#Family Care program

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State bill would require long-term care facilities evicting residents to give more notice

A bill making its way through the state Legislature aims to give families more times to help aging relatives find a new place to live when facing eviction from long-term care facilities.

By Joe Schulz | Wisconsin Public Radio A bill making its way through the state Legislature aims to give families more times to help aging relatives find a new place to live when facing eviction from long-term care facilities. The legislation would require nursing homes and assisted living facilities to give residents, family members and legal guardians a 90-day written notice of eviction or…

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#elder care #Family Care program #long-term care

[daughterofanarcissistwoman]

#inner child healing #reparenting #narcissistic abuse #boundaries #self care #self love #healing from abuse #people pleasing #codependency #healing fawn trauma response #undoing dysfunctional family programming

[klauswalz]

#borderlands #borderlandsedit #borderlands 3 #gamingedit #** #*borderlands #what's more annoying? this level? #or whatever that teddy bear and the computer program got going on #or that family drama I could not care less about

[theidiotabides]

Would really love to hear about the angsty marcotobias fic if you're interested in sharing. 👀

Oh gosh, I feel like I'd have to actually write it for it to make sense because like 80% of it is subtext, but here's some rambling in that general direction.

I'm chiefly interested in the ways in which Marco & Tobias are actually incredibly similar -- their senses of humor, their attractions, their complete direspect for authority, and most importantly how they both lowkey hate themselves but insist on survival anyway, largely out of spite -- but how they treat their similarity as, like, a cautionary tale rather than the basis for a healthy connection that it could be.

Like, Tobias disappearing into the woods and giving up on everybody is exactly the kind of behavior that Marco finds incredibly triggering, having lived through it with his dad. Marco would never walk away from his remaining loved ones like that, especially in the post-war world where he's charged himself with being the public face of the Animorphs because somebody has to. But there is absolutely a part of him that wants to give up and disappear; ya boi is tired.

Meanwhile, I think Tobias sees Marco's devotion to Jake and refusal to abandon him even after how Rachel died (which Tobias blames Jake for) as a version of the hero worship complex Tobias used to have about Jake -- like, I think Tobias sees Marco as being too devoted to Jake to see "the truth" about him, and he pities that in Marco. But at the same time, Tobias envies Marco's close personal connections, and I think on some level he knows that the only way to get to that place would be to work through his anger at Jake to get to his anger at Rachel, and he just can't bring himself to do that. It's easier to stay mad.

And then there's the question of Rachel herself, whom they were both deeply invested in trying to keep alive at the end of the war. Like, we see this explicitly from Tobias, with his "just be Rachel" and constant emotional check-ins with her, but I don't think Marco gets enough credit for his active role in keeping her literally alive. Dude bodily removed her from battles, at risk to his own life, and I just refuse to believe that's not something Marco & Tobias talked about, given how much time they spent together in Ax's scoop during that period of time between Marco's fake death & the move to the valley. Rachel is both a mutual love and a mutual failure for them (and that level of mutual devotion to a third person gives my polyamorous ass A Lot of Feelings).

Basically I think there's a lot of respect and love between Tobias and Marco, but they can't get to it because it would require each of them to deal with Rachel-related guilt and confront parts of themselves that they don't want to acknowledge.

...so I want to get them high on Marco's fancy penthouse balcony and make them kiss about it

#when I say “their attractions” I mean both of them are in love with both Rachel & Jake because they are Berenson-sexual #also I cannot be the only person who headcanons that The Scoop Boys were weed smokers #like maybe when it was just Ax & Tobias they were more straight edge but as soon as Marco was living there they were lighting up guaranteed #I have never met any 16-year-old who spent that much time either programming or hanging out in the woods who was not a pothead #I bet they were all absolutely high af when they hacked the CIA #I bet Marco used CIA employee credit cards to order pizza while Tobias and Ax giggled and shushed each other in the background #I also have a lot of Feelings about the role that Marco plays in helping Tobias rescue Loren in 49 #like there's this line where Marco says that Jake sent him & Ax to check on Tobias & I Do Not Believe It #Jake was losing his shit over his family at the time; he just let Tobias fly off alone & he spends the whole next book abdicating leadershi #Jake did not so much as consider the possibility that Tobias would stage a solo rescue mission; meanwhile Marco was fully expecting it #Marco absolutely took his own initiative in rallying Ax to help Tobias & then credited Jake for it because he didn't want to be Seen Caring #I also have like 10% of a fic about this btw but it's mostly centered on Jake #animorphs meta #animorphs #tobias animorphs #marco animorphs #marcotobias

[thedevilandhisbride]

how will we ever get the spark to wonder, question, and think deeply about art when someone says a prompt or two into a generator, and out comes a painting that doesnt mean anything, because nobody took the time to tell a story within it? how can anybody do that if the art has no meaning like with ai art? when it isnt meticulously crafted by the complex mind of a creative human?

you cant tell an ai to convey the hurt and betrayal of a mortal against their own hubris as they fall off of the high horse they pitched themselves upon the way that a human would, because ai isnt human. it will never be human. and to compare ai art to human art and call them equals is dehumanization, and it strips art of every power it has ever had across the whole of human history.

#tdahbposting #why should be care about ai art when nobody cared to actually make the art in the first place #i got in a heated argument with my dad about ai art and it really hurt me as an artist #so here is basically what my thoughts where. i wrote a lot to my gf but these points summarized it #if you couldnt tell i hate ai art #also the piece i was referencing was the fall of icarus #ai art #fuck ai art #anti ai art #ai art debate #ai art is not art #i had a lot more rambling about if ai art tried to make a bunch of historical pieces of art and writing based off of what i argued about #earlier with my dad- mainly the bible and many pieces of art that are from that side of the religion sphere #because we have a 3d textural piece of the last supper passed down in our family from germany and he was. rambling earlier #but ai art could never recreate the human experience of wonder and love and dedication in and through art #you cannot begin to compare the inhuman art of ai to human artwork and beginning to do so is unbelievably awful to do #every stroke of story put into human art is something that only humans can continue to recreate- not ai or any other robot #the only way that the robot that scoops its own oil back in endlessly has that effect is because a human made it #the only way that robotic art effects us is because a human made it. a human made that robot do that. a human programed that robot #the robot didnt program and make itself the way that humans do #and when a human makes ai and that ai makes art #its only an imitation of humans #that ai cannot think cognitively or critically enough- or at all- to create its own Actual artwork #saying that it can and that it is equal in value to real human artwork is the most out of touch take #and if you have that take? you should be ashamed

[moving-to-dreamwinged]

my dad came in and saw me on the couch (for the first time all day and i had literally just sat down for less than a minute when he came in) w heating pad and immediately goes "you have two options" (different chores to do) (as if i was like 10 years old and getting punished for something that i didnt even know i did wrong). what about secret third option where you treat me like an adult or i don't come home for winter next year. Lol

#.mei chats #soryr really my family is. great i need to stpo complain #i just wish theyd realize that im not incompetent #i do a really good job taking care of myself for the entire 10 months out of the year that i dont live with them #and im proud of the independence ive developed bc i worked really hard to feel ANY sort of positive feelings about myself #but they just dont recognize it at all when i come back #trying to tell me how to microwave my food and reminding me of paperwork i have to do #Thanks i literally managed the entire program tasks myself for the last 6~months but yeah you better remind me about the medical forms #or else ill totally forget and mess up the whole thing :'333 bc im just so stupid!! thakn you soooo much for taking care of me!! #<- not like ive been hypervigilant and anxious about making sure i do every little thing with it perfect #in fact there was actually an issue w one of my forms bc they made me submit it even though i didn't think it was filled out properly. #they were like “itll be fine youre overthinking” guess who got an email 3 days later saying the form was completely invalid. #god just bottom line why cantthey trust me when i say im on top of it. fucking trust me this program is my entire life right now #i am putting literally eveyr ounce of effort i've got into not ruining it. they just dont see the improvements and growth ive made at all #so frustrating bc ive worked so hard to pinpoint and fix that specifically but what can ya do #god this got long. sawry #.not f/o related

[lettuce-gremlin]

Literally I absolutely get what the Bad Kids are dealing with rn in terms of juggling all these responsibilities because I'm in the exact same boat rn

#I've got two jobs #a lot going on with my family rn #pets to take care of #an apartment to upkeep because my roommate won't do it #and then I'm also helping organize a reunion for the people who graduated from my college in my program #and my friend just texted me for a logo specifically for this reunion even though i have no logo design experience whatsoever #I'll do it! i just wish I'd known sooner #we could have commissioned someone #edit: my bad. she just wanted a graphic/poster for the event #but still

[dashiellqvverty]

other libraries - even small ones! - are out here doing fun stuff all the time meanwhile my boss hasnt even ordered new books since january

#i want to make like a survey for families w kids about what programs we'd like to see #bc i was talking about how my friends library and my old job have done stuffy sleepovers which are so cute and something we could easily do #and my boss was just like we did one of those a few years ago and only one kid did it :( #and shes like we could do one again but would be worth it if no one comes :( #and its just like. so we're just never gonna do anything??? #it is inconvenient bc we're only open tues wed thurs sat so theres not a good day where kids can pick up their toys the next morning but ug #the problem is she just does not care about kids programming #she only does adult programs for stuff she is interested in #and to be fair my storytimes dont have a huge turnout but i just #i want to do SOMETHING more #r.txt #library tag

[daughterofanarcissistwoman]

Showing up for others at the expense of yourself will lead to resentment

#respect #inner child healing #reparenting #narcissistic abuse #boundaries #self love #self care #self respect #self worth #fawn trauma response #people pleasing #healing from codependency #toxic relationship dynamics #unhealthy relationship dynamics #dysfunctional family programming

[whydoifeelthisquiet]

My household is so toxic right now I can’t even handle it

#abby doesnt shut up #my sister is having anxiety and the whole world needs to stop for her. but! #on Christmas Eve my anxiety was bad and she berated me and called me boring and overly sensitive in the car with my whole family #and I cried really hard. but dw girl I’ll take care of you! #she can’t handle any of it on her own. like zero. #just ran up to my mom saying she has to go to an outpatient program. this anxiety started THIS WEEK. #now my mom is upset with everyone #my sister just can’t think outside of herself. her experiences are always the worst. she doesn’t understand her privilege whatsoever. #<<*worse than anyone else’s

[boycannibal]

love sims man . just lost 4 hours . like i was having fun yeah but i started playing then woke up 4 hours later

#bwuh? wdym its almost 5am #laying on bed kicking my legs my sim got accepted into so many high level uni programs and shes going to be a bodybuilder and shes got #a boyfriend and when she finishes that she will move back into her parents house to care for them #but actually they just moved house with her younger sisters #but by the time she finishes uni one of the sisters will move out so she can move in with her partner #and theyre gonna raise little babies as a family with grandmas and aunty involved #and the bodybuilders sim partner is also a gymrat so theyre gonna have ripped babies or something

[filthforfriends]

The tenderness in this photo is NOT helping my feral ness for this boy!

Anons are already up my ass for mentioning Lavinia so I might as well respond to this now because ABSOLUTELY. You have 100% absolutely 10/10 come to the right place. The way he has one hand behind her head even though it looks like hes holding something. Instead of leading her by her chin or jaw which can feel a little aggressive he he holds her face delicately. He just has to make sure she’s hearing what he’s saying to her, but does so gently, carefully. And her looking at him like Thomas is the whole world. Personally i tense when anyone touches my face no matter what but she’s so relaxed and that says a lot.

Plus the fact that she’s posting a picture of them without actually posting a picture of them. You don’t need to see Thomas to infer his relevance because the way Lavinia is looking says everything and more. Usually couples take pictures wrapped around each other to show their affection, but Lavinia isn’t even touching him. She’s not even smiling, but her expression still reads as head over heels and devoted.

#‘why are you mentioning her she’s not even in the band?’ #I am one of those blogs that mentions gfs bcus I post about må & their life & their gfs a huge part of their life #that they’ve actually chosen to share with us!!! #it was never gonna be me so I have no reason to be hateful and jealous #because there’s no competition. I was never in the running!! #I care about må ➡️ I want må to be happy. gfs make må happy ➡️ I like gfs #be a grown up #we celebrate the good things in their lives so where’s the naysayers when it comes to pets or Leo or family? Gio IS Damiano’s family ffs #stop tearing other women down for the sake of a man that was never attainable to you in the first place #they’re cute and in love and its fucking beautiful so get with the program because inherently hating celebrities gfs is 🚩🚩🚩

[gods-favorite-autistic]

I never realized quite how weird it was to have two nice semi suburban neighborhoods (one of which I live in) literally right next to a farm that has cows which is across the street from a church which is next to a middle school until I thought about it for more than two seconds

#that might just be the vibe of Texas though #also it is so easy to be religious and yet I have literally never stepped foot in a church as far as I know #like it’s a 20 minute walk from where I live to the church and yet my family just doesn’t care #also one of my friends lives in the neighborhood next to mine so that’s fun #we’re not even friends because he lives there it’s just we both somehow ended up going to the same magnet program at the same middle school #and I ended up becoming best friends with his best friend and that’s how we met each other #madurday night live #sometimes I forget how Texan I am and then I remember that I literally see cows on my way to school

[katoska]

I'm having some kind of feelings about it being pointed out to us in-story more than once in S3 that Isaac spends the majority of his time working in his lab alone (which Lamarr seems to believe is just perfectly relatable hyperfocus but Claire gets a little worried that it's about the crew not liking him).

Add to that the scene in Tale Of Two Topas in which he expressed worry about Kelly's reputation if the crew assumed that his visit to her rooms means they are romantically/sexually involved (Isaac is no old fuddy-duddy who cares about being a "man" alone with a woman in her chambers. It's the 25th century ffs, he doesn't care about being appropriate, he once made a sex-position survey. This is about Kelly possibly being involved with a Kaylon. Sidenote: whoever said something nasty about Claire in Isaac's hearing, I like to think their synthesizer developed a "mysterious" glitch where there's a little poop in everything).

Add to those the scene later that same episode where he said he didn't do the surgery for Topa's sake. He did it to improve his standing with the crew... to improve their efficiency. Please mind how we never SAW that alleged decrease in efficiency even implicitly, but we've seen people being nice to him in public and people being openly suspicious of him in public, and how do we think those two groups get on, especially if he's in the room? Or the kids of those groups of people (just imagine what the Mom from that teacher-parent meeting would have to say about it)? It's a small ship.

#the orville #he just wants to protect his family and friends #he doesn't care about being universally liked #he never did #he never cared when OTHER ppl's interpersonal issues affected efficiency either #did he ever suggest they get rid of Bortus? no. and Bortus pulled some very efficiency-affecting shit #Isaac has programmed himself to care about a handful of people and he'll do anything to keep them functioning at max #those are the crewmembers he's talking about (mostly the Finns) #he needs to interact with those people that have become a part of his subroutines but he can't be too close while he's unpopular #it's perfectly logical

[sonofsin]

maybe I'm just being a hypochondriac, but I think I might have a deviated septum and that's why breathing through my nose is so fucked. a few weeks ago I stumbled on a screenshot of my most recent dental xray (2018?) and because I've never seen it before, I was looking at it closely and noticed my septum looks? quite off?? and I compared it to images of xrays of deviated septums taken at the same angle. at the very least, it doesn't look like the "normal" septum. idk what I'd do with this information or if it's even something I could get fixed. it's not like I have a family doctor.

#there are literally none taking new patients in this city lol #like literally zero. there's a program meant to match people with doctors that I reached out to and they told me so #and that if I went to a walk in for the same complaint multiple times I'd be waitlisted to have a family doctor assigned #if anyone is wondering what the health care crisis is like in manitoba #I have no way to get to a walk in on my own and as someone with shit lungs it's not the safest place to be during a new covid wave anyways #I have so many health issues and symptoms that I have no way of getting help for and no way in the near future and that kind of scares me #but such is life with hEDS.

[ofhouseadama]

every time someone RSVPs yes to our wedding I genuinely almost cry because after my parents told me they weren't coming I got so anxious no one would come because like. if my parents didn't want to make the effort, why would anyone else?

#this is irrational because i know my ''friends'' are my family #and care far more about me and my life than my parents #but still #the programming remains #the long slow march out of enmeshment and incest