your-online-big-sister-lily

[your-online-big-sister-lily]

Nothing, and I mean NOTHING hurts more than sitting on your bedroom floor staring at your phone and seeing a text from someone you care about where they just seem so broken that you don’t know how to respond. It tears your heart apart. 

#pain #emotional pain #depression #anxiety #self hatred #emotions #crying

[your-online-big-sister-lily]

Hey you guys, I'm back, I know it's been a while, but... SHIT. WENT. DOWN. in my life, so, yeah.

I'll be more active now, and I also wanted to let you know that I give advice on situations, including relationships, coming out, discovering your sexuality, school, friends and more! Leave me an ask!

#online therapy #big sister #online big sister #your online big sister lily #asks #advice

[your-online-big-sister-lily]

I keep seeing a lot of transphobia online lately and it's really starting to affect my mental health irl. I've tried distancing myself from tumblr but it's the only connection to other trans people. Any advice?

First of all. You are so valid in your gender identity. If some stranger on the internet wants to hate on you for it, fuck them.

I'm not trans, but I am bi, so I might know some things to help you feel valid in your queer identity. Here are some things that help me.

1. Find a book with a character that is like you

2. Follow creators that are like you

3. Buy a flag. It helps more than you think

Just remind yourself that they are just haters. They are stuck in 1920 and their hate has NOTHING to do with you and nothing to do with actual trans people, it has everything to do with the fact that they just want a reason to justify hating on people, and they are too stubborn to realize they are wrong.

Hope this helped.

-Lily

[your-online-big-sister-lily]

Please don’t end it all. I know how much it hurts and how hard it is, but don’t leave. If for nothing else, stay out of spite. As a big fuck you to the world. Fuck you, I’m still here. 

#sh #self harm #suicide

[your-online-big-sister-lily]

Hi guys! 

As someone with intense hyperfixations, I know how much you need to talk to someone about them. 

How sometimes you just need to rant. 

So send me this code: 777 

Or just start ranting! I’ll even try to do some research so that I can talk about it with you. Message me anytime! I’m happy to listen! 

#hyperfixations #adhd #add

[your-online-big-sister-lily]

Safe Space

This account is a safe space. 

For queer people. For kids. For POC. For minorities. For disabled people. For everyone. 

Unless you are going to hate on someone for who they are. Then you can get out. 

[your-online-big-sister-lily]

Hey guys. I just wanted to say something.

As you guys may know, I identify as bisexual. All of my friends are supportive, and I surround myself with people who accept and love me for who I am.

So a lot of the time, I forget that a lot of the world is not so accepting. Gay marriage was legalized in the entire US only six years ago. Six.

It’s so hard to know that people hate you for who you are.

If anyone needs literally anything, I’m here. I’m here to be your online queer big sister. Need advice? Encouragement? Someone to rant to? Reach out.

Here are some codes to message me with if you need something.

000- I need someone to rant to

111- I want to try out some new pronouns, can you introduce me with them?

222- I need someone to rant to

333- I need advice

444-  I need to find a way to come out to someone

555- I need encouragement

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Of course these aren’t the only things that I’ll talk to you about. Tell me anything.

#queer #lgbtqaip+ #gay #bi #pan #ace #arom #trans #questioning #lesbian #omni #gender queer #non binary #demi #demi girl #demi boy #safe space #pride #gay pride #queer pride #bisexual #pansexual #omnisexual

[your-online-big-sister-lily]

Please reach out

I know that a lot of people feel lost and alone, so I made this. 

To anyone who is going through something, I’m here. Just message me about anything. Advice, encouragements, rants, what happened in your day, everything. 

I’m your online big sis/therapist. I’m here to help. 

Message me, ask an (anonymous) question, comment on one of my posts, however you feel comfortable. 

#self help #anxiety #depression #self harm #online big sister #therpist #therapy #advice #rants