#ppl be like he’s transphobic

[local-space-case]

matpat haters are so wild you ask why they hate him and they bring up a mistake from 8 years ago or an offensive joke that was normal in that day and age

#genuinely move on pls #matpat #game theory #ppl be like he’s transphobic #like his main assistant on gt live isn’t non-binary #some of u ppl are insufferable

[slightly-depressed-sloth]

Whenever ppl imply Damian would be homophobic I just kinda assume they're either new to comics or have some internal biases to work out cause I don't know who they're talking about but it isn't my boy Damian ultimate-over-invested-ally Wayne

#not mr showed up to a enbys house at midnight to teach them how to deck a transphobe #not mr had to be physically restrained from decking the transphobe himself by jon #you could not PAY that boy to stay away from pride comics be fr #just know he hated when Tim came out cause he was like dammit now I respect smth about Drake #tim: do you have a problem with me being bi? damian: you being bi is the only thing ive ever respected about you #my boy shows up in pride anthologies more often than like any of the comfirmed queer characters put some respect on his name #he is not helping ppl come out and reconnect left right and center just for yall to imply he'd be a homophobe #he is leading the damn parade #slightlyslothspeaks #batfam #damian wayne #no one does it like him

[thedreadvampy]

unwarranted Cis Opinion but I'm getting really uncomfortable w people responding to bathroom bills by posting pictures of trans men like DO YOU WANT THEM IN WOMEN'S BATHROOMS

bc like. no they're men. they should be in men's bathrooms unless that feels unsafe. but. it really feels like it's not helpful to lean into the idea that seeing someone presenting masc or being read as a man in a women's bathroom means You're In Danger.

like I know several butch women and NB ppl who are really scared around being on T or getting top surgery bc they're not men and they don't want to be in the men's bathroom, and in that circumstance stuff like growing facial hair or reading more androgynously can be really fucking scary when people are being primed by propaganda to be on edge and hyperreactive to anyone who doesn't look like their idea of a Cis Woman.

and I'm not laying that at the feet of the people saying "hey uhhhh trans men are men and don't belong in women's bathrooms" bc it is not their fault. it's the fault of a concerted effort to make it difficult and dangerous to be trans or substantively gender nonconforming in public.

but at the same time idk I guess it just worries me cause sometimes it feels like "you fools! you are worried about this group of trans people bc you think they're the Lurking Danger of Men In Bathrooms? WRONG! the Men Making You Feel Afraid In Bathrooms are actually THESE trans people!" when in fact neither of those groups using the fucking bathroom is a problem. just piss and mind your business. people need to go where they need to go.

anyway this country is a hot fucking trash fire that somehow accelerates its descent into open fascism more every day so it's all super good and normal. so don't take this too seriously tbh cause it's somewhere near #2535654476457899009765 on the list of priorities for Queer Discourse right now when the fucking human rights commission is actively rescinding protections from trans people. Please ignore my gibberish.

#red said #i get that the point is to follow their logic to its logical conclusion like SEE THE EFFECT IS THE OPPOSITE OF YOUR STATED INTENTIONS #but a) the lawmakers already know this tbf #and also b) ultimately you still do end up making a lot of tweets that look very very very like the original scaremongering abt trans ppl #and transphobes and ppl who are unfamiliar with trans stuff alike have repeatedly and consistently demonstrated either an unwillingness #or an inability. to understand the difference btw a trans man and a trans woman. #and meanwhile idk it does feel like most posts like this are tacitly reinforcing the idea that you SHOULD be scared of masc-presenting ppl #it's putting so much emphasis on clockability. and the truth is not everyone using the bathroom does or should have to pass perfectly. #if a trans woman who looks like one of these trans men needs to piss. a woman with stubble and short hair and muscly shoulders. #SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO PISS IN THE WOMEN'S BATHROOM. even if she doesn't look like a cis woman. #if a trans dude looks like a girl he still doesn't belong in the ladies unless he personally feels the need to go there for his safety #if someone is not actively bothering you harassing you or treating you with aggression it's not really any of your business is it #maybe that's a trans man. maybe that's a trans woman. maybe that's a woman or dyke on T. maybe that's a cis woman who just looks masculine. #who gives a shit? a key factor in ladies bathrooms is that they have fucking cubicles. unless someone is making it your business it's not. #and if they are then the problem isn't that they're the Wrong Sex/Gender it's that they're behaving badly/disrespectfully/threateningly #which is also a problem when cis women do it!!!!!

[sualne]

hii! honeslty just curious, I read/watched kuroshitsuji AGES ago and I don't think I've finished the manga anyway, does grell go by she/her?? I vageuly remember ppl headcanonning them as enby though iirc in canon he's a guy?

Your tags peaked my curiosity, I haven't seen any Kuro content in a hot minute, but I remember it being the absolute must watch in my peak anime watching years lol And I absolutely loved the manga's artstyle

in canon grell is a trans woman, yana toboso has said something like "grell is a man with a woman's heart" ages ago and sometimes around 2014/16 had tweeted something about wanting to be more careful with her representation of people like grell in the future, don't quote me on that thought because i only read that tweet once and only remember reading a shitty screenshot of a translation of that interview where she allegedly said that.

i can however show you this:

it's from a bonus chapter (after chapter 108) about the popularity polls (it's a very convoluted non canon chapter) but it's one of the most blatant example of her being trans.

there's also the way she constantly refers to herself as a "young maiden" ect. idk how it goes exactly in the og but in french they translated it so grell always refers to herself with feminine terms while everyone else misgender her including the narrator. she very consistently reaffirm herself as a woman through every single ones of her appearances, like it's a thing she very much does, every single time she's on screen.

i haven't watched the anime in forever (cause it's kind of a disgrace and insult to the manga lol) but if i remember properly (which i mostly likely don't) they did omit/lowkey censor some of grell explicitly going "i wish i had been born a woman/could have been able to carry children" when she first properly introduce herself as a shinigami & the other half of jack the killer. (the anime also really did lean a lot more into the pervert queer caricature whereas in the manga she's given a bit more dignity, especially the further the story goes. though that might be my own impression and maybe it didn't change that much i just love her a whole lot).

also because i have to, please forget the anime (the first two seasons that is) and read the manga first and foremost because oh boy, what a disaster the anime is (nostlagia and atmosphere wise it's entertaining, i really love the op & ed, but it just, i just cant man it doesn't even compare to the manga at all). only watch book of circus -> book of murder -> campania movie -> the new private school arc that's coming soon (idk what they called it) after reading the manga.

#undescribed #she's my problematic girlie and i love her so much. there's subtext too for her transness but that goes in spoilers territory. otherwise sh #'s been VERY blatantly trans since her introduction it baffles me ppl refuse to accept it (not noticing it is fine cause when i was a kid i #didnt really get it because i didnt know trans ppl where a thing but one day it all clicked into place yknow) #unrelated but it kills me that sebastian is only a transphobe because it's 'historically accurate/what a good butler of his position #should be' he only says that because 1 he's a bitch 2 he doesn't like grell 3 he gets a kick out of playing the good butler role #i hate/love his stupid fucking ass i need to punch him so bad. he's so annoyingly funny i can't stand him. he's just awful and having a #grand time what an ass. back to queer ppl there are other in the story like nina hopkins being a lesbian (HEAVELY implied) and doll's whole #thing. it's one of my favorite manga ppl should give it a try just dont look at the anime pretend it's not there pls

[oliviawebsite]

i hope i never have to do another cash register job ever again shit made me literally evil

#towards the end i was literally telling ppl to go fuck themselves #i followed a guy out and told him if i ever saw him again he was going to get his ass beat after being transphobic at my coworker #the manager was like “girl i understand but come on” #mania and customer service jobs are a volatile combo!

[sunnibits]

*screaming from the rooftops* I love trans people who don’t “pass” and don’t care about passing!!

I love trans guys who like showing off their tits. I love trans girls who don’t shave their body or facial hair. I love nonbinary people who don’t care about looking “androgynous”. I love trans girls with deep voices and trans guys with high voices. I love short trans guys and tall trans girls that walk around in high heels so they can be even taller. I love trans girls that don’t tuck. I love trans guys with long hair. I love trans guys who like dressing feminine and wearing makeup. I love trans girls who like dressing masculine and flexing their muscles. I love trans girls that don’t look like a ‘traditional woman’ and I love trans guys that don’t look like a ‘traditional man’. I love nonbinary people that don’t feel the need to change anything about their appearance. I love trans people who keep their birth names, even if they’re not gender-neutral. I love nonbinary people who don’t fit into the mold of ‘skinny, white AFAB who dresses semi-masc’.

I love trans people who don’t give a shit about conforming to the cisgender binary in order to be seen as “real”. I love trans people whose very existence is confusing to cis people. I love trans people that can’t be easily categorized and don’t want to be. I love trans people who make a statement just by walking down the street, and I love trans people that aren’t trying to make a statement because they’re just trying to fucking live as themselves!! I love trans people!!!

#transgender #lgbtq #queer #god!!!! I know we try so hard to combat the transphobic cis idea that trans women just look like ‘men in dresses’ #but fuck I love trans women that DO look like that too!!!! #who gives a shit if a trans woman has a full beard and hairy legs and a hairy chest and straight hips!!!!! I don’t give a fuck!!!!!! #she’s fucking beautiful!!!!! #who gives a shit if a trans guy doesn’t bind and dyes his hair and wears eyeshadow!!! he can live his fucking life!!! #I love ppl who go on hormones but don’t get any surgeries!! #I love people who don’t ‘transition’ at all!!!! #I love people who use ‘outdated’ terms or new terms made up entirely by them!! #I love people who don’t label themselves at all!!!! #I love trans people who don’t give a single fuck!!!!! #are you listening​!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[saturnniidae]

Now why the fuck did someone on tiktok try to tell me Hiccup isn't trans, he is and I quote, "Just a straight twink". ????? Sorry bro those words don't work in that order. Please stop throwing around terms you have no grasp on the meaning of

#posted a video abt trans hiccup and accidentally attracted botj sides of the fandom #little cockroaches acting like headcanons are the end of the world one guy kept trying to say that its insulting #how this always happens to (presumably) straight white male characters and kept repeating that while trying to claim #he had notning against trans people #i got called a monkey by someone i was trying to explain the concept of hrt to. like this mf rlly went to my bio to find smth to harrass me #with i got a super fan 😭 #anyways i love my tiktok mutuals and the ppl sharing their trans hcs are gery sweet and the only reason comments r still on #opening tiktok = getting sent onto the battlefield unarmed #the ppl arguing w transphobes deserve awarde theyre like my loyal soldiers defending my honor #trans headcanon #httyd #httyd shitpost #trans hiccup #hiccup haddock #moth.txt

[hauntedhowling]

If I see one more person insisting Gerard way is a trans woman I'm gnawing they eyes out

Until Gerard states "I am a trans woman" you do not get to call them that.

#fuck outta here hes like “i use he/they and no labels” and yall are like “she said shes a trans woman you guys” STOPIT. #yall are literally forcing gender roles on them. he wears dresses and skirts??? ok??? this is the part where u missed that enby ppl #are trans by default but still enby. simultaneously being transphobic at the same time. this person wears a dress so thwyre a woman #oh my god do you not see where this is wrong? #and im upset ab it bc g ISNT binary. g ISNT a woman until they say they are. but rn he is a no label he/they #and saying that he is a trans woman is harmful. full stop. #wolfman is angry again #gerard way #mcr

[selamat-linting]

> be me

> repost fancam of cm punk and la knight

> got some bitch in the notes reblogging it and say "only here for la knight lol"

> checks their blog to block and hide reblog

> its a harry potter blog

#cm punk #okay to be fair. there are many many valid reasons to dislike him #dude's a clown (affectionate) #but there's still a lot of ppl who did say they disliked him after the trans rights stunt #and i do find fans saying he was still good but he shouldnt have brought politics into his work #(mostly in the cornette sub lmao) #so. a hufflepuff in bio bitch hating on him is like. fork spotted in kitchen #ofc you'd hate him you fucking transphobe

[marsbotz]

not to be a hater already but i think its very funny seeing even vivzie super fans realise her stories r dogshit now that hh is out

#watching abunch of stuff abt hh … so interesting like ppl get it now. #issues w viv herself aside. like its clear from what ppl r saying that she just writes on the fly and plans like. nothing #which is ok when ur doing fun oc stuff in ur own space .. not rlly when ur running two tv shows LOL #i havent actuallly watched either show but i have absorbed so much via osmosis esp hb #the songs r shittt from what ive heard of them LOL. except the hook in loser baby which regretfully is always in my head #keith david …. 💖 #btw i kinda like husks design bc im a gayass furry BUT. he should be 7ft tall and fat. i said it #the eyebrows the wings…. i didnt say a name but he came to mind didnt he #i dont like him being shorter than angel. its not right #its crwzy funny tho howwww popular the pilot was and now the show is out ppl dgaf #the character designs in general r so odd bc. i like some of them in isolation. but together they look so bad #like it RLLY comes off as someone just mashing all their random ocs together. which it kinda is #whatver L + ratio + viv is transphobic + should have stuck to furry mvs

[urproblematicfav-arsonk]

Me: he just exudes this calming sexual energy ya know?? Like he's confident and smug but not in a obnoxious or threatening way and he's very very pretty and emotional in a way I find deeply attractive. I've always struggled with my sexual feelings between the asexuality and the severe childhood sex trauma but something about this man brings these feelings out of me and I just really like him both for his huge tits and acting ability

Them: tha- that's a senior citizen playing candy crush

Me: yea :///

#i wonder if i would still like him if he wasn't queer #i wonder if my brain is deciding hes *safe* because he technically wouldn't like me back #thats why my mom thinks i was so into gay men/fanfic because i was a *girl* and thus safe from being a target in that situation #anyway enough truma dumping i guess #the love of my life #con oneill #con o'neill #ofmd #izzy hands #also #my brain is just assuming con wouldn't be into afab enby ppl which is rude if it too just assume cons a transphobe but go off brain synapse

[detectivebambam]

stay with me. andrew minyard he/they yes or no

#i feel like he's either lowkey transphobic #or a genderbender #my heart says genderbender #but my head 😔 #my head says transphobic #not in like a #i hate trans ppl type of way #but in the sense that if you tried to explain it to him #he'd ask you wtf you're talking about #BUT #what if he's a he/they #!!! #aftg #all for the game #andrew minyard #nora sakavic

[badolmen]

Wrote out a big long phone call rant to have with my mother later because as much as I hate it she is my closest irl spiritual confidant 👍 here’s hoping her response to ‘hey I’ve been spiritually depressed and disconnected for like 8 months and for some reason these last two weeks advocating for Palestine has me feeling alive and burning with divine passion and love in a way I’ve never felt before in my life’ isn’t like. ‘Talk to your psyche abt your meds hun’

#ra speaks #personal #religion #oh god these tags got out of hand. look away I’m rambly today. #outing myself as deeply spiritual and devout on main oops #‘aren’t you gay and trans and -‘ listen Israel the person received that name after literally wrestling with gd in the desert #I’m allowed to put my faith leaders in a spiritual headlock for past and present crimes while I live my joyful life #maybe a physical headlock too. I’m down to body slam some wueerphobic racist pos who claim to be faithful while never exercising such faith #also lmao of the idea of a queer leftist being deeply spiritual makes you uncomfortable…bro everything about me makes ppl uncomfortable #I’m bi gender I consider myself a trans gay man and a nonbinary dyke at the same time. I’m disabled and ugly and autistic. im not palatable #accept the inherent apparent contradictory nature of the varied human experience and move on. #sorry thought about that post complaining abt observant jews being excluded from the conversations about queer jews like #you don’t have to get it. you don’t have to think it’s real! but it’s real to me! it’s important to me! #so are you gonna be my transphobic uncle and call me sick and deluded the same way he talks about trans people? #or are you gonna keep your mouth shut accept that you don’t have to understand someone to respect them and move on with your life. #anyways uh. here’s hoping I don’t lose my voice or start crying like I did while typing the script up. #vocational woes

[wereh0gz]

I'm definitely not the only queer person who's kinda wary of Christian ppl they encounter online right?

Like I see a profile that clearly states they're Christian and they post like Bible verses and shit and I'm just. Hoping they're not queerphobic. Or saying some dumbass shit like "hate the sin love the sinner" or whatever while pretending that's not queerphobic

If they're interacting with me first it's pretty safe to assume they're not gonna be like that bc I'm very obviously queer (🏳️‍🌈 + pronouns in bio) but if it's someone who hasn't interacted with me at all I kind of instinctively avoid interacting with them out of fear of them being that way. Y'know

#ramblings #i think it's bc even tho i've never been religious and my family isn't like a super uptight christian family #i have encountered a preacher who was homophobic and transphobic before #he's puerto rican too which just makes me disappointed in my people tbh #i grew up surrounded by a lot of accepting ppl both within and outside of the family #as well as a couple gay/trans ppl #i was always taught that that's just the way some ppl are and that we should respect that #even if we didn't fully understand everything and weren't up to date with the latest most accepted terminology and stuff #ppl were just respectful and let others be themselves #so it's extremely hard for me to understand why other ppl would be queerphobic #i mean. i kinda get it. it what they were taught growing up. just how i was taught to be accepting and respectful #but why ppl would continue to teach that to their kids and perpetuate queerphobia is really what i don't get #like. accepting that ppl different from you exist and that's ok isn't going to kill you #maybe learn abt the world from other sources besides the bible and try to see different perspectives #instead of shutting yourself off to just one way of thinking and hurting ppl in the process #anyways. i think it's also bc i've seen too many really religious ppl on the internet who are also queerphobic #and they have these big platforms of ppl who support them and share their views #and like. i shouldn't generalize. but they paint an ugly image of christians in general #also like. christians throughout history don't have the cleanest track record #but i know a lot of christians nowadays aren't like that. in fact i'm willing to say most aren't #but still it's like. better be safe than sorry y'know #idk man

[kidrat]

Being a transmasc who doesn’t know/ have community w transfemms is EXACTLY the same as being a gay man who’s weird to lesbians or a straight guy who is only ‘friends’ with women he thinks might sleep with him. Hanging out with and dating cis women doesn’t make it better either it makes it Worse. I hate all of u and I hate the ‘preferences’ you have ‘because of my trauma’ you know EXACTLY what I mean

#getting to the point where I distrust these ppl more than trans ppl who only know cis ppl #like if u just don’t know trans ppl in ur area or u kept ur cis friend group from before u came out that’s cool! #no one shld like force friendships for the sake of diversity or whatever #but when some he/they hangs out w exclusively other transmascs and cis sapphics. #I am calling bullshit #rancid vibes #like I know I’m about to hear some shit about #‘well I’ll always be socially female bc of how ppl see me’ #like bruh get on hrt or don’t no need to spout that trans misogynistic shit #/ generally transphobic shit lbr if ur saying ppl ‘are’ what they were born as and perceived as #does me being misgendered mean I’ll always be a woman too? #misc

[matoitech]

REALLY wish ppl who talk abt how they ‘read lio as nonbinary’ whatever way they say that know that it is not the epic transgender ally win they think it is to say that, at least not the way they r saying it (like sometimes the way ur saying smth or why u believe smth is transphobic/homophobic!). like the character who is just a feminine gay man who has no comments made abt his appearance no question abt his gender he isnt identifying or is read any way but as a man like just rly isnt the appropriate choice for u to say hes ‘basically not a man’ bcuz of his appearance. bcuz thats just kind of fucked up and shitty. esp in promare where galos love interest is a man for a reason (and if ur saying ‘well i Read lio as not a man so promare isnt GAY exactly’ like okay well thats just homophobia dude). also when theyre like ‘lios nonbinary bcuz hes androgynous not galo tho cuz galos masculine so galos Very Male’ like just. big misunderstanding of what nonbinary even is or means or ‘who can be nonbinary’ like.. how are you fucking up this bad is all. reading chars as trans isnt ‘bad’ inherently (OBVIOUSLY??) its like the way u go about this the way u explain urself the way ur viewing gender n presentation n how ur talking abt gay men... like i think galo and lio r trans and their writing n characters become expontially better and work in a much cooler and more fun way thru that but saying 'lio is not a man bcuz hes too feminine’ is bad!

#its bad anyway but its rly not great when ur talking abt a gay guy character.. #theres like. a whole lot to the way gay n bi ppls genders r viewed. that ur clearly working off of even if u dont realize it #anyway hcing lio as nonbinary is fine obviouslybut like the way u go aboutit lmfao. lio isnt a 'gender up for interpretation' character #b mindful of the way ur talking abt this #edit: ok idk if i wasnt clear enough this post is NOT SAYING LIO IS 'INTENDED' TO BE CIS OR SOMETHING #I DO NOT CARE WHAT THE CIS PPL OF TRIGGER 'INTENDED' W GALO AND LIO. THEYRE TRANS TO ME. #i am SPECIFICALLY talking about the way in which ppl can be transphobic w how they share thier 'reading' or hc of a character #it is Bad to say that a character or a person cant be a man bcuz hes 'too feminine' so he has to be Something Else #nonbinary lio is GREAT. but it is BAD to say a character like him is 'gender up for interpretation' to you #bcuz u dont think men can be feminine. i thought i was rly clear abt this