#astrology oberservations

[myun-saidthoughts]

🥀 Astrology Observations 🥀

🦋 Water house synastry increases or creates co-dependent behaviors

🦋 When dealing with 12th house synastry and unrequited love/dismissive behavior from one person (as the planet person or the person who has more Pisces/12H/Neptune influence) often times, they may struggle with over emphasizing "synchronicities."

Example: Their name randomly pops up on your FYP/Twitter or what not and even though they haven't spoken to you in weeks or months even, falling into a dilemma where you tell yourself this is a "sign" to text them or that they are thinking of you may occur.

Example: If you find yourself constantly checking their social media, you might start interpreting their story posts as covert expressions of their feelings for you. In turn, you might even resort to dropping subtle hints on your own social media, hoping they'll notice and reciprocate the attention.

Example: You may accept the fact that this person no longer thinks of you but they could post one (1) vague story, comment, picture, tweet and if that said post could have *any* relation to you, then a part of you (or all of you) may believe that it's confirmation that they like you again or that they are thinking of you again, regardless of outside or external factors that have happened.

Falling into a delusional hole is likely and unless there are consistent clear and prominent signs or words that they are not thinking of you or that they are interested in someone else, a part of you will fixate and wonder if what they are posting is for you, about you or to you.

🦋 Virgo Moon criticize's themself harder than they criticize others

🦋 Sagittarius Sun + Taurus rising creates a very optimistic, grounding, and stable individual regardless of trauma or hurt. (Needless to say everyone has their breaking point)

🦋 Capricorn Moon men with a water rising + have polarized emotional feelings. They become extremely uncomfortable with feelings yet emotions run high and they could have outburts

🦋 Capricorn Moon individuals have a very harsh relationship with their mother, either she was cold, dismissive, strict or uncommunicative. A part of their soul felt un-nurtured or cared for in a way that they needed.

🦋 Moon square Neptune in a birth chart indicates a mother who struggled(s) with addiction, reality, or with mental health. The tighter the orb the more severe or prominent the mother's behavior was towards the child.

🦋 People with natal 4th/8th/12th or have prominent Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces placements that have harsh aspects towards Neptune/Pluto/Chiron/Lilith may prefer intense water house synastry

🦋 Sagittarius, Virgo + Aquarius in a birth chart can indicate a highly intellectual and intelligent soul. They may have a gift of photographic memory.

🦋 Heavy Libra/Leo/5H placements all give off the same aesthetic in my opinion, very feminine, they attract more than they chase

🦋 Mars oppose/conjunct (sometimes square) Moon + Venus synastry creates intense and obvious attraction between one another, you may experience a heightened desire for intimacy with them, possibly leading to an increase in your usual level of sexual expression; especially if you are objectively very attracted to them.

🦋 Mars conjunct/oppose ascendant synastry can create jealousy or dislike towards the ascendant person if both parties are the same sex. (Especially if there has been one awkward encounter where Mars's confidence was affected because of Mars's own personal core wounds)

🦋 Leo Moon/Venus need their partner to show them off. Their partner has to openly and loudly claim them, not in an annoying or suffocating way but in a way where they feel instantly validated or wanted; to the point where everyone naturally notices

🦋 Scorpio/Pisces + Neptune aspecting the MC/ASC) rising's have similar facial features

I've noticed that Scorpio + Neptune aspecting the MC/ASC can creates that emo aesthetic (also heavy Pisces individuals as well can fall into that aesthetic too)

🦋 Jupiter in the 8H indicates your family (or others around you, people/partners) has or have had wealth, whether that be from your/their parents, grandparents, and so forth.

🦋 Malefic planets like Pluto's or benefic planets like Jupiter placed in the 2H/8H house showcases dealing with an extreme theme when it comes to money; in some point of life

Pluto in the 2H/8H showcases extremities of having money then losing it all, becoming obsessed with money, or receiving high sums of money and becoming careless with it; power trips could occur where you can't be given your money because of higher authorities or officials (2H) or because of family issues with tax documents and trusts (8H) etc. Truly the themes here that can manifest are endless and as always aspects/full natal charts paint the better picture.

🦋 11H Moon individual's give so much to their friendships, it's as if no matter how many times they get burned by someone, their soul still asks and searches for a the kind of friend they are.

(Bonus if they have 12H placements too then the search for authentic, considerate and kind souls feel like a never ending battle that they keep losing too and no matter how many times they feel burned they still keep searching)

🦋 Moon conjunct Pluto in a composite chart creates the same intensity as 8th House/Pluto synastry; the relationship can't be light.

🦋 5H synastry increases the chances of partying with one another. You may see them out often or make plans that involve the night life/parties. Childlike fun behaviors can also occur and with one another energies are lifted and there is no negativity.

🦋 With past life connections: when you are with them, 1 hour feels like 10 minutes; before you know it 6 hours pass and you don't even realize it.

🦋 Heavy Aries placements (especially Sun or rising + chart ruler) tend to prioritize the gym and their body. Working out comes so natural to them.

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[astoldbytode]

The Magic of "Them"

As the celestials movements stir the energies within my 1st house of self and appearance, I find myself contemplating ways to enhance my expression through fashion and outward appearances. Admittedly, it’s a rare moment for me to acknowledge a lack of confidence, yet I recognize that these transits are catalysts for personal transformation, nudging me toward a refined version of myself. In this…

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#Astrology #astrology oberservations #feminine energy #Mars #masculine energy #Personal #venus

[imagineastrology]

Astro thoughts...💭 #3

♡ Sun-Pluto people: Do you come across demanding or bossy when people don't give you the attention you desire?

♡ Aquarius energy makes for great observers! They enjoy it and their unique perspective results in interesting chit chat 😉

♡ Symmetrical faces may be indicative of Venusian (Taurus and Libra) energy coming into contact with the Ascendant.

♡ Scorpio Ascendant people don't ask you, they TELL you. Very magnetic people!

♡ As the last sign of the zodiac, Pisces are partially connected to the physical world, but they also find themselves falling into the spiritual world sometimes. Ignorant people may call them delusional or too unstable. They just don't fit into a box, they'd rather float and explore around the box!

♡ Your friend that loves maps? They have prominent 9th house placements.

♡ Wednesdays are ruled by Mercury (gemini and virgo) so you are divinely and subtlety encouraged by the Universe if you wish to write or journal!

♡ Pisces moon transits...imo they make the best lazy days. Piscean energy needs to feel like they aren't responsible for the world, so every now and then, they need a break.

♡ Mars in 12th House people struggle to take ownership of their anger. Often they don't realise the effects of their anger on other people's psyche.

♡ Aphrodite (1388) in 2nd house can suggest individuals who spend their money on mostly beauty and fashion items!

♡ People with their natal Venus in Pisces are attracted to kindness, people who are open-minded and often, people that may need help in some form or another.

#astrology #leo #pisces #cancer #aries #capricorn #sagittarius #scorpio #aquarius #taurus #gemini #virgo #astrology thoughts #astro oberservations #sun pluto #aspects #aphrodite #asteroid 1388 #mars in 12th house #venus #symmetrical

[secretlyshadowymoon]

Astrology observations - Cancer edition

These are based on my personal observations.

1. Female figures play a very huge role in a Cancer rising's life. These people were either raised solely by their mom or had very prominent female figures in their lives.

2. Cancer placements especially the Mercury like cars that look like suvs or big cars in general. They find it more comfortable and safe to drive them rather than sports cars.

3. The way Cancers are so in tune with their feminine side is something that is taken lightly than it is. Even the cancers who identify as masculine, don't hesitate to pick up hobbies and do things and play roles that are generally considered "feminine".

4. Sagittarius Men always go behind Cancer women for some reason? Every Sagittarius that I've known has had one Cancer ex that they just can't seem to forget.

5. Cancer Risings may spend a lot of time with their mothers. I know a Cancer Rising who studied in the same uni as the one their mother worked at and another one who stayed with their mother even after they were the age to move out.. They always seem to be physically present near their mother figures.

6. Cancer Sun females usually have a lot of male friends who love hanging out with them but they seem to prefer hanging out with their female friends lmao. (Every Cancer woman I've met had done this).

7. Cancer Jupiter individuals could have lived with their mom in a foreign place or they might have lived far away from their mother's family.

8. Cancer mars is a really hard placement imo. Mars is exalted in Capricorn and is at fall in Cancer. Mars has a lot of trouble expressing it in this sign. Natives with Cancer mars rarely get angry. These anger is shifted into emotions. This might lead to some really bad anger management issues. Especially if the Cancer Mars is placed in an another water house. I know someone with their Cancer Mars in 12th house and they just can't seem to express their anger properly. These people are highly prone to being pushed around by other people.

9. Continuing from the last one, Cancer mars is one of the most dependable placements ever. These people are very protective towards their family. For that matter, every Cancer placement that I have seen definitely would ditch everything and spend time with their family.

#astro observations #astrology oberservations #astrology #cancer #cancer sun #cancer moon #cancer rising #cancer mars #cancer venus

[ain]

hey what do you have to say to someone who has no water in their chart like literally 0 and who on top of that has to deal with an aquarius moon and virgo rising&venus

i'd have to see the rest of ur chart but it sounds a bit like emotional detachment/commitment issues and also perfectionism if i had to guess djshd it sounds like ur a v funny person tho !! and also probably good friend to get into shenanigans tm w kshd

#like . vibes of smn to do smth crazy w bc you know they wont let u actually fall while being at least somewhat onboard #but yh i have to see ur other signs but . no water + aqua moon sounds very much like u are ur own oberserver . detached attachment styles #asks #anon #astrology asks

[plutoswrath]

hii, do you think you could give me some insight on the person with these placements? cap sun conjunct nep-mars and sextile pluto, he also has a pisces venus square pluto and sextile jupiter... I'm really shy so all I've done so far is to oberserve him. idk how I should approach so I'm trying to get some piece of advice from astrology. he gives off tough vibes but I have a feeling that he's more sensitive than he looks... but he's so damn defensive all the time lol, Idk what to do help pls:(

Hello!

Haha, a Capricorn with a Pisces Venus, I get why you think he’s sensitive but acts all tough, especially with Pluto and mars touching sun and Venus! This person is probably very aligned with their intuition or even instincts, they are driven and serious at the same time idealistic and passionate. There’s probably an issue with appearing too vulnerable or losing touch with the self and reality in relationships, blending out the negative and harsh realities and completely giving in to the endless possibilities their love can provide, yet they can awake an enigma in their partner and probably trigger points that felt untouched for whiles in potential love interests. Just someone who wants to be them and fulfill their desires. I hope it is all well and that you find the courage to get in contact with him! He’s probably probably friendly, just very much sticking to his own believes and impulses haha! Wish you all the best, take care and stay safe xx

[myun-saidthoughts]

Astrology Observations

💫3rd house synastry increases ease with communication, especially when the Moon or Venus are involved, comfortability with sharing your feelings or thoughts/emotions will come natural.

💫For a woman, if she has an Aquarius Mars she will appreciate her partner to be visually or intellectually different.

Appearance Wise: someone who stands out in some way, someone who is comfortable in their feminine and masculine energy, someone who doesn't need outside validation from others, someone who is confident without being overly aggressive or forthcoming. Another note is someone who has an unique or artistic style, someone who puts effort in their wardrobe, (rings, necklaces, painted nails, accessories) Open-mindedness is very very ideal, and if they have more of a theoretical mindset with how they view the world brings in more attraction for the native.

💫4th house synastry (especially with conjunctions to your IC) will create an energy that brings you a sense of comfort you never knew was possible.

💫8th house friendships can also take on more of an intense dynamic, expectations still arise, especially for the person with more Scorpio/8H influence.

💫If you struggle with accepting intimacy, love, or romance but deal with South Node + water house synastry (along with other indicators of attraction such as aspects/house overlays/more past life synastry aspects) letting them go will feel impossible, especially if they bring you this type of curiosity you hardly feel from anyone else.

💫Neptune-Moon synastry doesn't get talked about enough. If attraction and desire are factors within relationships with harsh Neptune to Moon influence, the dynamic can feel fated. At one end of the spectrum the Neptune person can confuse the Moon person, the Neptune person can showcase as someone the Moon person can't really understand and yet there could be a desire to save or idealize them. Similar to Pluto influence the spectrum of the intensity depends on each souls but someone with a lot of Neptune/12th house placements in their natal chart will feel very drawn to this connection.

💫Vertex synastry comes at you unexpectedly. You could know someone for quite some time with no initial curiosity to know them better, but once they enter your atmosphere in some deep manner, you will feel very very close and comfortable with this person.

💫4th house synastry can elicit intense feelings especially if there are mutual IC conjunctions (bonus if each others Vesta asteroid conjuncts each others IC) as well as have Moon conjunct Pluto in the composite chart. These added factors will add more intense dependent need for this person.

💫Jupiter synastry is so cute. You will feel so optimistic when you're around this person. You can't help but feel like you can handle anything that comes your way, you're excited, content, and trusting of the individual looking at you (especially if you guys share more 4th house synastry).

💫Each water moon can struggle with extremes, in some shape or form.

💫 Individuals with natal 12th house placements (especially Venus) may often turn to music as a means of escaping reality.

💫Capricorn moon individuals struggle with accepting the fact that they have emotion. Often times their mother was absent or emotionally un-nurturing, leaving them to feel uncomfortable with sharing their emotions, they struggle with feeling safe, they may not have a direct resentment link towards their mother, but in some aspects her coldness leads them towards the same void of avoiding emotions they wish to escape from.

💫Libra stelliums are likely to find a partner, and with that partner they may lose their identity or self within them. They feel complete when another is "their person" but with it may also lead to codependency.

💫Libra karma can deal with issues of stating their opinions, thoughts, and desires. They may think it's easier to avoid conflict or disarray but all that does is create a deeper hole of forgetting who they truly are.

💫People with 8TH house natal placements (especially stelliums) are more likely to experience extremes in their life, whether it be with finances, partners, or emotion. It is likely that they can end up being dependent on another for resources/money etc.

💫Gemini placements (maybe even air placements in Gemini degrees) are more likely to be on the spectrum with their sexuality, it's more likely that they would be attracted to anyone they just find attractive. Although sexual attraction and romantic/emotional attraction are very different categories. You can be sexually attracted to someone but have no emotional or romantic desire for that individual, sexuality is a very complexed spectrum.

💫Sagittarius suns with Taurus risings handle pain with grace. More than likely if someone has these two placements with a poor placement Moon or harsh aspects towards the Moon/Sun/IC etc they are likely not to fixate or struggle with the emotional turmoil (compared to others).

💫Water moons typically have blurred boundaries with their mother. These placements manifest differently but boundaries when it comes to their mother or the love within their dynamic is often times more complicated.

💫Fire dominate/Venus individuals are more likely to have physical touch be their love language.

💫Gemini venus's get bored very easily, constant stimulation or some excitement in the dynamic is needed. (But 5H/7H/Cancer/Leo/Libra placements with a Gemini venus are less likely to become bored)

💫Moon-Mars & Venus-Asc synastry will create intense attraction almost instantly.

💫8th house stelliums are likely to deal with large sums of money at one point in their life, or they will owe others money, they will be given money, or other people's money becomes a major factor in their life; someway or somehow

💫9th house placements appreciate other people's culture, beliefs, thoughts, and ways of life that differ from their own.

💫Virgo's placements with prominent 10th house or Capricorn placements can create an individual to be very hard on themselves, the goals they place on themselves oftentimes exceed others, prompting them to feel less than if left unaccomplished or unproductive.

#astro observations #astrology oberservations #astrology #astrology thoughts #astro notes #astrology notes #astrology houses

[myun-saidthoughts]

Why She Fell In Love: 4th/8th/12th Synastry Edition:

Because he looked into her eyes and she felt the ease she's always wished for. Because she feels an absence where love should be. Because she feels that her soul knows him. Because she is searching for the answers of what it means to feel peace. Because she never felt loved in the place she has to call "home."

Because when she's with him, she doesn't feel that dire wish for someone to be called hers. Because his whispers to her feel like a song. Because every time she closes her eyes, all she see's is him. Because he is the key that allows her to feel the depth of love she craves for. Because when she looks at him her irises dilate. Because her fingers feel safe between his.

Because she doesn't love herself. Because when she's with him she can love herself. Because she relies on others for the love she is too afraid to self-develop. Because those cigarettes burns touched a little too close to her heart one too many times. Because his smile directly stares into a void she doesn't know she has. Because with him she finally feels acceptance. Because she allows herself to feel comfort when he is around.

Because she can't help it. Because he fulfills the void of where love once was. Because with him, she feels peace. Because her eyes tells him a story that he can only read. Because his arm around hers feels like a comfort blanket. Because his presence reminds her of the worth she once felt as a child.

Because her childhood home walls reeked of fear. Because her father's yells still echoes in the hallways. Because her mother cries flooded into her main airway. Because her father left one day before she came home for school. Because her mother became an empty vessel. Because no one showed her it's possible to feel peace without another.

Because she feels like she has no one else. Because without him, the cries for love that she tries to ignore sits inside her bones. Because his green eyes told her "I won't let you go." Because she for once, gets to call someone her home.

P.S

This interpretation is more for those who struggle with a harsh upbringing/past either from parents or partnerships. If you struggle with a disorganized attachment style or have harsh placements such as:

Scorpio/Cancer/Pisces/8H/12H Sun, Moon, Venus, or rising + heavy earth placements/planets that fall in your earth houses

Virgo/Capricorn Sun, Moon, or rising with heavy water placements/planets that fall in your water houses

7H stellium in a water or earth sign with 2+ more of these listed placements/aspects (there likely need to be contradictions in your natal chart that go against your 7H stellium)

If your Sun, Moon or Venus make oppositions/squares/conjunctions with Pluto/Neptune/Uranus (sometimes Mars if you also have 2+ of these listed placements/aspects)

Your IC (4H) is in: Aries, Virgo, Capricorn, Scorpio, Aquarius with Saturn/Pluto/Neptune/Uranus/Lilith/Chiron

8H/12H stellium/placements with asteroids falling in there such as Lilith or Chiron (especially if those placements make oppositions, squares or conjunctions to your Sun, Moon, rising, Venus or Mars)

Any natal placements that are in Fall/Detriment (such as planets falling in weak houses e.g., 10H Moon/4H Saturn etc or your natal placements are poorly placed e.g., Scorpio Moon/Libra Sun/Virgo Venus) that make aspects to your personal planets Sun/Moon/rising/Venus/Mars

North Node in the 8TH house (with 2+ polarized aspects listed above)

Then this post might resonate with you. Generally if you have any contradictions in your chart where there is a polarization with wanting love but also fearing it; then this would be for you.

If you do not struggle with a broken attachment style this may not resonate. 💫💫

If this resonates with you I have an eBook that perfectly depicts and explains if you are in a karmic relationship. It's about 8th/12th/Pluto/Neptune/Saturn/Vertex/Nodal synastry. I give insights, exact transits, exact synastry overlays, natal chart interpretations and more advice on what to do in these situations. More information is pinned on my page.

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[myun-saidthoughts]

8TH House Synastry: Comparing 3 Different People and How They All Make the HOUSE Person (Me) Feel.

I have 3 people in my life that fall in my 8th house and they all manifest VERY differently even though i'm the house person in all scenarios.

For background: I'm a Capricon Sun/Rising with Scorpio Moon and have an active 12H (Pluto, Venus, Mercury, Chiron and Lilith)

(I also have a disorganized attachment style and if you know you know)

Person 1: His Moon and Venus fall in my 8H, and they make many aspects to my inner planets.

Below are only the aspects of his two planets in my 8H making to my chart.

Both of those planets tightly opposes my Mars, his Moon squares my Venus (My 5H Ruler), his Venus and Moon trine my Lilith, Mercury, Ascendant, and Jupiter, and his Moon sextiles my Moon (My 7H Ruler)

Side note: His mars is in my 1H, (conjunct my ascendant) and we share more lilith aspects (hard and soft aspects), his South Node conjuncts my Ascendant, I think my Eros or Venus conjuncts his rising, (don't have his exact time of birth)

AND his Neptune squares my Moon. (a major natal placement that I have)

That being said with this particular boy, I have experienced the very stereotypical 8H dynamic. I'm obsessed with him, I think he is so attractive, (objectively and conventionally) I have cried over him multiple times over nothing because of how intense I feel for him, any slight energy change feels like the world is ending. When it's good it's GOOD but when the energy and expectations of how I would want him to treat me is not met, I get so low.

When my expectations are not met, I feel so irritated. Once he didn't say hi to me immediately and I cried on the way home. Prior to that the entire time at the party I was moping and I wanted to leave. He did eventually come up to say hi but the energy affected me so much.

We share mutual friends but nothing ever gets passed the flirting and physical stage. He was the first boy in my life where I went up to and kissed in front of people and that energy is not me, I don't do PDA but with him I can't help it. I just want him.

When I was with him for two days consecutively I easily became so used to his energy, so much so that without him the following days I felt numb. Nothing made me 'high' like that so I moped for like a week. It's like I suddenly craved his presence?

I want to show him the vulnerable side of me, I want to be open. The idea feels safe for me and naturally nothing scares me more, so to of found a boy that made me feel okay with being seen, I was hooked. It's so easy to allow yourself to want them and it's so easy to romantically be open towards them. You don't have any fear of being emotionally vulnerable.

The thing about 8H synastry; you know you shouldn't go towards this person because you know how badly they can hurt you, but you can't help it. You can't help but still want this person to be apart of your life, even if that means them being the ones who end up hurting you in a way no one ever has.

Them leaving somehow hurts more than them inconsistently staying.

It's interesting because the way he interacts with me feels soft, emotional and I feel that he wants to be held, there's a part of me that wants to give him that. In one instance he just laid his head on my shoulder, with no words and I just held him.

I'm pretty sure my Moon (and even Venus) is in his 12H and there's been times where he would know how I'm feeling with no words. Once I walked into a bar and had to leave immediately when I got there (before saying hi to him) I see him, smile and go up to him to hug him (wishing I could've stayed) he blurts out "You're leaving?!" I have no clue how he knew that since that was my first hello towards him at that bar. Another time when I was at a party with him and he wasn't giving me that much attention so I was moping and just sort of avoiding conversation with others and so the second I went to go cry in the restroom I walked passed him and I heard "Wait!" I ignored it because but I said to myself was that him? There's no real tangible reason why he should feel responsible for me. Some of me thinks a part of him felt that? I know he knows I care, my emotions can't be hidden from him in any way. This could be biased but there's just a lot of "I know what you're thinking" and vice versa.

(We also share more Neptune/Psyche/Eros/Lilith synastry: his Psyche is in my 8H and my Psyche conjuncts his Lilith)

Everytime I see him we flirt and are touchy with each other, the chemistry is OBVIOUS and I don't hold back any desire. When we were making out I literally said to his face "I want you" (we share more mars-venus/mars-asc/moon-mars synastry) So this is all very typical 8H energy.

I want him to want to kiss me so bad, he just grabs me and kisses me. (Ha ha update funny enough he actually has said that sentence word for word to me in person😏)

That being said, I do feel more obsessed and dependent on him. So this relates to exactly what you read with this synastry, it's intoxicating, amazing, overwhelming, full of emotion and desire.

So all of this energy is literally the only way I would ever fall for someone, so there's that.

(And he is my exact physical type).

Update: I haven't seen the boy in 2 months and I feel like i'm with-drawling. Knowing I could have seen him was worse than me not seeing him. (date 10/6/22)

Update: Ok so I haven't seen him and It's been 5 months now and I am still struggling. It comes in waves mainly. It's so easy to idealize our past interactions and so easy for me to hold onto him since the feeling he used to give me was so intense. I do miss feeling like that yet I go back and fourth with feeling unsatisfied and low to letting it go. (1/2/23)

Update: I finally ran into him. So, he's been doing his own thing for so long and he finally went out on Saturday to the club. He passes me and I tapped him saying “Hi” he looked at me and said “I'm leaving” (I think) So no hug and I said “Okay." I haven't seen or spoken to him in 8 months, so I cried (or more like sobbed) coming home because it hurts, these expectations that manifest from this synastry is a lot, it overwhelms and I didn’t think I was going to be this affected but still I am. (2/4/23) *insight: he was dating his girl-best friend that despised my existence during this time but they broke up in March of 2023 - 1/23/24*

Update: I saw him again, and I didn't cry. I walk up to him and he instantly says, "How are you, how is school going for you?" I responded and then his friend whom I don't know walked over and pushed him out of the way. His friend was overly attentive towards me, and his friend called me cute, while speaking to me but I was just looking at him (the 8h synastry boy). After a minute or two, he started yelling to his friend to come, and his friend ignored, he then shouted his friends name, and nothing, finally his friend got closer and closer to my face, and I moved away (and the second he saw that), he instantly grabbed his friend by the neck and shoulders and shoved his friend away from me? I was not forthcoming towards the friend since I still have this psycho loyalty to him but anyway after his friend called me cute and after he pulled his friend away, the friend couldn't even look or speak to me after? His friend was afraid of me lmfao, just so avoidant. I barely spoke to him after (the boy I share 8h synastry with) but we kept making eye contact. His friend then was staring at me and was dabbing him up, saying like "no way man" while grinning and patting his back and grabbing his neck? Then the 8h synastry boy and his friend who dabbed him up, was walking towards me and I saw his eyes, then he abruptly turned and decided to talk to the girl who was next to me instead? He walked away then later on I passed him and tapped onto him saying "Hi," he said "Hi" we conversed for a second and then he said "I have to go find my friend." I don't understand his cute energy at the very beginning and the pulling away/shoving of his friend, and the friend being overly cautious and avoidant to me after, and that same friend dapping him up (saying yes man admiring him in a way), and then him talking to a girl next to me? Then him walking away leaving us with barely having any conversation? I feel like he got jealous i received attention from his friend and since he cares that makes him upset? like he gets annoyed at himself for being jealous because he has no right too? that's just how i feel though. Anyway interesting night. (5/2/23)

Update: I saw him again and he didn't go up to me to say hi, instead he just walked over to where I was 3 times and stood there, with no conversation; so that hurt. I had a feeling I was going to see him out so I had expectations, when I saw him last that was out of no where so I had no expectations, it's like when I'm aware I might run into his energy that's when I get the 8H effect but when it's completely random I feel like I have no set claim and however he treats me is somehow okay (how he talked to that girl right next to me instead of giving me attention was somehow ok in my book because I didn't expect to see him out, but him not saying hi or bye at a place where I expected to see him was what broke me. I also in general have low respect for myself, meaning if someone treats me poorly it's somehow justifiable; especially with him (5/6/23)

Update: Guys, i saw him last night and he was so flirtatious towards me, the second he saw me he complimented me instantly, but he was SO drunk. At the beginning of our convo he was just talking to my sister and my friend and I wasn't really involved and I just looked at him & in my mind I was like hellooo are you going to talk to me so I just stared a few times and I feel like he knew what I was feeling because he suddenly put his arm around me and didn't let go. I was so painfully sober so I was so shy and taken back by this energy. After my friend and sister left, he was grabbing me, holding onto me, he literally said "you look so cute tonight" "when i first saw you all i wanted to do was grab you, pull you in and kiss you" "can i kiss you?" cupping my cheeks as he was kissing me, holding my waist, asking for longer kisses and everyone saw. There were all our mutual friends watching so I kept being so shy, he kelt saying "you're the prettiest girl here" "if you want a drink just go up to any man at the bar and ask for one" "i want you" and at the beginning my friend was being overly aggressive (long story) and he was like "okay since youre her (me) friend you can say whatever, her niceness overcompensates anything you say" but once we were alone he just grabbing me complimenting me, saying he wants me, and i just kept laughing and smiling and kind of rushing the kisses because people were looking and so i said everyone's watching and he was like "so what i wanna kiss you" at one point i just kept laughing and he was kissing my cheek and he said "do you even want to kiss me?" bc i was so shy. Prior to this entire thing he completely ignored me while his friend hugged and talked to me, and so i mentioned that, and he was like "i dont want to pressure you or interrupt you when you're talking to someone, i wanna let you do you" ?? something like that, I feel like he was convinced that i didn't like him anymore because it's been so long. After we just kept flirting and he was just holding onto my waist, looking into my eyes, pulling me in, it was a 15 minute conversation and he was just insistently complimenting me. Then he got a phone call & his friend was looking for him, and he said "i have to go, kiss me goodbye" and i did and it was rushed again because i was nervous as fuck and he said "no i want a better kiss, kiss me again" I don't feel this crazy high or crazy in love so i'm so confused on how that's even possible? I feel normal like as if it didn't happen? Maybe i'm in shock and i'm disbelief lmao. (this is probably venus retrograde and he has a lot of mars/venus/moon/jupiter conjuncts/soft transits happening to his chart) (7/15/23)

Update: So I saw him last night, and he didn't acknowledge my existence or say hi. He actually passed me as if he didn't know me, his ex was there and she hates me (because they dated after knowing he wanted me first, they ended things but she became sui*cial because the relationship wasn't working anyway different story for a different day), but regardless him acting like that shattered me. The value and loss I feel is deep. He has never not said hi to me before, he has acted weird like this in the past but that was when we would consistently talk or see each other out? i haven't spoken to him since August and nothing romantic has happened since July? What's notable about this is the fact that this connection just can't be light hearted, His lack of assurance shatters any value i have within, his lack of attention creates my self worth void to grow. We never have dated, we have never even formally hung out one on one yet this doesn't feel like a shallow connection, especially on my end. (10/26/23)

Update: guess who finally saw him! Regarding the last update, his ex (the one who hates me) now has a boyfriend so I'm not sure if his shitty behavior was because of that but regardless I saw him last night. He hugged & walked up to me and I said "you look cute!" while smiling and he smiled big & said "you look cute!" then throughout the night after we kept looking over at one another (03/27/24) Update: So..I saw him again and it was nothing special. He said hi but I wasn't enthralled, he still had my attention but for some reason he felt more closed off. A weird instance did occur though. His best friend was talking to me and then he started talking to these three girls next to us? His best friend is someone I know as well but in the conversation his best friend said to me "let's take a selfie together!" to which he looked over in confusion, then after that he said to his other friend (not the one I was talking too) "Yo man I want you to meet this girl" ???? well as I was talking to his best friend he didn't come up to join the conversation, instead he just looked over all confused and stared, he only made a face and talked to the three girls next to us. Weird ass behavior fr. (04/10/24)

Update: alright....well guess who saw him again and the energy he had was completely different. Immediately when we made eye contact he stopped walking and smiled then he motioned me over to come say hi to which I did and we hugged. But when I tell you...he. looked. so. cute. I was taken back, I touched his jacket and said, "you look nice tonight" and he smirked, looked at me up and down while pulling me in a little and said "you look cute" then we conversed and i said "are you drinking tn" he said "hell yeah" but when I tell you the second we made eye contact I knew he was in a different wavelength than last time. BUT OK red flag here, he made out with two different girls🙂 and I had to fight back tears at one point not even because he was kissing other girls but because our conversation just wasn't what I wanted/expected. He weirdly never saw that I saw him makeout with those girls, BUT when he was plainly hugging that girl he was kissing, I just look over and he then randomly looks up the same time I looked, so we made eye contact for a few seconds but I turned around and as I turn around he bolts away from that girl and is somehow in front of me? I just walked away but later on he comes up to me and says "Have you seen ****" and I pointed to who he was asking for and I walked away. We just kept having long periods of staring, I can't help it at all like gun to my head I'd still stare. Then as I was leaving I see him and you want to know what he does? AFTER making out with two different girls? he PULLS me in and grabs my waist? As I was looking up at him I said "are you going to the after" and he said "Idk are you?" while holding me and I said "yes" and he said "Then i'll see you there" We didn't even talk at the after just had more periods of blatant stares? In one instance ANOTHER girl who I'm not sure if she was the one he kissed comes over and sits on his lap, placing her legs between his. When I tell you he tried avoid eye contact with me when that happened but guess what, I kept staring. For some reason all of this didn't break my soul because 1. Im delusional and I think I somehow mean more to him than others 2. With those girls I know theres no emotion connection so I somehow justify it/say it's okay and 3. Our long period of staring shows some care, and the way he holds jealousy/dislike when his friends give me attention. Those three thoughts kept my heartache at bay. ANYWAY when she was on his lap he didn't even converse with her? She would ask him questions and he would just say one word answers? Idgi because sometimes he overcompensates to show me he doesn't care about me by talking to a girl in front of me but now last night when he held another girl/a girl sits on his lap he gives that girl the cold shoulder? Like does this make sense?? To anyone? Anyway he looked so fucking pretty and I wish I was lying or exaggerating. There is a reason two different girls made out with him (relatively strangers) and another (or the same girl) sat on his LAP. But in my delusional brain I think I would die more if he cupped another girls face the way he did mine or if he said "kiss me goodbye" to another girl, that would shatterrrr me because of the emotional factor. With me I notice he becomes more masculine and he wants to hold me etc but when he was making out with those girls it was messy and he didn't think twice to just leave when he wanted too. Again I know how this sounds; i'm just word vomiting this. Point is I can't help but care and there's always this underlying tension. Welp I want him again. (Date 4/26/24)

Person 2: His Moon is in my 8H.

His Moon conjuncts my Vertex, opposes my Uranus, and Neptune, and his Moon trines my Pluto.

There's no aspects from his Moon to any of my inner planets.

(his South Node conjuncts my Sun, his Mars tightly conjuncts my Lilith and his ascendant tightly squares my Lilith)

(I am the Pluto and Lilith in these aspects; but his Moon is in my 8H, although with certain housing systems my Moon could fall in his 8H since he is a late Pisces rising)

With this boy, when I first laid eyes on him I was drawn in, he is cute, my type, but not entirely so compared to the first boy. There is sexual attraction though. When I'm drunk I can feel myself getting intimate with him which is incredibly rare for me. Yet there is no obsession or desire that's overwhelming me. Fear of vulnerability was always something that lingered even with him. (a boy I share 8H synastry with) I didn't like the idea of him seeing me, or me opening up. He asked me to do lunch a bunch of times but when I was sober I didn't like him really, as much as I did when I was drunk. I sometimes even would avoid texting him because I knew he would ask to hangout. He was definitely more emotional available (the way I'm not).

Nothing crazy ever happened between us besides some quite innocent kisses. Hence when we did kiss, I didn't have this urge to take things further or to create a more steamy scenario.

I'll admit though only when I am drunk do I find myself wanting to speak to him in a flirtatious manner which I don't do to anyone else, ever. I do find myself thinking of him when I am drunk and only when I see him in my peripheral vision?? I don't feel comfortable with being open or with showing him off, it's more attractive to me for him to be someone to sneak around with and have our tension be underlying, only where him and I can feel or see it, away from the public eye. I'm being really transparent lmfao.

In our Composite Chart we have: Lilith, South Node, Mars, Venus, Neptune and Mercury in the 12H

Update: So I do see this boy out often and like I said there's always an underlying feeling of tension but nothing is overwhelming me really to want him. I would only want to sneak around with him in a secretive manner; even if he was single, I only prefer it being in that dynamic. The feeling isn't near obsessive though, I can look at him and feel nothing too deep. I think it's because *I* am not consciously allowing him in, therefore the 8th house synastry is not being activated. Since I don't have that intention of truly wanting him, I don't feel the 8th house effects, especially since his Moon does not form any aspects to my inner planets. More than anything there's more of a hidden tension that I feel from him, even though there's no words stating these things, I can just read it through his eyes? This all screams mainly our Lilith synastry (date: 2/4/23)

Person 3: His Moon and rising are in my 8H.

His Moon conjuncts my North Node and Vertex, his rising conjuncts my Vertex, his Moon opposes my Neptune, his Ascendant opposes my Mars, his Moon Squares my Saturn, and Moon (My 7H Ruler), his Ascendant trines my Jupiter, Pluto, and Venus. (My 5H Ruler)

So for reference i'll just state all our close fated synastry: His vertex conjuncts my rising & mercury, his venus conjuncts my IC, his south node conjuncts my sun, ascendant and widely conjuncts my mercury (6 degrees), his moon conjuncts my north node, his moon and rising conjuncts my vertex, my mars conjuncts his descendant, & his vertex widely conjuncts my sun (7 degree orb)

So with this boy it's only platonic feelings. When I first met him three years ago and I have never romantically cared for him, there isn't any intense attraction for me. He is cute but not really my type. He is also younger, and he has dated my friend so there really isn't any romantic or sexual feelings anywhere. The most interesting thing with this relationship is how I feel close to him, I feel safe to state, act, and be just how I am, with no filter, care or even worry. It is SO easy with him but we share so much Vertex and Nodal synastry. I care for him deeply but I still don't feel the dire desire to share myself to him. There's been numerous times where I have thought of him and he has texted me in those same moments. So there is this telepathic vibe that we have as well. I believe since he allowed me in we both could feel each other compared to other friendships. That being said, there is no tension or desire to have him romantically in any way. I do however have this expected claim for him? I notice when he doesn't say hi or come up to me, my mood shifts and I also get annoyed when other people intrude our conversations. I expect a certain response/energy for him and I need him to match it to keep me not hurt. This feels like more 8H energy since it's like our relationship takes on more Scorpio (8H) traits, and I can feel the difference with him compared to other people. He also gets jealous and protective over me, any attention I receive from boys he is keenly aware and makes sure he says Hi to them. He feels a lot with me (he called me his comfort zone too and he always exclaims how much he cares and loves me as a person PLATONICALLY, I know how that sounds but truly if I could place my feelings on here you would understand I just love him as a friend and vice versa, I believe that feeling comes from his Venus conjuncting my IC) I also do feel a high from his presence, I get happy and I feel secure, safe, and in the moment.

Update: He is infatuated with his girlfriend so he's been MIA, though I want him happy he is hurting my feelings. We haven't spoken in a few weeks and I understand why, I do respect him and his girlfriend and I know I don't have this 'expected right' to his energy (logically so) but his absence does hurt me. I'm letting it go though because his relationship has nothing to do with me and again this is probably 8H synastry. (date: 11/23/22)

Update: So I saw him and he was with his girlfriend, I still care about him a lot but I consciously told myself to create a barrier with my emotion so he wouldn't hurt me. He is choosing her over me which is understandable and that's why I decided to create this block for me. He tried conversing with me instantly but I was stand offish. His girlfriend is insecure with us and that's another reason why I wasn't initiating conversations. He kept looking at me and his girlfriend was acting weird asf, she was grabbing his face so he wouldn't look at me and intensely kissing him? Anyway I do want him happy and I'm accepting how things are at face value. I have to consciously tell myself to not place more value onto him because I know I can. And me caring deeply again would only take 2 seconds lmao. (4/1/23)

Update: He is single now! I sometimes feel the need to lower my energy or attention towards him when we are out because I just feel what everyone is thinking, lmao. He also can READ my mind, he knows exactly what I am thinking ALL the time, without a doubt, has no hesitation and exceeds my expectations as a friend (especially since I have a 11H Scorpio Moon) I appreciate that deeply. (His Venus is in my 4H, his Moon and rising are in my 8H, and his Mars is in my 12H, so we have immense amount of water house synastry so telepathic energy x10. He has no water influence in his chart besides a 12th house Moon and Scorpio IC and maybe 8th house Venus depending on housing but he sincerely and whole heartedly knows my exact thoughts with EASE, he knows what my soul needs to hear in order to feel "okay") Date 10/15/23

Update: NVM he is back with her, I haven't hanged out with him since October. I'm so nostalgic and I miss his energy, he went to one halloween party with her and he didn't give me the expectation I was hoping for (meaning he said hi but barely because he was distracted with other people but since I have such high expectations from him I was sad he didn't exceed them) I drunkenly texted him saying "you hurt me" and then I apologized for that text because it was out of line and he responded saying "whaaat i'm genuinely so sorry if i did something, i think i was just really distracted but I genuinely never want to hurt you" and i said "no its okay! i'm sorry again it's okay hope you had fun!" Like .... 8th house synastry does NOT mess around! Everything feels so intensely and it can't be light hearted when there is care involved. Since I allowed him in (vice versa) I feel this 8th house effects. I understand his distance since his girlfriend HATES me with a passion, she openly complains about me to him and has been throughout their entire relationship and from an outside perspective I get it, I do. He is dating her not me but wow, 8th house synastry just makes everything heavy. I expect his undivided attention when I shouldn't especially since he has a GF that I know he cares about. Point is, even with knowing that the 8th house effects brings in illogicalness, nothing truly really matters to me just him and I, BUT I consciously always have to place a barrier due to his gf so I won't feel hurt. Date 10/31/23

That being said, I think when people say 8H synastry is confusing because of how differently it can manifest.

Initial attraction/desire and aspects of the planets in your 8H I think makes the entire connection (especially if you're as closed off as I am).

First Boy: We share the most sexual energy and stereotypically 8H feelings, and I think our aspects indicate as such. There is instant initial attraction, personally, he is a 10 out of 10 in my eyes with or without the synastry overlays I would find this boy so attractive. His physical appearance is everything I find attractive in a boy. He can read me like a book and I can't hide my desire for him, I want to be vulnerable and care for him, I want him to see all of me and I feel comfortable with that idea. Everything feels deep and falls into my core, I can feel myself being able to truly fall for him. Any and all of his actions affect me on a profound level and I can't help but show my affection/dissatisfaction for him in public. (In our Composite we have Libra Moon, Venus, and MC)

Second Boy: Initial attraction was there so I did pursue him but the aspects we had were not intense so the intensity was much lower compared to the first boy. I have thought of kissing him while he had a gf which is weird af for me (maybe that's lilith?). Attraction did somewhat fade away after a year. There is no intense desire, only when I'm drunk and more open do I let my guard down, and would be willing to flirt or kiss. He feels more like a forbidden fruit (this feels like lilith energy) kind of interest in my opinion, my interest in him lies in the fact he wants me but can't have me, and the fact I want him in a more secretive way. Underlying tension and teasing gets me more, I don't care to get into the depths of his soul really unlike the first boy. I only seeing myself sneaking off somewhere with him if I was bored and drunk. (Which I did once)

Third boy: No initial attraction, the planet and rising that fell in my 8H made some intense aspects to my inner planets (Mars, Moon & Venus). There is no intense obsession or romantic desire if at all on my end. I do think of him a lot especially now because we are so close. Him replying my texts does shift my mood, and I see a noticeable difference, since I allowed him in, it's like a 'high. (similar to the first boy) I do place him on a pedestal, and his actions do affect me even though there's no obsession or sexual urge towards him. I do notice I need him to treat me in a certain way (friend wise) so I won't be disappointed or hurt but I know that's probably 8H synastry talking. His absence does affect me.

Lastly, I don't easily form feelings towards anyone; ever, like genuinely. I physically get sick at the idea of ever receiving love, in this life my biggest lesson/karma is accepting affection and vulnerability, I'm working through it but for me it's 100x harder than another person. To gain curiosity, let alone interest there would have to be certain things that would have to take place, and I would have to feel a specific way. I need to be attracted mentally, emotionally and physically. I have abandonment issues (disorganized attachment style) I fear commitment and stable 'love' so, for the first boy to make me feel the way I do is unreal. He genuinely checks off every crazy box of mine. But I don't really know him. Could this just be the 8H synastry talking?

Note: (Normally for me to care about someone universal coincidences and experiences have to happen, there has to be some random crazy thing that happens in my life per se that this person is connected to e.g, meeting him online & him being across the world, then one random night I bump into him in a local LA bar, e.g, meeting him online when he lives in another state + no correlation to my going out scene and a month later randomly seeing him out at a party with the same people I always go out with and casually know (hint that happened with the first boy) e.g, someone I keep running into or having an unexpected pull towards to. Things like that will only get my attention. This stems from my 12H Venus)

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IC/MC Home life vs Public life

The IC/MC in your natal chart is a pivotal part of your natal chart. 

The IC represents the home, the mother, family roots, how your childhood manifested, the type of parenting you experienced, it’s the most private and unseen part of you.

The MC represents what you show to the public, it’s your persona, what you feel the most comfortable with embodying towards others, hobbies/interests that bring you the feeling of control or comfortability even. It’s a ‘face’ that you proudly show others and it’s the ideal ‘face’ you want others to perceive you as. 

I want to reiterate how these two houses manifest. The 4H and 10H are always opposing each other, whatever your 4H is, the 10H is the polar opposite. 

(In some cases, the IC can be placed in the 3H or 5H etc, and if that’s the case the MC would naturally still be the opposite of that placement, even if it’s not placed in the 4H)

The experiences you have dealt with from your childhood create natural talents that you will possess in the future. 

For Example:

Aries IC: In this natal placement, normally this indicates an aggressive childhood. A lot of fighting, yelling, disagreements, if you weren’t in the midst of the fights, perhaps you saw it manifest between your parents. You may of been very independent, your parents may of left you to fend for yourself, or if you cried or showed some emotion, your parents might of disregarded it and said that you were a “tough” child. In more extreme instances there was just a lot of disruption in the midst of your life. A lot of unnecessary fights or you were exposed to some anger issues from either your parents/siblings. You may had to parent yourself or take on more responsibility than a child should, in some aspect dependability was something you aren't familiar with. Parents could have been selfish, they could prioritize their own needs/desires/choices, leaving you to fixate and give up your own needs in the end.

(The above interpretation is more likely an extreme case, not every Aries IC would have this experience, in the most general term someone with an Aries IC had to focus on other people's needs, their desires were oftentimes left unnoticed or uncared for in some aspect or form, maybe their parents never prioritized their hobbies or interests, maybe they gave more attention to other siblings or to their work/interests etc)

Libra MC: In this natal placement, you now may come across to others as very friendly, kind, considerate, conscious of how you appear to others. You prioritize how you come across to others. You may dislike confrontation or unnecessary arguments, you find it not comforting to state your annoyances to others if it’s not a severe issue. You make sure to smile at others and people would find you charming and warm. You think of other peoples emotions when making decisions, people might call you a good mediator or natural at finding the common ground between parties. You understand people, and very naturally so. You put others peoples needs or issues first, you find the easy medium in almost any argument, you are adaptable and presentable towards other people, especially if you have a 11H/7H placements, such as the Moon/Sun/Venus/Mars etc, then this would create an even deeper care about others.

The reason behind your natural gifts is because you had to learn and take on Libra qualities and traits in order to feel some sort of control in your life. You couldn't control the chaos of your family, but you can control how you'd react and deal with others.

You dislike chaos/confrontation/fights and since these qualities were everywhere when you were younger, it was only natural to adapt to qualities that would balance all of that out. As humans we do strive for balance in relationships, and the relationship you have within your home would be a pivotal stepping stone with how you choose to interact with others. 

You learned it was easier to smile and say yes to others even if deep down, you weren’t “okay” or happy with the situation. The only way you survived in your home life was to disregard your own feelings/thoughts/emotions. In some cases but not all, you are able to understand why people react they way they do. 

In the entirety of it all, the traits you soon possessed are now catalysts for you and your career choice. Disregarding the specific example I gave, the message is the same. 

Because of the experiences you dealt with in your home, you can now look at your MC qualities and understand why you might of adapted certain traits as you grew up. 

One reminder for everyone is to try and not to forget the importance of balance. Even though you are more comfortable acting or being a certain way (MC) completely embodying that side when it comes to relationships isn’t fair for you. It’s okay to want to keep peace etc but (especially with Aries IC/Libra MC) but don’t forget everyone you meet won’t naturally reflect the home life you had to experience, so it’s okay to put the needs/wants/desires of yourself first, and it’s okay and (will be uncomfortable at first) to change certain habits or mindsets that were created when you were younger.

Your home life is such an important aspect for you and your self growth. 

Once you are able to understand your IC and why you might find certain careers/hobbies/actions intriguing, will you be able to really grasp and understand your IC/MC to it’s fullest potential. 

(The severity with your IC also depends on what other planets may occupy this house, more malefic planets like Pluto, Saturn, Mars, Chiron, Lilith even would indicate a more extreme harsh childhood. Each planet that I listed has different meanings, but in general these malefic planets would bring a harsher layout for the individual. (Not considering other indicators of a harsh childhood like the Moon sign or its aspects)

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[myun-saidthoughts]

The Difference Between 4H and 7H Synastry/Karmic & Past Life Energy:

With this synastry, these two houses when activated bring the most safe, secure, comfortable and at home feeling for the house person. But there is a profound difference.

Person 1: With this boy, I share immense amount of karmic/soulmate aspects. I am a Capricorn Sun and rising with a Scorpio Moon, and he is a Capricorn Sun, Cancer moon and Taurus rising.

His Sun in my 1H, his Moon in my 7H (conjuncts my descendant), his rising is in my 5H, his Venus in my 2H.  My Sun & rising are in his 9H, my Moon in his 7H, and my Venus in his 8H. My IC conjuncts his South Node, and my MC conjuncts his North Node. My Saturn conjuncts his AC, his vertex conjuncts my MC, and his AC/DC squares both my Nodes, and both his IC/MC squares both my IC/MC  His Pluto conjuncts my Venus and squares my Mars - His Pluto touching my inner planets will also signify and create this safe/home feeling deep down I crave.

(In our composite chart we have our Moon, Vertex, North Node in the 7H.)

That being said, with this boy the feeling of home he gave me was overwhelming. He was the first boy in my life that filled a void I had buried. He made me feel complete, seen, safe, everything felt like it happened a thousand times before, communication flowed easily, our bodies were in sync, I immediately felt comfortable enough to joke around with my thoughts, and his presence calmed me. Without him I felt less than, and incomplete. I didn't even really know him since I only hung out with him a few times. All he did was give me this 'complete' feeling and without his presence I felt that there was only a half of me present.

His Pluto conjunct my Venus and Squaring my mars created the safeness I desperately desired for. But I still had a filter around him, although he felt familiar and everything felt like it has happened before, a part of me still held back my feelings and true desires. Even though his presence was something that felt familiar, my rationality told me I was a fool and naïve to care so deeply for someone who I don't even know.

I found that when it comes to 7H synastry, someone coming in and lighting up that part of your life that you 'technically' lack, it makes you feel whole. But there is still a filter you somewhat present (if you're anything like me because the idea of what a safe space is, seems unrealistic and scary.)

That being said, I also would say with this person there is a past life energy that I heavily felt from him. I don't think every individual that falls in your 7H you come across with will give you the exact feeling I felt, but I do think it paints the idea of 7H energy quite well. I met him in 2019 and if you know anything of astrology the year 2019 represented karmic relationships, and with how I felt with him; I can attest to that.

He triggered my wounds and I triggered his (Karmic).

When it comes to 4H synastry, the energy is different. The main feeling you get when someone actives this part in you is comfortability, easy-going, unworried, safe to express whatever is in your mind, the energy feels trustworthy.

Person 2: I recently met a boy who falls heavy in my IC/MC/Nodal Axis and vice versa.

His Sun, Mercury & Venus are in my 4H.

(Below are his planets in my 4H making into my chart)

His Sun conjuncts my Jupiter, His Sun opposes my Moon (6 degree orb), his Sun trines my Mercury, Lilith and ascendant, his Sun sextiles my Mars, his Mercury conjuncts my IC, his Mercury sextiles my Uranus, his Mercury trines my Chiron, his Venus squares my ascendant and my Mercury, his Venus sextiles my Neptune, his Venus trines my Venus and North Node.

My Venus is in his 4H (My Venus Conjuncts his IC)

(Also: his Vertex conjuncts my South Node and Neptune, his Moon is in my 1H, his Sun, Mercury, Venus are in my 4H, my Moon in his 3H, my Sun, Rising, and Mercury are in his 5H and my Venus is in his 4H.

Anyway, with this boy he is very new, I only met him a few times but the energy I feel with him is captivating. Prior to meeting him, we messaged online for a few weeks but nothing came of it since he was traveling for work constantly. A year passes and I run into him at a local bar and immediately I felt comfortable.

I was sober and this was my first time meeting him but right away our conversation was a breeze. We both joked with each other, there was no awkward silence, or hesitance with our conversation, no confusion, the energy that surrounded us overflowed with the feeling of trust. I felt safe to say and act however I wanted with him, and I could tell he felt the same. But with this overlay, there is no dire need for this particular person I'd say. It's more comforting but the feeling can be a bit underwhelming.

What I mean by that, as a Scorpio Moon and Sagittarius Venus,

I equal this: feeling an emotion from someone = desire

So though I felt confident and safe enough to be myself, a part of me wanted to feel something more. The part of me that is used to chaos and destruction was a bit bored. I wanted to feel more or wanted to feel more enthralled by him. I assume that might enhance as we maybe get to know each other because objectively he is gorgeous but at starters it did seem lackluster.

As night progressed, I did see him speak to another girl and immediately I felt a claim in me that I wouldn't of expected to experience. I was taken back and confused why he was talking to this girl and not me. I then realized I was acting unnecessary so I walked away, but I'm curious to think if the active 4H gave me an subconscious automatic claim towards that person because subconsciously that's how I thought "things' should be.

I never was possessive or jealous with the boy that I shared the 7H synastry with. There was almost this underlying feeling that no one could live up to me kind of vibe? (this feels more past life energy) I somehow felt reassured enough just by his presence that he wanted me more than anyone else, and that most likely was not true. I think I was so disillusioned by his calming presence, I just couldn't feel myself being the one that 'got away' with him, even though that ended up happening. 7H felt more spiritual and unspoken, but with the 4H boy, it somehow felt more real, more tangible, so when I saw him speak to another girl, I was taken back and felt threatened.

The 4H energy didn't make me feel complete or whole, and without him, I didn't feel a loss, but it felt more realistic, grounded, stable and secure. I automatically feel like this boy could be in my life for a very long time. It just feels realistic.

Even though me and the first boy share a lot of IC/MC/AC/DC synastry, his Pluto aspecting my Venus and Mars overwhelmingly takes over. Because he gives me an energy I don't possess, the idea of him not being there was terrifying. Although the feelings felt so complete and whole, I felt it would of turned into more of a dependent relationship, there would be a hard time building and creating with this individual unlike the 4H boy.

Update: I've recently hanged out with him for two days in a row, and the energy is the same. He is so comfortable to be around, I believe we share a more past life connection. Seeing him was completely random, I was out and abruptly passed him. (Mars was opposite his Vertex when I ran into him, and Mars conjuncted my North Node, i'm not sure if that means anything) Anyway it was so unexpectedly easy with him, and I somewhat feel the same way as the guy I shared 7th house synastry with. He was with a girl when I ran into him and I didn't care, I just acted like I was basically dating him and he reciprocated? I'm going to be blunt and transparent but my twin being drunk went ahead and kissed him while I went to the restroom. (Long story) But for some reason I'm not possessive, jealous or afraid of his lack of feelings towards me? But I'm not sure if how I feel about it is a response from my broken attachment style or from my lack of interest? It's hard for me to care for people because I genuinely don't allow myself too, but with him everything feels trustworthy, easy, and stable.

Going off from how I felt with this boy and my reactions in the moment and not the weird situation that occurred, we share such trusting synastry (feel wise ironically enough) it was easy, so easy, I even told him "it's easy with you" and he smirked and said "it is" our behavior was cohesive and in-sync. Him and I were playful with one another, he was very attentive to me and grabbing me, him literally picking me up and hugging me etc but no kissing, no intense sexual tension I'd say, compared to what I've felt with 8H synastry, just comfort. I'm not worried or feel insecure about his actions, I don't overthink even after him literally kissing my twin. I literally saw it happen and yet I'm not worried? I can't explain it lmfao but after he was very attentive to make up for that kind of behavior but it didn't sting or hurt me because how naturally secure and comfortable I feel. I do feel disrespected from that situation but not sad? But I don't know if this is my lack of interest or my subconscious not allowing myself to truly care, at least yet. Date: 5/26/23

(Now relooking at this situation and what I dealt with, my nonexistent reaction was due to my broken attachment style, I made another post about him and it's under 4th house synastry; in that I explain and go more in-depth if anyone else is curious about this synastry Date: 10/1/23)

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Astro observations! #2

!! Do NOT steal/ plagarize my work and I regularly scroll through Astrology tags and if I see it, I will be very sad, report your account and manifest snails in your house. !!

!! Reminder: How your planetary energies manifest is up to you. Use it wisely !!

☁️ People whose Mars is in their 4th house may have had a childhood where there were moments of instability around emotional regulation. Someone in your family may have had anger issues too. 

☁️ People with Water placements need to be aware that they will have recurring waverly moods, sensitivity and responsiveness around current astrological events. 

☁️ People with a Moon squaring Neptune view their mother as someone who is better than they actually are. There is so much confusing energy around the mother and childhood in general. 

☁️ Scorpio Moon individuals are loyal (if they like you and they know that YOU like them) to their own detriment. They ride out until tha wheels fall off… (Will Smith has a Scorpio Moon….we will say no more on this topic lol) 

☁️ Neptunian energy suggests disillusionment, illusion, deceit and it’s important to note that if you are experiencing a Neptunian transit… be aware of any drugs, alcohol, poisoning or infections, as you will feel more easily affected by them. 

☁️ Hard aspects (square, opposition) in a Moon - Pluto Synastry aspect suggests a relationship where you want you leave them but you can’t live without them. Either way, it is deep...

☁️ When you have your Sun and Moon in the same sign (or house), it often indicates that you saw your mother and father similarly and that your childhood had that overall theme of said sign/house.

☁️ Cancer energy demolishes the stereotype that Scorpio energy is vindictive. I have seen so …..many…...times that Cancer Suns take their pain out on others by shaming them in public. All they feel and see is their pain and honestly their wrath knows no bounds lmao

☁️  I’ve seen many dancers’s charts where they have an Aquarius Mars.

☁️ People underestimate Libra Moons

☁️ Pisces Moons can be some of the coldest people imo. They just detach from any responsibility and blame their actions on you

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Astro notes: Uranus edition! ♅

*Disclaimer* do NOT steal or plagiarise my work. I regularly scroll through various Astrology tags on social media, so I will recognise when my work is stolen and message and report your account if I see it.

♅ Uranus in 1st house energy embodies Uranus.

♅ Uranus in 3rd house energy makes for someone who unexpectedly has good ideas. I always recommend carrying around a notebook during this transit or if you have this natal position- I’m not kidding.

♅ Uranus in the 4th house people may have had natural disasters happen in their childhood such as earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, tornados, tsunamis. Uranus rules radical shifts, physically and mentally.

♅ Uranus in 5th people often have unconventional hobbies and past times.

♅ Uranus in 3rd, 5th and 9th house could make groundbreaking inventions.

♅ Be wary during a 3rd or 8th house Uranus transit. This can indicate accidents or sudden events.

♅ Uranus in 8th house individuals are turned on by offbeat, original and confident people.

♅ Uranus in 1st house loves to stand out from the crowd. They love to have the attention on them. They may say shocking things to stand out too.

♅ Uranus in 2nd house highlights a fluctuation with money. Money may seem to unexpectedly enter your life, then it may also disappear just as fast.

♅ Uranus in 1st house people can be explosive and erratic.

♅ Similarly to 8th house Uranus, Uranus in 7th house also tend to attract Uranian type people. They have a thing for people who are different or eccentric.

♅ 9th House Uranus may find bizarre experiences happening to them abroad, whilst travelling and education.

♅ Uranus in 12th house have to learn to pay attention to their inner insight and intuition.

♅ 9-5 job roles aren’t made for Uranus in 6th house people.

♅ Uranus in 6th house people may benefit from unusual or different ways of healing.

♅ Uranus in 4th indicates a childhood that was unconventional. You may find it hard to settle down.

♅ Uranus in 4th house may have had mothers who were rebellious, different and erratic. You didn’t fully trust them either way.

♅ Uranus in 11th house individuals attract a diverse group of friends. They are open-minded individuals who love to dream too.

♅ Uranus in 5th house may have children that are rebellious.

♅ Uranus in 10th house natives must have a career that highlights their ingenuity, independence and ideas. You are better off being your own boss and working without set times.

♅ Uranus in 2nd house is constantly reflecting on their values. Your morals may change suddenly too.

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I’m really disappointed to let everyone know, but this person has stolen my work - her account is @stellarmatch on Instagram. This is really disheartening as it’s not the first time this has happened to me and probably others on this website.

It’s so disingenuous and deceptive to her thousands of unearned followers who look up to this person and trust her with something so sensitive such as astrology insights and guidance. For me it goes against the morals of this practice and study.

I just wanted to warn people about this person and plagiarism in general in this community since it’s rampant and likely, your posts have been plagiarised too.

I’ve messaged her and she’s ignored it and blocked me, so I would really appreciate if you would reblog and spread this for me, and unfollow/call out this girl because it isn’t fair.

Thank you 💜

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