yall this old lady craft group is the best thing ever and i want to cry thinking abt how grateful i am to have it fjfkdl i think this might be the one group that i feel wholly welcomed into and actually a real part of for the first time in my life ;-; ♡
the group leader always seems to want me to sit next to her and her daughter is always interested in seeing what im working on when she comes at the end and she also tells me abt different crochet patterns she's seen on fb marketplace or she brings in old patterns for me to look through and take what i want, and then the card maker lady is offering to give me this big old crocheted clown doll that her mum made her years ago and she immediately offered to give me a ride home without me even saying anything (so that i wouldnt have to try take it home on the bus fjdkdl), and they were all super excited for me when i told them I was able to fix my accordion, and they just... treat me like an equal and a human person and fjdksl man ... it's so nice
AND IM JUST 😭💗 about it all !!!! it all feels so foreign to me !!!! i do not know when I've ever felt so fully part of a group and an equal to everyone there !!!
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when ppl say it's wrong to read cory/shawn as queer bc guys should be able to have close friendships without being gay
which like
why can't it be both?
but also mainly for me i read them as queer partly bc of their obvious love but also bc of how their relationship is kinda dysfunctional. not that they have to be dysfunctional to be gay. but just their characters have so much comphet. and it is often played for laughs but cory and shawn actually do not have the ideal friendship every likes to paint it as. not that their love is less, but if you really watch every ep you see how many episodes they talk about not having other friends and actually not being allowed to have other friends. cory especially seems to be extremely jealous of shawn having other friends. and this would be seen as a normal friendship plot that we see a lot in media. except in this show it's never actually framed as bad or something to mature past but actually excepted as good and just the way cory and shawn are and how close of friends they are.
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WAIT YOURE FUCKING WITH ME THE ORIGINAL VERSION OF THAT "if x has a million fans..." MEME IMAGE WITH THE SHIRTLESS GUY WAS ABOUT FUCKING ONISION. I'VE PNL:Y EVER SEEN IT WITH THE HEAD CROPPED OUT AND IT FILLED IN WITH SOMETHING ELSE. I FEEL LIKE I'VE BEEN PUNKED.
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GUYS. GUYS GUYS GUYS GUYS GUYS OH MY FUCKING GOD
SO WHEN I HAD THE INITIAL IDEA FOR TTID, IT WAS JUST THE DIALOGUE DURING GHOUL AND PARTY'S FIGHT IN TOMMY'S RIGHT? AND THEN IT SAT UNTOUCHED FOR SEVERAL MONTHS BEFORE I DID A LITTLE BIT TO IT, AND THEN IT SAT UNTOUCHED FOR OVER A YEAR BEFORE I REMEMBERED IT AND STARTED WRITING IT CONSISTENTLY RIGHT?
WELL I WAS CURIOUS TO SEE WHAT THE DAY WAS WHEN I FIRST HAD THE IDEA FOR THE DIALOGUE RIGHT? SO I CHECK THE DOC AND GUYS. IT WAS FUCKING CREATED ON OCTOBER 31ST, 2020. HER BIRTHDAY IS ON LITERALLY ON GODDAMN HALLOWEEN. AND I SOMEHOW NEVER NOTICED THIS BEFORE????? WHAT THE FUCK
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i realized after answering asks and shitposting abt sylvus a bunch that i never actually posted the art i drew of him when i first designed him. so here, take this art.
character's pronouns are he/they only, and if you call this character she pronouns or any kind of feminine-coded terms in the tags, reblogs, or replies i will block you.
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When I was growing up, I had this “bad” habit of locking doors.
I would go in a room — usually “my” room (until I didn’t have locks anymore) — and I would immediately lock the door behind me. I didn’t even do it on purpose most of the time, I would just do it subconsciously because it made me feel safe.
It made my parents so mad. Mom would always shout “Why is the door locked again? Let me in! What are you hiding in there??” That always scared me.
I tried to break the habit, but it was muscle memory, and I kept doing it on accident, which made my parents think I was being willfully disobedient. They benevolently “believed” me that it was an accident sometimes, but only when they were in good moods.
And then there were the times when I couldn’t take it — I couldn’t breathe, I needed to lock the door even though I knew that I “shouldn’t” — and I would make a conscious and guilty decision to lock it on purpose.
I would sit on my bed, curled up in a ball, and I would finally feel safe, but I always had my ears trained on the door, holding my breath at the sound of footsteps and listening closely for even the slightest rattling of the knob.
But then I went to university.
Don’t get me wrong, my freshman setup was awful (I’ll spare the details), but all at once, the door-locking habit was broken.
It’s not that I trusted my roommate or the other students on my floor — I didn’t — but for some reason, that absentminded flick of my fingers every time I closed a door just ceased to exist.
Yet moving back “home” with my family over the summer, it somehow returned without me even noticing.
Back and forth every year, locking doors at “home” and forgetting to at uni, I never realized the pattern until now… I don’t think I let myself realize it. That happens a lot. I think my brain tries to protect me that way.
And here I am again, staying at “home” with my “family,” and it’s funny.
I don’t even have a lock on “my” door anymore, but the muscle memory is still there — every time I close it behind me, my fingers flick across the knob where the lock should be, and I don’t even think about it.
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actually. that post about how its important to have weird kinky queer friends. i think the same is true of really every type of ostracized person but in particular i wanna point it out wrt mentally ill people.
if you watch a movie villainizing DID or schizophrenia or something, and you think, "hey, this seems sort of like its based on what my friend has and theyre just a chill person, why are they making my friends condition seem threatening?" thats good.
if you see someone use narcissist as a synonym for abuser and you think, "what, no, im friends with someone who has NPD and i know theyre a kind person, this isnt true at all," thats good.
if you hear politicians try to frame addicts as violent criminals who should be locked up and you think "no, my buddy sam is just sick, their withdrawals are really painful and they dont have a good support system, they shouldnt be locked up for that," thats good.
being able to counter ableist rhetoric with "i know from experience thats not how these people are" is a good thing. like yeah obviously dont make friends with mentally ill people just for brownie points but also try to make the conscious effort to be open to friendship with people who have stigmatized mental health issues. and maybe even more importantly, be someone who makes it clear to others that youre safe to be open about these things with, because chances are youre ALREADY friends with mentally ill people even if you dont realize it, because a lot of us with more demonized conditions try to hide those conditions out of fear, and it helps a lot to know our friends are allies - and then we might feel safe discussing our experiences, IF we want to, and in turn that can help you better understand the realities and diversities of our situations and be less susceptible to ableist rhetoric.
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