#tough but good ask anon

[celaenaeiln]

I know you don't really talk about Tim and Jason but I wondered why you said that Bruce likes Jason more then Tim when I always viewed it the other way around

og post in reference

Anon it's a such a coincidence for me to get this because this was something I actively debated over while creating the ranking.

In fact, originally I had written "4. Jason/Tim (tie?) 5. Tim/Jason (tie)" before I got rid of the slashes and ties.

This is the one part of the ranking that I'm most confused on/don't have an exact answer for. The rest are solid and those I'll be explaining in a different post soon but these two gave me a lot of confusion.

I think what it comes down to is in which shitty way that Bruce treats either of them expresses more love. And to me they're roughly the same in equally but different bad ways.

Bruce obviously loves Jason but he's also not remotely proud of him. His relationship with Jason is always "I love you BUT-" kinda relationship.

"You're good-

Batman (1940) Issue #415

BUT-"

Batman (1940) Issue #415

"You're loveable-

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BUT-"

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There's always an opposing side to every good thing Bruce says about him. He views Jason as a failure but he still loves him and yet can't help putting him down. After Bruce dies, he leaves a message for Jason -

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Like Bruce full on treats him like absolute shit. How could you as a parent tell your son straight to his face that he's a failure and then say that it's your fault?? Somehow this is adding more insult than injury than to just blame him directly.

Bruce and Jason had good and bad times when he was Robin. There many times when Bruce was like "Good job, lab!" and other times when he struggled to deal with Jason. There was one case in particular that soured their relationship irrevocably. Things became really bad between them after that such that Bruce actively fights with himself not to lose his temper at Jason more than he used to.

For example:

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Things get worse and worse, Batman benches him, Jason runs off to Ethiopia, and then you-know-what happens. In summary of their Robin-Batman relationship, Bruce thought he found a good partner in Jason, was happy for a while, but then started believing he made a mistake when Jason used the skills he taught him to go past the limits of what Bruce was acceptable with. The secret Bruce talks about is that one irreversible case I mentioned - Gloria/Felipe - where Jason killed a man. Or atleast Bruce suspects he killed a man.

Batman (1940) Issue #422

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When Jason came back as Red Hood, Batman felt so guilty for the fact that he made Jason robin because then Jason wouldn't have died but also believed that Jason was beyond saving. When Jason was at the hands of the society because of Black Mask who wanted revenge on him for what he did, Bruce almost let Jason die a second time - this time intentionally - before he changed his mind last minute and joined the fight to help him out.

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It's this type of relationship I struggle with because Bruce very much loves him and even says so -

Batman: Hush Issue #11

But also guess what tips him off that he's not fighting Jason?

Batman: Hush Issue #11

I call this confusing but Dick calls this something else entirely.

Batman: Battle for the Cowl Issue #3

Tough love.

Maybe, but I guess how I would make out their relationship to be is: if Jason acts within Bruce's expectations, then Bruce loves him. If he doesn't then Bruce doesn't hold back hitting and punching. I don't think their relationship is tough love as much as it is conditional love. There are conditions to the way Jason must act in order for Bruce to love him and if he doesn't act that way then he stops caring about his son. He's happy if Jason comes to gatherings but doesn't particularly care if he doesn't. He leaves Jason alone if he follows his rules but actively goes after him if he doesn't. Both in his Robin days and now, Bruce doesn't tolerate Jason if he acts outside expectation but still loves him and although it's not the kind of love you would appreciate, it's also not the kind you can set aside and call it nothing. It's complicated. That's Jason and Bruce's relationship.

Tim on the other hand, he's very proud of. He thinks Tim is excellent, smart, dependable, and loves him very much.

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But I feel like Bruce takes him for granted.

Bruce was both neglectful and very involved in Tim's life.

Bruce means a lot to Tim in the sense that he was a true father to him.

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Tim's dad Jack gets really worried that Tim might consider Bruce more of a father than him. "Maybe - But I'm your father, Tim. Not him!"

The developing relationship between Bruce and Tim was based originally on need. Bruce needed someone who he could work with and Tim needed someone who could be there for him. As time evolved that need turned into liking which turned into love.

After Jason, Bruce needed someone who listened to him completely. Someone who never questioned him or doubted his orders and Tim was everything Bruce needed and he loved that.

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Bruce invested a LOT of time into Tim's training and he also depends on him heavily but at the same time I feel like he constantly brushes off Tim's words and worries.

Robin (1993) Issue #9

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The classic "I trust you but I know better than you" x 10. And it's this thing that gives me doubts because I get this inexplicable sense of distance in their relationship. Bruce loves, trusts, and cares for him but I feel like there's something missing.

This being said, I realize that there's no clear explanation as to why I feel this way so I'll change the ranking back to "tie" for the two of them like I originally had. Because while Bruce loves Jason, he doesn't tolerate him and while Bruce loves Tim, he kinda disregards him in a way. And between these situations, I can't decide what represents more love or favoritism. I guess a part of me just felt really, REALLY bad for the way Bruce treated Jason. That post kinda shredded my heart so I gave him brownie points on the favoritism ranking list but in hindsight, after all this and writing it all out, I think Bruce loves Tim and Jason equally. It's entirely possible Bruce may actually love Tim more because unlike with Jason, I can't provide evidence of Bruce distancing himself from Tim in loving - only left with more of a sense. So in this case I agree with you, anon. It's very possible.

#jason todd #red hood #robin jason todd #tim drake #red robin #robin tim drake #bruce wayne #batman #dick grayson #nightwing #cl anon asks #cl asks #thanks for the ask! #this is the first time I've been completely unsure on something #tough but good ask anon #my brain has melted. I spent days on this and I'm still not any clearer

[atopvisenyashill]

What if asoiaf characters ended up in the world of Narnia? How would they react to the world, Aslan and Jadis?

Okay caveat i haven’t read narnia in a long time BUT all the magical characters are probably in their ELEMENT here I mean

Arya and Lucy would be besties anyway, so you know Arya is having the time of her life

Narnia is a place filled with magic and romanticism and happy endings (if sometimes with a bit of bitter laced with sweet, as the jump from childhood to adulthood always is) and I think all of that would appeal to Sansa on such a deep, fundamental level. When I tell you Sansa and Arya would have a blast!!!

Jon Snow magical girl who puts his entire arm into his prehistoric dinosaur wolf bestie's mouth for funsies would be hella excited about all the talking animals

BRAN STARK. PLS. NEED I SAY MORE HERE.

I think Robb would have a blast too and not just for magical animal reasons but him and Peter have that same "put upon eldest brother" vibe that I think Robb would thrive at being given the chance to really shine as a brother first and a king second

tbh i think the amount of prophecies might freak Dany and Theon out a bit actually - look me in the eyes and tell me Theon would not be tempted by Jadis the way Edmund is, lmao - but I think under some circumstances they could bounce back and have fun exploring the magic that exists there

I know saying Melisandre would like it here is a wild choice but I think the more fairy tale, straightforward morality would appeal to her a lot. Whether she gets obsessive about the wrong kind of magic is um, a different convo. I did make myself sad thinking about poor little slave Melisandre praying to some sort of divine power to save her and Aslan being the one to answer however so that's fun

Kind of along the same lines, in that Narnia often appeals to children who feel lost due to extreme upheaval, I think Missandei would crawl right through the wardrobe, see the lamppost, and just fall in love with the world around her. She's so smart and inquisitive and brave, I just think she'd be delighted. I think if Missandei and Dany went through together, they'd be alright <3

Actually now that I think about it, if Theon went through with the Starklings, he'd end up okay in the end too.

Kind of obsessed with the idea of little Lannister siblings all crawling through at some point or another. Cersei being unable to access the wardrobe, chalking it all up to a dream after she marries and all her dreams turn to ash. Jaime being unable to cope with having adult memories in the body of a teenager. Tyrion (shout out Peter Dinklage, hah) finding a world where his intelligence and wit is respected and growing increasingly dejected with his real life. Wow I made myself sad now.

DUNK AND EGG IN NARNIA. Egg just crawling through one day and Dunk is like now where The Fuck did this kid go and has to crouch his tall ass through that fucking wardrobe after Egg, and Egg is already running into the woods and playing in the snow and Dunk is grumbling after him. DUNK AND EGG ON A ROAD TRIP IN NARNIA. DUNK MEETING A CENTAUR. EGG BEING DISRESPECTFUL TO THE BEAVERS.

Personally I think it would be really funny if Euron came through and Peter takes one look at him and is like "alright fine give Lucy a weapon" and they unleash her on that blue lipped freak. Lucy with a gun >>>>>> Euron and his godhood magic btw

Also Quent. Poor little frog prince would love Narnia. (also, being like Fantasy Spanish with Caspian is kind of funny imo) (I can't remember if Caspian's country are also Fantasy Spaniards in the books or they just made Ben Barnes do that accent for funsies).

#i'm sorry omg i have like 6 or 7 asks and they're all really good and interesting questions i want to put thought into #but i am DEAD TIRED today so even tough i'm at work in children's idk if i'm getting to them today #i want to give good answers for the good questions!!! #this one was just was fun tho and since i'm sitting in children's i thought it was on brand to think about narnia haha #asks #anons #i should listen to the narnia audiobooks i've never read those on tape #i think narnia is also like Thee only series where i read it as a kid and was satisfied with the ending #bless cs lewis for knowing how to end a fucking series i guess. even wiht the susan stuff. the last battle is a baller ass book. #[mwt and stravaganza do NOT interact i'm so fucking mad]

[driftwooddestiel]

if you had to pick one youtuber to birth the second coming of christ who would it be

#anon i really tried to think of a youtuber to pick but its a really tough question im ngl… someone like markiplier would be very funny #but so would many other youtubers ie dan howell or phil lester or jacksfilms or a random extreme evangelical tradwife youtube vlogger #so i cannot give you a definite answer #but thank you very much for posing such an insightful question youve made my day . legitimately delightful thing to encounter in my inbox #i did also consider some youtubers based off of whether theyd genuinely be good parents to the second coming of christ but i decided that #funniness was a more important metric #asks

[stormyoceans]

https://twitter.com/i/status/1785804003676442750

That hand sliding down his shoulder........///// Good morning to you, Monica, and have a productive day at work!

CRYING SOBBING SHAKING SCREAMING WAILING WEEPING HOWLING SHRIEKING BAWLING BLEATING KEENING YELLING SCREECHING THROWING UP BLOOD

TRULY MY FAVORITE PART OF THIS KISS IT'S THE REVERENCE THE GENTLENESS THE TENDERNESS THE ADORATION THE SLOW SLIDING OF TALAY'S HAND DOWN PUEN'S ARM AND PUEN'S SOFT LOVING HEAD CRADLE AS HE STROKES TALAY'S HAIR WHILE THEY PART FROM THE KISS AND LOOK AT EACH OTHER IN THE MOST ADORING WAY POSSIBLE THE ABSOLUTE EMBODIMENT OF THE QUOTE 'THE BEST THING TO HOLD ONTO IN LIFE IS EACH OTHER' RIGHT BEFORE THE UNIVERSE RIPS THEM APART

I SIMPLY CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH HOW LOOKING AT THIS MAKES ME FEEL LIKE IM DYING OF ACUTE OXYGEN DEPRIVATION

#NOT TO SOUND LIKE A BROKEN RECORD BUT. INVENTED ROMANTICISM PARALLELISM SOULMATISM TRUE LOVISM #also it's way too late in the day for this but still. good morning to you too anon!!!!!!! #had a very tough day at work but having this to look at made me feel so much better #(if on the verge of a mental breakdown in the middle of the office) #so thank you so much for sending me this!!!!!!!! #hope you had a wonderful day!!!!!!! 💜💜💜 #vice versa #puentalay #m: ask

[psychelis-new]

Thanks Anon for being so adamant in getting answers from me, but I have to give you an F: study again and come prepared next time! :)

#. #about personal readings #for those of you wondering: this is exactly why i don't accept anons #some of you just send hundreds of asks and don't care if a reader may not answer others cause they are just draining them #you're too greedy guys and thats not good #but karma has its ways to work #a bit too tough to imagine that 3 people didnt read my rules and sent in 4 minutes their 3 (overall similar) asks yk #kudos for having tried anyway!

[roselise]

Halloween decorating with you sounds like an amazing time 🥰

My friend . .

This was *so* kind ~ !! 🎃 ･ﾟ⊹ ♡

Thank you very much, cause this just made me smile c:

I bet decorating with *you* would be fun, too, though! You seem so nice after all, and I’m sure we’d have a good time ♡

Currently I’m just decorating with my pups & making a mess I think . . but it’s been fun !!

(I am actually decorating some halloween cupcakes! I might have been too ambitious in this project, but I’m pleased with how it’s turning out hehe)

How about yourself? How has your day or evening been ?? Has it been fun or are you doing anything exciting ??? ♡ ♡

Sending many warm hugs & happy thoughts your way! I truly hope your weekend is a wonderful one, and that you take care, sweet anon ~ !! XO 💛 ･ﾟ⊹ ♡ ･ﾟ✧ 🎃 🌼

#<3 #ask #i probably shouldn’t have attempted making pizza & cupcakes tonight XD #but it’s very me to be making a mess this late at night #and also to be overtly ambitious hehe c: #how are you doing sweet anon ? c: #are you okay ?? #has it been a good week ?? #if it has i’m cheering for you but if it was tough here’s a big hug !! #please take care of yourself ok ?? #be kind to yourself too please c: #sending warm thoughts & much happiness !! #i wish you all the best ! :D #xo ! <3 #💛 ･ﾟ⊹ ♡ ･ﾟ✧ 🎃

[bigfootsmom]

lol why didn’t you answer my ask with my top tier fic idea for buck’s stuck cock ring?

Hi anon, I was actually waiting until I had enough time to respond to it properly since I'm busy with life stuff. I get that it sucks when you send an ask and it doesn’t get answered, and I'm sorry for that. But I don't appreciate the tone you took in this ask and the way it made it seem like you feel obligated to my time. Whether or not that tone was intentionally there, I'm not going to answer your original ask anymore. If you want people to see your idea, I think you should go ahead and post it yourself. You don’t need to wait for someone else to post it for you.

#molly got mail #i'm really not trying to point fingers anon but this ask really didn't feel great to see after a tough week #and i'm also being 100% genuine when i say if you like your idea you should post it yourself #for future reference if I don't answer an ask it's most likely because i'm busy with life or i'm trying to think of a good response #regardless i don't really need to give reasoning behind what i do and what i don't post on my personal blog #anonymous

[birdie-ghost]

I hope this doesn’t sound weird, but reading your tags in your post about being sick made me happy and proud that your dad is getting better at being a dad, idk the story behind it but im really happy that he’s putting forth effort to improving 🥺❤️

I'm not gonna traumadump on my main lol, I got a good therapist for that. But yeah! He's improved a lot. I still have a lot of repairing and like, growth in terms of our relationship and dynamics and such, but it's looking up. This past year has been really tough but I'm really grateful that I've been able to make those steps with my dad. I've not always had a great relationship with him.

#mhmm #birdieghostalks #ask #answer #anon #its been about a year sense the devorce started and im really happy for my dad #my parents needed to be devorced a while ago #and this has been really good for him #tough on him but good #he got his drinking under control and everything #my situation is finnally starting to look better #it's a relief

[kedreeva]

do you think eddie would still be a good, lovable person if he sold opioid pills? the pills in his stash are most probably benzodiazepines. they're harder than ket and they cause addiction if taken regularly and i love him so much but i'm worried it would mean he would let his loved ones take it, too. do you think he would?

Not to get tetchy on main but my dude, it's called a headcanon for a reason. Stuff like this is the canon of your head. I don't know shit about fuck when it comes to drugs, drug dealing, or drug using, because I just... Don't care about them. They're not in my wheelhouse. I rarely even drink alcohol, like maybe 2x a year.

My opinions on Eddie's behaviors are limited to 2 things: a) what I can easily extrapolate about narrative and plot from what I see on screen and b) what I care about thinking about. I have less than zero interest in drugs, or what Eddie does with them, and I'm not here to soothe someone else's issues with drugs. If you want to think he'd do the thing, then headcanon it. If you don't like the thought that he'd do the thing, then don't headcanon it. That's the great thing about them not telling us anything, you can just make up whatever you want.

And in the end, I'm not his creator, as unfortunate as that is. I'm just some dude on the internet looking at narrative devices and patterns for blorbos from my shows. And the narrative only needed the drugs to get Chrissy to his trailer and throw shade on him to the community. Everything else is not my business.

#asks #Anon asks #I'm absolutely positive you can come up with better things to wonder #about this character #the pharmacology class i had to take almost cost me my degree #because i Do Not Care #but also yes i would still consider him good and loveable??? #he's a dumb kid in a tough situation #he's a rat in the experiment caging #put him in Rat Park #put them all in rat park geezus #stranger things #Eddie Munson #also i will not be answering any more questions about Eddie and drugs #not my cup of tea

[singsweetmelodies]

Heyyy… how are you? Didn’t see you for a few days and ngl i was a bit worried 😬… and then i read the sequel to the tiara fic by Sol, and there i read about Lady Katie being buried in her studies😂😂 so I thought ‘oh it’s been a while i should pop in and say hi’… so yeah.. how is your doctorate going? And how’s life? Hope you are taking care of yourself.

xo

T❣️

PS: UK is so fucking cold.. my tropical ass wasn’t built for this shit

heyyy love! honestly, when i first saw this ask, i was planning to answer it with a bit about how i've not been very well this week, and it's been a bit rough 🙈 but OH. MY. GOSH. after this quali!!! i am doing absolutely BRILLIANTLY, omg, i still can't stop grinning!! CHEF'S FREAKING KISSSSSSS, i love everything about this <3333 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️

#asks & answers #anon #T anon ❣️ #is my happiness really this dependent on charles leclerc? YES #everything else can go fuck itself; my baby is on poleeeee #xD #in all seriousness though: it *has* been a bit of a tough week; and this was jus the BEST pick-me-up #gosh i am SO HAPPYYYYY #🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️ #oh and also! best of luck with our rotten UK weather love #it really is shit 🥲 #still though!! let the charles leclerc good news warm you up tonight 🥰🥰 #(sorry i'm irrepressible lmaooo) #(ily!! ❣️) #OH AND P.S. - shoutout to that tiara fic chapter by sol which is honestly still one of my favourite things ever #ICONIC 🤴

[fastbreakpoints]

Favorite memory from the past year 🗓️😊

watching a pretty sunset w my gf :)

#again tough q!!! lots of good memories w her to choose from :) #anon #ask

[vinnybox]

Hi, love you art!!

I've just recently started back on Tumblr and I was wondering if you had any tips on getting stuff noticed? I've been uploading pretty regularly and tagging a lot but have been having no luck :')

Thank you!!

Hello!! Thank u sm!!! >v< welcome back to Tumbloo

Tumblr can be tricky since as far as I'm aware, the only way your stuff will get seen is either they are found through search tags or reblogs, so I'm honestly stumped on this too. Though these are stuff I've done that has helped me a bit I think <:D

Interact with other posts (Reblog and adding your own addition to the post)

Reblog your own art at different time of the day to bump it for different timezones

Search for best posting time (Find data when most users are active. I had to post early in the AMs sometimes cause of my timezone)

Engage in fandom art, posts, or activities with other users! (If that's your interest! Don't force yourself! Have fun with it!) This one helped a ton and I'm grateful for people who share similar interests when I have my brainrot phase! <3

Meme redraw or some funnee (Trust me, memes and fandoms are a great way to bond with people. Looking at my oomfies <3)

Tag your posts (Prioritize the first 5 tags since those are the ones most likely to be picked up in search or smth, I dont remember, but get the broad/most likely to be searched terms first then you can tag other stuff in.)

In the end tho, I feel like these days I just post whatever I wanna, reblog my own stuff on occasions and hope people like them enough to reblog or share it around too.

Its hard getting stuff noticed, so be sure to do the same for others too by sharing/engaging with it. 🫶Hope this makes sense SJDSD

#ask #ask vinny #anon #I started out with a few OC stuff but what really got me forward was fandom brain rot #I wanted to make stuff I enjoy and that others can also enjoy #Plus knowing there's people who share similar interests is hella nice no matter if its fandom related or not #Just try and have fun while we're here ya kno #its gonna be tough but eventually we find our own footing #I don't really have any good advice I think and im rambling SSDHSGDH #Feel free to add your own take or tips if anyone has it! I'd love to read about it too

[darthkvznblogs]

What rules do K-Verse bounty hunters have to play by in their hunts?

-Hunters must not harm innocent civilians in the course of a Hunt, either from direct action or collateral damage. Any harm incurred during a Hunt beyond that of Hunter and Quarry must be evaluated by a Guild committee and sanctioned accordingly.

-Hunters must abide by the terms of engagement dictated by the Client, as well as those dictated by interstellar treaties with the galaxy's ruling powers. In the absence of such treaties, Hunters must follow local planetary law as it applies to the Hunt.

-Hunters require special permits to hunt on inhabited planets that have not yet reached spacefaring status. (this rule is often ignored in the deepest reaches of Wild Space)

-Hunters must not poach assigned Quarries; a Hunter may request of the Guild to have a Quarry reassigned, which may or may not be granted on the basis of a Hunt's difficulty, location, etc.

-Hunters may cooperate on a Hunt at will. By default, earnings from such a Hunt will be split evenly among the Hunters, but Hunters may come to a different agreement that will then be enforceable by the Guild.

-Hunters may not purposefully harm each other at any time. In the event that a Hunter goes rogue, the Guild must first excommunicate them as a Guild member, at which point every effort must be made to bring them to justice. Depending on the gravity of the rogue Hunter's offenses, the punishment may include summary execution.

-Hunters may be provided with basic weaponry, armor, and transport by the Guild. Hunters may purchase improved arms, armor, and transportation at their leisure. Unless otherwise dictated by the Client, they may also obtain resources from their Quarries.

#ask box #kryptonverse #anon ask #there's more but those are off the top of my head #for the most part #these rules are pretty firmly enforced #but the top hunters typically enjoy a lot more leeway #the guild is actually pretty respected #it's a tough job after all #in fact in some parts of wild space they're the closest thing there is to peacekeepers #but there's definitely a few bad actors that sometimes give the guild a bad name #sixsix was a good example of that

[dailyfigures]

pop up parade L vampire miku..... haven't been this torn over a figure in a while, because yes, pop up parades get a lot of criticism, however it's from the L product line, but there's no L or XL figures released yet so idk if they are good, but the figure is pretty, but the pose is a bit boring, yet the accessories and face look amazing, but

her design is literally so fucking cute i was about to break my personal pop up buying ban but the price.......oh no not for a pop up parade absolutely not

#shes really cute i support her but i will not be getting her #good look with your decision anon!!!! its a tough one #anon #ask #non figure

[stormyoceans]

just a lullaby for u babymon

https://twitter.com/i/status/1729475399376416975

FALLING ON MY KNEES SCREAMING AT A FREQUENCY ONLY BATS CAN HEAR HI FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HELLOOOOOOO WE GOT NAMTAN SINGING BETTER DAYS????????? OKAY QUEEN SLAY!!!!!!!!!!!!

but srsly i think this is actually the first time i hear namtan sing and she sounds so good!!!!!!! her voice is very soft and sweet, which perfectly matches better day's mellow music, so what comes out when the two are paired together it's something incredibly soothing that really does feel like a lullaby

HONESTLY DIDN'T THINK IT WAS POSSIBLE TO LOVE HER EVEN MORE THAN I ALREADY DO BUT GUESS WE LEARN NEW THINGS ABOUT OURSELVES EVERY DAY

#HOPE SHE'S GONNA SING THE PLUTO SOUNDTRACK #also thank you so much for sending me this anon!!!!! #these last couple of days have been pretty tough and (not to sound creepy but) it feels like you're tucking me in to sleep with this #which is very comforting #anyway me being weird aside thank you again for thinking of me and sharing the video!!!!! #hope you're gonna have a good night of sleep and a wonderful day!!!!! 💜 #namtan tipnaree #m: ask

[terrainofheartfelt]

Dairena + Pegging. Yeah I went there

Bestie I closed prompts 12 days ago, but I applaud your chutzpah

#i still have a handful left to write…just waiting for inspiration to strike #and honestly I’m not sure how much I’m gonna do for kinktober at this point. it’s been a tough week. #and like… #babe listen…dairena is one of those things that I enjoy reading…but I don’t see myself writing it…bc I don’t really ship it — you feel me? #I’m not opposed I just think blair/dan and serena want very different things out of life #asks #anon #also I am just not good at writing serena which is why I don’t typically make her a central character and why I haven’t attempted her pov