#i don’t respond to messages

[kinokoshoujoart]

oops all rock (springtime edition)

i’ll be able to draw digitally again soon! ;w; in the meantime i’ve been scribbling a lot on paper…

could not wait for Soon, so i resorted to coloring it using the markup tool in default iphone photos app (don’t do that ever again)

#my art #sos awl #debating whether to just dump my sketches from my soujourn to hell or save them to be transferred and finished as digital stuff #or like both idk. i don’t know how ppl feel about WIPs #i’m happy to post art again ;w; thank you everyone who welcomed me back i’m slowly getting through everything i missed while i was y’know #and thank you for the sweet messages while i was gone i am bbghkjh i need to calm myself and respond !!!! love #rock tumbling (sos) #story of seasons a wonderful life #bokumono #story of seasons #harvest moon #hm awl #harvest moon a wonderful life #bunny sighting 😳 i still have THOSE wips too #there’s certain things i wanna prioritize once i can use my tablet again and those are one of them #but i will also probably post new stuff alongside finishing old unfinished stuff….. i hope that is OK…… #idk i’ll have to talk more later! right now i am nervous!!! i love you all!!!! #fanart #awl rock #bokujou monogatari #hm anwl #unfortunately this scum neet still has my entire heart so. most of the notebook is just him pulling goofy faces… sorry…….. #also a lot of lumina and nami…. and molly…. they r really cool… #ceci is also cool and i’ve drawn a collage of her that i just. never posted #mostly drawing HMDS related stuff about the descendant characters #OK I’LL STOP TAGBLOGGING #i am once again back in DS for girl hell. i want to make a series of posts about differences in the English vs the Japanese version #and also fun secret things related to DS #this is all in the future i gotta finish all my unfinished stuff…. uuuu…. #i love you all mmmmmwah (i cast sleepy time blanket and sleep forever)

[animatedtext]

#I’m not ignoring you I just don’t know how to respond to your message #anon #yellow #wordart #transparent

[failingcollege]

My car is totaled and I’m staying at a hotel while I wait for my boyfriend to come get me in the morning. I’m okay, but if you could pray that everything works out okay with just like logistics and just for my emotional state I would really appreciate it.

#prayer request #prayer #Catholic #Christian #Catholicism #I’m going to sleep now so if you message me and I don’t respond don’t freak out #I really am physically okay #I’ll probably have a stiff neck in the morning but that’s it #feel really guilty being a jerk about my dad now

[roseworth]

what a fucking week (it’s 2 pm on a monday)

#i’m gonna have a very therapeutic lay on the ground for an hour tonight #i’m so fucking exhausted #also unrelated but vaguely related #the other day i told my supervisor i didn’t know how to do something she asked me to do #which was very hard for me! bc i’m not good at asking for help bc i don’t like to be annoying #anyways i asked her on friday and she never responded and i was like ‘ok she’s probably gone for the weekend and she’ll answer on monday’ #then i looked today and she just reacted with a 👍 to my message instead of. telling me how to do it #so i’m still stressed out about that but. girl i am so tired #i also promised myself i won’t get high in the middle of the week this week. so this is a test from god #and i may fail that test #we’ll try again next week #personal

[debnamwrites]

i jus want someone where we can literally write anything together no matter how many ships & we can send each other plots we wanna do n be comfy writing/hcing smut & there’s no pressure to respond & we hc the shit outta our pairings but we talk ooc too if we ~vibe~ and are comfy w each other n we can have like 20 plots going or a mumu where all our characters exist together in the same verse IDK MAN i jus want that kinda writing partner u know. ok this is an edit but my dms r open if u wanna hmu bc of this post!!

#idek what to tag this as #like does anyone wanna message me n apply bc i will say yes #i miss writing but i don’t want that pressure of having to respond like i jus want chill n laid back #indie 1x1 rp #indie 1x1 #1x1 rp #smut 1x1 #discord 1x1 #idk i’m bad at explaining things #i probs won’t b reaching out if u just liked it bc idk it could just be ~relatable~ u know??

[bass-alien]

idk who needs to hear this but I don’t owe you a response, I don’t owe you any sort of reply, and sending me passive aggressive messages because I haven’t responded will get you blocked

#I have so much shit I’m trying to work through and deal with right now #I don’t always have the energy to keep a conversation going #and sending me rude messages because I haven’t responded isn’t it

[bakutenshi]

Home safe <3

lil bonus sketch on paper ;)

#anime #fanart #fairy tail #lucy heartfilia #fairy tail lucy #manga #nalu #natsu dragneel #fairy tail nalu #fairy tail natsu #nalu fanart #fluff #doodle #messy sketch #natsu x lucy #hello not sure if anyone actually looks at tags and I don’t want to be sappy but #thank you so much for the support on my silly little nalu doodles #the messages I’ve gotten of people liking these silly self indulgent doodles #they mean the world to me you have no idea #and I’m really socially anxious so I have a hard time responding but I SEE THEM #and I love you a lot thank you so much #anyways enjoy some more fluffy content I definitely won’t be stopping any time soon

[seiwas]

the busier my friends and i have gotten with our lives the more i’m starting to understand what it means to choose and invest in the friendships you want to keep

#and it’s tough work!! investing time and effort and even money sometimes!! #bc to meet w a friend sometimes you have to grab some coffee or lunch or tickets to that movie #sometimes you have to wake up early for that run. sometimes you have to make that trip down to theirs #sometimes you have to make the conscious choice to message first. ask them how they are. listen and respond when they share #sometimes it’s supporting their endeavours no matter how small #because sometimes the little things to you are boulders to them. sometimes it’s the whole sky #and this isn’t to say that friendship is transactional or that it’s hassle in a bad way #it isn’t easy but it’s the kind if effort we don’t mind making; the kind of hassle that we’re willing to go through #sometimes it’s realising too that if you ask them of anything #they’ll answer in a heartbeat. that you have their support no matter the distance and time you’ve spent apart #idk 🥺 i’m emotional abt my friendships aksksj i love them loads and they’ve supported me tons this past year #and it’s fully sinking in now #it’s been so long since i felt so soft for my friends again #i feel like… i’m me again 🥺 #i talked so much again #super personal sel post sorry JAKSNJA

[canon-gabriel-quotes]

Sorry if this is an invasive question, but have you read any specific fics and/or would be comfortable sharing which?

I don’t have an ao3 account so I don’t have a way to keep track of what I have read. But it’s really not that many. Probably like 10-15 in total.

Not really the person to ask for refs as ive barely read any ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

#I pretty much only read em if it was posted by someone I’m following on tumblr #it’s gotta be peer reviewed by either someone recommending it or from someone I already trust has taste #I just don’t have the time or energy to read stuff at random #that doesn’t mean you can’t send me a suggestion but I can’t promise that I’ll get to it #also you guys can message me my dms should be open #if you’d rather do that #I am terrible at responding tho SORRY… #anyway.. if you want to make a rec but are worried about the content #I’ve been online since I was 4 there’s not much out there that could shock me at this point tbh #<- actually I might as well mention?? if anyone. hasn’t bothered to check my main yet. im 23. #alright who is still reading this far uhhh I need to say something uhhhhhhh what can I say #quick say something #UHHHH #[redacted] #non voice post #asks #ask

[duckiemimi]

it’s bpd

#puts a lot into perspective i think #cost me a lot too especially my last major split #i’m doing cbt but my parents really want to try hypnotherapy so we’ll see (my poor bank acc…) #lots of things i wish didnt happen but for some reason i’m mostly bummed bc all my writing is just depressing #which is fine! but (and maybe this is my tendency to be harsh on myself) a bit corny even by my standards #i’m glad we had the bipolar misdiagnosis straightened out bc i dread going back on lithium (though at one point i thought it helped) #(i mean despite the way bpd is treated online i guess) #thank u all so much for ur kind messages and comments!!! i’ll never run out of gratitude #but i’m sorry if i don’t respond to everyone! #i’ll pop up once in a while (?) and i’ll make sure it’s good i hope that’s okay!

[bbreaddog]

The garage door was still open

#personal #funny #mine #I draw things #pets #dogs #okay to reblog #this happened like an hour ago #he is napping FAT in his doggy house rn #in other news: hi I’m sort of half back from the dead #I have read all your messages and will respond in due time #thank you for the love and for understanding <3 #I’ve had my blood taken more times than I’d like in the past 2 weeks #my arms have been swiss cheesified……ough… #so they’ve been very bruised and sore this whole time #today is 2 weeks since hospital! still alive and kickin #and I can use my arms enough to be able to draw this shitty little comic and make myself smile about it #most of my test results have come back normal (to my frustration) #waiting on a holter monitor in the meantime #and searching for new psychiatrists who don’t belittle me for bringing up otherwise valid concerns #spending lots and lots of time with dad and the boy #spending as much time out in the sun as my body allows #doing all the right things… hanging in there… #anyways. this was a really funny interaction and I wanted to share #:-)

[moothecowgirl]

I am very much the type of friend to send my friends overly sappy cutsey lovey emotional messages saying how much I love & appreciate them but then the second they send one back I all of a sudden don’t know how to handle intimacy and get all grossed out.

#please tell me I am not the only one who is like this 🥲 #its like I can love you but don’t love me back you sicko???? WHICH MAKES ZERO SENSE #basically #I have a friend who isn’t a very expressive person about her feelings #but I am always sending her good morning messages saying I love her and adore her stuff like that #well she just sent me one and it took me of all people 16 minutes to figure out how to respond #I was like oh uh that’s nice thanks girl #😭😭😭 #why am I like this 🤌🏼 #m's mind

[animalsandskyyy]

I will forever stand by the thought that simply “being online” and consuming or even posting content, takes a completely different amount of energy than messaging or interacting with others online does.

but that’s something I had to train myself to acknowledge and learn. because it used to hurt and make me overthink when i’d message someone and they wouldn’t respond, but would still be active or posting. like I wouldn’t say that to them, but it overtook my thoughts.

then somehow I just stopped and realized- maybe they’re just tired. or maybe they’re scrolling on the phone in their 5 minutes of free time. maybe they’re in the middle of 3 conversations and are trying their best. maybe they’re in the middle of making a post and didn’t see your message. maybe they’re deep into searching a topic and can’t be distracted. or maybe they just don’t want to talk to you rn, and that’s perfectly okay and valid.

all that to say- it can still hurt sometimes, but giving people grace and thinking the best of them and their intentions, and sincerely hoping they do the same for you, makes life so much more enjoyable, and I highly recommend ♡

#is this a good take? Idk but it been in my mind A LOT lately #this was created by me having a really hard time messaging people back in a timely manner lately lol #but having energy to scroll and having to draft any posts I want to reblog #because I can’t reblog anything when I have unanswered messages because I feel bad and don’t want people to feel ignored. #hence my habit of ‘send message’ then going to my drafts and posting like 5 things lmao #because being ignored absolutely sucks #but it’s also fair and valid and sometimes social interaction is hard and takes too much brain energy #also I realized I really like thinking the best of people and their intentions (but in a safe and not naive way ofc) #and try not to take shit as personally- because everybody has shit happening in their life that’s consuming their energy #anyways that’s all #this will either go totally viral or make people mad at me idk #thank you and goodbye #also I have to respond to like 3 people before posting this lmao #grace is dramatic #grace is feeling unnecessarily insightful #online #online friends #social battery #social interaction #low energy #friends #long distance friendship #messaging #text #text post #personal text #shitpost #emotions #rambles #Tumblr

[invalidname19]

Sadly I have a Twitter now 😕

It’s invalidname_19, such a unique username 🤩

#yeah you know #hashimada #hashirama x madara #hsmd #shi i don’t know go follow or what ever ppl say to get a following some were else idk ima still be posting here #if I’m a be real for a second I need to start engaging with this fandom instead of just drawing #😭 like I proby look rude for not responding to your guys messages or reply’s #idk man I’m just scared to talk to ppl #i ask why and I don’t know #I’m trying to break the habit frr #ima be posting the same stuff on twitter #with some other stuff idk man

[i-am-the-balancing-point]

you are not gonna be able to guess what lucky circumstances I managed to accidentally get myself into this time lmao I secured myself a spot at a nude drawing class without even knowing it was a nude drawing class. it’s absolutely fantastic tho! the class is usually super popular and spots are hard to get so I was really lucky

#I’m just gonna pop by every few weeks spam reblog a bunch of posts and then yell about my personal life #without responding to any messages or anything else #and that’s gonna be my blog for a while ig #sorry! #but yeah it was rly funny when we entered the room and my friend and I set up our supplies and just chit chatted with them #and some other students #and I suddenly was like #wait so this is completely a nude drawing class? #and everyone was like #classic Gigi move #in my defence: #I assumed it was a general drawing class #cause the course description had mentioned it being a basic class #'from nude drawings based on models to portraits’ #so I was aware it would be a part of it but not the entire class #so yeah #I’m facing my demons this semester #in a really mild way #cuz I actually do not enjoy drawing and painting that much #it’s why I rly struggled in all of my drawing classes #so when I picked classes for this semester I was like well #the description explicitly said everyone even absolute beginners were welcome #and it was about personal skill development rather than already having skills and being graded on them #which is why I thought hm I should do this and stick to it #if I stick to it I will definitely build my skills and if I don’t do that at uni I certainly wont do that at home #sorry for thw long ramblings #I am trying to be healthy and also responsible this semester and stick to actually going to classes #and not chickening out in them and staying home because I have weird compulsive thoughts that keep me from leaving the house ✨ #and I also want to be diligent and hard working this semester #gigi babbles

[isawken]

hey jesties

here’s a little intro post since there’s a few hundred more of u now than there were the last time i did one!

hi it’s me i’m ken!! bigender, bisexual, and bioluminescent if u get me in the right light. hobbies include history in all it’s beautiful disgusting forms, old web + beginner level coding (check out my webbed site!), clowns/jesters/fools of all sorts, and a fourth spot that operates like a rotating special guest for my ever-shifting hyperfixations. she/him, emphasis on the him if you please. japed and whimsy-pilled. if you ever saw a viral tweet about jesters that was probably me. i’m a card carrying clown and would love to help you get over your coulrophobia.

#also i operate almost exclusively thru the queue and am straight up not good at responding to things in a timely manner #so pls don’t ever worry if i don’t respond to you immediately! i don’t hate you i’m just mentally ill! #asks and messages are literally always welcome 💛 #the ken is lowercase on purpose btw. i am like a noun. improper #also if u ever need me to trigger tag a subject feel free to send an ask- anon or not- and i’ll do so no questions asked #kenposting #cheesed to meet u all