straight trans guys & aro trans guys solidarity. weird that my whole life I've been expected to be into dudes and now that I'm a guy the lgbts also want me to be into dudes or else they don't really think of me as one of them
and while I'm not attracted to anybody and straight trans dudes are attracted to women, i feel like we're in the same boat here. too queer for the straights and too straight for the queers
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Over the years, I've gotten a lot of cis people messaging me about how they should go about dating or courting somebody who's trans, and I always felt like my responses would almost... disappoint them because there isn't this magic secret to dating us.
Cis people, if you want to date us, just date us. We're human beings, we're not wild animals to tame! I promise you can have a healthy relationship with a trans person without needing to feel like the world will end if you mess up.
Trans people who date cis people often want to feel secure in your acceptance of them. You don't have to talk about our transness for hours on end to prove that you accept your loved one. You don't have to put on a display and cabaret about how Much You Accept Us. Just be a person around us, and let us be people, too!
I almost want to disappoint cis people by reminding them of this. Some of the best relationships I've had with cis people have been ones where my transness is acknowledged, sure, but it's acknowledged in the same way that my left-handedness is. It's not a joke to them, it isn't something to be horrified about, but it's also something that they don't objectify me for.
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I feel like such an egg. Literally had a dream last night where my boobs were gone, I had a deeper voice, I was wearing cargo shorts and felt like I looked GOOD in them and people were calling me Davis (like from Digimon 02) and I was so fucking giddy. I’m so closeted like “you still like being feminine how can you be a trans guy”! I don’t know if I’d ever actually transition. I don’t feel gender dysphoria (I think) from looking at my body. I wish it wasn’t so definitive. Like can’t I be both all the time? Why do I have to choose?
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okay buckos, I've sketched out a basic loaderbot.
Since this lil bingus is supposed to be found broken and fixed back up I'm gonna have to break some parts and modify them.
I was thinking about a grapple hook bc I've been swining around with the clawshot in MHW a lot recently and it's hella fun also this lil bingus is inspired by pathfinder a lot personality wise soooo ye...grapple
A nother thing I'm considering is breaking the lense and sticking asurveillance cam on top to serve as a head (inspired by the heads badassloaders have also some concept art of the more finalized lbs shows them with teeny tiny heads and I find that kinda cute lul)
Also antenna is a must, just don't know where to put it.
Feel free to give your input if you have any funky ideas for broken parts and ways a scrappy kid from promethea could have fixed it or other stuff I could add like...pff idk.. a backpack or sum stuff like that.
Like all I really have nailed down for this one is the personality and that they dream of going diving one day even tho they are not water proof. Hell I don't even have pronouns nailed down yet and am actually thinking of making this a thing in my writing wehre the guy who fixed the lil one and gigi just freestyle with pronouns until the little one finds ones they like. A pronoun of the week type situation.
Also I want the little one to pick their own name at some point, but until then I'll just refer to them by variations of "the small one" or "the child" bc they are a little baby that just popped into existence concious exploring the universe. They are literally baby.
Feel free to drop name suggestions. They can be normal human names, names with numbers, acronyms, anything.
Input of mutuals will be valued above everyone elses tho <3
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You are genuinely the only person on my dash who regularly reblogs from terfs. I know your bio says that terfs can fuck off but I'm genuinely worried you're a crypto terf or like accidentally becoming surrounded by them and are gonna turn into one.
Can you tell me what blogs I reblog from that are terfs? I try to stick to my mutuals, but some days I use that recommended posts tab and idly click through without looking at urls. If the op's keep being terfs, I'll probably stop using that feature outright, but I try to vet my mutuals to make sure there's no dogwhistles or concerning politics.
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"I thought you were just a really feminine man"
ah, yes, the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me, a trans guy, after finding out I'm trans
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i still think that pronouns being a...somewhat common expected mode of introducing yourself is strange 😭 the purpose that makes sense to me in doing that is mostly to signal that you're trans or otherwise affiliated (which...i know that "allies" doing things like this or calling people their partner or whatever is meant to create a space where people feel comfortable coming out, but as i still cannot bring myself to come out in such situations and as i've had Really Bad Experiences with people claiming to be allies i haven't internalized this as a purpose that makes sense yet), but i know that it is also genuinely supposed to be like. "here's how you should talk about me if you want to mention me to a third person!" which is something that makes me REEL to think about. there is no universe where i want to introduce myself to someone by telling them how to correctly and incorrectly talk about me to someone else!! i don't understand...
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