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ohara-n-brown · 5 months

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Saying 'You're not lazy if you want to do the thing. Choosing not to do it because you don't want to it's laziness-'

Still throws Autistic people with Pathological Demand Avoidance under the bus

Executive Dysfunction is not the end all be all and you are not better than others for 'wanting to do' the thing but being unable to.

There are many autistic people that find themselves unable to do something once their minds has decided that it's being forced to do an action.

Saying that if you don't want to do your homework or the chores or the laundry - then you are lazy - DOESN'T HELP

It's not that I want to shower but I can't get up. It's that I DON'T want to shower because I feel like I HAVE to or else I'll be ridiculed for not doing it.

It's something that helps me, but knowing I HAVE to do it today, and tomorrow, and the day after that, on end with no choice of my own - makes me genuinely want to avoid the act.

'if you were lazy you would be having fun' - that implies that if we ignore a challenging task we don't want to do in order to do something self soothing and fruitful we are lazy.

That it's a moral failing instead of a sign the person needs help starting, or motivating themselves, or understanding the task.

Of course if something is hard, or confusing, and time consuming - someone won't want to do it. ESPECIALLY if they're disabled.

Calling them lazy for that isn't okay. You're just throwing other disabled people under the bus.

You and your executive dysfunction are no better just because you 'want' to do the laundry but can't.

Or that you're not lazy but we are because you really really wish you could wash the dishes meanwhile I really really wish I could throw myself down a hole rather than complying with a forceful demand - no matter how small. Including someone asking me to wash the dishes.

We still have do those things just like people without PDA.

The only difference is we're still called lazy at every turn despite the fact that every demand feels like being held at gunpoint with no choice.

Just because you want to something doesn't make you 'not lazy'.

Laziness DOESN'T EXIST.

If you have PDA, and find it hard to do ANYTHING you don't want to do - I love you. You are not lazy. You're trying your best. Keep going.

CAN WE STOP WITH THE LAZY STUFF NOW

#it's so disheartening to this everywhere #you're only lazy if-#neurodivergent #actually autistic #audhd #autism #bpd #neurodivergency #neurodiversity #actually adhd #actually audhd #actually autism #gosh #pathological demand avoidance #autistic #disability #neurodivergence #neurodiverse

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mary-kasexual · 1 month

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what if she was fucked up and evil actually

#total drama #td jasmine #pahkitew reverse au #my art #her whole thing is that shes really lazy and antisocial. she only really contributes whenever she absolutely has to & its always begrudging #also shes one of THOSE gamers. she'd 100% quote the “you're not a real gamer” copypasta word for word she is awful <3 #part of an antag alliance w sammy (who i plan on making a ref for later on along with amy) and frequently causes problems on purpose #love jasmine btw i need to post about her more because shes Awesomesauce™

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strayklds · 6 months

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MY FAVORITE LEE KNOW & HAN MOMENTS

requested by anonymous ♡

#lee know #linosource #han jisung #forhanji #bystay #stray kids #createskz #mygifs #*requests #adriblr #meltracks #userwilliam #usersa #2/3 of paboracha and not a single braincell in sight. i love them so much #if you're wondering why there's only clips from 4 videos in this comp... its cause i got really lazy ^^#bias

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blakbonnet · 2 months

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Fic Recs For Getting Over Writers' Block:

To me, the only way to get over the writing horrors™️ is to read some good fucking prose. Even if the summary of these fics doesn't appeal to you, I'd suggest reading them purely for their tactile prose that somehow gets the brain working again.

General Block Breakers:

Magpie by yellowmustard

Skirts and Barbells by @petrichorca

Malleability by jazzxdaffy

The Nest That Hope Builds by @red-sky-in-mourning

Grounded by @forpiratereasons

So Long Seabird by @adamarks

Find Your Stede Voice:

Adventures of a Leggy Blonde by @palavapeite

Find Your Ed Voice:

You Belong in that Home by and by by @alchemistc

Stealing Romance by skrifores

#actually this list is mostly for myself ngl #ofmd #our flag means death #ofmd fic rec #maybe I should add this to my master rec list but also I'm lazy today #meow speaks #I'd also recommend making a list like this for yourself :)) especially if you're writing a longer fic #I have very few under ofmd because for fics I kinda only hangout in the sandman and hobbit side of ao3 #there's only one for Stede cause it's foolproof to me

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blondeaxolotl · 2 months

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Swap au except only two characters are swapped, can you guess who and who

Can't forget the bonus doodles:

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44ratsinatrenchcoat · 3 months

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I'm just saying, yes, Jeeves is technically a valet, not a butler, but he is also a butler, and a housekeeper, and a server, and a footman, and a scullery maid, and a cook, and a hallboy, and a

#i'm just saying when youre the only servant you're kinda all the servants #i know a remarkably lot about edwardian and victorian servants #and before you start with “it's not edwardian its not victorian” i know that i'm just too lazy to look up what it actually is #jeeves and wooster #reginald jeeves #funny #servants #woot

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synamins-sso · 11 months

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marley watching the 52nd player of the day jump off the cliff into the barrel racing arena

#sso #ssoblr #poor marley #like the dude is just tryna vibe #but mc is just too lazy to ride around and go in the proper way #like imagine you're one of the summers #and it's your dad's fuckin “memorial”#and then you just see some little fucker jumping off a cliff #only to run right thru you and the memorial

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mildmayfoxe · 3 days

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soooo important to shred up a chicken thigh and toss it in yogurt dressing (greek yogurt olive oil salt black pepper lemon juice garlic paprika cumin thyme oregano sesame seeds) and warm up a naan (or pita i only had naan) and pile a bunch of lettuce on there and then the chicken and then red onion and cucumber and fresh parsley and dill. and then eat it

#ANOTHER GREAT DAY TO BE A BEAUTIFUL GENIUS!!!#i've been thinking about this for days but only finally made myself make it. last day to eat the chicken #it was soooo good but i wish i'd put more onion on but i was lazy and only cut a tiny bit #food tag #photo record #chatpost #i wanna eat that wrap another six times. too bad i only had one chicken and one naan #coulda put tomatoes on there too but it was hard enough to hold as is #it was a spinach garlic naan btw if you're curious

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jellytamalies · 6 months

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(second) First Impressions

Jim unexpectedly bumps into a familier face and spock gets to contimplate if he actually terrifies cadets That Much

@cosmi-ccraft

Enterprise is safe to fly another day. All thanks to Captain James T. Kirk's sacrifice. He's made peace with his death, even though it breaks his heart one final time to see the hurt in Spock's eyes. Still, the last thing he gets to see is the face of one of his dearest friends... until his eyes snap back open. Not in a hospital. In a shuttle as it lands at the Academy. “Once you exit the shuttle you are free to return to your dorms. Those of you who are new, you’ll follow me to registration and physicals,” a vaguely familiar-looking officer says, and Jim’s heart stops in his chest. Surprising, considering it shouldn’t be beating at all.

(scene taken from chapter 2)

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy I made another one

:)

pt 1/?

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radioves · 2 years

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its quite shrimple actually

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blackbackedjackal · 9 months

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i have a cousin with a chihuahua and a maltipoo and they have given up on potty training them because "these two will just piss and shit everywhere anyways" and i'm just liike???? ok sure, maybe they'll never be able to reliably hold their bladders for as long as a big dog (small dog = fast metabolism= drinking water leads to needing to pee very quickly) but at least potty pad train them for the sake of ur house's sanitation??? cutting down indoor potty accidents by half is still something, even if it's not perfect!

EXACTLY omg. Like Blue has had pleanty of accidents already but about half of those have been mitigated by having a pee pad. Cause yeah, both pubby and small dogs need to be on a good pee schedule to prevent accidents. It's better to be preemptive and have pads plus a usual walk/potty time. They won't "piss and shit everywhere" if you literally just take them outside regularly. Sounds like an owner issue and not a dog issue :/

#and if you're too lazy to take a dog out consistently either have a designated space in your home or DON'T GET A DOG JFC #like I got lucky with Lobo and he could hold his bladder really well #only had a handfull of accidents because I let him out around the same time everyday #people who want dogs should volunteer at shelters tbh #like you better get used to cleaning up piss and shit cause at some point you will #ask

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blushft · 3 months

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we should hunt them for sport

#some of these are old but that is OK!!!#ive also posted most of these before and that is ALSO OK!!!#look its. the guys.#^_^#buttermind #<- only tag you're getting. im lazy!#ianriley #some of these are also wips .. do not mind them!#ok good bye.!

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downtherabbitholewithlucy · 11 months

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Fred looking Sweet in S O U R

#3$BY era Fred was a fucking fine specimen #I'm a fan of that gritty-low-key-aura that surrounded him before the more “polished” SO and CSATHFW looks (but I still love those looks)#and on another note: look as much as adore young Marshall Mathers (yes I love referring to him by his government name) and his platinum hai #Freddy's platinum blonde hair looked just as beautiful but didn't get as much a spotlight compared to the Detroit rapper #and it's a shame because Fred rocked the look very well and this is my way of showing his bleached hair some much needed love and attention #Okay some of you may know that Sour is my fave 3$BY song/music video.#Making this gifset made me realize another reason why I love it so much. All the guys just look so fucking good in this video.#visually I've always found this video pleasing and the way the guys were filmed complimented them very well.#Fun Fact about my silly blog: Fred was the only LB member that I hadn't made a SOUR gifset about up until this point.#Congrats Freddy! You helped closed out my SOUR gifset series.#I'm too lazy to link all my other SOUR gifsets on this post. Just look through my blog's archive if you're really curious I guess.#Fred Durst #Limp Bizkit #nu-metal #Freddy D #The Chocolate Starfish is My Man Fred Durst #On my Freddy D bullshit for Fred Durst Friday #down the rabbit hole

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da-proti-toku-grem · 2 months

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why can't anyone understand that everyone is different and not everyone likes the same things and that it's completely okay AND normal for someone not to like going out and preferring to stay at home :/

#honestly i understand that my parents care about me and they don't want me to be feeling bad #and that they ask me bc they just want to make sure i'm okay #but i've explained to them what i feel like and they just don't get and i get mad but i akso know it's not their fault and just... oughhhhh #like yeah i have a weird kind of social anxiety according to my therapist and even she doesn't know exactly how to help me yet #but there are just so many reasons behind why i don't like going out and it's not just bc it gives me anxiety #or why those situations give me anxiety in the forst place #1. i'm just a very introverted person that doesn't like going out #2. crowded places/closed spaces/places where there's not enough ventilation/loud places (be it people talking or just music) overwhelme me #3. all said in 2 + flashing lights give me huge migraines that can linger for over 3 days #4. i am very much a night owl and i'm forced to live in a society where that isn't fucking acceptable apparently and i'm called lazy for -#- not being productive in the morning when the only reason behind it is that i am a lot more productive at night #but no one ket's me do that bc 'why are you doing stuff when you're supposed to be asleep?'#i have been the same since i was little. literally nothing has changed #and people where always like 'oh she's just shy'#but idk wtf changed #maybe it was that i became and 'adult' or maybe the fact that i started therapy and they told my parents that i have social anxiety. idk #but suddenly every single person in my family is worried about it and they're genuinely making me feel like there's smth wrong about me #i mean. i have my problems i'm not gonna go telling you that i'm perfect bc i'm pretty much not #but is there really smth that wrong with me that i need to fix #or is society just a bitch that doesn't understand that there's different kinds of people and everyone is different & IT'S COMPLETELY OKAY #have they ever thought about the fact that maybe these situations cause me anxiety bc i've been forced all my life to do them #even if i don't like them #instead of thinking that i don't like them BC they cause me anxiety??#i mean. i know i have to go out more and that there's tons of things i can do ofc #but you can't just force me to do things i don't want to and put on a good face while doing it *every.fucking.day*#aaaaand i could add a lot more things but i'm once again reaching the tag limit so i shoukd just shut up #it's just driving me crazy bc i know they're trying to help but it really is not helping at all.............#ranting

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sunshinedaysforever · 26 days

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you know what, it was on me for expecting anything different from mr russell t 'all the information i ever need about anything happening in the world i get from the front page (and *only* the front page) of the guardian' davies but. the nuclear winter caused by *checks watch* No Piano really. really broke me.

#i know i know it's just a silly sci fi it doesn't have to make sense!!#but I think there's a difference between like #hand waving fun #and genuinely lazy writing #if you're going to be so self righteous and congratulatory about your work #you better actually DO THE WORK #that was just so....boring #dismally unintellectual #dr who at its best always manages to hit the right balance between fun for kids and actually being a bit clever #this was so flat and uninterested in saying anything beyond the obvious #AUGH anyway thats my untagged rant of the week sorry if you genuinely liked it by all means keep on doing that #i'm just mildly devastated at the idea that the show is somehow both engaging with wild and whacky EU stuff #while at the same time just regurgitating 2005s lamest plot beats #absolute nightmare of a situation #ncuti gatwa is the only saving grace of any of it and man's HOLDING THE WEIGHT OF THE WORLD AS FAR AS I'M CONCERNED #but he's too busy being drowned out by twee violins and the sound of 75 million trumpets to have a chance in hell. absolutely devastating.

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front-facing-pokemon · 11 months

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#anorith #the eyes on this model were fucked up because it's got the same transparency thing going on as flygon #and i still don't really know how to fix that so. you're just dealing with a Very close-up shot where you can't see their eyes. i've got it #easy on this one considering how far off to the side their eyes are. don't have to deal with trying and failing to fix them cuz #i can just make you unable to see them. epic win?#anorithhhh rock/bug-type i think. evolves into armaldo everyone's belovèd. it's pretty cute aaaannnnddd #it is definitely a pokémon. wow!#i think it learns some water-type moves and since armaldo is blue i obviously thought they were water-types as a kid #cuz their dex entries say shit like. they can swim!!! wow!!!! which means. water-type moves. or maybe Only one and that's just all i rememb #ered them using. or something. probably just surf #dunno i'm too lazy to check though

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