#these are my boundaries please respect them

[princncess]

you need to get help and get offline. i’m serious. if you’re only 19 and already are this messed up you had to have been exposed and groomed from an early age. this is not normal and healthy and predators are taking advantage. please, get help before it’s too late. you don’t deserve this treatment. you deserve better than to be treated this way

i was originally gonna say something quippy or just delete this, but you seem to be expressing genuine concern, and on the off chance you’re coming from a place of good faith, i’d like to come from a similar place. there are a lot of incorrect notions it seems like you hold about hard kink, that are important to clear up not just for you but for anyone reading.

no one is taking advantage of me- any kink i participate in is fully consensual, and both i and other participants are respected. a lot of the fantasies i share make it sound like terrible things are happening to me, but it’s just make believe. that’s what kink is. if the violation isn’t make believe, if someone is actually stepping over boundaries, that’s a sexual assault problem- not a kink problem.

you say “this is not normal and healthy.” i agree that it’s not normal, but being abnormal and being bad are not the same thing, we need to respect each other despite our differences. as for the health, you’re right that a lot of the things i do for pleasure have risks. whenever i do these things, i know the risks and how to mitigate them. i’m not disregarding my safety any more than a skydiver, tightrope walker, or sword swallower.

i also want to squash the notion that doms, the people interacting with me to fulfill my fantasies, are “predators.” as i said before, kink is make believe- doms tend to play the “bad guy” in the story, but that doesn’t make them bad people in real life. both subs and doms can perpetrate and be victims of actual sexual violence, as can all vanilla people. no one is more predatory than anyone else based on the sexual role they play. none of these people are more likely to harm me than a vanilla person.

“you don’t deserve this treatment.” no one deserves to be treated for real the way i want to be treated in fantasy- but again, it’s fantasy.

then there’s the comment about my age. first of all, it’s more than a bit intrusive and disrespectful to try to diagnose me with having been groomed into liking kink. i would suggest being far less forward about it, even if you do have that suspicion. i can imagine that would be really jarring for me to read if that had actually happened, dredging up a bunch of past trauma. don’t go pinching exposed nerves.

you’re right i am quite young compared to most in this environment, even if that’s a byproduct of being a single year beyond the cutoff age. i made this account at 18, and had never interacted with any of these people before that. being here has never hurt me.

but the idea that me having hard kinks at this age is a result of grooming is flawed, also. obviously, it could be, but so can having any sexual desires at all. you can accuse a 19-year-old who knows different sex positions of being groomed, and you might be right. but it just doesn’t make sense to do that. and not all fetishes are as a result of exposure to that fetish. when i was tiny, and i mean like, 4, i used to wrap myself in a towel and act like i couldn’t get out, but you’re not gonna break down my door and demand my parents admit to having shown me bondage porn.

i know that from the point of view of a random person reading the things i post, with rape and bloodshed and murder and whatnot, it’s probably scary for my safety. i get that. but if you take a look closer, you can see the strings, you can see the actor who plays the dead guy moving a bit, you can see the special effects makeup. and you won’t be so scared about whether i’m ok or not.

[theamberfist]

How I Met Her Mother | Part 3 | Tighnari x Reader

Romantic: Tighnari x Collei's Parent! Reader

Description: When Collei and the traveler discover Tighnari's feelings for her adoptive parent, they make it their mission to get them on a date together through a (maybe unnecessarily) elaborate plan.

(Notes: none) (gender neutral reader) (reader is Collei's adoptive parent) (Part 3 of How I Met Her Mother)

Words: 2526

Part 1, Part 2

"Y/n!" Aether called as he came into your medical tent, looking like he had some important things to talk about. You stood from where you'd been mixing new medicines at a table.

"What is it?" You asked, a little worried he'd gone and gotten himself badly hurt again. Luckily, that didn't seem to be the case and you sighed in relief at the fact that he had no blood visibly on his person.

"We heard news! Big news!" Paimon exclaimed like she was about to burst if she didn't tell you what it was.

"Tell me!" You ordered with a smile.

"We heard Tighnari is throwing a party this evening!" The pixie explained, "For you and Collei!" At this, you frowned in confusion.

"Me and Collei?"

"Yes!" Paimon replied, "It's supposed to be a surprise but we couldn't let you show up to a party not looking your best so we thought we'd tell you anyway! Just please don't tell Tighnari we told you!" Aether had to admit that her acting had gotten better throughout the day; he almost wanted to applaud her for this performance.

"Why would he be throwing a party for us?" You asked, "Doesn't he already have so much to do as head forest ranger?"

"He said there's no better cure than celebration!" Paimon replied, knowing full-well the fox-eared ranger would never say that, "Plus, he wants to thank you both for all you've done as a trainee forest ranger and doctor here! We already told Collei, so we wanted to let you know to look your best this evening and come to this location at sunset!" She handed you a map with a marked area on it that was just outside the village but on the opposite side from your medical tent; near yours and Collei's hut.

"Oh, thanks!" You exclaimed, "I promise, your secret is safe with me. I'll take this to my grave." Your tone was dead serious but there was a smile on your face as Paimon nodded in agreement.

"Us too!" She decided.

"I guess I'll have to wear one of my nice outfits tonight," you decided, "And find a host-gift for Tighnari! I don't think he's ever hosted a party that I've been to before, so what do you think he'd like as a gift?"

"Flowers!" Paimon exclaimed, "Potted plants, to be specific! Paimon thinks that's a common tradition in Gandharva Ville at parties, too." Aether gave her a knowing glance but said nothing, simply nodding in confirmation.

"Good idea!" You replied. You hadn't been living among the forest rangers for very long, so any advice these two could provide was very valuable. They nodded, letting you get back to work now as they headed out of your medical tent. The second they were fully out of your sight, they turned to one another and high-fived over a job well-done. Things were almost ready to go.

..........

Meanwhile, Collei was having an almost identical conversation with her mentor.

"Master Tighnari," She spoke casually, "did you hear about the party this evening?" This made him arch an eyebrow as he set the box of Padisarah's near your medical tent. They always left herbs outside in case you had sleeping patients there; the process of moving them in could be rather loud.

"I didn't." He admitted, "Who's throwing it? Is it here?" Parties were not his think but you'd always seemed to enjoy them enough; even during your Akademiya days. He'd gone to a few with you and Cyno and always found that you were a surprisingly good friend to have around for them; respecting everyone's boundaries when it came to social situations and making sure they all stayed safe. As a result, he'd had a shockingly pleasant time whenever he did agree to go with you.

Collei gestured towards your medical tent silently now and the fox-eared forest ranger immediately seemed to get more interested. Collei lead him far enough away so that you wouldn't be able to hear from inside before speaking.

"Between you and me, they're throwing it for you." She admitted, "I'm not supposed to say anything but I know surprises like this make me nervous so I thought you might appreciate a warning beforehand." Tighnari could practically feel his heart melt at that but he kept his cool in front of the trainee.

"I see," he replied, "But why is Y/n throwing a party for me? They don't need to do anything extra for anyone around here when they already work so hard-"

"I think they just want to show their appreciation for you," Collei smiled, ignoring the fact that she'd just interrupted her teacher for one of the first- and likely only- times in her life. "You help us both a lot, Master Tighnari, and we're really thankful for it!" The forest ranger had to look away to hide his touched expression.

Finally, he composed himself before turning back to the girl. "Thank you for letting me know, Collei." He told her with a smile, "I'll be sure to get Y/n a gift for their trouble and attend the party I'm not supposed to know about on time." Collei nodded, taking out a map where she'd marked the 'party' location.

"It'll be here at sunset!" She informed him before heading off to get back to her work. Then she stopped, "Oh, and they love flowers, as a suggestion!" With that, she was gone before he could say anything else.

Tighnari chuckled and shook his head. Flowers, huh? For anyone else, that might have helped give him an idea of what to give you. But as a botanist, that did not narrow the choices down at all.

Away from everyone else's sight, Collei met back up with Paimon and the traveler, silently high-fiving them. They'd done everything they could to set up a date between you and Tighnari; now all that was left was to wait and hope it all turned out alright.

..........

Tighnari checked the map Collei had given him one more time to make sure he was heading for the right location. It looked like this party of yours was supposed to be not far from your home, which made sense; given that it would make it easier to set everything up.

He still wasn't sure how you'd expected him to end up in the right location at the right time if he wasn't supposed to know about it, though. No one had come and asked him to do anything that might be related- was he just supposed to have read your mind and shown up?

Either way, he wasn't about to question your intentions. Kind acts like this had always been your specialty, and despite how stressed you might have been, he wouldn't have put it past you to do one now. However, when he finally arrived at the location with potted flowers in hand and the very green suit he'd conveniently bought today, there was no one else around.

The place Collei had told him the party would be at was by the river just outside of Gandharva Ville but right now it was completely void of decorations or any other typical party-related items. And on top of that, you didn't seem like you were anywhere to be found.

"Tighnari, hey!" A familiar voice finally spoke behind him, making relief wash over him like a wave. He turned around to see you in attire equally as formal as his own; the colors would even look perfect together if you two stood next to one another. "Am I too late? Is the party over already?" A look of confusion bloomed over his face.

"...I was going to ask you the same thing?" He admitted, glancing back at the map provided by his trainee, who had also written down the time by which he needed to be here.

"What do you mean?" You asked, though there was a hint of knowledge behind your eyes; as if you'd somewhat expected this outcome when you arrived, "Aether and Paimon told me you were hosting a surprise party here tonight."

"Collei told me you were doing the same thing..." The forest ranger replied as he crossed his arms. There was a pause, but then your smile widened.

"I think I know what's going on here." You admitted as you headed over to a few boulders that rest by the river. Careful to avoid getting your nice clothes dirty, you took a seat on one of them.

"Oh?" Tighnari asked with slight amusement. Though he didn't know what was going on, the fact that you still seemed happy was likely a good sign. "Do enlighten me then, Y/n." Your grin widened.

"I heard Collei chatting with the traveler early this morning," You explained, "She'd gone outside in the middle of the night, and as her parent, of course my instincts kicked in and I went to listen. I wasn't sure what they were talking about then, but it makes more sense now..." You trailed off but the forest ranger just arched an eyebrow, urging you to continue. "They mentioned something about a plan, and then both Collei and Aether made sure we would be here at the same time."

"...This was their plan." Tighnari finally said, feeling his cheeks heat up slightly in embarrassment. He couldn't believe he'd been played so easily by his own student.

"It seems that way." You chuckled, shaking your head as your gaze lifted up to the sky, "I suppose when those three get together, they become quite the meddling bunch." The forest watcher rolled his eyes at that.

"No kidding," he replied, "We'll need to talk with Collei about not getting involved in other people's private affairs later." You nodded as he took a seat on the boulder next to you and looked out at the river, which seemed to sparkle in the setting sunlight.

"Definitely," you replied, "But I suspect she still had good intentions."

"I'm sure," Tighnari told you, "Though, going as far as to set the two of us up on a date was still an overstep." As soon as he said it, he regretted it. He didn't even need to see the surprised, slightly red look on your face to know he'd messed up. So, rather than having to look over, he immediately stood from the boulder he'd been resting on and cleared his throat. "I should be going," he said quickly, "I wouldn't want to keep you from your patients with something this trivial."

"Actually," You spoke up before he could walk away, "They're all taken care of. I had a suspiciously small number coming into the medical clinic today." This made the forest ranger's ear perk.

"Really?" He replied, "That's interesting; I had a suspiciously small amount of work to handle today, as if someone had gone out of their way to get it done for me."

"...How peculiar." You grinned, knowing exactly whom was behind that. Tighnari let out a dramatic groan but plopped down on the boulder again. He couldn't help but feel more and more like an idiot with every part of Collei's plan that came to light.

"If it helps, you don't have to actually consider this a date," you spoke up now, turning your gaze back to the pretty river, "You don't even have to stay, if you don't want to." Despite the fact that you were trying to take as much pressure off him as possible, you still felt a flutter of hope in your chest at the idea that he might see this situation the same way.

"I didn't say I didn't want to..." He replied finally, still not meeting your eyes, "But a first date planned by someone else- the daughter of my friend, no less- feels insincere." You chuckled at that.

"Fair enough." You paused for a moment, "Then we could call it a...Half-date, if that makes you feel better." By now, it seemed to have become clear how you both felt about one another and you weren't about to back down from making this happen if he wanted it too.

"A half-date?" Tighnari repeated with an unamused expression but you could tell he didn't hate the idea.

"Yes," you told him with a grin, "Like a trial run. That way, I can properly ask you on a real date later." His face grew red at that but he immediately shook off his nerves.

"Who says I won't ask you first?" Your smile widened.

"Well, then I guess we'll just have to see who beats who to the punch." You decided. Tighnari crossed his arms at that but a playful look rested on his face nonetheless.

"You're on, Y/n." He replied and you laughed.

After that, conversation started to flow much easier. You two had been close friends for years now; since even before you'd adopted your daughter. Despite the initial awkwardness of admitting you both had feelings for one another, you fell back into your regular dynamic and ended up spending much longer by the river than expected.

You didn't come home until late that night when the forest ranger insisted on walking you back to your house. Luckily, the lights were all off so it seemed like Collei was already asleep and wouldn't see you returning from a half-date the way a teenager might have.

"Well, I'd say that was an enjoyable experience." You grinned as you and Tighnari stopped in front of the door to your home, "I'd go one a half-date with you again." His own smile, though still a little awkward, widened.

"What about a full date?" Your heartbeat quickened but you feigned thinking the idea over.

"Hmm...I suppose a full date with you wouldn't be so bad either." You decided finally, "I accept, but I'm not happy that you asked me before I could ask you!" This made the forest ranger chuckle.

"I'll see you tomorrow, Y/n." He said, letting go of your hand that he'd been holding this whole time.

"Bye, Tighnari!" You replied quietly enough that you hopefully wouldn't wake your daughter before opening the door to your home and stepping inside. You closed it silently behind you, once again feeling like a teenager that had snuck out of the house when they weren't supposed to, but the second you turned around you were startled by the sight of a green haired girl laying on your couch.

She seemed to wake up now that you were back and rubbed her eyes sleepily. "You're back..." She whispered. Your heart melted, as it always did around your kid.

"Have you been waiting out here for me this whole time, sweetheart?" You asked, going over to the nearby closet to grab her another blanket since she was shivering slightly. Collei just nodded but then seemed to realize what time it was because she looked out the window seeing it so dark.

"Were you on your date with Master Tighnari this whole time?!" She asked excitedly, seemingly not tired anymore.

"So it was you that was behind that." You commented, gently tossing the blanket her way. Seeing that you didn't deny it, her excitement seemed to grow.

"Is Master Tighnari going to be my new dad?!" She asked eagerly as your face turned beat red.

"Collei!" 

#genshin impact #genshin x reader #genshin x you #genshin tighnari #tighnari #tighnari x you #tighnari x reader #gender neutral insert #gender neutral y/n #gender neutral reader #gender neutral #collei #genshin collei #parent reader #fanfic #genshin fanfic

[eve-pie]

There you are and Welcome!

This probably should've been the first post I've ever made on this platform but better late than never

So firstly hi! You can call me Eve or Lazuli (I'm a minor i use they/them And eve is obviously not my real name)

and I draw welcome home art but most of you already knew that I am in other fandom's but mostly welcome home will be posted I even created an au which I will get into in a bit

I have like 16 welcome home OCs but please do not confuse me for any of my OCs I have a persona that's being worked on as we speak

Me and Sapphire (OC) aren't the same person none of my OCs are self inserts

Expect for Evie I guess technically she's a self insert

Boundaries:

This is fine!:

I appreciate fanart I love seeing it

You can ship my OCs with your OCs and or with other characters I honestly don't mind it just make sure it's safe and not inappropriate

Asking me questions regarding my OCs is fine with me even with my au that's okay to just as long as it's safe for work!

Placing my OCs in an au (as long as credit is given and I'm tagged) is okay it's the most!

LGBTQ and furries are welcome just don't be problematic

This is not okay!:

Do not under any circumstances repost my art on other platforms such as Pinterest please don't especially if you don't credit me

Using my OCs for anything you will have to tag or credit me for and ask permission first

No proshippers

No lolicons

No shotacons

No zoophiles

No Ai "artist"

Y'all can fuck off if your one of those especially those self proclaimed ai "artist"

Do not ask me anything about my personal life I'm a Minor I won't say how old I am

It's okay to take inspiration but straight up taking my content is a big no no

Please don't randomly ask to be mutuals especially if you are an adult if I follow you back then sure

Don't ask me to make any art for you I simply just won't do it

Do not tag me in suggestive art, do not make suggestive art for me or my OCs, do not tag me in something that doesn't regard me or my OCs however mutuals will get a pass on this if your a follower or random person don't do that

I might do commissions

If you are an adult and we are mutuals do not private message me for anything i don't care

IF WE ARE NOT MUTUALS DO NOT TAG ME IN SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T CONCERN ME if you made fanart for my OCs or Au then sure but those tag chains i will not respond

I also won't respond to tag chains doesn't matter if we are mutuals or not

I never really know how to respond to tag chains or how to react that's kinda why

Please do not ship Evie with anyone not even your OCs the only one you can draw ship art of her is of course Howdy or Barnaby which is preferred the other neighbors are optional all but wally he shouldn't be shipped with Evie because their relationship is only Platonic

And I won't allow Poppy x Evie either no just no

Regarding ships for Evie for the love of God please ask me for permission first if you are not a Minor and way out of my age range don't bother to ask mutuals still need to ask as well

With that being said let's move on to my au

Cuphead au:

I created the cuphead au and here are my boundaries for it

Ship art between the characters is a alright but keep it platonic don't ship Wally and barnaby or Wally with Julie Wally and barnaby are underage Julie is an adult OC x Canon as long as they are in the same age group is just fine and Dandy just no NSFW

Placing your OCs in the au is welcome! Be sure to tag me I'd love to see it!

Do not make any Ai chats or NSFW of my au if I wanted to make a ai for Cuphead Wally and Mugman barnaby I would have done so

Fanart of the characters are just fine and Dandy but again no NSFW I'm a minor and don't want to see that

Please do not try to claim my au as your own and if you make anything related to it please tag me

I'm still thinking through this so if you wanna ask questions about my au go right ahead! My box is always open

Here's my persona puppetsona my persona is still in the works

I used to use Sapphire as a place holder for my puppetsona but not anymore don't confuse them please

Oh wait here's the post regarding Everyone's design in the cuphead au

And here's everything lore wise

And for Welcome My Neighbor there's this post look through the hashtag for any other post

Tags:

#patches bashful

#wh cuphead au

#cuphead au

#Welcome My Neighbor

Thank you and don't forget to wave up high!

#these are my boundaries please respect them #tbh i don't really know what to add here in this section #but my boundaries may change overtime #ibs paint x #oc art #puppetsona #wh cuphead au #Welcome My Neighbor

[ask-shane]

PSA

hi it's mod dawn here. i need to address something. i wrote this out in the tags on one post but i'll reiterate. when it comes to any of my ask/roleplay blogs, i CANNOT uphold established romantic relationships with anyone in character. this means the characters cannot say yes to being your s/o (dating or married). flirting is fine. it can be funny and sweet to interact like that. but i have to set the boundary there.

when the characters are 'reciprocating' your flirting, it is not to give false hope, nor is it supposed to be something sad. it's not a shane thing, it's a ME thing. there is a real person behind this. i do not feel comfortable roleplaying a romantic relationship, and i apologize if that makes people feel like the character is leading anyone on. it isn't my intention. if this boundary does not sit well with you, you are free to unfollow me. all that to say, please don't take the blog(s) too seriously. i just feel the need to make this clear due to some lingering concerns lately. thank you for listening.

#ask-shane 🐓 #this is not directed towards anyone in particular #honestly more of my fear of being accused of leading people on. or making people feel rejected. #dude i am roleplaying a fictional character on a public website #if you're upset about the character being unable to reciprocate please don't make that my problem. #i frankly don't want to hear it. #i don't have the emotional capacity to roleplay a romantic relationship in character :[ #i am fine with people making overexaggerated comments about how they want a character romantically or whatever. #but just be aware and respect that they cannot say yes. that is my personal boundary. not a reflection of their feelings for you. #if you want a 'relationship' with them please hop on stardew and do that #there's a whole game for you /hj /lh #anyway that's pretty much it #thank you

[appeypie]

hi folks, listen to me for a second. please don't come in my ask box trying to argue about gh//i/rali//nk. i'm genuinely not interested. when i said this stuff is bad for my mental health and i want to move on from the fandom, i was serious 😂<- in pain

#like again im being misinterpreted! #i said it makes me uncomfortable period. full stop. you will not change my mind. this is how i feel #these are my boundaries #please respect them #camposts

[theshadowrealmitself]

*really late at night/early morning*

Brain: Hey, I know you’re exhausted, but for the first time in forever I’m gonna make you feel inspired to write a story, I’m also gonna give you a really good outline of how the story goes and how it ends, which you usually have trouble with

Me: But-

Brain: Oh I know, you’re not gonna be able to do it tonight, you’re also gonna lose that motivation to do it when you wake up, this is just to fuck with you rn while you try to sleep :3c

#im. im fucking obsessed with every part of this plot bunny #please please PLEASE let me keep motivation to work on it when I wake up #I already wrote down the outline so I don’t forget it #*please* #ugh only problem with writing stuff I intend to post on ao3 is that I’ve also put in my other side account on one of my stories #and I hardly use that side account because one of my exes started stalking it after we broke up #he wasn’t even following me while we were dating!! #he waited till after I broke up with him to follow me!! #and then after I blocked him he still kept interacting with my blog!!! #tumblr make a better fucking blocking system. #yeah so I’m worried about him potentially knowing my ao3 account #and I really hope he doesn’t follow this account #@ eric if you’re *still* looking at my stuff just know that you’re a mega creep and I hate you. #seriously dude. #haven’t deleted that side account or my ao3 cause I’m still attached to them #but yeah it sucks posting to either of them knowing that there’s a CREEP who WONT RESPECT MY BOUNDARIES looking at them #god I hate him #no fandom

[aziraphale-protection-squad]

right. so. i'm taking the angel and i'm wrapping him in a soft blanket and i'm telling him that NO ONE has the right to touch him without his consent.

no matter how well they know each other and got along previously.

or how angsty the person feels about possibly never seeing him again.

or how much Aziraphale might even possibly WANT to be intimate with that person on some level, someday, when they're okay again.

there are no ways around this:

if he's not READY for it, or if he's not in the MOOD for a kiss, then NO ONE SHOULD BE KISSING HIM. PERIOD.

#pretty sure this is not a controversial statement but the things i've seen some folks say today has been. um. #disheartening to say the least and alarming at worst. #please fucking tell me i'm not the only one who knows assault when they see it even if they find both characters attractive. #like. holy fuck. i love(d) crowley too but what the fuck. #how is THIS being overlooked while Aziraphale is taking all the blame for how shit went down in the finale. #~ooh they finally kissed!!!!!~ ugh but STUPID ANGLE!!! >:( doesn't he know how sexy and emotional crowley is??? he should ENJOY this!!!! #<- some of y'all's apparent attitude and it Concerns me deeply. #call it what it fucking is even if it sucks. it was a violation. period. it's 2023 we don't tolerate Blurred Lines bullshit here. #goddamnit this was my safe fandom and now i'm like. y'all scare me tbh. #i hate fandom drama but the way the majority have elected to ignore a literal assault so they can UWU Sad Demon Puppy their blorbo is just. #what is this? spn??? #he was my blorbo too but holy fuck i have lines. i have boundaries. and he crossed them when he crossed Aziraphale's. #if u think u know who this is no u don't #i am conflict avoidant leaf me alone lol #i just need to know that i'm not the only person here who um. respects boundaries and consent and all that. because y'all got me Concerned. #like. i wanna rant about this in my fandom friend groups but they're all UWU CROWLEY DESERVED BETTER so um. i no longer feel safe there tbh #good omens spoilers #go2 spoilers #go spoilers #good omens 2 spoilers

[obstinatecondolement]

Wish my parents would take the "not swearing at me and shouting about how they own the house I live in" challenge every time I push back mildly against them treating me like a literal child challenge.

#they're on the 'you can't lock your door' thing again #and once again using fire safety as a fig leaf for being mad about not being able to get into my room without me unlocking it #and I didn't even say no is the thing #I said that I didn't feel I had any other way of enforcing privacy as a boundary #and that I didn't think it was reasonable that I should be Disallowed from locking myself into a room on fire safety grounds #when they both do that all the time #so why is there one rule for them and one for me? #the answer you will be pleased to hear is #'do whatever you want then you selfish fucking bitch' #and 'I pay the rent!' #there is not rent #they own this house outright #and a second house which my sister lives in rent free #they don't give a shit about 'what if there is a fire?' #the problem is #'how dare you presume that you can lock part of my house away from me #and how dare you presume that you are a person with rights and not an extension of me I should be able to control at will?' #if fire safety is such a fucking risk then why can you lock yourself in a room to get away from 'the madness' but I'm not allowed? #also fwiw I never raised my voice or said anything harsher than 'I feel that I have no other way of having my privacy respected' #and 'I don't think that makes sense as a reason given that you lock yourself in rooms all the time and I don't see how that is different' #but anything other than unflinching obedience is verbal abuse time #like always #love that for me

[anxnymouse]

2023, and my dynamic duo(s)

also a doodle of how i watched shaymien dynamic below

#ianthony #phan #shaymien #i do ship them platonicaly/fictionally but making them as a real life couple is not my agenda here please do respect their boundary #i just happy about the dynamic duo cc comeback #doodle #sketch #☀️🔍 #ianthony have that feels of an awkward-sweetheart-college boy x single dad who just retired with bunch of kiddos to take care AU vibe #been binge their contents as a cope ehe

[yardikins]

People who get mad about what other people put on their dni lists are so funny like. I’m sorry people have boundaries i guess

#It doesn’t matter if you think they’re dumb #Boundaries are boundaries and they should be respected #Dni lists #yardi yells #This wasnt sparked by anything in particular it just came to me #I remember some drama about people putting “proship dni” in their bios which weirded me out #Like why do you care #If they don’t want those people interacting with them that’s perfectly fair #Respect people please #respect boundaries #Anyways rant over enjoy my post

[dyketubbo]

oh also this is mostly so it can go down on record but clarification with the note abt shipping in my intro post abt not minding shipping unless its done with jaiden: i still consider qprs to be shipping as i always have because theyre still intimate relationships that you dont just like.. have with just anybodu. but if you see (ic) roier and jaiden as qprs i dont mind since they have iirc called themselves partners just not married/romantic. so while qprs are still shipping to me nonetheless since its pretty close to what theyve described themselves as in canon queerplatonic roier and jaiden enjoyers are fine by me

#also in part saying this because ill be honest im still like. affected by what the qpe techza drama did to me #i genuinely still get anxious and like. i dont know i start having a genuine trauma reaction when i think about #how people treated me because of that. all bc i said i saw qprs as shipping and wanted people to think more critically #about how they depicted and talked about qprs and how people would treat qprs as a way to get around shipping boundaries #and how all the people who shoved that stupid fucking clip in my face clearly didnt give a shit aboht listening to me #or even gave an actual shit about qprs. because not a single one of them pointed out how shit the explanation was for that dono #im forever grateful phil researched it on his own and came to his conclusion based off that research #and i forever fucking hate every single person who treated me like shit and genuinely saw no problem with acting like #'platonic soulmate headcanons' was the best way to describe qprs #fuck everyone who treated me like shit for saying qprs are shipping #fuck everyone who spread misinfo and claimed *i* was the one saying qprs are 'just friends' #fuck everyone who cared more about proving a point and having their little white mlm ship #than actually fucking listening to me and the others who were desperately trying to get qprs to be treated seriously #because i can fucking assure you the people i saw did not treat them seriously. not at fucking all. all it was to them was romance /p #and thats disgusting and i hope the qpr roier and jaiden people are better. please be better. and please respect me about this #thank you #mask mews #qsmp #roier #jaiden

[sebdoeswords]

I can't take posting on ao3 anymore, it makes me feel so uncomfortable. In an ideal scenario I would stop posting fic altogether, but I've made a promise to my readers that I would never abandon a fic partway through. This is something that is intrinsic to my process, something that sets me apart from other writers. My multi-chapter fics are finished before they ever get posted.

So I want to keep that promise. I think what I'll do is finish Thyme on ao3 because there's only one chapter left, and then post the rest of All of His Colours on ko-fi for free without a paywall. I've already posted the first chapter there just now, and I was able to format it in a way I like. I'll share the posts on tumblr whenever I post them just like I used to, and I'll make a masterpost with links to all chapters.

It's not a perfect solution by any means, but it's one I might be able to live with.

#seb talks #my fics #my witcher fics #all of his colours #to pluck wild mountain thyme #i was feeling pretty good about posting yesterday's chapter of thyme #and then i found out that one of my long time readers is a proshipper #seriously y'all 'do not interact' also means 'do not read' #it doesn't matter whether you're a silent reader or not #if you're proship i don't want you to look at my content #these are my boundaries so please respect them #i'm curating my online experience like people always say to

[mxwhore]

hi. hello. what do you mean there's a bad ending. hello??? HELLO???

haha. yeah

#theres an alternate bad ending (in my mind) where jon and martin cant make up after the second change #the trust is forever broken and both of them get caught in their own cycles of self destructive behaviors #but like. together forever right? #this time amyas isnt conceived in a bout of passionate make-up-IMISSEDUSOMUCH sex #but rather like. 'i no longer respect my own boundaries and i dont know how to make you happy please love' me sex #they arent kept in a genuine desire for raising a family albeit by surprise #but rather fear of dying by eldritch forces in an attempted abortion of the baby antichrist #anyway. its bad #dont entertain this too hard. i only indulge in this bad ending whenever im feeling hormonal and miserable lmaooo #tessa answers! #AMYAS WAS BORN TO BE LOVED OK

[someoneihavelovedbutneverknown]

sometimes you forget that you gotta be formal in deity requests and you accidentally ask loki to penis blast somebody (remind them not to be rude towards me because i am more powerful than they think).

but then you remember that your craft is whatever you want it to be and as long as your deity agrees with how you practice with them then it’s cool.

(don’t worry he was cool with it idk if he actually penis blasted them or what idk)

#casual witchcraft #deity work #even if you’re being casual with a deity you still gotta respect them #please don’t misread this as “oh i can disrespect my deities” #its“your craft is your craft and you and your deities will have different boundaries and relationships depending on how both of you operate #also “please respect deities despite this ;)” #witchcraft

[spotsupstuff]

ur grading people and if they get an f theyre blocked? my main you aint a kindergarten teacher this is a microblogging platform

yeah, that's why there's that function called blocking! :) cuz this is a microblogging site! that's what microblogging platforms have! :) so you don't have to put up with people's shit! :) interesting that kindergarten teachers where you live are capable of blocking people in real life, hope you had fun with that

#spot says stuff #this is the INTERNET You are the one who curates your own fucking experience and if i dont like someones vibes or what theyre saying to me- #-they are going to get blocked! ''grading'' people??? its called judging people and having set boundaries and self respect #im not here to conform to strangers tastes n the need to Watch Me i dont care about that more than i care about myself #i am not a ''content creator'' i am not someone with some power like a ''kindergarten teacher'' i am a stranger to All of you and- #-just another tumblr user and i dont owe you fucking anything just like nobody Here owes me anything besides base respect #n base respect includes watching what you say to people. i dont have to put up with strangers faults. im holding everyone here accountable- #-for their actions and words because i believe that you are capable of being a good considerate human person n acting sensibly #what would happen if i blocked a person on Tumblr Dot Com. the goddamn apocalypse? please. blocking isnt controlling people around you- #-its Boundaries. you can get over some random bitch blocking you on the internet. its not my responsibility if someone decides that their- #-entire emotional wellbeing depends on a *Stranger* #i have P@NSEAR blocked cuz i just Dont like their content. if someone ''gets an F'' from me for behaviour then MAYBE theres a REASON? #''ur grading people'' goddammit man who Isnt judging the people around them and the interaction they have with them #HOW many times ive said ''feel free to block me!'' in a positive way cuz of smth as small as a too gorey design. what do u think- #-blocking is ysee??? ''you are acting entitled'' because i AM! i AM entitled to having a good comfortable experience on the INTERNET #just like ANY OF YOU. please anon! you dont like my way of treating myself on the Internet do just that! block me! i wont throw a fuss?? #if Anyone here doesnt like the smallest aspect of me judge me. i invite you to. judge me and if that aspect is too loud for you Block me #to get along with this anons absolutely correct n in place anecdote: Grade Me. give me an F. boot me from the school whatever That means #keep yourself safe and make your experience on the internet comfortable #i cant tell if youre one of those dumb anon askers who r just lookin for attention or fight Or a reasonable person but heres my look at it #entertain it before you disregard it. got me pissed off from the moment i wake up u dont even know bout my whole blockin system dear god

[soaked-ghost]

Now i'm wondering how Ink's two gaster dads would look like in your style....

hellooo I'm gonna use this ask to put my silly psa but u will not see any person x same person (u know like sanscest and stuff) ship from me, and that includes ink's dads ☺️

first cuz I don't care about them. second cuz I honestly think that giving ink an actual family brings down his character in a thematic sense. and third because those kind of ships make me uncomfortable and piss me off

if u want to see them go. literally anywhere else in the fandom you'll find it very easily

#don't wanna sound rude I'm just placing my boundaries on my own blog 😁 #if anyone is wondering why I don't like them it's because of. well.. #trauma #so please respect my wishes I dont ask me about these things again! #mail