #either as a group or just Scary and Linc I will accept both with open arms

[yildraws]

homecoming

#ffxiv #ff14 #final fantasy xiv #yil art #fanart #i want (1) group hug #before i run straight into the new 6.2 trailer reaper's arms

[cerise-on-top]

Can i request fluff alphabet with graves? I dont mind what letters you do x

Hey! I did the first eight letters of the alphabet!

Fluff Alphabet for Graves

A ctivities - What do they like to do with their s/o? How do they spend their free time with them?

If it was up to him, then he’d go grilling with you every day. Loves teaching you how to barbecue, telling you about how hot the grill should be, what its components are, how long the meat and sausages should be on the iron, that sort of stuff. Graves also loves inviting his Shadows to a barbecue as well. That way he gets to unwind with you and them and you get to know the people he works with. Those are the small celebrations he looks forward to the most.

B eauty - What do they admire about their s/o? What do they think is beautiful about them?

On the one hand, he loves the fact that you’re independent and can go a long time without him. It’s necessary since he’s away a lot of the time. On the other hand, he does love how dependent you can be on him. Even just the small stuff gets to him, such as you having forgotten your wallet and wanting some ice cream, or you leaning into him for comfort when you’re watching a scary movie together. Yes, he loves you, but he also loves it when you need him. You’re his world, and he’s yours. He’s the big, strong man in your relationship and he’ll protect you from everything there may be.

C omfort - How would they help their s/o when they feel down/have a panic attack etc.?

I feel as though he’d try to give you some unsolicited advice. You’re more than welcome to tell him to shut up, though. But other than that, he’ll try to crack some jokes here and there to get you to smile again. Also not above cuddling you and holding you close to make you feel protected and loved. Your panic attack wouldn’t be the first one he’s experienced, in all honesty. Sometimes, he helps with calming down his Shadows. Will calmly talk to you, play some games to help you get your mind off things as well. Will breathe with you too, if you’re okay with that.

D reams - How do they picture their future with their s/o?

If it was up to him, then you’d be living on a ranch together. He grew up on one in Texas and sometimes wants to go back to that life. Just you being surrounded by cattle, sheep, horses and other kinds of animals. You’d have a nice German shepherd together and would tend to the animals together. Of course, he wouldn’t give up his PMC either, but he can dream about that sort of future. He doesn’t think it would ever become reality anyway. However, as long as he gets to spend his future with you, he’s happy.

E qual - Are they the dominant one in the relationship, or rather passive?

He leans more towards being the dominant person in your relationship, but he can be passive at times as well. Usually has his hand on you somewhere as well as an act of dominance. Loves having you sit on his lap too, sometimes even in public when there are no chairs. People should know that you’re together and that he’s the one protecting you. He’s more than happy to consider your suggestions, but it’s usually him who decides where you end up going. Especially if you’re indecisive.

F ight - Would they be easy to forgive their s/o? How are they fighting?

He’d be somewhat petty and resentful, but he wouldn’t let it out on you. He wouldn’t really let it out on anyone, he’s far too mature for that. However, you’d have to apologize to him for him to forgive you. As long as you’re being nice about it, he will. It’s rare for him to apologize unless he’s truly hurt you. When he was in the wrong about some fact he’ll usually ignore it. When he fights he gets a bit louder, his accent becomes a bit stronger, but that’s it. He won’t call you anything mean, but it will be known that he’s upset with you.

G ratitude - How grateful are they in general? Are they aware of what their s/o is doing for them?

He’s pretty grateful. Not as much as other people, though. He doesn’t always consider everything you’re doing for him. Not that he takes it for granted either, far from it, but he just doesn’t always think when he doesn’t need to. However, generally speaking, he is grateful for what you do for him. Will show it by either taking you on a nice date to somewhere you’ve always wanted to go, or by taking care of your home in your stead for a while. You, too, deserve to have a day off from it all, after all.

H onesty - Do they have secrets they hide from their s/o? Or do they share everything?

There are plenty of things he doesn’t tell you. Sure, it may seem like he’s very open about his job, but you’ll always get the feeling he’s not being entirely honest with you. However, aside from job related things, he’s a very honest man. While he may sugarcoat some things for you sometimes, he will tell you pretty much everything. You can ask him about any personal detail and there’s a good chance he’ll tell you about it. In fact, I encourage you to do so, Graves enjoys talking about himself to you. Ask him about his plans for you and him and he’ll get quite sappy too and won’t stop talking for an hour.

#cod #cod x reader #phillip graves #phillip graves x reader #I want Graves to grill for me. he'd be really good at it as well and can make just about anything on the grill #I just know he makes the most delicious burgers and knows where to get the best burger sauce #he's a proud American therefore he loves his burgies and will indulge in them with you and his Shadows #you will also be fairly close to his Shadows because he loves you and he loves them #I once saw a post that said something along the lines of Shadow Company being one huge poly group #I love that HC so much. like hell yeah they all cuddle whenever they can and goof around with each other #and I do believe the Shadows would adopt reader as well #you'll be an honorary part of Shadow Company as soon as you're in a relationship with Graves #not even Graves has a say in the matter #another HC I have is that plenty of Shadows actually have a huge crush on him #and I am not projecting here (totally not) #but I don't think they'd be malicious towards you for being with him #as mentioned before: it's one huge poly group. a Shadow or two might hug you at some point too #they're all just very friendly with each other. I love Shadow Company being a bunch of rowdy goofs. I love them

[dealwithadeer]

Thinking about Alastor makes me both sad and angry. Because he is an idiot. There are hints of humanity and a want and an ability for genuine connection when he talks about the residents with Nifty, when he is with Mimzy and even briefly with Rosie but he is so prideful. My dude could have one of the purest, warmest and genuine people as a very close friend (Charlie), he could have a connection with someone who has made probably made the same mistakes as he did and who is suffering from the same situation he so desperatly wants to escape from (Husk) and he could have a bunch of people so willing to help him and who were happy for him to be back and alive and he... is just such an idiot for choosing his will for power and pride over all of this.

#alastor hazbin hotel #My pity for Alastor is immeasurable #the contrast between Alastor and Husk #because Husk is doing the right thing #just look how happy he is and how he is part of the group hugs #and how he looks up during the finale #I want Alastor to actually get what he wants and still feel empty #and for someone to have pity on him #because he would hate that the most

[francarieq]

LOVE CULT PPEOLP?!?!

#dhmis #dhmis fanart #dhmis special one #special one dhmis #<- i habe no idea abt the names of the other ones so i’ll adress them as a group #dhmis love cult #love cult dhmis #don’t hug me i’m scared #EAT UP MY BABBIZ ILY ALL!! #dhmis 3 #dhmis humanization #i didn’t mean 2 do this to them i’m sorry #also hi are there any love cult ppl in this fandom??? just wanted 2 great u guys w a hello!!! #i just wanted u guys to know they’re laufey coded in my opinion #<- probably not but u get the gist #aesthetic

[heathcliffgirl1847]

really quick silly temrer doodle. laurence and the kids he keeps adopting

#finished this series last week how do i fill the now gaping void in my life #temeraire #william laurence #demane #sipho #emily roland #wanted to add junichiro but i feel like he would not be into a group hug scenario #my art