Sleepover Night Ideas for Middles
Can be done with a friend, with plushies, or totally solo!
Blast some nostalgic music and have a dance party
Wear your cutest and comfiest pajamas
Watch a big kid/tween movie
Make s’mores on the stove or in the microwave (be careful! They’re hot! You might need supervision)
Eat pizza, mac and cheese, or another nostalgic food for dinner
Do face masks, paint your nails fun colors, or have a makeover session
Decorate cookies or cupcakes and eat them
Build a blanket fort and hide out in it
Play video games (I like Minecraft a lot)
Do a craft while sitting on the floor, like making bracelets or collages
Set up your plushies so that they’re doing the activities with you. Make sure you tuck them in before bed!
Have fun and sleep tight! 💖🌙🧸
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Social-Emotional Checklist for Age Regressors
This checklist can help you figure out a specific age that you, an OC, or your little one regress to, based on how they communicate, express emotions, interact with their caregivers, and socialize with other littles.
To complete it, highlight or check off any of the descriptions that apply to you or your little one. If you highlight ALL or the vast majority of the traits in one category, then your little is OLDER than that and is past that phase. If you highlight about HALF of the descriptions, then that is exactly where your little one is at when regressed. If nothing in that category applies to your little one, they are younger than that given age. Some littles may have a mix of multiple developmental ages, especially if they're neurodivergent, and that's okay!
I'm gonna do this for my age-regressing OC Rhea, and feel free to copy/paste this wherever you'd like, or just use it for your own reference! [original source]
You'll see that for Rhea, I could check off almost everything in the infant category. She has her favorite caregiver, she's anxious around strangers, and she's aware of other people's emotions and tries to respond!
Once I got to the toddler category however, things got a little more shaky. She throws tantrums and has some complexity to her emotions, however she's not playing with peers at all and doesn't care for pretend play. Once I reached the gradeschool level, nothing really applied to her so I stopped there.
This tells me that Rhea is about 2 years old, although this can shift a bit because age regression has its own natural ebbs and flows. Try it out with yourself or your little one, and see if it helps you understand them or help them out a little bit better!
Infants and babies
By 2 months
• Cry to get needs met ✅️
• Occasionally self-soothe by sucking on hands and fingers ✅️
• Start to smile and look directly at you ✅️
By 4 months
• Cry in different ways to show hunger, pain, or being tired ✅️
• Smile in response to caregiver’s smile ✅️
• Play with toys by shaking them✅️
By 6 months
• Are more aware of which people are familiar and which are strangers ✅️
• Can respond to other people’s emotions by crying, smiling, or laughing✅️
• Enjoy looking at themselves in the mirror❌️
By 9 months
• Start to show stranger anxiety✅️
• May cry when familiar faces aren’t around✅️
• Start to prefer some toys over others✅️
By 12 months
• Play favorites with familiar people✅️
• Are more interactive (like handing over a toy or a book, or making a specific noise to get a caregiver’s attention)✅️
• Enjoy simple interactive games, like patty-cake and peekaboo❌️
Toddlers and preschoolers
Ages 18 months–2 years
• Have more temper tantrums and become more defiant as they try to communicate and be independent✅️
• Start simple pretend play, like imitating what adults or other kids are doing❌️
• Become interested in having other kids around, but are more likely to play alongside them (parallel play) than with them (cooperative play)❌️
Ages 3–4 years
• Start to show and verbalize a wider range of emotion ✅️
• Are interested in pretend play, but may confuse real and “make believe”❌️
• Are spontaneously kind and caring❌️
• Start playing with other kids and separate from caregivers more easily❌️
• May still have tantrums because of changes in routine or not getting what they want✅️
Grade-schoolers
Ages 5–6 years
• Enjoy playing with other kids and are more conversational and independent
• Test boundaries but are still eager to please and help out
• Begin to understand what it means to feel embarrassed
Ages 7–8 years
• Are more aware of others’ perceptions
• May complain about friendships and other kids’ reactions
• Want to behave well, but aren’t as attentive to directions
• Try to express feelings with words, but may resort to aggression when upset
Ages 9–10 years
• Share secrets and jokes with friends
• May start to develop own identity by withdrawing from family activities and conversations
• Are affectionate, silly, and curious, but can also be selfish, rude, and argumentative
Middle-schoolers and high-schoolers
Ages 11–15 years
• Start thinking more logically
• Are introspective and moody and need privacy
• Value friends’ and others’ opinions more and more
• May test out new ideas, clothing styles, and mannerisms while figuring out where/how to fit in
Ages 16–18 years
• Strive to be independent and may start emotionally distancing from caregivers
• Start trying to discover strengths and weaknesses, at times seeming self-centered, impulsive, or moody
• Show pride in successes
• Spend a lot of time with friends and may be interested in dating
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Age Regression ASMR
I wanna post stuff that helps me to regress to this blog. I have been regressed and just used one of these to fall asleep to in the past. I'm going to be linking from chronological age regression - youngest up the top, oldest scroll further down.
I also know that YouTube is something of a sinking ship at this point but from MY experiences, linkage makes these watchable so if you ARE having problems, just watch them through your Tumblr dash.
One FINAL note, I don't want to put words into the mouths of any such creator. Sometimes its deliberate enough and I wonder how they could possibly be anti-agere but I don't hold these people to that standard all the time. Especially as agere sometimes IS misunderstood.
Anyone want Teacher ASMR?
From here on out, only one video is in a caregiver role and the first "friend" one I've got here is kinda stretching it but I HAVE regressed listening to that video before and I wanted one "friend one" for the younger side.
I have/had more but there's a 10 video limit on Tumblr and I felt like a few of them were "the same thing repeated" and I wanna make it different. (I also like going to the same creators, can you tell?)
So...enjoy.
SFW Interaction Only!!
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