#the bi erasure

[shallowseeker]

I go in the megstiel tag … it’s full of backflips and pretzel-ing to make her relationships “not straight-coded”

…Which could be genuinely stimulating and interesting if the goal wasn’t converting her thing with Cas to “gay/queer” …

I go into Crowley the tag, I get dissertations about him being homo-coded; no one is using crowleys brief stint as a female vessel to make him bi lol or straight-coded; no one is saying his thing with Dean is secretly straight because “Crowley would feel the same way if he manifested as a woman”

The thing about being bi is that the goddamn minute you pick the homo option, ppl gonna bend over backwards to rebrand you as “gay now,” and ppl continue to do this without even blinking in 2022 … I just … Wow I’m stunned really. Dean has more man crushes (hi gunner lawless) than Cas (canonical crush on female news anchor) and Crowley (hi Billie you’re sexy) combined and yet … he gets to own the duality

So Imma Bi truther, yes. Naw it doesn’t bother me I just feel like pointing it out now and again.

#the bi erasure #what are we doing here #what are we doing #it makes us look so foolish #it’s super disrespectful to brush off het relationships as secretly *not counting* #or lavender #or beards #like ???? #maybe I’m old but are you kids all right??? #I thought you were supposed to be enlightened #Cas likes Very Emotional Ppl

[chaosroid]

The BG3 party members being bi disasters: a series

If I see anyone call the companions "playersexual" one more time, I'm shooting them in the kneecaps.

#this goes for the exclusionary 'astarion is gay' or 'karlach is a lesbian' comments too #fuck outta here with that bi-erasure #baldur's gate 3 #lae'zel #shadowheart #astarion #karlach #wyll ravengard #halsin #bg3 companions #bg3

[fixing-bad-posts]

My favourite is bi trans lesbians !!!!! We support!!!!

#fixingbadposts #fixing-bad-posts #erasure poetry #pro mspec #bi lesbian positivity #bi lesbians #bi lesbian #trans lesbian #trans lesbians #queer

[drchucktingle]

all time funniest review. someone please check on the scoundrels they are very riled over our joy

the audiobook for NOT POUNDED BY BI ERASURE BECAUSE MY CURRENT HETERO-PRESENTING RELATIONSHIP DOES NOT INVALIDATE MY QUEERNESS is available here

#buckaroo lifestyle #devilman agenda #bi erasure #bisexual

[weebisexual]

#celebrities #lady Gaga #stefani germanotta #bisexual #bisexuality #bi celebs #bi erasure #bi women #1k

[bisexual-coala]

I'm so sick of people erasing Korrasami's bisexuality. The comments on this are so infuriating

#THEY ARE BISEXUAL #korrasami #tlok #the legend of korra #legend of korra #lok #korra #bisexual erasure #bi erasure #asami sato #biphobia

[awesomechocolatesauce]

So, I found this comment on a video where Neil Newbon, the voice actor of Astarion, confirms that Astarion is, in fact, pansexual. Not gay, but pansexual, and this person still feels the need to try to debunk it, then has the gall to be like "IT FEELS LIKE GAY ERASURE TO MAKE A CLEARLY GAY MAN BI/PAN FOR MARKETING PURPOSES" when they were literally spouting bi/pan erasure just because Astarion is theatrical and talks about men.

So... who's going to tell them that Astarion flirts with Shadowheart and Lae'zel, too? Who's going to tell them that relying on stereotypes is bad?

"It's so weird to watch Astarion romance videos with a female Tav". Well, it shouldn't. He's pansexual. If you can't stomach it, that's your problem.

#baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #astarion #baldur's gate iii #bg3 astarion #lgbtqpia #pansexuality #lgbtqia #lgbt #why do people keep insisting he's gay? #yes he does talk about men #that doesn't mean anybody else isn't an option #will I ever stop being mad at people who keep insisting he's gay? #no #no I will not #jessica's personal stuff #pan erasure #bi erasure

[hoolay-boobs]

Back at it with my salty memes 💝

Part 1 of Bisexual Salty Memes

#anti bi erasure #bi erasure #bisexual #bi memes #bisexuality #bi #bisexual memes #she ra glimmer #glimmer she ra #spop glimmer #glimmer spop #queen glimmer #princess glimmer #she ra and the princesses of power #she ra #spop #glimbow #lumity #luz noceda #the owl house #toh #harley quinn #dr harleen quinzel #harleen quinzel #dc #hello kitty #bisexual pride #bi pride #bisexual positivity #bi positivity

[blenselche]

bi bat squeaking intensifies

#the amount of bi erasure in the fandom when it comes to these two lol #I love Ash and Bonnie had a real cute flirtationship going on with Guy in the scream queen comics #bubbline #bonnibel bubblegum #marceline abadeer #adventure time

[longstoryshqrt]

whoever found the “I’m bi, actually” quote annoying, just know I’m under your bed

#nick nelson #heartstopper #heartstopper spoilers #heartstopper season 2 #heartstopper s2 #bisexual #bisexual representation #hes bi actually and so what #you wanna be David nelson so bad fuck u #its the bisexual erasure for me #/// #nickcharlie #narlie #nick x charlie #kit connor

[likealittleprayer]

LOVE that they gave Cas not one not two not three but FOUR love interests including one wife. And as a fandom we decided nah

#not ONCE have I seen fics involving even a mention of cass exes #castiel #supernatural #destiel #this is not bi cas erasure #meg was great but the other love interests were not fleshed out bery well #edit: yes I forgot about his genie wife I think this makes my point even more clear

[tippenfunkaport]

"[Canon Bisexual Character] should have been [gay / lesbian] so they ended up with [Same Sex Character]!"

Wow. That's so interesting! Because there is literally no reason you can't ship that bisexual character with the same sex character as is. No one on earth is stopping you. Bisexual people are attracted to the same sex. You can ship away without changing a single thing about them!

But you keep insisting they should have been lesbian or gay so they could date the same sex and... gosh. It almost seems like... you just hate that they are bisexual!

Huh. Fascinating.

#I'm sorry to rage post but I have seen so much of this lately #and area bisexuals are tired #it's me #i'm area bisexuals #i am being so good by not tagging the spop and toh fandoms but we all know what we know #there is so little GD canon bi/pan rep and fandom still wants to delete it #you'd think fans would embrace the fact that it gives them MORE shipping possibilities but apparently not #biphopia #bisexuals #bisexuality #bisexual #bi erasure #bisexual erasure #fandom problems #canon bisexual characters #bi #bi problems #bisexual problems

[fixing-bad-posts]

queer inclusion my beloved <3

#fixingbadposts #fixing-bad-posts #erasure poetry #bi lesbians #bi lesbian #pro mspec #queer inclusion #queer solidarity #queer #radical inclusion

[willalove75]

stop simping over women and pay attention to your husband. You clearly made your choice to be with a man and have his child rather than choose a woman. You bisexual women don’t get to exist in lesbian spaces when you lean towards men. Unless your husband lets to you step out on your marriage or lets you have delusional thoughts that any lesbian would want a woman knocked up by a man. You bisexual women who lean more towards men or are with men have no right to be in sapphic or lesbian spaces. And lady d is a lesbian so as if she would be with someone who let a man touch them let alone knock them up.

Oh, I'm sorry, did my husband tell you that I'm not giving him enough attention? Didn't think so.

Yes, I made a choice to be with him, because I fell in love with him. Because he's my best friend and my biggest supporter in everything I do (yes, he even supports my writing and fics and he tells me often how proud he is of me). I did not chose him because he's a man. Truthfully, his gender had absolutely nothing to do with why I married him. I just happened to fall in love with and marry a man, but that does NOT make me any less of a bisexual woman.

"You bisexual women..." and people question whether or not bi-erasure is a thing, meanwhile, this entire ask is such a great example of just that😒

"delusional thoughts that any lesbian would want a woman knocked up by a man." is truly offensive to not only every bi woman who has been with a man, but any woman who has. What about the lesbians that got pregnant by men?? Because this may come as a shock to you, but it does happen. It may not happen a lot or often, but it does. Does that mean that those women are "tainted" or "ruined" also??? No it fucking doesn't, you idiot.

It really makes me laugh when people try and use a fictional character to make a real life argument. You want to know why? BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT FUCKING REAL!!! So honestly, you have absolutely no idea if that's true or not because she's a fake fucking character from a video game. Are you also this upset at the fic writers who make her trans??? Or what about fic writers that make Alcina's partner trans??? Or are you just that much of biphobic person and this is the hill you're choosing to die on?? Either way, you're an actual bigot.

This post just SCREAMS biphobia and bi-erasure and it's fucking gross. You are so very obviously projecting your own issues and insecurities in this and honestly I would be embarrassed if I were you. Because not a single thing you said is true AT ALL or holds any merit.

Bisexual women who lean towards men or who are with men ABSOLUTELY do belong in those spaces. Just because a bisexual woman is married/with a man or leans towards men does not discredit or change their sexuality. No bi person automatically becomes straight if they date/marry the opposite gender or become gay/lesbian if they date/marry the same gender. It's called BIsexual. More than one gender. You do not get to invalidate every bi person with this shitty (and inherently wrong) opinion.

I know you wrote this trying to get a rise out of me, and congratulations because you succeeded. But I also know that people like you leave messages like this because they feel so broken and hurt and shitty that they want others to feel like that too. Unfortunately for you, I grew up in the era that birthed anonymous hate messages so you'll have to try harder next time. Not only that, but I am proud and confident in who I am and no pathetic anonymous (especially anonymous, you pussy) message is going to shake me.

I am a proud bisexual woman. I am proud to be married to my husband. I am proud that I will soon be the mother of a little boy who I will raise to be a much better person than you'll ever be. I am proud of what I've written and no, I will not stop.

#willalove75 #lady dimitrescu #alcina dimitrescu #bi erasure is real #tw #biphobia #bi erasure #fuck outta here with these shitty and wrong opinions #you picked the wrong bitch my guy

[ingravinoveritas]

feliciafancybottom replied to your post "angelsadvocate96 replied to your post "I am…"

I saw one earlier about Michael setting such a fine example for straight boys who go through a 'phase' of crushing on men. Yeahhh. Michael "No closet can hold me" Sheen… Michael "Happy Bi" Sheen… Michael "I set David on fire fairly regularly" Sheen… Michael Sheen who did one sex scene with Stephen Fry 27 years ago and hasn't stopped talking about riding him like a bucking bronco ever since. Is that the right Michael Sheen? If so, I think someone needs to tell him that he's the Sheriff of Straighttown now because I don't think he got the memo.

@feliciafancybottom Oh my God. "A phase"...yeah. That's always the other one, isn't it. Never mind that he had a crush on John Taylor when he was a teenager, and then a crush on Jude Law during Wilde when he was almost 30, and now an overwhelmingly obvious crush on David in his 50s. Nope, definitely just a phase.

I just...I genuinely do not understand how anyone thinks that the man who made that "closet" tweet, who christened himself "THE southern pansy" during Pride Month a few years ago, who said he considers one of his characters (Roland Blum) to be pansexual, and who has been telling us exactly who he is in every way possible for multiple years now...is completely straight. And to then have the gall to dismiss Michael's sexuality by further referring to it as a "phase" is the peak of bi erasure.

On one positive note, I will say that "Sheriff of Straighttown" made me snort, and I'm now picturing Michael and David roleplaying that with Michael as the "straight" Sheriff and David as the seductive "saloon girl" who leads him astray, so thank you for that. Haha. Good times...

#feliciafancybottom #reply post #michael sheen #welsh seduction machine #i think Michael has been telling us exactly who he is for a long time now #him using the word 'pansexual' was honestly what convinced me most #because that is not a sexuality that most het people would ever think about let alone mention #Michael is not hiding #even if he doesn't label it specifically #bisexuality #bi erasure #i can't even with this nonsense #fandom woes #discourse

[stanlunter]

Pov: you're bisexual, who's sexuality is always getting erased just bc you ended up in relationship with a guy

Should I do male version btw?

(And for those who don't know, yes, pans ARE under bi umbrella and that's why Willow is there)

#bisexuality #Bi erasure #Nana #Glimmer #Spop #Mermista #Lonnie #Kagami tsurugi #miraculous #Cherri bomb #Hazbin hotel #Willow #Toh #star butterfly #svtfoe #wonder woman #Wlw