#assault tw

[one-time-i-dreamt]

I didn’t know that outside of music SA usually stands for assault and not soprano/alto. I posted to my choir’s Facebook group to announce that we’re doing a treble-only group this year and it read “The whole choir just got SA’d!!” I then got interrogated by Rivers Cuomo after that, who then beat me to death.

#dream #text #sa tw #violence tw #assault tw #rivers cuomo #death tw #murder tw #choir #alto #soprano #soprano alto #facebook #queueueueueueueueueueueueueue

[genderqueerdykes]

the reason why trannies HAVE to stick together is because at the end of the day, cis people can and will prioritize their needs over ours. i witnessed a fight that broke out at one of my local gay bars where a cis male drag queen attempted to assault one of the two transfeminine security guards because he had too much to drink and had apparently has trauma from assaulted before by a cis woman's cis male friends after being called a faggot.

... so he thought it was appropriate to try to pass this trauma on to someone more marginalized than him. i got involved and his cis female friends decided to try to tell me to back off because it "didn't involve me." i noticed the only people telling me to back off and stop protecting the two trans women security guards... were cis. all of the trans people who gathered to see what was happening jumped in to help keep those women safe, and neither of those women told us to leave, or that it didn't involve us.

of course it involved me, because i don't just stand idly by and watch cis people attack my trans sisters. it will ALWAYS involve me.

i don't care what his thought process was or what was going through his mind- there is never an excuse to pass your queer trauma on to someone else- especially when you are cis and that person is trans. events like this just go to show that queer people are still capable of queerphobia.

that guy got his ass thoroughly beat, by the way, and is permanently banned from that bar. he accomplished nothing and lost everything.

please learn from this fool and check any and all desire for queer infighting at the door and understand that we HAVE to be here for each other. trans women, men, wo/men, nonbinary people, genderqueer people, gnc people, agender people, multigender people, crossdressers, transsexuals, transvestites, every stripe of trans person HAS to have ALL of their trans siblings' backs, no matter what we identify as, because a lot of cis people really struggle to prioritize our needs or treat us as humans, really.

#about us #our writing #transmisogyny #violence tw #assault tw #misogyny #homophobia #transphobia #queerphobia

[applesdotexe]

my mom is letting my abuser -- my brother -- back into the house because he has nowhere to go and she misses her son and wants to give him another chance

mind you she has bailed him out of jail multiple times to free him of charges of assault, domestic assault, armed criminal action, property damage, theft, etc that he caused to my family. namely me and my sister, but also to my mom, so i'm really confused as to why she is granting him the ability to even visit

like he's choked me and he's thrown my sister into doors before stomping on her stomach. he's threatened to kill any children she may have and has told me (AFAB) and my sister that "women are only good for being raped". my sister has a 4 month old daughter now so we are very scared

anyways when i filed a restraining order today my mom tried keeping me away from doing so because "it's not necessary" and "he doesn't deserve that". she prevented me from reporting my assaults multiple times in years prior so i wouldn't ruin his reputation or chances at having a job

am i in the wrong here. i've been in therapy for over a decade due to his actions

#rape tw #assault tw #abuse tw

[communistkenobi]

Without exaggeration transphobia has made me disabled. not through direct physical assault or bodily harm (although that has happened to me) but through intense chronic stress and terror, through the trauma of being unhoused and exiled from my family, through intimidation and harassment by people at school and at work, by the apathy and complicity of every administrator and person in power I’ve ever begged for help, by being cut off from therapy because it’s too expensive, by the constant harassment and dirty looks I get in public, by being treated like I’m some administrative freak of nature because I slightly altered my first legal name and gender marker and that’s apparently never happened before in the history of humanity. the toll that being trans has taken on my health has produced chronic pain and “scary” mental health problems that make me unable to fully participate in society. this is part of the reasoning behind the idea that disability is socially constructed - oppression produces disability, it is disabling, and your marginalised status is constantly reinforced through every social and environmental structure you come into contact with. As a trans person I feel a deep abiding solidarity with all disabled people because I believe we fundamentally face the same root oppression - medical violence, environmental and structural exclusion from public space and daily living, pathologisation, being treated like you’re doing administrative terrorism to every institution you interact with because their systems were all built to exclude you, and a daily barrage of news media and public discourse about how you are an acceptable target for death and destruction. I think any trans person serious about our liberation needs to have a very good understanding of the plight of our disabled comrades, because we cannot escape this current historical moment without them

#transphobia tw #assault tw #ableism tw #even old new york was once new amsterdam

[mysterycitrus]

this is just stream of consciousness wrt to an ask i got

i don’t read much dc fic but a primary point of avoidance for me is the fallout of nightwing #93 because to address the situation with nuance u would have to disentangle devin grayson’s particular brand of sexualised racism (both by rewriting tarantula to be latina and her interpretation of rromani characters generally) and understand the context for dick grayson’s character prior to that point, and how it’s affected modern interpretation for his character.

i say this as someone who is attempting to include this in a fic, because it is hard to emphasise exactly how damaging it’s been for his character long term. part of it is fundamentally misunderstanding what constitutes assault on the part of the comic writers, sure, but i would also encourage people to just…. consider the context. why are u writing other people enacting revenge on tarantula on a survivor’s behalf? why are u uncritically engaging with devin grayson’s racism? why are u writing characters violently slut-shaming a survivor of assault when they would never ever react that way (roy harper, donna troy)?

and why is jason todd always there, for some reason

#assault tw #dick grayson #dc comics #batfam #nightwing #i can delete this if it’s too mean but fr #tbd #spokes

[nyaskitten]

I've seen a scary amount of people interpret the Mechanic's scene with Zane in s6 as sa when it is... nowhere near that??? That is organ harvesting he does, NOT sa.

It's very clear he sees Zane as nothing but an object with clean and pristine parts, and it's clearer that Kryptarium is smart enough to not let him have super sophisticated parts.

This is not a man sa'ing someone, this is a man preparing to do an amateur organ harvest on a robot with a shitty prison spoon... PLEASE stop inserting themes that DO NOT exist into a kids show... you can be uncomfy with him for organ harvesting, you can pick any of his suspected 37 crimes... but making up sa as one of them is just weird.

#this isnt targetted at one specific person ive seen this from multiple ppl... #ninjago #raine's rambles #sa mention #tw sa #sa tw #assault tw #tw assault

[hpdcultureis]

tw intrusive thoughts, mentions of sa & stalking

HPD culture is having intrusive thoughts about being stalked or obsessed over or even assaulted just because you're so impossibly attention starved that you want somebody to want you to that level and then of course your brain equates this to positive attention and you feel ashamed over having the thoughts and feeling the slightest bit good about it for even a moment

.

#hpd culture is #actually histrionic #histrionic pd #histrionic personality disorder #honestly histrionic #hpd #actually hpd #cluster b #honestlyhistrionic #cluster b pds #stalking tw #assault tw

[uncanny-tranny]

To parents of trans kids who are scared of their kids facing transphobia:

Don't force your child out of being trans. Don't force them to detransition. This is not how your child from facing transphobia. Realistically, you are pushing them toward more dangerous situations because they will be desperate to find acceptance from anywhere they can.

I can't imagine how it feels to be a parent and worry about your child's safety or life because they are trans in this world. You have my full sympathy. While I can't speak from the experiences of a parent, I can speak from the experiences of a trans person who was once a child and why the above line of thinking is dangerous.

When I came out as trans, there was a huge proportion of time where my dad was very resistant to my transness. I couldn't understand why, but I believe part of why he was so resistant was because he was afraid somebody would assault or kill me because I am trans. That is a huge burden for him to think about. However, he went about this (valid) fear in a very destructive way.

He threatened my transition, he threatened to force me to detransition, and he threatened a lot of things. I retreated away from him, I couldn't talk to him about anything. I felt confined, unaccepted. I am lucky my friends and school were accepting, because I was vulnerable. Others haven't been lucky - so many people in that position have been taken advantage of by truly evil people.

You might think that you are protecting your child by making them appear cis, but that isn't how that plays out. Your child won't feel accepted, and chances are that if something horrific happened to them, gd-forbid, they won't come to you about that. This isn't protection, and I am sorry to say that. I am sorry that this isn't simple.

Here is how you can protect your trans child:

Make it clear you support them

Teach them self-respect, and how to listen to their gut feeling

Teach them appropriate versus inappropriate ways people can interact with them. Make sure they understand what harassment and abuse can look like - verbal, physical, and sexual

If you are still concerned for their physical safety, sign them up for self-defense classes

Leave the floor open for them to express how they are feeling and what they are thinking. Be non-judgmental when they are upset or worried

Please remember that trans people are painfully aware of the consequences of being trans in a transphobic world. Hell, one of the first trans people I learned about as a kid was killed as a result of a hate crime. We are aware of the world we live in. We have to live with that knowledge, and that is why it is imperative that you allow your trans child to express who they are and how they feel. You very well could save them by doing so.

We protect trans youth by empowering trans youth.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #ally advice #parenting #transphobia #transphobia tw #hate crime tw #death tw #murder tw #assault tw #rape tw #rape mention tw #abuse tw #long post #youth liberation

[trans-androgyne]

Honestly weird of you to act like terfs DONT want transmascs dead. They absolutely do.

I’m sure a nonzero amount do but after hours of poring through TERF rhetoric I just don’t see that sentiment from them as a whole. They do want to detransition us which for many of us is the same thing as wanting us dead by suicide. But I don’t think it’s appropriate to treat that exactly the same as them very directly and overtly wanting transfems to be assaulted and killed. It doesn’t mean it’s not still harmful, but we can point out the harm without misrepresenting their ideology. Their mistreatment of transmascs just functions in a very different way. If there is evidence to the contrary, I’d like to see it.

#transandrophobia #transmisogyny #transmisogyny tw #TE/RFism #rad/feminism tag #suicide tw #assault tw #death tw #ask #mine

[mysharona1987]

Oops.

#Twitter #rape tw #assault tw #politics #wtf #like wtf

[one-time-i-dreamt]

#not a dream #donald trump #e. jean carroll #assault tw #sa tw

[thingsmk1120sayz]

#hockey #NHL #pride tape #assault tw

[madebysimblr]

Somewhere That's Green

[Sorella]

So I got a black eye and my arm's in a cast Still, that Seymour's a cutie...

[Anita, Mary, and Sawyer laugh]

Well if not he's got inner beauty.... And I dream of a place where we could be together at last

[Sawyer: And what kind of place is that, honey, an emergency room?]

[Sorella: Oh no, it's just a daydream of mine... Oh, I dream about it all the time. Just me and the toaster. And a sweet little guy, like Seymour]

[Sorella]

Far from Skid Row I dream we'll go Somewhere that's green....

-

Feed Me (Git It)

[Caleb]

Sudden changes surround me Lady luck came and found me

[Audrey II]

Feed Me!

[Caleb]

Does it have to be human?

[Audrey II]

Feed me!

[Caleb]

Does it have to be mine?

[Caleb: I don't know anyone who deserves to get chopped up and fed to a hungry plant!]

[Audrey II: HMMMM SURE you do...]

[Otis: Stupid woman! Christ what a friggin' scatter-brain!]

[Sorella: I'm sorry, doctor! I'm sorry, doctor!]

[Otis: CHRIST if your stupid head weren't screwed on!]

[SLAP!!]

[Sorella: Orin, that hurt!]

[Otis: Move it!]

[Caleb]

He's so nasty, treatin' her rough

[Audrey II]

Smackin' her around and always talkin' so tough

[Caleb]

You need blood and he's got more than enough!

[Audrey II]

I need blood and he's got more than enough!

SO GO GIT IT.

#simblr #ts4 #ts4 legacy #sims 4 #sims 4 legacy #cortes legacy #gen 4 #sorella #caleb #anita #mary #sawyer #otis #tw abuse #tw assault #assault tw #abuse tw #1. please go watch kerry butler singing somewhere that's green and cry with me #2. this is my best work i think #end act 1! #and BLESS the cowplant

[allthecanadianpolitics]

Quebec Sports Minister Isabelle Charest says she was "deeply shocked" by a report that a young Black hockey player in the province was made to say, "I can't breathe," as a teammate knelt on his neck.

The racist incident drew on the words uttered by George Floyd, a Black man who died while a white police officer in Minneapolis pressed a knee to his neck in May 2020, sparking protests around the world.

According to a report in Gatineau, Que., daily Le Droit, a teammate placed his knee on the back of the Black teenager's neck for about 15 seconds, only releasing him after he spoke the words.

Full article

Tagging: @politicsofcanada

#cdnpoli #canada #canadian politics #canadian news #canadian #racism #assault #anti blackness #anti black violence #anti black racism #hate crime #hate crimes #québec #quebec #hockey #racism tw #assault tw #anti blackness tw #anti black violence tw #anti black racism tw #hate crime tw #hate crimes tw

[linusbenjamin]

Either I take off my shirt or he would take off your hand. I just listened to Merle beating the shit out of you in the other room. What could I do?

#the walking dead #twdedit #twd spoilers #tvedit #horroredit #glenn rhee #maggie greene #nikolatexla #i know i would've been a whole different person if i watched this in 2013 #fuck this made me feel so uncomfortable #assault tw

[spacemanxpaninis]

I realized part of why I love my BG3 blorbos so much.

Astarion knows what it’s like to be in an abusive relationship too. To have one’s boundaries ignored, stepped on, pushed beyond comfort and consent because it’s your duty. He would sympathize with someone who was assaulted like me & a bit scared at the prospect of going all the way someday because of what happened.

Gale, too, knows the feeling, knows what it’s like to love someone only to have them devalue you, ignore your wishes, remind you constantly that what you want doesn’t really matter. Your interests are stupid anyway. You need to be a different person if you want to be good enough.

Karlach understands the experience of trusting someone only to have them use you. To realize they don’t really care what you want if they get their portion. To see you as a means to getting something over your kindness or any other qualities.

I love them all for their unique personalities & stories, but these characters really resonate with me because we would understand each other.

#bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #astarion #gale dekarios #karlach #abuse tw #assault tw #sorry for the rant #just a lot of thoughts & memories tonight #blorbo high council