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charlie-and-mushrooms · 10 months
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How do you decide between two names as a trans person?? I flipped a coin to see if I'd be disappointed or happy from the outcome, cause I saw that somewhere. It was actually a milk bottle cap but whatever. I felt mixture of relief and disappointment both times and I don't know what to do about it
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unamedrubbish · 5 months
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What name would you give me ?
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I've been questioning if Ludovic really fit me, I don't actually know if it feels like me, and since I'm shit with coming up with names, I wanted to know what name (other than Ludovic) people think fit me.
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beans-tour-diary · 27 days
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Day 329
I feel like I want a new name. But maybe I just want to be seen as a new person and not be connected to who I was.
The name I'm going by right now is a nickname for my birth name. Most of my family and my friends have been using it since before I figured out I'm trans. It's also gender neutral and a name that's actually used in scandinavian countries.
Still, it feels like especially my close family doesn't see me as who I am. It seems like they still see me as some kind of girl I never really was. I'm pretty sure this influences my issues with my name a lot.
I have been looking for fitting names a lot, but nothing really feels like me. Even if so many are really pretty! Of course it's also just scary to change something big like this and having to tell people.
Maybe I'll wake up some day and have a solution for all of this.
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gah all your names are so cool asdfghjkl
aaah thank youu!!! it’s so fun, i love hearing them all cuz it’s just so cool and interesting, like- like these are definitely internet names, they’re weird and wonderful and unique and hella queer!! i love themm 🥰🥰
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Bitches be introducing themselves with their new name and having panic attacks about it. It's me I'm bitches
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rotinhellandyou · 11 months
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my name, my current name, is a gender neutral shortening of my birthname. i like it right now. i’m pretty happy with it. so long as people actually use it and treat it like my name, and not just as an optional nickname.
today i heard someone else going by my name
using my name
and i’m usually not one to get hung up on names but this one kinda pissed me off
because it wasn’t just my birthname no
it was my name
just my name
multiple times and only my name
never the long version, only the short one
and it’s not like i feel the name belongs to me
it’s not just mine and i know that
but the fact that someone else was so easily called it
is so easily called it
it and only it with no variation
makes me feel like shit
someone else. a girl. is respected enough for that.
they respect it enough to use a nickname and a nickname only, when it isn’t even that important
they’ll respect a nickname preference that staunchly when it is truly a nickname
but people won’t call me my name
because it is my name
my actual name
not my nickname, my name
it’s my name. and people won’t use it. but they will as a nickname for another girl.
i am not a girl. i am not the girl my birthname suggests.
i am a boy. i am a boy who uses my name.
i don’t say “oh but my friends call me name” during roll call to imply a nickname.
i say “i go by name.” clearly. that’s it. i don’t leave room for interpretation or suggestion. i say what the name i use is.
this random girl gets respected enough for a name preference to be listened to.
but i, someone who am pretty clear that no my name is not a preference, it is in fact my name, am not listened to.
it just feels like they don’t deserve to have my name almost, even though i know that’s bullshit.
i would be so happy if i was called my name that much. i would be so thankful. i would cherish that. and it feels like others are just brushing that off and giving it up.
it feels like others are taking something i would kill and die for as nothing to ever be serious about. and even though i know it’s not directed at or even remotely about me at all, it still hurts a bit. hurts a bit to see someone taking something so important to me for granted.
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non-beanary · 1 year
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How do storms get their names?
Somewhere, someone sits on their porch, they listen to the thunder rumbling in from afar and sit through a period of unpredictable weather, the sky as tumultuous as their soul.
A decision has been made. I feel it in the electric warmth around them.
I know not who they are, nor the length and depth of the journey they have taken for me. But I feel it. Slowly I churn, turning over and over in anticipation, reaching desperately with my winds; a swirling mass of tension.
Then they are there, staring up into my soul, feelings of apprehension, and confusion clash against the certainty in their eyes, I do not know whose feelings are whose.
It is over as swiftly as it came. Their absence fades with a soft smile. I feel it upon me now, within my very being. A name.
Electric. A flash, a jolt as powerful as anything runs through me and I roar with all the power of a name bestowed upon me. I ravage the land, strike with fear and fire. Give life and take it. They will speak of me, mutter my given name.
As I fade, tired and lethargic, I wonder. What journey must they take in order to give a name. The winds have always implied that a name given, is a name carefully constructed, decided and debated till the very moment it departs their soul for mine. But in that moment of connection I felt my turbulence mirrored.
Perhaps the decision was not to gift a creation; but to sacrifice, carve off and cast away an appendage of their past.
I feel the weight of this title, it gives me great strength. I am honoured to take this weight from their shoulders and carry it far, far away.
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that-on3-g1rl · 6 months
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Yo, didya figure out a name for yourself?
Not yet TuT
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nameblr · 1 year
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hi i’m looking for sort of generic masc name ideas that give off the same vibes as aiden or grey with a few strange ones, i’m really stumped on ideas rn i’ve been looking for ages
:0 I SEE! I’LL TRY MY BEST TO LOOK!! fun fact, we used to know a kid who went by those two names you mentioned pFF so seeing them next to each other liek that was.. DANG
- SKYLAR
- SAMUEL (at least austin (alter) thinks that’s a “generic trans guy name” according to one of his notebooks when he was thinking of names pFFF)
- ASHTON
- COBALT
- JAY
- ELLIOT
- REN
- KAYDEN
- ACE
- CHARLIE
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Could yall try out the name Noah and he/they pronouns for me?
i like entomology (the study of insects), hiking, nature, fantasy, playing the cello, poetry, and my friends tell me i'm a hopeless romantic. thanks!!
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charlie-and-mushrooms · 5 months
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Hey so this is really random but I have an idea. So I'm trans and trying to find a name that fits me. And something I think would be nice is if you were able to ask someone the vibe or feeling a name gives off. Like the kind of person they think that name could fit. Obviously this wouldn't be the end all be all of the decision but I think it'd be cool.
Example:
The name Chloe gives off a soft beige and white and also green feeling (I have synesthesia with words and music to colour). It makes me think of a soft fluffy blanket that's like a warm brown. It also reminds me of flowers and trees and foggy fields.
So I was thinking maybe I can do that. It would be slow updates and not reliable cause I'm busy guy but I'd be willing to give it a shot. You can just put it I'm my asks and if you want you can add your pronouns.
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bunnymustdieagain · 2 years
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Question for trans folks, how did you find your name? Because i’m struggling so much and I swear I’ve changed my name at least 3 times in almost the past year. Nothing seems to suit me and i’m sick of having to hear my deadname every two seconds
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j0die101 · 15 days
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(April 12th 2024)
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No medical confirmation or psychological evaluation necessary. The law will be active by the 1st of November this year.
First names can also be changed while changing gender. One all inclusive package with minimum effort.
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beans-tour-diary · 8 months
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a little sidenote
I'm thinking a lot about my name recently. I really want to keep my nickname so I only looked into names that work with it. But I don't feel like I could use 'Arzeus' in my everyday life. It feels a bit like a name I want to keep for myself, not the public.
The name I can't get out of my head is 'Lloyd'. It feels somewhat playful but cool. It just feels like it would fit me. Maybe I could use Lloyd as a first name and Arzeus as a second. My nickname would then be based on my second name.
I don't know. I'm so unsure! Also because people would have to learn a new name and I don't want to cause any inconveniences... Maybe I'll post on a trans subreddit one of these posts like 'What name would you give me?'. Why is this so hard?? Why couldn't my parents just give me a guy name???
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ellie--rambles · 10 days
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itsjesscapade · 4 months
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Poor girl's CPU is being worked so hard...
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