#beauty standarts

[libraryidealist]

I have a beautiful friend

I have a beautiful friend. Half a year younger than me, with almond eyes and skin maybe two to three shades darker than caramel. Dusty sunset. It reminds me of spices and the billowing fumes of a barista coffee machine.

She has Columbian heritage, with glossy, thick black hair and long eye lashes. Dark eyes, bright teeth. She laughs big, smiles wide. The slight figure of a doe. She gets excited about everything. She's naive. She's adorable. She wants to explore.

She's beautiful, everyone tells her. She's terrified.

My friend sees the eyes. Of course she does. They're not admiring. They're predatory. She wears who she is on her sleeve, and she's a wondering, easily amazed person. She wants to be happy. Oh, have you ever heard of a better rape victim.

She wants to kiss someone. She wants to be in a relationship, with cuddles and pinky finger promises. She wants to be desired.

We smile. We watch her drink. We make sure she gets home afterwards.

Beauty is a lot of things. But I'd wager to say that no matter if you've carefully cultivated it yourself, were born into it, want it, use it, hate it, are aware of it

Broken down, all social veneers and descriptors stripped away,

It attracts attention.

Oh, Silvia Plath was right.

#creative writing #original poem #original art #growing up female #modern poetry #feminism #poems and quotes #urban poetry #hope punk #poems on life #born female #beauty standarts #everyday sexism #tw rape mention #trigger warning rape mention

[lifeinsillypictures]

"The takeaway for me was that no matter what the beauty standard is, women will die to achieve it in a culture where they are taught that their worth and their access to love and humanity is based on that beauty"

- Virgie Tovar, a San Francisco-based author and public speaker whose work centers on ending weight-based discrimination.

#check the article from the source if you're interesting in such a topic #it's very informative! #girl beauty #self love #self improvement #beauty standarts #feminism #eating disoder recovery #eating disoder thoughts #eating disorder

[liporynica2]

i just realized my thin lips are hot asf

#thin lips #thin lips appreciation #thoughts #mood #lips #beauty standarts

[powerfem]

So I came across this video

https://youtu.be/VWAaJKeuSng

What do you gyns think? How will the beauty standart for women evolve? I'm leaning towards the fake trend as explained in the video. At first I was thinking the natural thin but the fake one seems more profitable and fits way more in social media/tiktok. Maybe a mix of both.

#beauty standarts

[jestroer]

I find Goodtimeswithscar so handsome honestly. Like he looks like the most basic man in the world, but i see him smiling talking about something he is passionate about and my brain goes this is about the most handsomest man i have ever seen

#i just needed to say this #this just sits in my brain #like i honestly do not ecer judge people on their looks and i do not have like beauty standarts in my head #but like #i just cannot stop thinking about how pretty he is when i see him sometimes #like i watch streams all normal and then i glance on the webcam and i am just captivated #like look at him #handsome man #the handsomest man there is #look at himm!! #you know #do you get me #Goodtimeswithscar #is it how gogy fans feel? #they are so ferral about how handsome he is sometimes #most of the times #i might get it now

[aboredindividual]

I've seen a lot of posts and fics that potrayed ,,the most beautiful" omegas having small height, hourglass figure, plump ass, flat belly and big boobs, Which IS perfectly fine. But i also love and propose a new alternative to the beauty standards .

I totally headcannon that the perfect omega will have around 175cm height, plump figure,light skin, strong legs , wide hips and pronounced waist , medium size breasts, round and rosy cheeks, big eyes and long hair. I think that vision comes from the focus of omegas natural ferility and nurturing qualities that the society will try to manifest and accentuate , showing that ,,THIS is the epitome of beauty, that omega willl give you strong and healthy babies".

I also 100% think that this beauty standard will have a cute consequence that when alphas see their mates post partum (who will often have remaining fat belly that looks like another pregnancy) and they go BATSHIT horny about it . And just omegas feeling better about themselves because their mate acts like those boys who got shot by a love laser even after birthing their child 🥺

Just alpha following their mate around with googly eyes and getting Cute Agression that they can't act on because baby mama is still recovering.

I also think that Mom bod would be a much more common thing that people would envy over.

#alpha beta omega #omegaverse worldbuilding #a/b/o dynamics #omegaverse headcanons #omegaverse #a/b/o #omega #alpha #a/b/o verse #I just went full ancient greek beauty standart right there #We love healthy beauty standards

[mrgaretcarter]

Honestly I think it would do us all well to go back to kinda cringy feminism again for a little bit idk cause I think maybe for some people the discourse somehow circled back around to supporting sexism just rebranded or whatever so its more aesthetic

#personal #instead of progressing the discourse into idk more inclusion of women of color and trans women #it went in the direction of like glorifying women being stupid and romanticizing beauty standarts #also weird centering of men all over again in feminism and in general for some reason #remember in the early 2010s when emma watson was like obliterated for that 'he for she' campaign #because it prioritized men in feminist discourse and then thats the exact direction where things went later on (and where it is currently) #people care more abt like 'haha this is my golden retriever bf he drinks respect women juice!' than about actual women speaking abt feminis #like being a feminist isnt about social change and women prioritizing each other its abt how dudes are hot when they do the bare minimum! #also have you noticed the rise in lesbophobia both in the sense of persecution of lesbians themselves #and of lesbians relationships and culture which other wlw are also part of (its giving lavender menace) #and also remember how we had the me too movement and then immediately after #everyone still fell for a smear campaing against a victim of domestic abuse? #anyway i would really love to get back to basics of like women should support each other! #and beauty standarts overwhelmingly negatively affect women and girls! #and we still need to incentivize girls to seek out intellectual pursuits especially in STEM and leadership roles! #because we continue to be underpresented in those fields and the only way to enact change is to bring our perspectives to those areas #instead of asking politely for guys to throw us a bone! #also stop acting like its cringe to openly and vocally center and prioritize women in every sphere of our lives possible! #and also maybe go back to actively trying to do that! and considering that a good thing!?? #because we're the ones who should have our backs most of all?? idk idk #also where are the teeth?? #why is everyone so afraid of being angry now??? #its like some people circled back to being afraid of being mistaken for man-hating or something #just for pointing out common sense aspects of oppression without adding an asterisk about how men suffer too! #i thought we all knew there is no such thing as reverse sexism!!! #idk!!! #and this isnt me condoning choice feminism many women are evil and actively work against their own interests #or antagonize other women to make themselves feel important such as terfs etc #but idk its like everyone internalized that 'well women can suck too' so hard that its become like #'*most* women suck and we dont even have to keep trying to empathize and prioritize each other and our issues anymore'

[mrpsychokiller]

i need to be a cute boy and wear cute clothing i need to have strangers talk to me and say "btw i love your outfit!" i neeeeeeed to feel pretty and enjoy my presentation in fun ways. or ill DIE

#🧃 #ive been having bad feelings about my appareance lately and like really i just want to feel pretty #not like in a ''i need to adhere to beauty standarts'' way #but just. ''i want to be able to genuinely enjoy how i look for once. i want to feel like im living and expressing myself'' #instead of just passively existing in a corner with a t shirt in silence #i want to be complimented not so much in a ''i need others approval of me'' way #but more ''i need to interact and connect with people. i just want them to recognize my presence. i just want to resonate with somebody'' #sigh.

[kcciny]

Goetia is ugly as hell, no clothes, no dick no nothing. Raise your standards.

He is very gorgeous to me!!!!!!!!!

#ugly WHERE??? #idc if he got no dick!!!! I kiss his ken doll smooth skin like a carp eating food #or draw him with a coochie free creative like you wouldn’t understand how bad I would eat him ou- #the raise your standarts is lowkey threatening 🧍‍♂️ #you are just blind to beautiful anon and don’t understand the symbolism #opening anon ask again is lowkey funny as hell for this thx #fgo #fate grand order #Goetia #anon #ask

[hwiyoungies]

while on one hand it should be safe to assume that most idols have gotten some kind of plastic surgery done, on the other hand those before and after videos are sick and straight up comparing pictures of them as teenagers and then as almost 30 year olds

#saw one of them comparing teenager írene with adult írene and i was like my dude............ #of course she lost her baby fat are you joking #one of the comments said man imagine if i was a celebrity people would think i got so much shit done if they saw my teenager pics #because!!! believe it or not our face shape change over time #sure not something as drastic as in someone didn't have lips and now they tho #but those like minimal ones............ please stop #also on one hand i'm like let people get ps if they want but on the other hand if you're gonna contribute to false beauty standarts with it #at least be honest about it #like if you're actively promoting something and saying it'll make people look like you even tho you got it through plastic surgery #also the obsession people have with wanting to prove everyone in sk has gotten ps #as if it was any different with western celebrities lmao #but people rarely see a western celebrity and immediately jump to say omg they got ps #while with idols it was literally the first thing some people would tell me like ok? #b.txt

[gotchaocha]

Tv show where a furry gets the opportunity to be sent to a universe of real anthropomorphic beings, but once they get there, instead of a wolf or a some kinda of tiger they turn into like. An anthropomorphic capibara.

And quickly realize there is a beauty standart in this world, in which anthropomorphic animals closer or adjacent to wolfs or cats are seem as beautifull while other are seem as lesser them, with things like plastical surgeries (to get closer to such patterns) and fur implants present in this world.

#writing ideas #writing #story ideas #this came to me and i could not shake it off this idea #the idea came because i thought of a joke drawing #where i would say something like ooo imma draw some furry stuff #and them my characters get anthropomorphic #but not the usual wolf and cat adjacent stuff #the other half came just from the fact that a lot of superficial anthropomorphic #thingies seem to be made with wolfs and or cat adjacent things #so i was like huh what if that was an actual beauty standart somewhere #and here we fucking are

[maria-ruta]

yet another imposible beauty standart for women U_U

#dungeon meshi #falin touden #falgon #chimera #monster #delicious in dungeon #chimera falin #dungeon meshi spoilers #my art

[mylifejournalsss]

When it comes to life and love, why do we believe our worst reviews?

When it comes to life and love, why do we believe our worst reviews? We should just admit that we live in a culture that promotes impossible standards of beauty. Its a long article write post cause I’ll be putting out all my opinion tentang kenapa sih kita sering banget kasih review buruk untuk diri kita sendiri, khususnya tentang penampilan. You guys should know, gak perlu ada standar tertentu…

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#COLUMN #MAN AND THE CITY #mylifejournal #self love #standart beauty #STORIES

[kotyachyaberloga]

Господи, Иллюзионист такой красивый!

Очень красивая музыка, тоскливая, пронзительная, эти скрипки 😩

Этот жёлтый цвет, антураж начала 20 века!

Историю почти не помнила, а она такой красивой оказалась! И Эйзенхайм такой несчастный после смерти Софи. Прям по глазам видно, как ему больно. И он такой счастливый, когда обнимает Софи! И когда он приезжает, и не может не бежать!

Боже мой, мне так хотелось его обнять.

И когда он призывал её «призрака», он так на неё смотрел! И так несчастен был, когда она пропадала! И этот кадр, когда она тянется к нему и их руки почти соприкасаются!

(Единственное, я не представляю, какая должна быть конструкция у медальона, чтобы он так открывался)

Я пришла смотреть фильм, потому что иллюзионист Эйзенхайм красивый, а в итоге весь «Иллюзионист» оказался очень красивым

#the illusionist #edward norton is hot and i am dead set on watching every movie with him #especially the 90s-00s ones #like have you seen primal fear? he is so pretty there #not even talking about fight club #i love my man with eye bags a shiner and mouth full of blood #that’s my unrealistic beauty standart #not me having seryozha as profile picture and thirsting over narrator… #and also saying that aaron stampler is pretty…

[excelciorst]

TFP Optimus, in Cybertronian standarts, looks like a super model. This bitch is so beautiful that whenever Megatron sees him his IQ goes down 5 percent. I am sorry but there is no other explanation to the Autobots winning the war this is the best I got.

#tfp #maccadam #transformers prime #optimus prime #tfp optimus #tfp megatron #tfp megop #megop

[whossuzy]

If i ever meet an alien i want them to draw me - imagine, someone not knowing (or having complitely different then) human biology and beauty standarts drawing a person. Maybe the limbs being too long, maybe the eyes having a predatory gaze (even if u were posing for a second hour, barely not falling asleep) maybe the hair looking different or colors matching ur body temperature

There's also that their forms of art could be different! Maybe instead of sculpting they would put on shiny gems and rocks, maybe instead of drawing with solid graphite they could draw with non drying liquid or making stuff best viewed in 5D?

idk i want to see art perceived in nonhuman way.

#humans are space orcs #haso writing #humans are space goblins #aliens #haso #humans are weird #humans are awansome #art