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the-poor-miranha-quotes · 4 months

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God bless peter parker patron of families 🙏

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wordsofwisdomandsoul · 2 years

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#emotional trauma #healing #gentle parenting #criticized #critisism #quotes #words #life lessons #life quotes #life truths #children #childhood #childhood trauma #verbal abuse #break the circle #let’s not repeat mistakes #sadness #trauma

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theocddiaries · 11 months

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CONTENT BELONGS TO: Patrick Teahan LICSW

Nobody is perfect, that includes parents. Still, one thing is to be imperfect, and another very different thing is being abusive, toxic. We must see if we aren't always met with broken promises, repeated patterns and gaslighted by that poor excuse.

Being imperfect is human. Being human is wanting to improve. To love is to make sure the person by your side is taken care of, is to see the person in front of you as another human being with their own needs, personality and worth. That includes parents to children. They might be little, but they're still HUMAN BEINGS. More importantly, little human beings that are dependant on you.

Do not get imperfect parent mixed up with toxic parent. A toxic parent will never apologise, but blame you for their reactions/actions. They will never grow, they will expect you to do so, though, and then resent you because you're more than them while they're stuck in the same spot. They will throw their obligations as a parent in your face as if all that was done was expected to be paid back, so it was done as a never-ending debt instead of out of love.

An imperfect parent will make mistakes, but will be there for you. They will defend you and reprimand you accordingly and when it's due. They might snap and feel remorseful. They will treat you as a human being, not an object and a toy that once it grows, its voice starts to irk them.

#toxic parents #love is a behaviour #child abuse #not my content!!!#break the circle #your trauma is not your alibi #Youtube

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ellethethinker · 4 months

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The circle

Keeps going on and on

No boundries, yet infinite edges

difficult to escape

endless torment inside

It won't break

Till you stop taking part

The circle won't break

Till you take a step back

#breaktherhythem #love #spilledwords #writersconsiderations #hope #break the circle #it's contagious #step away #lebuc reblogs #wisdom #feelings #writerscreed #writerscribbles #power of words

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floweroflaurelin · 3 months

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The Final Flame 🕯️

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“We’re all just candles in the dark.”

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beybuniki · 7 months

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#pretend everyone forms a circle around them forget for a minute that these kids are too good and would call a teacher to break these two up #bnha #midoriya izuku #bakugo katsuki

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factual-fantasy · 4 months

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Hello!!! I love your fnaf content and designs! Would you mind sharing how you draw the mouth/muzzles on characters like Foxy and Roxy? They're the ones I struggle with most when trying to draw my own fanart and you're able to put an expressive mouth on those wacky faces so well!

@crystalmonk5579

Thank you for the compliments! But uh... I'm not exactly the best person to go to when it comes to learning art things. My explanation is usually "its all muscle memory" or "I just draw what feels right" or "I picture it in my head and just figure it out." or even "You draw a circle.. and then you draw the rest of it." Which is not very helpful <XD...

Buuuuut,, since I've been itching to draw something.. I figured I'd take this opportunity to draw the funny fox guy and try to explain how I draw snoots <XD

#my response #foxy the pirate fox #hhhrrghennn #I don't even really use circles and rectangles this closely #I just draw it #but I tried to break my process down in a way that it could be understood #which results in me drawing something slightly different through each stage-#GHRASHAHFSH

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andy-clutterbuck · 2 months

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hyunpic · 7 months

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hyunjin on bubble: my dad took these for me

#hyunjin #skz #stray kids #🧼#feeling like a disney bird wanting to circle around him like he’s the princess #he looks like he’s in deep thought like hmm how will i make their heart skip a beat today #idk why he said his dad took these when these are literally our wedding anniversary pics 😔 sorry to break it to u like this..

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omegalomania · 1 year

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people bitching and moaning about fob "turning mainstream" as if that was never the entire point of fall out boy. that's In the goddamn dna of the band, it's baked into the ethos of why the band started in the first damn place. to be accessible to kids and especially to girls, who were often ridiculed and shunted out of the hardcore community. to be a gateway to bands that aren't as mainstream. to comment on the society they live in, as they live in it. people act like fall out boy "turning mainstream" was some kind of "betrayal" when from the start they were seizing on the trends of the time, putting their unique, unhinged fall out boy spin on them, and shooting them back out as a funhouse mirror. take this to your grave capitalized on the pop-punk zeitgeist that was big in the late 90s and early aughts and put their own spin on it: enmeshed catchy choruses with high-dexterity lyrical & linguistic skewerwork. infinity on high was basically a massive critique of the scene they were in - this ain't a scene it's a goddamn arm's race is a fucking thesis statement on what it is to be catapulted into fame in an industry that wants nothing more than a thousand cookie-cutter copycat acts of a successful formula, and fall out boy WAS the formula everyone desperately wanted to emulate. american beauty / american psycho blended sampling and modern hip-hop stylings with polished pop-rock and pointed those songs back at the snapshot of the 2010s we all lived in: commenting on racial injustice and the freeze-frame nature of relevancy. but even then they weren't doing it quite right - because fall out boy never does things quite right, they're never quite conventional, whether it's wentz's darkly confessional lyrics double-bagged in metaphor or stump's distinctive clear tenor or trohman's inescapable rock 'n roll edge or hurley's thunderous hardcore-punk-rock soul.

this band has always been too clever for its own critics, is the thing. but then, they always knew that. they knew they had a thriving fanbase of largely female fans so they were going to be mocked and belittled and ridiculed. they weren't quite right. they weren't quite so easy to market. pete wentz had to have all his hard edges filed off and cut down to size, skin lightened, literally whitewashed ("i feel like a photo that's been overexposed") to hell and back, even as he was marketed as the pretty boy of the band. and the other three members never even bothered with the spotlight: the soft-spoken vegan straightedge anarchist drummer and the wry, wisecracking, whip-clever guitarist who was more concerned with being the connective tissue than anything and the reticent vocalist who sang the words and wrote an awful lot of music but wasn't really the guy fronting the band. wentz's charisma carried the band, because the rest of them were really just some guys and never aspired to be anything else.

fall out boy is too pop. fall out boy is too mainstream. fall out boy isn't the real poster child of the emo movement. other bands are better. even within fall out boy's own narrative, they are repeatedly ignored, sidelined, and belittled, as though they weren't one of the only acts from the big 00s emo-pop movement to successfully not just survive the transition from the aughts to the '10s, and then later from the '10s to the '20s, but to thrive in it without banking on nostalgia. this band was supposed to be a flash in the pan. they weren't supposed to last and they weren't supposed to get big. they started off in joe's parents' attic because joe and pete were sick of how exclusionary and homophobic the hardcore scene was.

i think it's high time that people acknowledge how fall out boy has repeatedly succeeded where most of their other peers failed. cunning, clever, capable, and hyper-aware of the space they occupy in the culture surrounding them. that they are just as powerful, important, and artistic as any of the other bands in the scene that others might deify at their expense. that they deserve a hell of a lot more respect than they get from critics or hardcore punks who think they sold out. i hope one day they get that recognition. because they've earned it, time and time again, and the more i see people pushing back against that, the more certain i become of its inevitability.

#fall out boy #fob #*making poasts #this was supposed to be a pithy 3 sentence post but i kept going #just another Day In The Life of someone who sees a lot of garbage takes and gets tired #mostly i just shrug em off cause you know. what else is new. this has been going on since day 1.#but it saddens me. it saddens me that these guys are ridiculed for this still.#it breaks my heart that patrick isnt taken seriously as a composer in some circles because hes the guy from fall out boy.#it breaks my heart that people won't acknowledge pete as one of the most distinctive lyricists of our generation.#it breaks my heart that andy and joe are discredited and shit on within metal circles specifically because they're in fall out boy.#i hope they know that we get it. we get it and we're proud of them. no matter what.

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inkskinned · 2 years

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here's something:

when i turn 30, my mother will be 60. my grandmother will be 90. somehow, none of us realized we were spaced perfectly apart until recently.

here's something:

i conjugate don't incorrectly sometimes - he don't listen. i stole this from my mom, who stole it from her mom, who stole it from living in upstate new york, i think.

i don't look like my mom as much as i look like my dad; but i take after her anyway. recently she and i sat around a table while i showed her how to make paper flowers. later i warned her to take a coat while she walked the dog - you'll catch your death. my mom and i say ooh! it's chilly! in the same way, with the same little shake of our bodies, same cadence, same complaint. neither she nor i like the cold. we stay up north anyway.

my grandmother worked as a 3rd shift ER nurse for most of her life; she still keeps those same strange hours. my mom is the same way - she wakes up before the sun. i apologize to others - i don't sleep. i don't know if it's nature or nurture on this one. the other day i heard my mother warning her mother - take a coat when you go outside.

the halo of generations pressing little hands around my forehead.

#and i <3 am gonna break the circle <3 #im 30 and not pregnant nor can i become pregnant so like #sorry mom!!!!

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wordsofwisdomandsoul · 2 years

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