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"Let me gloss over the threat of male on female violence that's not important,the real threat is anti-trans rhetoric that is getting women potentially harmed and that proves that you are not actually protecting them by keeping women's safe spaces single-sex,and-" 😵💫
Uhhh I fail to see the connection here,can someone help me out...
I'm going to preface this by saying that I have really complex feelings about this, and much of it is inspired by my personal experiences and a bit of learning about what other trans people experience. If I come across as messy, it is because of these reasons.
There's this unshakable feeling I have that when allies and even other trans people talk about trans people, transition and motivation for transition, and anything related to such, that there's only certain things that x type of trans person can (and should) experience and talk about.
Like, when people talk about FtMs/trans men/transmasc people, a common idea is that we're motivated to transition to game the system, to manipulate people into treating us better because we're now seen as men. A huge reason I never even bought into that idea is because, since transition (especially medical), I have been treated worse than I ever have been. Since transitioning and being on testosterone, I've been catcalled, had people insist I hand my number over, and I have to emphasize that I've never experienced these things until a couple of years ago (to clarify, this was in my real, corporeal life). I honestly can say that, while transition has saved my life and soul, I am treated worse by others than I ever had been pre-transition. However, because the idea of transmascs is that "they were victims of misogyny and they only want to escape it through transition" is popular even among some trans people, I feel like it's almost... taking something away by acknowledging that. Add to this that I'm white and that TPoC have so many experiences that intertwine with race, and that race absolutely goes into how trans people are treated.
I am not saying that my experience is the only valid or true one. I am very aware that I'm probably an outlier. However, I just notice that, time and time again, people hear what they want to hear about transness, and if people have even slightly different points of view from their experiences, it doesn't matter, or worse, those people are duplicitous and conniving.
I wanna post stuff that helps me to regress to this blog. I have been regressed and just used one of these to fall asleep to in the past. I'm going to be linking from chronological age regression - youngest up the top, oldest scroll further down.
I also know that YouTube is something of a sinking ship at this point but from MY experiences, linkage makes these watchable so if you ARE having problems, just watch them through your Tumblr dash.
One FINAL note, I don't want to put words into the mouths of any such creator. Sometimes its deliberate enough and I wonder how they could possibly be anti-agere but I don't hold these people to that standard all the time. Especially as agere sometimes IS misunderstood.
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Anyone want Teacher ASMR?
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From here on out, only one video is in a caregiver role and the first "friend" one I've got here is kinda stretching it but I HAVE regressed listening to that video before and I wanted one "friend one" for the younger side.
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I have/had more but there's a 10 video limit on Tumblr and I felt like a few of them were "the same thing repeated" and I wanna make it different. (I also like going to the same creators, can you tell?)
So...enjoy.
Hi just some notes from the safe space for trans kids :)
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I think another aspect of conservative thought people need to understand is the idea that it's all about dominance.
The reason why sayings like "we don't want to trans your kids, we want trans kids to live" is because, in the conservative mind, you are replacing their dominance with your own. It can never be about what is best for others, it is always about expressing absolute power and control.
Natural selection, at its ideal, will weed out the people who "shouldn't live." If their existence is a threat to the already-established hierarchy, then it's obvious that they shouldn't exist in order to challenge hierarchy.
While this certainly isn't a "conservative-only" mindset, it's a trend I have noticed more in conservative spaces. This is why I don't always think it's helpful to go on about how, "Oh, we don't want to threaten your worldview. We just want people to live 😊". You will fundamentally be threatening their power in their minds. Therefore, nothing you say can truly take away from the anxiety, fear, and anger at losing control that may be instilled.
We know the holidays aren't always the most wonderful time of the year for everyone.
Maybe your family isn't close or accepting, or maybe you wish you were spending more time with other LGBTQ+ people like you.
We got you - come spend a couple hours with us and queer chosen family!
Perfectly Queer hosts Tayler and Ever will chat with our It Gets Better Ambassadors about chosen family and queer joy; we'll (try to) make gingerbread houses with some of our amazing Youth Voices; we'll watch a little gift unboxing from some of our longtime partners; and most of all, we'll just create a little cozy queer space for you to share.
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You know, I was skeptical about Shinigami Eyes, because a community-ran and managed addon could easily end up marking absolutely innocuous jokes as transphobia simply by virtue of so many of us not understanding the joke correctly (hi, it's me, the dumbass who often misunderstands things to mean their worst possible interpretations because of a long time of gaslighting about how my friend group bullying me was actually just them being nice), but you know what?
Every fucking time I see a username on this hellsite show up in red, I click thru it and within 10 posts minimum I find the vilest fucking terf shit.