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dysphoria-things · 3 days
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im actully like. at a loss for words. did you read bell hooks or did you read what some asshole on the internet misrepresented in order to own you? jesus christ.
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mag200 · 9 months
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(me on a first date) and what do you think of the inherent intimacy of surgery? have you considered the love someone must have to put their hands under your skin and hold the most grotesque parts of you and put them back together nicely? is anyone really closer to you than that? we all get uh a little enamored on the surgery table don't we haha. wait come back
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rhinco · 1 year
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when cis people talk about my pre-trans self its he/him and my name. when i talk about my pre-trans self she's a young girl and i killed her and dug her grave with my bare hands and one day i will lie down with her again and our bones will intertwine. you understand
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ashyslashyy · 5 months
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my pronouns are *chainsaw revving sound* and *blood splattering sound*
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angstics · 2 years
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YOU SHOULD HAVE RAISED A BABY GIRL I SHOULDVE BEEN A BETTER SON (ig: erunmari)
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officially identifying as some guy. you wouldn't try to gender just a random guy, would you? i'm literally just some guy. unbothered. serene. living my life. what's gender got to do with it? nothing! just let a guy live!
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im-a-goddamn-cat · 2 years
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"nonbinary ppl are trans/included under the trans umbrella" "actually, nonbinary ppl prefer to not be referred to as trans" hey did you guys know that all nonbinary ppl are different and that some might call themselves trans but others don't and neither experience trumps the other and both are true and valid? wild, i know
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thysilus · 10 months
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some of my gender shirts for pride month
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fruitsilly · 9 months
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im like if a gamer girl was a boy who didn't play video games regularly at all
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nutmeg-cider · 4 months
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this little stim he’s always doing with his hands is something that can be so so so personal
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transjackfairy · 9 months
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saw placebo tonight. before too many friends brian said how when they first came here in 1995 you couldnt even buy a condom, but a few days ago they pride here. then said "shout out to the trans and nonbinary people in the audience tonight. we stand by you because we are you" HELLO. HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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dysphoria-things · 8 days
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i think one of the reasons people have such a knee jerk reaction to transandrophobia as a concept is like… they see oppression as x VS y, like black vs white or men vs women or abled vs disabled. that doesnt work as well for us because we are all part of the same group. but because they cant see oppressed dynamics as more than x vs y, they assume we want to reverse it. instead of saying trans men, who only experience the base-line trans experience with no gendered overlapping oppressions, oppress trans women, who experience two overlapping groups in the gender category, they think what we want is to theorize that trans women oppress trans men. or they saw one small blogger say it and are convinced thats what we all believe.
and, like i just eluded to, theres an element of understanding oppression as separate categories like legos that can just stack on top of each other. transgender is +1 oppression, man is 0 oppression added(or -1), where trans is +1 and woman is +1 and therefor they have intersecting identities while we either a) have just transphobia to face or b) have privilege. they dont understand that two identities intersect and overlap and affect each other to create an entire and unique experience
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mag200 · 9 months
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"When people talk about gender-affirming surgery using words like “mutilation,” that's not very nice. Is that how you think about people who've had surgery for other things? It's a disgust reaction, and I do not take disgust into account as a legitimate point of discourse. I don't have to entertain it and I'm not going to. It's a waste of everybody's time, it's knee-jerk, it's not grounded in reality, and it's not useful. And it's a squeamishness about medical intervention. I think the idea of making legislative or cultural decisions in and around [that] is laughable. Your squeamishness is not what the world turns on; it doesn't matter."
Liv Hewson in Teen Vogue (italics added by me for emphasis)
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sometimes u just gotta put on ur favorite gender playlist and sing along at the top of ur lungs. this is very Important. Healing
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ashyslashyy · 2 years
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new gender-affirming surgeries they should add:
the ability to float
wings
a tail
glowing eyes
ability to noclip in real life
more teeth
more arms
more legs
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gaphic · 7 months
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thinking of girl/woman and boy/man as different genders actually makes so many trans experiences make SO much more sense. like, the trouble for me very much showed up in the transition from ‘little girl’ to ‘young woman.’ I was always ok with the former- it was the latter I couldn’t get comfortable in
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