#feels so gay coded

[nerdster312]

#lerdt #lol #omg #happy meat day #2/9 meat day #feels so gay coded #february #niku #ni-kyuu #japan #memes

[dilfbuck]

eddie diaz + text posts

#911 #911edit #911 abc #eddie diaz #eddiediazedit #911 text posts #userknight #usercam #usernolan #.gfx #gif warning #hes so me coded i fear. i just gathered posts i feel deep in my own soul #half of these r from my own about tag LMAO #unfortunately eddie diaz is representation for grouchy gays with depression and anxiety a little too well #now my buck set has a boyfriend <3 love wins

[thepoisonroom]

'I flirted with the idea that instead of being trans that I was just a cross-dresser (a quirk, I thought, that could be quietly folded into an otherwise average life) and that my dysphoria was sexual in nature, and sexual only. And if my feelings were only sexual, then, I wondered, perhaps I wasn’t actually trans.

I had read about a book called The Man Who Would Be Queen, by a Northwestern University professor who believed that transwomen who were attracted to women were really confused fetishists, they wanted to be women to satisfy an autogynephilia. And though I first read about this book in the context of its debunkment and disparagement, I thought about the electricity of slipping on those tights, zipping up those boots, and a stream of guilt followed. Maybe this professor was right, and maybe I was only a fetishist. Not trans, just a misguided boy.

About a year later, on the Internet, I come across a transwoman who added a unique message to the crowd refuting this professor. Oh, I wish I remember who this woman was, and I wish even more that I could do better than paraphrase her, but I remember her saying something like this: “Well, of course I feel sexy putting on women’s clothing and having a woman’s body. If you feel comfortable in your body for the first time, won’t that probably mean it’ll be the first time you feel comfortable, too, with delighting in your body as a sexual thing?”'

-Casey Plett, Consciousness

#this quote always moves me almost to tears when i remember it #i'm not a trans woman and i don't share the author's specific experiences with transition #but it really moves me that she frame transition as joyfully giving yourself permission to approach your body #not as something that has to be disciplined and deprived and made small in all these various ways #but as a means for experiencing pleasure and joy and delight and for insisting that our feelings and desires are worth #valuing and exploring and treasuring #i always used to think of prioritizing those things for myself as selfish and irresponsible #but who does it harm to want to experience pleasure in your own body? #it's such a beautifully simple and powerful switch to have flip in your head #and equally why are we forced to deny our own pleasure in transition and anything else related to our bodies in the name of moral rectitude #this is why i get so confused and pissed off when other trans people are fatphobic for example #like why are you so invested in politics of shame and disgust that never had any purpose other than #violently disciplining people as if they've violated moral codes by existing in a body #to say nothing of white people being racist in gay and trans communities #like again this system of violence is foundational to homophobia and transphobia #so why are you acting like it has nothing to do with you #even if you are unmoved by the urgency of other people's suffering which btw you should be moved by #what do you hope to gain by acting a collaborator and handmaiden to those systems #Casey Plett #she really is one of my favorite authors i wish more non-canadians read her #this quote is from a series of columns she did ont transition and every single one is a banger #i love when she talks about the people-pleasing elements of dysphoria and transition denial #she's so sharp about noting how many of us deny our own dysphoria on the grounds that others like and validate our bodies #that's how i always felt during my cis conventionally feminine era #it pleased other people so much and also that reception felt so hollow and joyless to me because i hated it #i get less of that positive feedback but that feels so unimportant next to the joy and pleasure i get to experience #said with the understanding that i'm very privileged in being able to prioritize those things without fear. but it was a switch flip #personal nonsense

[trashfactorysstuff]

Rozin art post. I’m just saying that if they where together, none of the avatar lore would have existed but Nickelodeon had to have the dads divorced.

#OUGH #them #they live in my head rent free like wtf #i really think that Sozin was gonna be a gay character but they where afraid how it was gonna affect the show by that time so they didn’t #cause I have long ass list to say why I think Sozin is such a gay coded character #but also I like to see Rozin very angst where Roku dosen’t have feelings for him tho #so expect a lot of angst later on when I draw them #anyways #a lot of art during my time in the fandom without showing for the 17383 time #Roku #Sozin #rozin

[howtobecomeadragon]

In Memoriam, by Alice Winn

#byler #in memoriam #alice winn #why is this book so byler coded #and why do i feel like crying #this hit me like a truck while i was reading last night #i think i'm going to do a full post with the byler parallels i noticed in this book when i'm done #either this author is a byler or this is just how you write a gay historical romance

[awkward-aro-ace-princess-76]

Interpreting any character as aspec is fighting a losing battle cos the aspec headcanon will NEVER be the popular fandom interpretation. I can’t think of any character that is widely interpreted as aspec by non-aspec people, it only seems to be the aspec community that headcanons characters as aspec and everyone else treats us like we are taking away from “real” queer rep with our headcanons.

#it makes me so angry #Elsa from frozen is SO aspec coded but everyone else is convinced she’s gay despite her never showing attraction to a woman #Sherlock Holmes is the most aspec coded character in the fucking world and guess what the fandom interpretation is #the Doctor from doctor who is aspec coded and the show is so fucking amatonormative #just feeling sorry for myself #I wish aspec headcanons were legitimized more #aspec #aromantic #aro #asexual #aroace #ace #amatonormativity

[mintypsii]

one piece x steven universe au where instead of being a crystal gem, luffy is sort of a rogue who flies around in a spaceship adventuring through space and making/recruiting friends on different planets and gem colonies, he was inspired by earthlings and now he wants to live freely without the constraints of gem roles and expectations (tagging this with #gem piece)

#ok im leaving these in the tags because I'm still not 100% sure for these but #usopp. obviously bismuth (inventor; touchy hugger and funny; black coding; fight with mc like in w7; rainbow cough gay also he's artistic) #i could keep going on ab usopp but anyways . the second im p sure about is sanji as a sapphire #like u got the whole running away from ur royal duty thing it's crazy . also he's blue #i was talking this au over with a friend and he mentioned how sanji would have 2 eyes and that's why he'd be ostracized which is so real #SANJI'S AN OFF COLOUR #oomf said sanji would be pearl because bispearl (which is so real) and also lapidot works for sanuso which is so 😭😭 CRYING #idk about the others feel free to drop ur ideas and stuff i need to hear em #i have doodles for this au idk if anyone gaf tho 😞😞 bye #oh also the crystal gems r the revolutionary army :3 i think it fits better idr think luffy would be into that stuff #op #one piece #steven universe #su #monkey d luffy #sanuso #usosan #technically because this au was born from a sanuso idea 😭😭😭 #sanji #usopp #gem piece

[ennuing]

This is the only thing I’ve ever posted on Bluesky

#I got stressed right after and never posted again teehee #also these hoops are so tiny I prob need new earrings #if anyone wants a code feel free to ask #me #gay #face

[77ngiez]

project sekai is crazy because literally every character is queer trans neurodivergent physically disabled or some combination of the above

#and im not talking abt hcs im talking abt actual coding #minori is very explicitly in love with haruka #harukas is less obvious but she clearly returns minoris feelings as well #shizuku is so obviously nd [likely autistic but she could read as a number of other things] #airi is incredibly trans coded [that one event + her fes card] #mizuki is canonically trans #ena has ptsd in some format due to her fathers abuse and shes also got a lot of cluster b traits #kanade has ptsd from what happened with her father and wlw and physically disabled coded #mafuyu. oh gd. the cdd coding the transmasc coding the girlkisser coding. #anhane is basically canon #touya is autistic coded as is nene and ichika #shiho is nd #everybody in l/n likes girls #ichika is aro coded #and autistic like i said #saki is canonically physically disabled #akito [like ena] has some measure of ptsd from his father #akito and touya r both mlm coded #rui literally compares himself to a famously gay scientist in jp [FUCK THE EN LOCALIZATION OF THAT BTW] #emu is VERY CLEARLY AUDHD and somewhat wlw coded #nene is also wlw #tsukasa comes across as very nd #all of wondershow is aspec coded as well #and oh gd ive been talking a while i need yo shut up #but like. MAN. man. [goes crazy] #77ngiez.txt #can u guys tell ive been thinking abt pjsk lately

[kiir-bee]

idk man i just wish people would learn to tell empowering stories for women without having to resort to 'haha men dumb and useless women are actually far superior in every way' because not only is it lazy writing, it also fucking sucks and it personally makes me, a trans man, feel like shit. so, yeah.

#doctor who #this is the first time in over thirteen seasons that i feel like absolute crap after an episode of my favourite show :) #me: the actor who's been giving me gender envy for years is back after having regenerated from a woman this is so transmasc coded i love it #the episode: haha yes #i know rtd didn't have bad intentions but fuck me if this doesnt show the gay doesnt outweigh the cis

[sysig]

Went absolutely feral on WOY again recently (Patreon)

#Doodles #Wander Over Yonder #Specifically about Peepers #Commander Peepers #Wander #Lord Hater #Fist Fighter #Emperor Awesome #Sylvia #The quality's gonna be scuffed for the next little bit 'cause it was too scribbly to work with lol #I had fun drawing! I just was not feeling particularly careful or clean #Also I decided to try out a new challenge and editing would've eaten up too much of my time - give and take! #Hhhh even after all this time Peepers is still my fave of the cast <3 The Most queer-coded villain (minion) how could I resist! #I'm simply too gay for evil that's just how it goes lol #Plus he is So fun to draw - like all of the WOY cast is they're all so bouncy and squishy! Very fun shapes! #But Peepers is the perfect mix of elements to me - effectively an objecthead with a rounded triangle torso and so expressive! #I love himst #Immediately going in on the shipping lol - yes I do genuinely ship him with everyone featured here #The Fist Fighter is new! But everyone else has precedent lol #He's my favourite so I love all of his dynamics! Or did he Become my favourite Because of his interesting dynamics? Who can say ♪ #The most obvious ships like Wandering Eye and Death Glare are probably my favourites but hhghggg he's too interesting to leave alone! #I like him with Awesome because of a specific fic but I even besides that I think they could bounce off each other well! #And with Sylvia it's their begrudging comradery of being the Keepers of their fools <3 They have a lot in common especially their passions #As before I did not expect the Fist Fighter but I recently realized how cute they are and it turned into a rival/friendship/crush thing lol #They're arguably more competent than the Watchdogs - I think C.Peeps could grow to recognize and appreciate their prowess lol #For now it's all one-sided tho haha - still cute! #Anyway let Peepers say ''fuck'' even just once he deserves it

[lunarharp]

scribbles and a REALISATION

#witch hat tag #orufrey #partial nudity / #4th one is exclusive to here i dont feel like posting that on twt. #ANYWAY??? i was going through the artbook designs & only after drawing the original tassel designs did i work out it looks like their hair #Whats going on there. Sensei. do they get designs based on their hair. or are they meant to have their real hair. #AND THEN THEY OBVIOUSLY WERE DESIGNED TO HAVE SWAPPED THEIR TASSELS FROM THE BEGINNING THEN. #AND IT WAS THEIR HAIR. probably she decided oru's one just looks too ridiculous #you can see me work it out in between drawings ... captured the moment #i need to lie down... wait the last big thing i Realised (about galga's braid *cries*) was hair-related too. WHAT'S GOING ON !!!! #i started reading when witch hat was just severely gay-coded and actual gay stuff hadn't happened yet so maybe this still makes me bonkers

[bigboobshaunt]

He's so chuuni-coded

#Laios Touden #Jack reads dungeon meshi #not to mention the 'tism #I feel like it + his gay coding and Marcille's lesbionics don't even need to be pointed out they're so obvious

[pariaritzia]

Queerness in Indian Media

↳Film: MAJA MA (2022, Hindi) dir. ANAND TIWARI

Maja Ma follows Pallavi Patel (Madhuri Dixit), a closeted lesbian who gave up her beloved, Kanchan (Simone Singh), decades ago and has since become a devoted mother, housewife, and adored member of her community. While making preparations for her son's (Ritwik Bhowmik) wedding, however, Pallavi is outed to the entire town--and subsequently must deal with the consequences to herself, her former beloved, and her family.

Madhuri Dixit discusses her role in this movie, how movies like this are more possible now because of OTT streaming, and the "unexpected reactions" to the story here.

Madhuri Dixit discusses this movie coming from "a place of love", wanting the LGBTQ community to "feel seen", and "accepting people for who they are" here.

The actress Madhuri Dixit has been in multiple gay and gay-coded media, both as a supportive character and as the gay character herself. She has also been supportive in real life of the LGBTQ community.

#bollywood #maja ma #queerness in indian media #I love how in every interview they're like 'so was it difficult to accept? were you afraid? were you nervous? did you hesitate?' #and every time she INSTANTLY is like 'no not at all. I loved the script. it is a story that needs to be told.' #queen of the gays!! #also if I had a dollar for every time gajraj rao plays the confused husband/father in a movie with gay people I'd have two dollars #which isn't much but it's funny that it's happened twice #anyway I have mixed feelings about some of the side stuff in this movie and the ending felt incomplete and too safe #but I understand that they already took such a big risk with her saying 'lesbian' outright rather than just coding #and then kanchan being gender non conforming in the past #which by the way. that moment during the dance when pallavi accepts that part of her too...[lies down] #it's so rare to see gnc people even in gay media so it was good. #which is why I had to include it in the gifset

[whatareyoudoingwithamaserati]

@mcyt-aro-week day two: loveless! (AU is technically here too but. Loveless Sweep). Anyways! Shaking a can around ANYONE IN THE MARKET FOR LOVELESS ARO REDD AND GOD ASH??? We got businessmen we got unconventional queers Redd somehow found himself as the head of Ash’s temple and caught his favour you know how it is!

#mcyt aro week #lifesteal SMP #swagdoons #I HAD SO MUCH FUCKING FUN WITH THIS DAY DAWG. SO MUCH FUN #admittedly I had to do two takes because I didn’t realize that I would actually need to World Build but. WAAAAAAH #that said. it feels SO good to have someone respond to I love you in an atypical way. j was kicking my feet and giggling and shit #oh the sweet sweet feeling of projection ^-^ #adore you atypical gays adore you weird ass relationships adore you divinity and gods #title is from death of peace of mind by bad omens btw!!!!! it’s on my alloaro playlist and since Redd is heavily implied to be alloaro #I said fuck it . most religious coded song on that playlist be upon ye #cats.writes

[aemiron-main]

you guys can pry “mike is a queen fan” from my cold dead hands. usually im happy to debate over headcanons or analysis but this one is true the duffers told me themselves

#stranger things #byler #mike wheeler #sorry but i dont budge on this at all #his s4 outfit with the white shirt and STUDDED FUCKING BELT #IS SO FREDDIE MERCURY CODED #i know that he'd very likely prefer mid-late queen to early queen though #like hes more of a 'i want to break free' guy than a 'nevermore' guy #mike listens to radio gaga sorry i dont make the rules i just spread the truth #radio gaga is also vaguely mike-coded as a whole #like with the whole idea of feeling invisible #and lonely #however i also know that he is a killer queen gay sorry guys im not budging on this one #like hes still more of a 'i want to break free' guy than he is a killer queen guy but #him and will are both killer queen enthusiasts they would sing along to it #will already has queen on his official playlist i feel like theyre both queen fans but on different sides of the queen music taste spectrum #usually but have some song tastes that overlap #like will is more of a 'in the lap of the gods' queen gay mike is more of a #'i want to break free' and killer queen gay #and they are BOTH 'under pressure' gays #this is not up for debate #they also both agree on 'somebody to love' #mike singing it dramatically i KNOW HE WOULD I KNOW IN MY BONES #MIKE SINGING SOMEBODY TO LOVE DRAMATICALLY AT WILL AND WILL ROLLS HIS EYES AND JOINS IN #GODDDDDDDDDDDDD #anyway i know in my heart that mike and will are both queen fans but like i said #on different parts of the queen music taste spectrum but also have some overlapping tastes