genuinely i can't stand it when someone online goes, "The kids these days don't even know X and they haven't even heard of Y! What has our society come to? Surely this is the end of days!" like that's not just how kids work. kids start out not knowing most things. the great part is that they are extremely teachable! this is a fixable problem
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rly appreciate ur review of poor things. genuinely don't see how so many have praised, i felt like I was insane when i saw how acclaimed it is
ugh thank youuuu lol i really cant stand that movie. I really just found it so boring how it went in circles for 2.5 hours and the comedy was so bad. oh no she said inappropriate thing at nice dinner! I must go punch that baby lol xd! and that stupid left field turn near the end when by that time I just wanted to leave the theater. it barely felt like it wanted to seriously engage with any of its topics. and just left such an awful taste in my mouth also that they made a second baby-brain woman and relegated her to a servant at the end of the movie.
Apparently in the book all the baby brain stuff is explicitly made up by Bella's husband? i feel like that changes so much...
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I hate it when people go “back in my day people weren’t gay”, firstly because this is factually wrong, and secondly because I’m the worst person to say this to. I’m gay and a nerd, so I’m about to pull every myth, legend and story about queer people in the past. Like oh you think queerness is a new thing then let me tell you about the myth of Apollo, Hyacinthus and Zephyrus which was created about 3000 years ago. Sorry dude next time pick a fight with someone whose brain is the same size as yours.
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Typed up a whole essay on my experiences starting university right when the MeToo movement became popular, then decided not to bother with all that because who cares lol. But in case anyone needed to know as a lot of this fandom doesn't seem to:
-consent needs to provided not only before sex, but also during, so checking in is important.
-an important aspect of consent is respecting your partner
-don't hook up with someone drunk, crying, or otherwise vulnerable, who might not be consenting if they were in the right head space
-do not to blame the victim
-false cases were extremely rare
-words are important, but so is non-verbal language. Tears or non-verbal cues to stop means you have to stop.
-SA isn't an act of passion; it is an act of abuse. And not always committed through force. Gay men can assault women. Women can assault men.
-SA is frequently committed by people who aren't actually the straight up "evil" people we picture in our heads. It's important to see perpetrators as human because most of us are capable to committing it.
-It doesn't matter if SA happened "a long time ago". It's not just a simple mistake, it is something that can cause lifelong issues for the victim.
-joking or finding it funny when people commit SA and/or treat someone they had sex with like shit makes you. A shitty person.
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you know actually im kinda glad my relationship with my father wasn't that great because everyone always praises him on how good of a teacher and peer he was and all the work he put into his school and how good of a human being he was
but he really wasn't that good of a father. and because i didn't care much for him being my father i can enjoy the compliments and feel for his friends and peers that remember him fondly and be proud of who he was as a professional and a person without resenting him for not being a good parent
i can say id rather he was a positive influence for the thousands of students he taught and a support and guide and inspiration for all his co-workers across his career than him being a good dad
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i've got my eye on anyone who calls robin arellano dumb actually because literally what in the movie ever implied that........ what gave you that idea. where did it even come from.
either we saw two different movies entirely or there is something seriously wrong with how you view this character. just saying
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for the love of god as someone who has studied international humanitarian law for the last 5 years. I BEG of you, naruto fandom, to stop throwing around words like war crimes and genocide like it means nothing. and PLEASE stop directly applying real world standards onto the systems created in the Naruto universe. I'm not saying don't compare them at all, but please recognise that the Naruto universe very much have their own established systems with their own laws and standards that are not a perfect parallel to our world. and it's for this reason that you cannot hold the Naruto universe to the same standards you hold in the real world.
criticism and comparisons are good, absolutely, but recognise that there are different standards, particularly when it comes to morality, that are established in-universe. and finally, PLEASE understand that some of the things you argue in absolutes are things that continue to be debated even in the real world in the first place! some of the standards and morals that you hold the Naruto universe to aren't even fully agreed on in real life. please just recognise all these nuances and differences when you want to make a meta about the Shinobi system by applying real world standards.
keep writing up metas about the Shinobi world and keep comparing it to the real world and critiquing and analysing and dismantling what it is. but please just be a bit more careful and nuanced when you directly critique and interpret naruto using real world standards and logic. it is important to acknowledge that there are different lenses you can view media through, and that our morals and standards just happen to be one lens. it is far more interesting anyway to critique and find fault with the shinobi system through its own logic and by following its own universe's rule.
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okey I have to get back to working on the fox & the prince, I've being putting it off for like a week almost because I also need to get into the more nitty gritty stuff of explaining concept art and why I choose this project and present the draft to my project tutor in time to be able to adjust anything before going head first to work on it because the draft also counts for the final grade!
I'm totally not panicking or loosing my mind about this :D One of my friends (and former classmate) is being my emotional support, but she has recently found a job so obviously she can't be with me 24h and I don't want her to be either… I almost forgot about how nerve wracking the preparation of a project is, this is why I like to just make drawings and maybe sell them as prints, my anxiety and low self esteem are not made to go through these calamities not even at an academic level.
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