#and that’s ok- I’m an adult that’s ok

[miley1442111]

Heyyy!! Would you be interested in writing an angst aaron and bau!reader fic where they're in an established relationship for quite a while now and even have a kid together other than jack. they having relationship problems tho and maybe decided to take some time off their relationship temporarily. so reader takes her and aarons kid in their time off and jack is with aaron. angst where poor jack feels abandoned by reader and thinks she's leaving them cause both the adults are too prideful to talk everything out and make it work. (you can write it however like btw but hopefully with a happy ending 🤞🤍🤍🤍)

i love this idea, sorry i let it sit for so long! only realised i hadn't posted this now :0

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pinky promises-a.hotchner

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a/n: fem reader but as per usual, imagine what you like :)

summary: how you and aaron worry jack, and how aaron finds something out 20 years later.

pairing: aaron hotchner x reader

warnings: angst, fighting, mentions of divorce, jack being upset, etc.

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It had been weeks and weeks of pointless fighting. You were exhausted. Aaron was exhausted. 

“What do you want me to say about it Aaron?” You sighed, exasperation running through your bones. 

“I want you to say anything!” He shouted. You felt a wire snap inside you. Aaron never shouted at you. He knew how horrible he was being. He knew how bad you felt. He knew that this was a stupid thing to be fighting about.

“I’m going to my brother’s house, how about that?” You sighed. “Is that what you wanted me to say?” 

Aaron rolled his eyes, irritated at your dramatics. When he came home from one of the worst cases he’d been on for a while, all he’d wanted was to wrap you up in his arms and not let you go. But of course, he had to ruin it by starting an argument. You were 7 months postpartum, he shouldn’t have been picking fights and he knew it. But he was just so irritated. He realised something, he was taking the worst parts of his job home with him again.

“I need a break from it Aaron, alright. I’ll take Marcy and you’ll get some real sleep for a weekend and we’ll calm down and talk on Monday, alright?” 

Some sleep sounded great. Calming down sounded great. Reconciling sounded great. “Alright,” he nodded curtly. 

“Alright,” you sighed. You had never wanted it to come to this. He promised you it wouldn’t come to this. 

Yet it had. 

“I’ll pack a bag for you,” He pressed a soft kiss to your cheek as he started to walk off but you grabbed his hand and kissed it softly.

“I love you. Always,” you reminded him. His heart melted a little bit. 

“I love you too.”

------------------------------------------------------------------------------ While you and Aaron were busy fighting, Jack was in his playroom down the hall. He was terrified, you were leaving? You were taking Marcy? 

What would happen to him? He’d already lost his mom, he couldn’t lose you too.

“Honey?” He whispered as you passed the playroom. He’d picked up the habit of calling you ‘honey’ the same way Aaron did. 

“Hey Jackers,” you smiled through the inner monologue running through your head. “Shouldn’t you be in bed?” 

Jack thought this would be his last time with you tucking him in, so he got up immediately and hugged your legs. You chuckled at his antics, unaware of his anxieties, and picked him up in your arms. 

“Can I say goodnight to Marcy?” He asked and you nodded.

“Of course you can, I’ll get your dad as well, we can all say goodnight,” You smiled.

Jack, being the little profiler he was, noticed the way you’d said ‘his dad’ not just ‘dad’. His stomach dropped. He felt sick, the kind of sick he felt before he vomited.  Jack ran into Marcy’s nursery as you went to find Aaron.

“Ok Marcy, I love you, I don’t say it enough,” he whispered into her cot as she slept soundly. “I hope I was a good big brother, you were a great little sister-”

“What are you doing jack?” You asked, worried  and confused by his actions. Aaron stood behind you, his signature frown painted on his face. 

Jack started crying and both you and Aaron ran to him, wrapping him up in your arms. After a few minutes of calming him down, and calming Marcy down after she woke up with Jack crying, you sat on the floor of the nursery beside Aaron as Jack explained. 

“WellIheardyouguysfightingandIknowY/nisgoingawaynowandI’llmissher-” He rushed out but Aaron held up a hand to stop him. 

“Slowly Jack, slowly,” he reminded him and Jack crawled into Aaron’s lap and whispered it to him. 

“I heard you two fighting, and it was like when mom and you used to fight, so I know it means that Y/n and Marcy are going away now, like when you went away and I’m sad because I’ll miss them like I miss mommy,” he sniffled as Aaron’s heart broke. His eyes filled with tears that he forced himself to swallow, the task almost proving too difficult. He looked at you, your head in your hands, you’d heard him too. 

“Jack, your dad and I aren’t breaking up, we’re both just really stressed right now and we thought it would be a good idea to give each other some space. The only reason I’d take Marcy is because I have to breastfeed her,” you explained, your voice breaking. “I love your dad so much, and I love you so much, I could never leave you,” you smiled sadly and took his hand. “Remember the pinky promise I made to you on my wedding day? I meant that.”

Aaron’s ears peaked up as Jack nodded. There was something unspoken about the way that Jack seemed to relax at your words, his entire body lacking any and all tension in mere seconds. 

What was the pinky promise?

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Aaron walked out of Jack’s bedroom and leant against the door of your bedroom, watching you read your book. When you looked up, you were reminded of a younger Aaron, the one you'd met in college when he was with Haley. You felt awful having a massive crush on one of your friend’s boyfriend so you steered clear of him. Who knew you’d be here now? His wife. The mother to his children. 

“Hey handsome,” you smiled at him. 

“I don’t want space. Please don’t leave,” he asked, not meeting your eyes. 

“Let’s be honest, we both know I wasn’t getting over the threshold of my brother’s place before I ran back,” you smiled. Aaron plunked himself down beside you, lying down and pressing kisses against your neck. 

“I’m sorry I picked a fight,” he sighed.

“Sorry I kept it going,” you whispered, kissing his head. 

“So we're alright?” he asked hopefully.

“Yes, we’re ok,” you chuckled. His hands wrapped around you, pulling himself closer into your comforting embrace. For a few minutes, he tried to read your book alongside you, but his question still nagged, what was the promise?

“You want to know what the promise was, don’t you,” you chuckled.

“Yes,” he admitted, a shy smile on his face.

“Too bad,” you smirked, making him roll his eyes. 

------------------------------------------------------------------------------It was 20 years later that he found out what the promise was, on Jack’s wedding day.

“Now, probably 20 odd years or so, I made a promise to Jack on my wedding day,” you admitted in your speech. Aaron’s interest peaked once more. “I promised him that I would love him and his dad as long as they allowed me to. That as long as Jack wanted me there, I would be. I told him he could call it off at any time, if anything was ever too much for him or if he hated me when he became a teenager. I promised him I’d go without a word of his involvement. I swore that I’d love him until the minute he didn't want me there, and even then that I'd just love him from far away. But I’m so happy you let me stay around Jack, you’ve become quite the amazing person,” you smiled through tears as he held your hand in his, just like he had all those years ago. Aaron’s heart swelled. You’d thought about Jack since day one. When your speech was finished, Aaron pulled you away from the rest of the party to kiss you in the beautiful sunset, the same venue you two had gotten married in. 

He loved you.

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criminal minds masterlist :)

navigation for my blog :) (criminal minds, obx, the bear, marvel, top gun, the hunger games :)

#criminal minds #criminal minds imagine #bau team #criminal minds fandom #criminal minds x reader #criminal minds fic #aaron hotchner x reader #aaron hotchner fluff #aaron hotchner #aaron hotch hotchner #aaron hotchner imagine #aaron hotch fanfiction #aaron hotch imagine #aaron hotch x reader #thomas gibson #thomas gibson x reader

[transmasccofee]

ok I promise I promise this isn’t frl shipping discourse but as an incredibly short person who despite being an adult looks maybe 15 at the oldest, I’m a little confused by people unironically saying you can’t ship Senshi and Chilchuck bc Senshi at one point thought Chilchuck was a kid. Like. Is that a rule we have now. We can’t be in relationships with people who at one point thought we were younger than we are. Because if that’s the case than I am fucking doomed, literally everyone in my life thought I was a child before I mentioned my age. Am I just morally prohibited from pussy now.

#chilshi #LIKE IM SO CONFUSED #its just a misunderstanding like he gets corrected and starts seeing chilchuck as an adult and an equal afterwards so..? #I’m genuinely confused by this logic

[nicolemabes]

At this point it shouldn’t be surprising that the fandom finds fault with Feyre’s choice to become a mother, but here we are 😫

I’m not talking about the dumbass plot of no csections in ACOSF. We’re not rehashing that.

I’m talking about how feyre is “ruined” now that she’s a mom. How she stated she wanted to wait and enjoy life and then happened to changed her mind. How she didn’t want to pop out heirs for tamlin, so how could she be ok with doing that with Rhys.

At the very core, these takes are misogynistic. They’re anti-feminist. The choice to have/not have children belongs to no one but those involved (especially the one with the uterus!!!) I feel like I shouldn’t have to explain this to adults, but that means people are allowed to change their minds on when/if they have children. Just because you personally disagree doesn’t mean shit.

In the same way that not having/being unable to have children doesn’t make someone any less of a woman, HAVING children does not make anyone less brave, strong, or worthy. Feyre is still High Lady. She is still the defender of the Rainbow. She is still Feyre Cursebreaker. She’s just added “Mom” to her list of titles. And that title is worthy of distinction just as the others.

We have no idea how her story will continue. I do believe she will still have a huge role to play in future books, but if she decides she wants to just hang out with her adorable baby instead, that’s OK. Because being a mom IS an incredibly fulfilling job, and no one knows that more than SJM herself.

#acotar #sjm #pro feyre #feyre archeron #fandom bullshit #a court of thorns and roses #feysand

[yelenasdiary]

I saw you were talking about Wanda x daughter!reader ideas, and I just can’t get this out of my head.

What if reader is actually Nat’s daughter and Nat and Wanda start dating. Like just imagine all the super cute moments of them bonding…

-Wanda really likes her new girlfriend, but is a bit nervous getting to know her daughter.

-Wanda eventually asks them both on a date.

-Maybe Wanda even asks Nat if it would be ok to take R on a “date” one on one.

-Wanda becoming R’s best friend.

-R asking Nat when they can see Wanda.

-R wanting to be Wanda’s partner on game night.

-R getting super excited when Wanda picks her up from school one day.

-Wanda tucking R into bed.

-R asks Wanda to kiss an “owie” like Mama does.

-Wanda falling absolutely in love with this little girl.

-R wanting Wanda to move in so they can all be together.

-Of course there will be a misunderstandings and arguments because kids (and adults) have big feelings and people make mistakes, BUT there is always a teary conversation after where they apologize and listen to each other. Wanda always wanting R to know her feelings matter, and they are even closer by then end.

-The “I’m Sorry” ice cream date after a fight is always a plus too.

-Wanda helping R with homework.

-R wanting Wanda when she has a nightmare or feels sick.

-Wanda telling Nat that she loves R, possibly even more than she loves Nat.

-The first time R says “I love you” to Wanda.

-R asks Wanda to a “Mommy and Me” party/event.

-Wanda proposing to R when she proposes to Nat.

-R is Wanda’s maid of honor in the wedding.

-The first time R calls Wanda Mom or Mommy.

- The only thing on her letter to Santa is to be adopted by Wanda.

-R giving Wanda the best Mother’s Day presents.

-R getting upset when a bully tries to say she can’t have two moms.

-R going to Wanda with those awkward mom/daughter questions as she’s growing up.

-Wanda being the middle ground between R and Nat during teenage rebellion.

-Eventually when Y/n is all grown up(maybe even a new or soon-to-be mom herself), Wanda tells her the best decision she ever made was to be Reader’s mom.

… just… the possibilities are endless.

…and like obviously Nat is reader’s mom and they love each other SOOO much, but there is just something special about the bond R and Wanda share, and tbh Nat wouldn’t have it any other way

Ps sorry that ended up being super long 🤦🏻‍♀️ hope it sounds as good as it does in my head 😂

I love all these cute little ideas!!!

Imma keep these in mind when I sit down to work out the little AU xx

#yelenasdiary asks #anon

[gallavichsreddie1128]

Will’s Sister (Hannibal)

Description: Hannibal and Will’s sister take a liking to each other.

Word Count: 1,104k

Request: Could you maybe write a fanfic with the reader being Will‘s sister and she caught Hannibal‘s interest, with Will still trying to protect her.But in the end she still ends up with Hannibal?

“So when do I get to meet him?” She asked her older brother as they are eating. “How about never?” She sighed and whined. “Come on Will. What’s so bad about him?” She wanted to meet the famous Hannibal Lecter that her brother was working with. She’s heard so much about him and Will didn’t want them near each other. He didn’t trust Hannibal all that much or at least he shouldn’t. He was afraid that Hannibal would try to get with his sister and vice versa. “I’ve told you before I think he’s the one killing these people.” Another thing, Will is convinced that Hannibal is the killer of all the cases that he’s worked on.

“Ok but that’s a think not a know.” She said. He looked at her annoyed that she keeps talking about him. “You aren’t to meet him, Y/N. He’s bad news.” She rolls her eyes for what seems to be the millionth time during this conversation. She didn’t care that Will thought that about him. She still wanted to meet him. “I can take care of myself, Will.” She was 25 years old, so was an adult and that Will knew. But he still didn’t trust Hannibal around her. “Y/N, It’s final. You’re not meeting him.” It was after he said that the doorbell rang. Y/N got up before Will could, to answer it. She opened the door to reveal the man she wanted to meet. “Hi is uh Will here?” The man asked with a beautiful accent.

She checked him out and he blushed. “Will? There’s a man at the door for you.” She called. Will cursed knowing who it was. He appeared behind his sister and made eye contact with Hannibal. “Is there a reason you’re here so late?” He asked him, dreading this so much. “Uh well you see my car broke down and your house was the closest.” Y/N turned towards her brother. “Is this Hannibal?” She asked him. Before Will could reply Hannibal beat him to it, “Yes I am.” Y/N turned back towards the man with a wide mouth. Will rolled his eyes and sighed. “I’m Y/N. Will’s sister.” She stuck out her hand for him to shake. He gladly took it. “You can definitely stay the night if you need to.” She told the man.

Will was about to protest when Y/N held up her finger to him. “We can call someone about your car in the morning.” She said with a smile. Hannibal thanked her and she let him in. Will was pissed about this. Y/N didn’t even live here and invited Hannibal into the house to stay the night knowing what Will thought of him. “So Hannibal, do you like soup?” She asked. “I do.” “Well I made some for tonight. You are more than welcome to have some.” She said with a smile. He thought that smile was beautiful. “Thank you. I will gladly have some.” Will watched them closely just looking for a reason to say No to all of this. Y/N got him a bowl and handed it to him. He started eating it and hummed. “This is very good.” He told her.

“I’m a cook myself.” “Really?” She asked with excitement. He nodded and began telling her some of the things he cooks. Y/N listened closely as he told her all about it. Will glared at the two as Hannibal made her laugh. “So you can take Will’s bed and he can have the couch.” Will’s jaw dropped. “Uh excuse me? He can take the couch.” “No you can. He’s your guest.” “He can have your room for the night. Or my guest room as it is.” Hannibal watched the two bicker about where he would sleep. They definitely were siblings. “I can take the couch.” He said. “Thank you.” “No.” They said at the same time. “Since Will is an asshole. You can take my bed.” She told him. 

Hannibal went to bed earlier than Y/N thought he would. Will was always an early bird but Y/N wasn’t. She laid on the couch wide awake as she thought about the older man. He was very sexy and nice. She didn’t see what Will was talking about. She huffed as she tossed and turned, trying to fall asleep but couldn’t. She sat up and thought about how the guest bed is huge and she was sure that she could sneak in there and sleep. She gathered her blankets and pillows and made her way to the room. Will was already asleep so that was one less thing she had to worry about.

She walked into the room and saw Hannibal asleep. God that man looked so good even asleep. She tiptoed to the other side of the bed and set her stuff on it. She got under the covers and laid back, hoping she didn’t wake him up. “Y/N, is that you?” His sleepy voice was even hot. “Yeah sorry I couldn’t sleep on the couch. I’ll be out before Will gets up so he doesn’t freak out.” “Does Will always act like this?” He asked, looking at her. “An asshole? Yeah.” He chuckled, “I mean protective.” She looked over at the older man confused. “What makes you say that?” “I saw how he kept looking at us while we were talking. It’s like he thinks I will eat you.” She chuckled at his words. “You could if you wanted to.” “He should be protective. You’re beautiful.” She felt her cheeks heat up at his words.

“You’re not so bad yourself.” She said and turned towards him. Both feeling wide awake. “God Will would hate this.” She said and they both laugh. “Yeah he would. But doesn’t that make this more exciting?” This man loved the thrill of it. Will’s sister and him oh that would be perfect. But Hannibal actually had interest in Y/N. “I guess it does.” They both stared into each other’s eyes for a long period of time before Hannibal got closer to her.

She didn’t move away or lean back. She didn’t want to. She moved closer to him so that their noses were touching. “Hannibal.” She whispered. “Yeah?” “Kiss me.” She told him. He smiled and leaned in. Their lips touched and they both felt the fireworks go off. Y/N  kissed him back not caring about what Will said or if Will was to walk in the room right now and see the scene. She would just flip him off. They parted from the kiss too fast for her liking but it was the start of something. Something crazy.

#hannibal #mads mikkelsen #hannibal lecter #hannibal nbc #hugh dancy #will graham #hannibal imagine #hannibal x reader #hannibal x you #hannibal lecter imagine #hannibal lecter x reader

[justalittlesolarpunk]

do you think the upcoming election is going to be okay? i’m sorry for asking a negative question, but i’m a scared teenager in america who is trans, queer, and a climate activist. i don’t really know what to do.

Hello my love, I’m so sorry you’re feeling so afraid. It’s a completely natural reaction to a situation that is unbelievably unfair and shit, and it makes me indescribably angry that you have to endure this.

I’m not in the USA, so I don’t have a full grasp of what the cultural discourse is like at the moment or what sort of conversations are happening, so do bear that in mind. That said, I’d like to tell you that I’m 100% confident that Trump won’t win, but I’m not, so I can’t. Lying to you isn’t going to make any of this easier. But I want you to take heart. No matter what the outcome of this election, there will be people of all ages and backgrounds willing to work together for mutual aid, ecological justice, queer liberation, landback and many other worthy causes. They are doing that work now despite repression even from a Democrat government. I know it’s not much comfort in the face of a potential administration that wants to outlaw your existence, but remember that the Biden administration is approving fossil fuels, arming vicious militaries and crushing student protest. American progressives have always had to operate without state help regardless of who is in the White House.

All this to say, you will be ok. It will be scary and unfair and hugely dangerous if Trump gets back in, but there are networks of support you can key into now. There are adults who can stand up for and support and protect you. There are ways you can learn to protect yourself. We can’t wait for the government, we have to start building a better world piece by piece, every day, from the ground up, and there are a myriad ways of getting involved in that. Whether the Republicans like it or not, the age of fossil fuels is coming to an end, trans people exist and the vast majority of younger generations wholeheartedly accept and celebrate them.

I still deeply hope that Trump loses, and I still think he could. There are things you can do to help push for that goal, like helping to register voters and more, but when certain things are beyond our control we have to focus on what we can control. When the dominant system threatens only evil we have to construct alternative realities. You have the power to do that. So once you’ve taken some time to rage about how messed up it all is, why not start looking into ways to make the world better without and in spite of the so-called ‘leaders’ who profit from making it worse.

#solarpunk #hopepunk #cottagepunk #environmentalism #social justice #community #optimism #bright future #climate justice #tidalpunk #politics #us election #trans rights #ask #answer

[haradoshin]

I like the thiccccc as much as most ppl with fat fetishes, but whenever I find fat/inflation/expansion p@rn, there's no seggs. My question is that if ppl with this fetish are getting horny by looking at the art and bust to these characters, why is it that on sites that allow seggs ppl don't draw the fattened/inflated/expanded characters having seggs and busting? It would be like the payoff of normal p@rn just being them getting naked. Ik your not the ultimate authority on this topic, but I just wanna hear your perspective.

Firstly

I’m an adult and I’m going to assume that you are also an adult. You can say the word sex. It’s ok it’s allowed.

Secondly

Two characters interacting in an intimate manner is a hard thing for a lot of artists to draw, even talented ones. Add several hundred pound to those forms and interactions and it gets even more difficult. I think that’s probably the reason why you don’t see fat characters engaging in intercourse in art, it’s difficult to conceptualize and then draw in a sort of realistic way.

Another reason, I think that a lot of people who engage in this fetish like the idea of a character struggling to have sex at all for one reason or another. It adds to the fantasy for people (me included.) Being unable to self pleasure and having to depend on another person is a great theme that should be explored more. It’s not necessarily a rare thing to see tho, you just have to know where to look.

[tiktaalic]

one of my beloved friends (very autism) was in.. not denial but ignorance sounds mean. but that abt themself last time you brought up the raads r test so i sent it to the gc (full of autism) and they were like psh. fake test no one could get below 100. they know now but i think about it so much

The thing is. When you take the autism test. And you see your score is in the 100 to 160 range. You think. Oh this is probably the middle? Middle autism. Tinge of autism. Your relatives calling you bright but shy autism. Just a whiff of autism. And then you see the score ranges. And you go. This test is lying to me there is absolutely no way the majority of people score under 65. The 65 number is such a low cutoff and so many of these experiences are clearly universal a score under 65 is something they made up in a lab. People who score under 65 are obviously scoring just under that mark from 59 to 64 and they’re also obviously lying or purposely misrepresenting their experiences as less severe than they are. And then you find out there are real people who get a 20 or 30 or 7 on it. And you go. Ah

#ask #anonymous #it does help to remember when I’m feeling extremely crazy that it’s more than likely because I am operating in a world populated by people w #who don’t know what raads r is because they have no reason to take it because their score on it would be like. 14. #like. oh! that’s why I feel crazy. because my brain has created a world state that 98% of usa adults do not create or experience because #they’re normal. ok.

[cosmo-spams]

rambling about recovery in tags

#I’m so horribly conflicted here #cuz a bit part of my brain wants me to relapse fully #and it honestly feels like I just want attention- like genuinely #I just like- want people to care? but I Hate bugging people #it’s hard to explain #I feel like I’m always the most recovered of my friends #no matter how low I am #so I never have people trying to take care of me #(besides ry. but I hate making him do that I feel so guilty) #I kinda want to get worse? just cuz like- it feels like the only way I’ll ever get taken care of #but I know that doesn’t even work logically #I don’t get taken care of- I take care of others and tell them to not worry about me #and that’s ok- I’m an adult that’s ok #and then there’s the rest of my brain that wants to recover so badly #I want to get better- I don’t want to betray my body #(every time i restrict too low I can feel younger me like screaming or something- it hurts me) #(young me doesn’t deserve this. I know I don’t either but that’s harder to admit) #but I’m just So tired #I’m in constant battle with my brain no matter what I do #anyways- sorry long rant #just explaining where I’m at so I can get the words out of my head

[shinkumancer]

It’s past 3am

Everyone is asleep

And there’s something about joining the Bandwagon

#I’m late ok #nicktoons unite #nicktoons #danny phantom #timmy turner #jimmy neutron #I wanna draw them as adults #I’d say about 10 years later #I might start watching the gameplay bc;;;; #i always wanted to try out that game when I saw the commercial a long time ago

[loptrcoptr]

It’s come to my attention that a lot of people in the BES fandom are new to fandom-culture in general (or lack there of; we denizens of tumblr are residents of a cesspool) and don’t know a lot of general old school online manners, laid down in Days of Yore by earlier generations. So let me bring up a crucial one that is generally being ignored on tumblr in the BES-sphere: ship tagging!

I am not doing this to condescend, I genuinely want to be helpful and to help us all enjoy our enclosure and our enrichment in said enclosure together. I think a lot of grief going around the blue eye samurai world on social media could be solved if everyone remembered one good old cardinal rule of fandom bullshit:

you do not put ship wank in a ship’s general tag.

let me say that one more time in different terms:

If you want to rant about how much you hate a ship, general practice has always been, on tumblr anyway, not to do so in the safe space created for said ship.

once again, lemme be very clear; I don’t give one rat’s ass or 800 collective asses of rats what you ship, why you ship it, whether you ship anything at all, why you hate x y z, etc. That’s great, that’s what fandom is for! Enjoy yourself! The issue is that there’s all this infighting fuckery going on that is exhausting to even watch from the sidelines, and I think there’s a lot of confusion as to why anyone is fighting over any of this shit at all as it is 2024 and ship wars are 2011 superwholock garbage that we all collectively agreed to jettison into space by 2015, ya feel me?

(and if you like to start shit and throw hands then obv this post isn’t for you as you know what you’re doing, this is for the folks who don’t know and are confused as to why they can’t rant without blowback)

So if you’ve gotten on tumblr recently and noticed your anti-ship post blowing up for some reason or other and asked yourself “Jesus why are these assholes from that ship always coming for me?? They’re such dicks!!” ask yourself:

did I tag them in my post?

Because when you tag a ship in a post about how much you hate it, it’s not a beacon that says “Hear Ye Hear Ye, Interacteth Not Ye Fuckos From Ship I Hate, This Is About How Much I Hate Your Ship”. For that to be the case, you would need old-school anti-ship tag nomenclature, like this: #anti-[shipname] or #[shipname] wank. Those tags would communicate your intent to rant, which is your sacred fandom right to enjoy doing! It is not, however, your sacred fandom right to enjoy doing it in the wrong space, that’s what’s happening here. A post that tags a ship with its normal tag, but whose content is anti/wank content about said ship, sends the signal: “ayyooo, who would like to debate this with me?”

So, does all that make sense? If you tag your post analyzing all the reasons why you think a ship sucks with #ship, you are encouraging everyone who ships that ship to interact with your post. It’s like rocking up to somebody’s house, ringing the doorbell, and saying “I hate your fugly ass piece of shit house, asshole” and then getting irritated when the homeowner responds with “who the fuck are you, get off my lawn?!”

#anti-[shipname], #[shipname] hate (forgot about that one, also useful), and #[shipname] wank do two very useful things:

1) They let other people who want to gleefully rant with you know that you’re on the level and they give like minded individuals a chance to follow those tags so you can have more rant sessions together, and

2) they minimize likelihood of involvement by the shippers you’re ranting about, who can block the tag, while keeping the ship’s normal tag open for the people who enjoy it

tldr; *swordfather voice* it would be bitchin if people could stop bitchin in the wrong places so that we can all coexist like adults here, touch some grass, and chill. Tag ship hate #anti-[shipname], #[shipname] wank, or #[shipname]-hate and keep it out of the general pro-ship tags :)

if your response to this is “don’t tell me what to do, cuntwaffle” or “I have an unhealthy relationship with the idea of shipping and think no one should have a safe environment to enjoy media except me and people I agree with so I will continue to poison the waters” then ok, cool beans, keep on chooglin’; but know that everytime you walk into a tea party you weren’t invited to and yell I HATE YOUR FUCKING TEA YOUR TEA SUCKS ASS blowback is a bit inevitable

#PSA for anybody who needs to hear it #blue eye samurai #bes netflix #netflix blue eye samurai #am I probably gonna get some nasty comments for this? sure whatever but if at least one person who is #tired of fighting in their text posts and inbox sees this and realizes they can tag things in a way #that lets them avoid a fight then hey my job is done #and if most of yall are just starting shit to start shit then ok just thought I’d check in #because there’s a lot of complaining about people defending the stuff they like in this fandom #and if you’re needling people I’m not sure why you think they won’t pushback #no needling no fighting. everybody be chill. good god yall. it’s a show for adults can we be adults please. #shipwars are for children this is embarrassing why’d so many people in this fandom drink gallons of haterade

[askamnesiamoonjumper]

aau rework version of the overload/boss fight where it actually has consequences and bearing on the character dynamics save me,, save me aau rework,,,,

#Ily greif Stricken mj ily trust issues hattie ily pissed snatcher etc #The overload actually being a big deal also works out better bc youknow snatch doessss elude to it with mjs contract that shit will go down #So It fits better to me theyll all get a dynamic shift #ESP with the thought of mj finally starting to bond w snatcher a bit beforehand too fuckkkk #Undid all that progress #AND HAT that fucks me upppp like the one adult person you meet that you trust that hasn’t tried to kill you or backstab you doing just that #That will FUCK HER UPPPPP #THE SECOND IT HIT ME THE REASON I STRUGGLED WRITING HER WAS BC SHE WAS BORING WAS EARTH SHATTERING #BC THEN I WAS INSTANTLY LIKE “ok she comes to befriend mj wayyyy too fast I gotta inflict trust issues upon her later” #Bc I mentioned it like she jokes that mj is the only person on earth that didn’t try to kill her but never played on that fact #So boom the overload is my opportunity #Like they can’t get into a found family THAT EASILY. THESE GUYS ARE FIGHTING TOOTH AND NAIL FOR IT !! #a!au #amnesia!moonjumper au #ahit au #ahit a!au #Also if if ur wondering I drew snatch like that bc I like the idea he’s in between forms bc he’s weakened <mj uses the blue strings on him #Hence why he doesn’t do anything during the fight bc he’s kinda sorta been restrained oops lol #Watching ur forest and subjects get fucked up by a weirdo fucked up you cannot be fun #No one wins in overload arc. Everyone is having a bad time. Lol. #Ok I’m done yapping #Everyone loves Raymond OUT everyone hates mj IN

[queam]

My sketch with un-dyed hair

#she has white hairs like lamp ‼️ #because they are old #ok maybe not that old #sketch is 36 #that’s still decently older #in the older adult range #probably #dhmis #don’t hug me i’m scared #dhmis sketchbook #dhmis paige #dhmis sketchpad #dhmis tv show #dhmis art

[chynandri]

I really, really love video games… just been feeling kind of sad by how many interesting games exist out there and I can’t keep up, I’m never gonna experience and get into all of them in a lifetime. I wish I could devote my whole life to just experiencing games

#as a teenager you have the brain capacity and probably time to get into a lot #but as an adult you are constantly racing against time #still even as an adult… I manage to maintain a billion interests anyway. cuz I’m insane. #all this was evoked by seeing how bioshock infinite came out ELEVEN!!!!! years ago and like I’m not ok. #I FEEL OLD!!!!!

[catgrandpa]

All Might: Young Midoriya, you mustn’t tell anyone about One for All it is the greatest secret the world has ever known. To have this power is to be alone. I am deeply sorry for the burden I have granted upon you.

All Might, in the next episode: Oh btw here’s my doctor and the principal, they both know about OfA. And this old guy I know, he’s known about it for forever and also this cop knows too. Oh, Nighteye obviously knows but we don’t talk anymore and this is my ex Dave and his daughter, he knows of course and I can’t quite remember if she does but anyway this is my barista but don’t worry they’re cool peep the blue hair they’d never out me-

#it’s hating all might hours again 🫡 #JUST PERSONALLY IDK I DONT THINK AN ADULT SHOULD SHARE A BIG SECRET WITH A CHILD YKNOW???? #I’m going to give you smth but you can’t tell your mom or a trusted adult 🤭 YEAH OK GROOMER #I’ll be like yeah he’s not that bad I overreact a lot and then I think about him for two more seconds and we’re back here again #creepy fuckin hypocritical old ass man I hate you #my hero academia #midoriya izuku #all might #bnha #mha #boku no hero academia #all might hate post #shut up grandpa

[howdidthisevenhappenanyway]

*taps microphone* so i’d just like to talk about all the little kids in coruscant who would absolutely be out of their mind with love and awe for the corrie guard, and their fire engine red painted armour

these kids

these kids would wait at their windows to watch them drive past their window on a scheduled patrol. they’d be so thrilled to see them in the market. or when Fox is standing next to Palpatine in the press in his extra red paint

their parent will be like ‘want to talk to them?’ and the kids will get all shy.

they might even draw pictures of them to give to them

because no matter what the adults think, abiut flesh droids or military police being given more and more responsibility (that theybwould see as power) as the war went on, but little kids know what’s up. they know how cool garbage men are, and fire men (with the shiny red paint), and other civil servants that adults don’t think are awesome but kids know

and you know, you just know that Sergeant Hound, with his cute mastiff and awesome bucket paint would be the absolute pinnacle of coolness to an eight year old coruscanti child

#I forgot to take my pain meds today and then did things so I’n stuck in bed in agony but I thot I’d write out the cute headcanon #that I’ve been thinking about for a while #how the adults would listen to the propoganda that makes civil unrest more likely #because palps wanted turmoil at home to make the senators nervous so they gave him more power #he would absolutely use the guard like a sledgehammer #adults would also know why the corries have mastifs and riot gear and why there were shock troopers posted on a republic planet #and about the raids that keep happening to innocent people #and all of the money and drugs and material goods and wven food and water that were being confiscated for the most flimsy of reasons #and the people who were being arrested never to be seen again #but the kids #would think they were so cool and act like they were celebrities #ok good meeting #I’m writing a winged clone fic and so you can imagine how much this is turned up to eleven when the corries have WINGS and can FLY #some kids would obviously think cody or rex or any of the other clones that ended up in propoganda next to obi-wan and anakin etc were #the best but they would get into arguments with the kids who were all about the corries #some autistic kid thinking hound is the height of clone existsnce #some other autistic kid thinking the logistics offocers were awesome #I just like thinking about it #coruscant guard #corrie shenanigans #corrie guard #commander fox #commander thorn #commander thire #commander stone #sergeant hound #clone trooper hound #star wars ​headcanons #fluff