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#people who disagree with everything else will point to that as proof you don't know shit and why should we listen to you
keelanrosa · 15 days
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terfs when a study shows literally anything positive about trans people/transitioning: 'hm i think this requires some fact-checking. Were those researchers REALLY unbiased? Because if they were biased this doesn't count and if they weren't knowingly biased they probably were unconsciously biased, woke media affects so much these days. Have there been any other studies on this? Because if there haven't been this could be an outlier and if there have been and they all agree that's a bit odd, why aren't there any outliers, and if there have been and any disagree we really won't know the truth until we very thoroughly analyze them all, will we? Were there enough subjects for a good sample size? Did every single subject involved stay involved through the whole study because if they didn't we should be sure nothing shady was going on resulting in people dropping out. Are we 110% sure all the subjects were fully honest and at no point were embarrassed or afraid to admit they didn't love transitioning to the people in charge of their transition? Are we 110% sure none of the subjects were manipulated into thinking they were happy with their transition? In fact we should double-check what they think with their parents, because if the subjects and their parents disagree it's probably because they've been manipulated but their cis parents have not and are very unbiased. How many autistic subjects were there because if there weren't enough then this doesn't really study the overlap between autistic and trans and if there were too many then we just don't know enough about what causes that overlap to be sure this study really explains being trans and isn't just about being autistic. How many AFAB subjects were there because if there weren't enough this is just another example of prioritizing AMAB people and ignoring the different struggles of girls and women and if there were too many how do we know sexism didn't affect the results. Was the study double-blinded? We all know double-blinded is the most reliable so if this one wasn't that's a point against it even if the thesis literally physically could not be double-blinded. Look i'm not being transphobic, i want what's best for trans people! Really! But as a person who is not trans and therefore objective in a way they cannot possibly be, i just think we should only take into account Good Science here. You want to be following science and not being manipulated or experimented upon by something unscientific, right?'
terfs when they see a study of 45 subjects so old it predates modern criteria for gender dysphoria and basically uses 'idk her parents think she's too butch', run by a guy who practiced conversion therapy, 'confirmed' by a guy who treated the significant portion of subjects who didn't follow up as all desisting, definitely in the category of 'physically cannot double-blind this', completely contradicted by multiple other studies done on actual transgender subjects, but can be kinda cited as evidence against transitioning if you ignore everything else about it: 'oOOH SEE THIS IS WHAT WE'RE TALKIN BOUT. SCIENCE. Just good ol' unbiased thorough analysis. I see absolutely no reason to dig any deeper on this and if you think it's wrong you're the one being unscientific. It's really a shame you've been so thoroughly brainwashed by the trans agenda and can't even accept science when you see it. Maybe now that someone has finally uncovered this long-lost study from 1985, we can make some actual progress on the whole trans problem.'
#science#transphobia#cass review#less 'cass review' generally more 'zucker specifically' because this same problem exists outside cass#have lost count of the number of times i've seen 'well THAT study may have said most trans kids persist but it MUST be wrong'#'there's another study says the exact opposite. that one's right. obviously.'#but cass is why i'm annoyed by it now#normally i don't have a problem with critical observations and questions. yeah check your science! that's good!#there have been some bullshit studies and some bullshit interpretations of good studies! scientific literacy is important!#and normally also am willing to pretend the people pulling reaction 1 on some studies and reaction 2 on others are. not the same group.#but now there's a ton of cass supporters tryna say 'oh the cass review didn't reject or downplay anything for being pro-trans!'#'some studies just weren't given much weight for being poor evidence! not our fault those were all studies with results trans people like!'#…….………….aight explain why zucker's findings are used for the 'percentage of trans kids who don't stay trans' stat instead of anyone else's.#would've been more scientifically accurate to say 'yeah we just don't know.'#'studies have been done but none of them fit our crack criteria sooooo *shrug*'#like COME ON at least PRETEND you're genuinely checking scientific correctness and not looking for excuses to weed out undesirable results#am also mad about zucker in particular because his is possibly the most famous bullshit study#quite bluntly if you're doing trans research and think 'yeah this one seems reasonable' you. are maybe not well-informed enough for the job#there's just no way you genuinely look at the research with an eye toward accurate science regardless of personal bias#and walk away thinking 'hm that zucker fellow seems reasonable. competent scientists will respect that citation.'#that's one or two steps above doing a review of vaccine science and seriously citing wakefield's mmr-causes-autism study#it doesn't matter what the rest of your review says people are gonna have OPINIONS on that bit#and outside anti-vaxxers most of those opinions will be 'are you actually the most qualified for this because ummmm.'#people who agree with everything else will still think someone more competent could've done a much better job#people who disagree with everything else will point to that as proof you don't know shit and why should we listen to you#anyway i'd love a hugeass trans science review with actual fucking standards hmu if you know of one cause this ain't it#……does tumblr still put a limit on how many tags you can include guess me and my tag essay are about to find out.
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monetsway · 8 months
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Generational Detriment
If you enable your children, you might as well abuse them. No…not literally abuse these gifts to our bloodline but this is what I mean. When we sit up here and save our loved ones from hardships, we’re tearing them away from valuable lessons they need to be successful. We are saving them from wisdom they can pass down. And well…we’re saving them from karma that they may have gained by moving in a way that doesn’t reflect their highest self.
Some people may disagree and that’s fine but the proof is in the pudding. Usually people, no matter the financial class, who enable their children are setting them up for failure. Because these same children will grow up and become adults that believe every issue in life is going to break them. That every other authority figure or rule must cave into what they desire. The same individuals who will grow to believe honest people are not good for them so they surround themselves with people who are dishonest. The truth repels them because they have been able to be saved through the lies for so long. Where there’s truth, the lie cannot survive. However, a lie thrives in comfortability. Truth is hidden in growth because without honesty, there will never be true growth internally.
Ever since I realized that successful people are people who don't give up after being told ‘no’ a thousand times, I’ve looked at the people who are always told yes. Let’s be real and realize, there’s a clear difference.
The entitlement alone that comes with somebody who always has another somebody that’s pulling them out of the holes they dug, is crazyyyy. You would think the people that have someone(s) looking out for them would be more intentional with gratitude but that couldn’t be further from the truth. But if I can be honest…it’s an attitude that can attach itself to anyone who refuses accountability.
Then soon enough, people like that will believe what they choose to believe because accountability makes them too uncomfortable in the fact that they play a role in the downfall of a situation.
Everyone makes mistakes. This is something everyone knows but only thinks about when they refuse to see the hand they played.
There’s power in reflecting and seeing where you went wrong. When you can pinpoint where YOU went wrong, you are able to avoid something crumbling before your eyes again. And there is where you will avoid doing that again so you don’t end up with dreadful results in the end.
My Granny always told me, ‘God ain’t gone ask you what the other person did. He’s going to ask YOU what you did.’.
I couldn’t agree more. Most of my anguish in life came from worrying about the way others treated me but 9/10 I gave them the handbook. But if you find yourself going down a familiar road of patterns that you aren’t happy with, it's time to look within yourself. Only you can control you; what everyone outside of you does, is completely out of your control. Nothing wrong with pointing out where you messed up at - if anything that makes you more relatable and teachable.
Being enabled does not make you teachable. In all honesty… you will never know everything. From the day you’re born to the day you pass away, you will always learn new information. What you decide to do with that information will decipher what your character is. As for me, you can learn alot about a person who thinks everyone else is the problem and I stay away from those types.
Cause ok…even if everyone else is the ‘problem’, why do you keep surrounding yourself with those types? Make it make sense.
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jakowskis · 7 months
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💖💙💜 owen harper bisexuality masterpost 💖💙💜
i've had this in my drafts for a minute but i figured i'd finish it up and post it today for bisexual visibility day :D
it hasn't cropped up recently, but i've seen a lot of people who've questioned owen's bisexuality over the years and i thought i'd compile all the 'evidence' (although it completely baffles me that we got a show with five canonical bisexual characters and people want to write two of them off as straight / "heterflexible" ?? there shouldn't have to be 'proof' of owen being bi, RTD said torchwood is about five bisexuals fighting aliens in cardiff which means they're all bi, full stop. also, bisexuals should never have to 'prove' they're bi, and in regards to fictional characters, i'm sick of people nit-picking who 'deserves' to be counted as rep and refusing to 'claim' certain characters if they're morally grey or if the fandom simply doesn't Like them as much-)
but i digress.
so without further ado, here's everything i've found that supports owen's status as a bicon :-)
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explicit canon instances
➤➤ obviously, we have to start with his gay kiss in the first episode of the show. there's a lot to be said about that kiss, i'm not gonna get into all that here, but i've seen a lot of people say it's not proof of owen being attracted to men, and i wholeheartedly disagree. you can literally catch him smiling very happily after the kiss (and one of owen's few genuine smiles of the series, too). i don't think a straight man (or even a "heteroflexible" man) would beam at another guy who's just informed him that he wants to fuck him. a fair amount of people have also said they interpreted owen calling the taxi as him intending to get away from the couple, but i don't understand how they're getting that impression, because that smile makes it seem very much apparent to me that running away is the last thing he wants to do.
it's also, notably, the first time we see bisexuality IN the bisexual show, which i don't think should be discounted. like, we see owen do something gay before jack does, for fuck's sake. is it a good first impression of how torchwood portrays bisexuality? no. is setting owen up as a more sex-driven, opportunistic bisexual nicely contrasted against ianto & tosh's more romance-oriented brand of demisexual bi/pansexuality? in my opinion, yes. i love that the torchwood bisexuals all practice their bisexuality in different ways. that's very special to me. 'cause it's realistic! real bisexuals all experience bisexuality differently! obviously it'd be a different story if he was the only bi rep, because lord knows we've seen enough of that already, but torchwood makes an effort to show us five different brands of bisexuality, and five different bi stories that largely only exist in the subtext, that aren't the focus of the show, and it's fantastic. it's all i could ever want out of bi rep, honestly, even if it is a bit dated now.
➤➤ the other explicit moment in the show: asking tosh and ianto for an end-of-the-world threesome in sleeper (s2ep2). i've actually never seen owen bi-deniers (fhdskjf it's a conspiracy) even mention this scene. owen literally asks ianto if they can have sex with each other to his face, and he's dead serious when he asks it. that's... i mean you can't mistake that as anything else. like fhdsjkf??
➤➤ next we jump to some of the, i suppose, extended universe content. whether the books are canon or not is debated, but the novel 'another life' features owen playing an online simulation game, and it makes a point to depict owen flirting with someone with a male avatar + wondering to himself if the guy would be down for cyber-sex. [someone posted part of that scene here. for context, owen's also got a VR headset on during that bit.]
➤➤ another instance is on the website, which some also don't regard as canon, but, i mean, i don't know who worked on the things we see on that site, but obviously they got their information from somewhere. they probably consulted with the writers on the show, or at the very least got notes on what things to touch on. anyway, there's a portion of the site where you can find a 'background check' on owen, and it's just a collection of messages from some ex-lovers of his. one of them is a man.
again, some people disregard the canon validity of the website, but the way i see it, the information on this site was released while the show was airing for fans to look at and to gain further insight on the characters. one of the things they felt a need to tell us about owen, important enough to be featured in his background (wayyy before the katie plot was developed), was that he wasn't just interested in women. personally, i regard that as canon. you can find this here. and even if you wanna say fragments jossed this background, it doesn't joss his, like... identity.
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next we have things said by russell t. davies himself + by burn gorman (owen's actor)
➤➤ again, RTD (who's torchwood's creator, but i'm assuming everyone reading this knows that) explicitly described torchwood as "a bunch of bisexuals living under cardiff and fighting aliens". that's not ambiguous. [i don't have a direct source for this quote, it was apparently said on the dvd extras.]
burn's comments on owen's sexuality include...
➤➤ (when asked who owen fancies) "Owen's pretty cocky, he'll try it on with whoever comes along." [x] and yes, this is vague, but vagueness is often interpreted as proof of bisexuality. (for example, in the pacific rim dvd features, newt's bio stating he was interested in "whoever will take him" was widely interpreted by the fandom as him being bi.)
➤➤ (in regards to owen's "let's all have sex" line) "I don't think he [...] thinks about the implications, or whether it's with a man or a woman." [x]
(ok i have to admit, although i absolutely adore burn, i'm not super fond of the way his 2006-08 self would talk about how torchwood handled sexuality*. however! he kind of hit the nail on the head in saying that, even if it's in the context of owen wanting end-of-the-world sex, because my take on how owen sees his own sexuality has always essentially boiled down to thinking he'd be like, "well, why wouldn't men also be an option?" (well, with sexual attraction anyway; i think owen's relationship with romantic attraction is far more complex.) i think he resembles jack in that way; anyone's a prospective sexual partner, if they're attractive and interesting and he decides he wants them, and he's also impulsive as hell, so he doesn't think too hard about gender in the moment if he decides he's into someone. there's not really any hang-ups.)
➤➤ and ofc...
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(out of context this could look like he's just jokingly calling owen an alien-fucker, although owen makes his thoughts on alien-fucking pretty clear in countrycide lol, but it was said in the context of owen/andy as a ship [x].)
*if you're wondering what i'm referring to, it's a comment here [x] about how the torchwood team's bisexuality is a result of being in a pressure cooker environment and having a 'wartime mentality', and they just kind of 'take what they can get'. the implication that bisexuality is out of desperation/accessibility rather than attraction is pretty damn icky, BUT i love him lots and he generally seems to be pretty woke these days (+ otherwise has always seemed to grasp why torchwood's rep was so unique and groundbreaking and important) so i'll go ahead and hope that was just, y'know, simple 'being a straight guy in 2008' ignorance. fifteen years is a long time and i have faith his opinions have evolved by now, esp considering he used the word 'pansexual' at a 2016 con [x]. (actually, ok, you caught me, that last bit wasn't super relevant and i didn't need to bring it up, but i just wanted to gush about him doing it because how often do you hear that word out of celebs, especially older and presumably straight ones. and in 2016, too. kinda slay of him, ngl)
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aaand finally, some random, non-explicit little things that i think support him being a bisexy king (several of these are goofy and half-serious)
➤➤ in episode 2, they make a point to cut to owen smiling after jack's line about "you people and your quaint little labels". one might argue he's smiling at gwen & carys on the screen, but cutting to him immediately after jack says it very much implies he's reacting to jack's words, and i think it's particularly poignant after, again, we saw him kiss a man the episode prior. (which, another thing - owen's literal introduction features him kissing a man, like that's gotta count for something. if the literal third thing i ever see a male character do ever is kiss a guy, that means something.)
➤➤ and of course, in the same episode, we get "period military is not the dress code of a straight man" .... owen's the only one of them with working gaydar. also what a fruity thing to say
➤➤ speaking of fruity things to say, in s2e10 when they're all watching the old film, owen goes "look at the state of them 💅" and he says it SO cunty for no reason it always kills me fhsdkjfd
➤➤ combat.
➤➤ no, really.
➤➤ bonus: in the combat commentary, it's mentioned that when RTD saw the above scene between mark & owen, he said it was "the gayest thing he'd ever seen".
➤➤ in the three monkeys, a big finish audio featuring owen & andy, owen flirts with andy repeatedly. even if he just does it to be annoying, it's still pretty damn gay. also the pet names... (he calls him sweetheart, sunshine, and tiger. it's half-mocking, sure, especially because it's owen, but there's also a domesticity to it.)
➤➤ and then there's the hope's "you're alive again and you want crisps?!" "be glad that's all i'm asking for" (owen was like 'i will not use this as an excuse to try to sleep w andy i will not use this as an excuse to try to sleep w andy i will not use th') these are the only two audios i've heard with this duo, i'm sure there's more examples in the other two. i know gooseberry literally has owen sabotaging andy's relationship with his gf and that is... woohoohoo.... i'll update this once i get through those.
➤➤ …. this is my personal opinion but i lowkey think he kinda wants john hart a bit when they all first meet him in kkbb hdskjfds. gwen & tosh both seem very charmed by him and they're meant to, it's supposed to be like 'oh, look at jack's ex waltzing in and charming the pants off everyone (ha), and only ianto and jack see through him' - owen isn't given a flirty line of dialogue or even a close-up shot of him eyeing john like the girls get, but if you watch him closely he certainly looks… intrigued by him. i think owen's more of a bi disaster than he lets on.
➤➤ in episode 10, diane notes that owen has "beauty products" in his bathroom. obviously this shouldn't be indicative of sexuality, but how many Straight Men in 2006 were moisturizing lmao. hell, how many do nowadays 😭
➤➤ gwen & owen's dynamic settles into a lovely little friendship in s2 and owen lowkey gives gbf vibes <3 them making fun of the movie in s2e10 together + the cheek-kissing at the end of s2e9… bi besties!!
➤➤ the peace sign he throws up in meat when he meets rhys fdsjk i don't even believe in some of the silly internet jokes abt bi culture but c'mon
➤➤ have you seen his taste in women. diane is soo butch and gwen's a total tomboy in s1. that's bi culture babey!!!! i too like girls when they're boys
➤➤ i already talked about it but the aforementioned scene where he asks tosh and ianto for a threesome... he asks them, like, immediately after they team up and bully him for not comprehending that there's "no phones. phones all broken. anyone there? no, 'cause the phones aren't working." that was suuuch a disaster bi owen moment for me. i too would get a little revved up if tosh and ianto both bullied me at once <3
aaand finally... the biggest Evidence of all....
➤➤ he's a leather jacket bisexual. need i say more
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and that's all! thanks for reading!
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[credit for the dividers used in this. didn't tumblr used to have built-in dividers? i miss that.]
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kob131 · 1 month
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James had a plan, it would’ve brought the arena up to space and global communication would be restored forever cause no grimm can get to space. Is secret cause last time he showed his hands it all got turned against him.
RWBY says secrets bad despite lying and keeping all sorts of secrets from him.
Fucks over all his plans by making him spill the beans to the council and have Nero overhear and relay info to Cinder and Salem.
It’s almost like all of the problems could’ve been avoided if they had just trusted Ironwood and not be like Oz in keeping secrets.
1- No it wasn't.
Ironwood: If we harness the power of the Staff, and raise ourselves high into the atmosphere, the city's artificial climate will keep citizens and food supplies unharmed. Always out of reach of whatever Salem may try to send our way.
This is James' plan in its entirety. Nowhere does it mention restoring communications. In fact, Oscar outright says he's abandoning all of Remnant and giving up his plan on re-establishing communications. James does not disagree.
Oscar: If you abandon Mantle, you abandon our best chance of reuniting the world. You abandon Remnant, leaving millions to fend for themselves so a few can survive. What kind of-- Ironwood: (rolling his eyes) All excellent philosophical points that won't matter if Salem wins.
His statement doesn't make sense for him to say if he is trying to reunite Remnant now does it?
2- Congratulations- Now try to understand why on earth would Team RWBY be spilt on the idea of lying to James and why they would be uneasy about the idea if they were supposed to be right in doing so and how that makes no fucking sense.
3- His plan was falling apart BEFORE that point with Jacques forcing him into a corner.
Sleet: The fact of the matter is, you've operated with a fair amount of autonomy for the past few years, James. But we need now is for you to work with us. Winter is tapping her finger on the table with a scowl on her face. Ironwood: Sir, I have-- Camilla: It's obvious that no kingdom intends to declare war on Atlas. We had no involvement in the incident at Haven, we have proof our drones weren't acting on orders at Beacon. At this point, the closure of Atlas borders is only serving to hurt our relations with the rest of the world. Ironwood: I-- Robyn: The rest of the world? It's hurting us. The people of Atlas are suffering and they want to know why. Robyn turns her head to look at Ironwood who looks saddened. Jacques: Quite right, Ms. Hill. Ironwood drops the saddened expression and looks at Jacques. Robyn turns to Jacques, as well. Jacques: And I'm afraid there's more than just your choices that have brought harm to our citizens as of late. Have your forces found any additional evidence as to who is slaughtering innocent civilians down in Mantle? Clover is looking at Ironwood, and as he begins to speak, Clover turns his gaze to Jacques. Clover: That is an ongoing investigation, the details of which are classified, I'm afraid. Jacques immediately begins speaking again, not leaving even a split second of silence. Jacques: I'm afraid of the ever-growing list of classified information you seem to be keeping. I asked our fellow councilmen here to shed some light on your Amity Colosseum project and, as it turns out, they know about as much as I do. Winter continues to tap her finger on the table. Robyn: Even you don't know? Ironwood: The Amity Project will help with all of the issues you've presented, but you have to understand that discretion is a top priority at this time. Jacques: Are you saying you don't trust us? Winter's tapping speeds up, and she aggressively slams her fist onto the table and stands up, facing Jacques. Winter: You can't just buy trust like everything else, you have to earn it! Robyn looks at Winter, smiling a little. There is silence for a few moments, and Jacques begins smiling. Jacques: I couldn't have said it better myself. Winter gasps. Jacques: General, if I may be blunt, you have spent what little trust this Council had left in you. The hacker who turned Atlas drones against us was never captured, whoever's been murdering your critics is still at large. How are we supposed to give you our trust, when you've given us nothing as of late?
Remember how much the writers hate Jacques and portray him as not even have the backbone of fucking Adam then realize that they are writing him as having a point against James. Then realize how this is fucking over his plan.
4- Congratulations- You understand Team RWBY's INTENDED character flaws.
Now try James.
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agro-carnist · 1 year
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One thing that's come from this is that it's shown who is actually interested in the truth and who isn't. The fearmongering, dramamongering crowd don't care about any actual research that's been done on the topics they passionately attack people over. Have they ever bothered to ask what the professionals that study and treat kink, paraphilia, and paraphilic disorders have to say? What their position is? No, they care what other people online believe. They don't let the evidence lead to a conclusion. They look for any "evidence" that supports the conclusion they've already made. They let what they think makes sense to them design the argument rather than anything tangible. They see what big name online has been called out and say that's the proof. What FEELS right is proof. What I consider "normal" is the proof. They very easily brush off any actual evidence shown them as not worth their time, or clearly made by pedo apologists because it doesn't confirm "common sense," or grasp for any tiny reason to dismiss it as untrue, while also providing absolutely nothing to support them. People that care about aligning with what is true actually look into what has been said by people that know what they're talking about, even when they don't come to the same conclusion. They are able to see that there are many potential outcomes and choose the one that they feel has the best supporting evidence, but are willing to change their mind based on new information. This situation isn't just having an opinion or disagreeing with someone, it's specifically anti intellectual and fear mongering. It's designed to paint your enemies as the worst people based on the most bad faith interpretation of what you see, without any room for anything else, no matter how much the evidence disproves you. It is no different than how the ARAs or other fear-based groups function. The goal is to set up a person that does not exist but give it someone's name, and then destroy it. It is not about learning or the truth or protecting anyone. It is about using alarmist tactics to depict yourself as a morally righteous hero by casting out regular people you have deemed as too deviant to be worth human decency. Create a sense of danger based on emotional responses, build that up, and then attack in a blind rage. There is only room for black and white thinking in those groups. Never believe there is a possibility you could be wrong. That's the thinking of predators. Anythinf and everything the enemy does is proof of their monstrous nature. No matter what they say or do, it's bad. And these predators are all around you. They are master manipulators. Once someone is labeled a predator, you can't trust anything they say. They are Bad and we are Good. They don't act like WE do, and we are Good, so they must be Bad. Anything you do, it's for the good of children and animals. Think of the children. Think of the animals. The world is full of predators. Deviancy is predatory. Destroy deviancy at all costs.
But never step out of line and show a whiff of anything your friends have decided is unclean, unacceptable, immoral. They will cannibalize you. This way of life leads to everyone turning on each other at some point. Anyone that doesn't adhere to the arbitrary rules will be attacked. Consider another point of view or ever question what has already been decided as true will make you an outcast. Ever suggest that maybe you are wrong and you'll become a monster too. Because it's not about learning and growing and discovering a better outlook. It's about punishing an imagined evil and maintaining a Visage of righteousness. And what we feel is good must be good, and what we feel is evil must be evil, not matter what anyone, even the experts, say otherwise.
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https://peejsocks.tumblr.com/post/683976257499693056/starting-an-argument-with-your-fave-just-to-end-up
Can I also request this with Ryan yes pls if u do smut
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87. not being able to focus on anything during a conversation, you're too busy staring at your lover's lips
a/n: i hope it’s ok i combined the two, they just fit well together. thank you for requesting <3
disclaimers/tags: nsfw. pretty much pwop. borderline rough sex.
ryan dunn x f!reader
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"I am not kissing Ryan."
Leaning on the wall, your body jolts up, exclamation directed towards the boys in the couch.
It's hard to hear them over the loud music and chatter of the crowd, clueless as to why you're discussing this at a party.
"C'mon, it's just one skit." Pontius pipes up. Knowing he doesn't even care about the confusing 'skit' Bam just came up with, more interested in instigating, you snicker at him. "You're supposed to be an actress, aren't you?"
That's actually offensive, not appreciative of condescending talk regarding your career.
Breathing in, remembering this is classic Chris pushing people over the edge, you put your foot down. "I'm not doing it. Why can't it be anyone else?"
"Because it's funnier if he has to kiss someone he hates."
Well, that does make sense. Bam's laugh is still irritating.
"I don't hate her." Ryan shrugs, sitting on the back of the couch, holding a beer in between his legs and not looking at you. He knows how to irk you, using the third person as if it is not worth it to waste words in your direction. "She's pretentious and I'm bored when she talks, but hate is too much."
His bluntness is not unfamiliar. Arguments between you were a constant whenever you joined the Jackass guys, either at a party or a guest-star appearance in an episode. Essentially, you think he's dumb and aggravating, disagreeing with his general attitude; and he finds you to be a tightass who takes herself too seriously and acts above everyone for being 'real' hollywood.
Anything was a reason to bicker. If anybody asked you, however, Ryan is the one who starts all of your fights, provoking you until a sarcastic comeback sets off a proper half hour argument.
"Ok, see, no chemistry." Hands moving between you and the blonde man, you try to end this ridiculous conversation. "It won't be fun for anyone. Not the role for me, sorry."
Stuffing your hands in the pockets of your denim jacket, which covered a little black dress, you shrug away into an escape but Ryan prevents it. Quickly, he's standing up and pointing fingers.
"Because you don't think I'm good enough. Again, that's just proof you have a superiority complex. Not the 'role' for you, that's ridiculous! It's just a skit, not one of your indie projects."
"Okay, leave my job out of this. It wasn't serious, I was joking." You put an enphasis on the last word.
A legitimate laugh comes out when he responds with 'your joke sucks'. He's clearly not as good at controlling his emotions as you.
Stepping closer, you can feel his breath on your face. For a second, you swear his eyes glance at your lips. "Are you gonna throw a tantrum over it?"
Remembering Chris and Bam are watching everything, you decide to take the rude route and leave the room wordlessly.
It's hot inside the house, cringing when your hand feels the sweat in the back of your neck. Looking around, you figure no one's gonna notice you sneaking out into the backyard, so you push through the many bodies to the chipped white door.
There's a clear sky, providing the comfort of having a lot of space to breathe and feeling very small in the vast of night. People tend to be unnerved by thoughts like that, but it calmed your mind.
A full moon is responsible for the only lighting in the 'forbidden' section of this house party.
Ryan bursting through the door and loudly going down the three steps, wood creaking, ruins your peaceful moment.
"Yes, I am." You're confused and he rolls his eyes, impatient. "Throwing a tantrum. I'm doing it."
Running a hand down your face, you sigh and take your jacket off, feeling the humid air creeping up. The metal of the buttons scratch against the picnic table you throw it onto. "Can't it wait? I really wanted to enjoy some fresh air and silence."
"Why are you so against it?" Of course there's a cigarrette in between his lips. It gives him even more of an unhinged look than he usually has.
"It would not help our situation at all." Direct was the way to go, hoping an answer would suffice and the subject would be dropped. Unfortunately, he asks what exactly is your 'situation'. "You know. Insuffurable."
"That's your fault!" He is so convinced of this, yelling it, that your shocked expression meets his intensity. "C'mon, you walk around with your nose up, untouchable. What's so special about you, huh?"
Ryan is wildly gesturing with both hands, the cigarrette moving up and down in his lips as he talks, tiny puffs coming out.
Eyes focus on one thing at a time. Shaggy hair. Scratchy beard. Tight black shirt and those stupid heavy boots. Something twisted is going on, because why is Ryan raining insults over you turning your cheeks red?
Carelessly bunching up your hair so it's not sticking to your neck, you think of ways to force the stranger in front of you to leave. Maybe when he's out of sight you'll calm down.
"You know what, asshole? So much. And you'll never know. I am too good for you." His cigarrette is out on the grass, eyes squinting, probably suspicious of the unnatural answer he always tried to extract out of you but never got. "I don't need you tarnishing my record."
"Isn't that part of your job, though? Are you gonna refuse a role everytime you disagree with a co-star?" Laughing, his shoes are an inch away from the tip of your knee-high boots. "No one will take you seriously if you act like a middle-school girl. Didn't you call me unprofessional?"
His tone is teasing enough to give away he's intentionally trying to drive you mad. Sick of having your dedication to acting questioned you step up to Ryan, biting the bait, face to face once more.
"I don't think you got it. I can take a prick at work any day. The problem is you, Dunn. I don't want anything to do with a scumbag like you." It's harsh, and he gives no reaction. Instead, he does it again, definitely looking down at your lips. Feeling your plan backfiring, you try to get his attention back to your words. "Are you even listening? Your head is so far up-"
Big hands envelop the back of your head, Ryan's nose grazing yours during the kiss.
When you move away, ready to ask what the fuck, the same hands pull you back in.
"Shut up."
Dry lips kiss you again, a taste of cigarrettes and cold beer, exactly what you would've expected. All that the mixture does is add onto your confusion, you want more.
The very reason this fight started is what's happening right now, and it feels so good. You can't believe you nearly passed on it.
Guiding you backwards, his hands are now sliding down your back. Cold fingers grab your ass, lifting your dress just enough to feel the skin.
"Ryan?" A whisper, not really intentional, you're just so lost your brain is demanding outside help.
Instead of an answer, Ryan slips his tongue in your mouth. You hum and it wakes you up, pushing on the heaving chest.
He can't even look you in the eyes, still focused on your red lips. "What?"
Attempting to choke out a sentence, a strange noise is what comes out, clearly still out of your body.
Ignoring you completely, the kiss is so rough this time it hurts your jaw and a string of saliva runs down your mouth.
As quick as it happened, it ended.
"Do you want me to stop?" Ryan cuts off all physical touch but doesn't move otherwise, few inches away.
Your knees buckle at his raspier tone, desesperate to get out of this skin-tight dress. The answer is obvious, but saying 'no' was too real, so you opt for implying it.
Grabbing a handful of his shirt, you pull him close and clarify through gritted teeth, "If you ever tell anyone about this…"
"Wouldn't dream of it." He's all over you again, holding your hips until they hit the same piece of garden furniture you abandoned your jacket on.
Before you can complain about the pain in your back from the table, Ryan's palm is brushing up your thigh, eventually reaching the thin underwear. A shudder runs through your body and he chuckles, self-satisfied.
If this is how it's going to be, you might as well try to enjoy it. Taking advantage of your position, you rub yourself against his hand and pull on his blonde hair, fully intending to hurt him.
You end up biting his lip and having to apologize when he mouths off. "Sorry, princess, I didn't know you wanted me to be gentle."
"By all means, let's switch it up." Ryan's other hand goes under the dress to rip your underwear, making you gasp. It was expensive. "Hey, your words."
"I can't fucking believe y-" Words are caught in your throat when he uses his knee to spread your legs further apart. Luckily, he catches on to how soaked you already are and inserts two fingers right away.
Your grunt is vulgar, a primal reaction to being treated with such little hesitation. It gets the intended chain of reactions, Ryan's fingers start moving and his lips are on yours again, slowly but expertly using his tongue.
It's the first time the two of you are mostly quiet in each other's presence.
To change that, gripping his shoulders, you do your best to rub his crotch with your leg, and successfully pull out a moan from his lips.
Unfortunately, it's still not enough action, the awkward position not allowing much room for real stimulation. "This isn't working."
"What's wrong?" Taken aback by the sincere concern, you feel more confident when his hands move back to your ass by default.
"I need you deeper." The words are so casual that Ryan is now the one temporarily thrown off. You point your head to the left. "Think you can take me against the wall?"
No thought is given to the question, benefiting from the hand placement and lifting you up. You're glad to be carried to the spot - which meant you were now hidden from the door's view - unable to count on your wobbly legs.
Ryan puts you down dramatically slow, hands feeling your body as he does.
It's uncharacteristically sensual. Presumably trying to step it up, he bites your neck.
His tongue starts licking down to your breast, and before you can stop it, he's pulling the shoulder strap of your dress down and uncovering one of your breasts. It's equally revolting and pleasurable when he takes your nipple in, still using his teeth.
Fingers snake up to pull on golden locks subconsciously, begging him to continue. But the familiar feel of being given a hickey stops you. "What the fuck, dude?"
"Relax, the dress is gonna cover it."
Realizing who you're letting get away with all this, a defensive posture starts replacing your vulnerable state. Ryan notices, trying to salvage the moment. "No, no, c'mon. You're gonna give up that easily?"
"I think this is a fucking mistake."
"Well, yeah. Of course it is. So what?" His hands press you back against the wall, fingers pushing your dress up carefully. What you really want to do is slap him and ask for more, but you refrain for now. "We're already here. What's the point of not finishing it?"
Whether it's because he's right or because of the way he licked his lips is not important. What matters is your hand curling around his belt, tongue searching for its perfect match again.
Moving forward before you can change your mind, Ryan waits for you to unbuckle him and take his dick out, stroking it just a few times. That gets him to turn the tables and bite your lip, but there are no complaints this time around.
Panting, he takes a second to breathe before picking you up again and slamming into you. Overwhelmed with how unceremonious this whole thing is a moan escapes you.
Angry at how rushed he's making this and internally asking for him to go faster, this might be the most at a loss you've ever been.
Reading your mind and thrusting quicker, he decides to toy with you. "I had no problem unwinding you, huh? Do other guys even get you this thight around them?"
That should be disgusting, but things are upside-down tonight and you moan again when the tip of his head hits so close to where you need it. "Fuck you. Keep talking."
He laughs, spurring on the knot in your stomach.
Everything is backwards. If you ever told yourself in the past that Ryan could get you close to orgasming simply by doing his best and being a dick you'd never believe it.
"Seriously? This is how you get off?" He slows down to talk shit. "Perfect doll, in line for America's next sweetheart, and I bet you got wet everytime we got in a fight. Sneaking out to bathrooms on set to touch yourself. Fuck, no one will ever believe it."
"Jesus, Ryan, please. Please fuck me faster, I need you to."
Really hitting your limit, resorting to begging, this isn't your proudest moment. Especially when the blonde is having his way with you.
"You need me?"
"I do."
That does it, and Ryan quickly caters to your pleading, concentrating on fucking you hard and quick. Your thighs are already sore, the leather of his belt scratching the skin, beard burning against your collarbone.
It's not long before you finish, climax proportionate to the power of the guy who you had called a scumbag hips burying into you.
Gifted with the opportunity to see him like this, you grab the sides of his face and whisper in his ear, still out of breath. "I know you want to fill me inside, because you're fucking filthy. Now or never."
You watch his face as he cums, hands grabbing your ass for stability.
That's a new feeling. Satisfied and appaled at the amount of white fluid running down your legs, probably staining your leather boots.
His teeth dig into your shoulder with one last shudder.
Your feet are on the ground again, but Ryan doesn't move away yet. His forehead is touching yours, hand gripping onto your hair hard enough to pull on your scalp and eyes closed, trying to steady his breathing.
You take all of it in before he can step back.
When he does, the night air feels colder and you realize the state you're in, adjusting your dress and covering your breast, which was still shamelessly out. The hickey is indeed hidden under the dress.
It's akward to see him sacrifice the red bandana he carried around to clean you, silent.
Walking towards the picnic table to collect and put on your jacket, your ripped underwear comes into view, wind moving it around in the grass. You pick it up.
Ryan has his back turned to you, finishing putting himself together, when you walk around him and shove the useless panties into the front pocket of his blue jeans.
Avoiding his eyes, you point out something, "There's a cum stain in your jeans."
"It's old."
Huffing out a laugh and rolling your eyes, "Of course."
You start heading back inside when he speaks. "So, this never happened, right?"
Turning on your heels, you shrug and smile casually, gesturing with hands inside the pockets of your jacket. "It never happened."
Running up the few steps on the porch, you stride into the closest bathroom to clean up better. Looking into the mirror, make up smudged and swollen lips, it's impossible to not laugh at the absurdity of what happened.
You make your way back into the party more mindful of closing your legs when you sit down. Then again, sitting down right now might be painful.
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mack3030 · 2 years
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SIMBLR CANNOT STAY SILENT ANY LONGER ABOUT BULLIES.
TW: suicide/self harm below the gif
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The TRANS MAN (Bucky) that Cowbuild misgendered and deadnamed....who Cowbuild has continually insisted is me, and doesn't exist. [When there is PLENTY of evidence otherwise] has been constantly harrassed by anon haters since coming out and speaking his part about how Cowbuild abused him. Because it IS abuse. Bucky was vulnerable with the community and spoke openly about having a very rare disease that makes him vulnerable to wanting to hurt themselves. He shared how Cowbuild's words DEEPLY affected him. He shared how he wants Cowbuild to remove the transphobic and hateful comments. And he stood up against his bully and abuser. Then, he comes to this community, a community he thinks will understand what he has gone through, and he makes a simple request for help using a gofundme in relation to two sick puppies. He offers, the ENTIRE TIME to provide proof if needed, and tells people they don't have to give if they don't want to. One of his puppies ends up passing away, which is a heartbreaking thing for any pet owner to go through. Again, he offers proof of this.
Instead of understanding, he gets CONSTANT hateful comments in his ask box, with people using anons and burner accounts. People accusing him of trying to scam for money using a fake story. And even people telling him to hurt himself, and suggesting ways to take his life. All while simblr was silent.
This is the lowest the community has ever come. I have been reblogging, and tagging, and screaming and trying to get people to listen and only a few people have had the nerve to remotely say anything. I am making this post hoping it's becauase people don't understand the situation, rather than they don't care because it doesn't "effect" them. The most recent post on bucky's (@victimofcowbuild's) tumblr is written by his husband. Because Bucky cannot post at the moment. Because they attempted to harm themselves last night and are not mentally able to handle being on tumblr. I am not going to go into the details of WHAT happened, but I do want simblr to know that between all of the anon hate, and people not speaking up and telling the bullies to stop it this is the result. The breaking point came when someone decided to circumvent Bucky's ask box and send an ask to @littleblackbooksims calling Bucky a scammer. Bucky then posted a screenshot of their vet bill, leaving the name of the vet uncensored. Telling people they could call the vet's office and confirm if a dog with the name "Fleetwood" was treated there. I have confirmation from Bucky's husband that the vet's office was spammed with harrassing calls. The vet's office has record of this, and is keeing record of it. Bucky's husband also allowed us [bucky's friends] to make statements trying to raise awareness in the community as long as we were respectful. I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT THESE ANON ACCOUNTS AND ASKS THAT HAVE BEEN PESTERING BUCKY ARE PART OF THE PRO-PAYWALL MAFIA GROUP THAT WE EXPOSED. 1) Because Bucky did not receive anon hate until he started calling out Cowbuild and sharing his story. 2) Because some of these SAME accounts that have been circumventing anon asks being turned off are the same accounts that tried to blackmail me and bully me when I spoke out. They have been harrassing me for a while now. 3) Because this is the M.O of the paywalling side of the argument. I have been dealing with anon/sock account shit for almost 2 years now.
I AM BEGGING YOU SIMBLR, PLEASE REBLOG AND SHARE THIS. LET THE COMMUNITY KNOW THAT THIS IS NOT OKAY. THIS IS NO LONGER PAYWALLS VS NO PAYWALLS. THIS IS NOT CREATOR VS CONSUMER. THIS IS NOT ALPHA VS MAXIS. THIS IS NOT POINTLESS DRAMA. THIS IS SOMEONE'S LIFE ALMOST ENDING BECAUSE TOXIC ASS PEOPLE IN THE COMMUNITY DECIDED TO HIDE BEHIND ANON ASKS AND SOCK ACCOUNTS AND BULLY THEM.
You can hate me and what I stand for, you can not care about CC, you can think simblr drama is fucking pointless. But this is not drama. This is someone's life being put in danger because of fucking internet bullies. And we need to put a stop to it and show support and awareness. Please. You can disagree with everything else I say and STILL show support for Bucky. I am going to put screenshots of some of the comments that were directed at Bucky below the warning gif below. Some screenshots bucky shared with myself and others, others are screenshots from friends, a few are my own. Please do NOT view them if you could be triggered. For your own mental health.
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zeroducks-2 · 9 months
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i understand that you didn’t have any harmful intentions when it came to your reblog about the mature filter, but that post was specifically about the mistreatment of trans women and how they are the ones most heavily impacted by the staff, whether they post actual mature stuff or not. you probably didn’t mean to, but your addition seemed to minimise the harm that transfemmes are put through and it most likely would have been better if you had made your own post instead of derailing another.
If you're the same anon who sent hate before, I'd appreciate you started out with an apology and I am not really inclined to talk to you, but since I care about the subject I will give it a proper response.
I respectfully disagree about how my reblog minimizes the harm that trans women are put through. Trans women are included in the queer community, and tumblr censors (or anyway attempts to) posts about the queer community in general - point which I think is worth considering while we talk about how posts about trans women get censored. We can have both the conversations at the same time.
It's like with the current politics in the US, UK and in many other countries: the main focus is on trans folks at the present moment, but truly what these people hate (these people: bigots, fascists, neo-nazis, right-wingers in general) is queer folks. Scratch the surface and everything comes out: the groups pushing for the erasure and criminalization of transness are against abortion, divorce, gay marriage, drag, otherness of any kind, and this is an important conversation to be had not because it's about taking the focus away from trans folks, but because it's about reminding everyone that we either stand together or we fall.
Tumblr's bigot tendencies reek of this. Posts that mention trans women get labelled mature, posts that show two men kissing get labelled mature, pictures of men in tasteful lingerie get labelled mature, and posts mentioning mlm or wlw love get labelled mature. These are all the same thing: queerphobia, so while we have a conversation about how tumblr censors posts about trans women, it's worth mentioning (mentioning, not overriding the original topic) that tumblr also censors other types of queer content, which demonstrates further how it isn't a bug (as staff tried to claim), it isn't any kind of fluke and it instead it's something embedded in the website's policies and in how they handle certain kinds of content in general.
That being said, I also don't think the post got derailed in any meaningful way. My followers (which aren't by any means a significant number by the way) know my stance in regard to trans issues and know that I myself am part of the trans community, and they're aware of the fact that I care personally about the topic. I have gotten a few likes on that post, maybe one or two reblogs, and the focus kept being on trans women's posts as it was meant to be, as in fact my addition meant to only be a reminder that yes, staff does this, they do target queer content, this is not a coincidence or a one time thing.
I might understand the contempt if I had said something like "actually it's not trans women, they're fiiine - the point is everyone else". But I haven't. What I'm saying is that yes they indeed do this to trans femmes, they do this all the time with queer content, we are not misplaced in our feelings of outrage. There is LITERAL PROOF that they do this, so we should recognize and be aware that when we engage with this site we also engage with a bigoted, transphobic & queerphobic staff.
There was no need to send me hate over it, either.
This is the post with my reblog, for reference.
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orange-orchard-system · 10 months
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I keep getting asks about discourse even though I have said many times before that this not a place where I like to hold discourse. I don't plan to change that, but since people can't leave it alone, I'll give a rundown on some of our general Discourse Perspectives and Rules™ so I can just tap the sign if anyone else comes into our inbox or something screaming at us over any other/more discourse in the future.
I don't take call-outs or other accusations seriously unless they have reasonable proof for everything. This means that: the proof must not be easily disputable; it must not be offensive or harmful due to a misunderstanding, finding its way out of the audience it was intended for, or simple mistake due to perspective at the time it was made/said; it must not be something taken out of context. I also don't consider minor mistakes or a simple difference in opinion on minor issues something that justifies a giant call-out or cancelation, especially in cases where they can just be taken up with the op privately (or even just on a reblog chain); the call-out itself must be an appropriate reaction to any offense. Calling for a full "cancelation" of someone over a single post the op didn't mean to hurt anyone with (just as an example) is not what we'd consider appropriate.
On a related note, no, "this person has done XYZ which is bad but I'm not gonna elaborate on the how or why" is not enough for us to give a shit about whatever discourse you're yapping about. Either elaborate with sources, direct quotes, and an explanation, or leave us alone.
If we ever do speak about a call-out, us asking questions and questioning what we may see as weak points doesn't mean we're "defending" whoever the call-out is about. It just means I want clarification and/or think the call-out is being a little unfair, not that I think criticism of the person in question is necessarily unwarranted. My opinions on call-outs and my opinions on who those call-outs are about are two separate things. I can say I think something is taken out of context while agreeing that it wasn't very good in context (as just one example).
This is because call-outs and discourse – however normal they've become in modern internet times – can still be very serious things. I will engage with serious things like this with a critical eye, because I don't want to come to a rash decision that could hurt people. I consider myself decent at textual analysis, and I'm going to implement my skills at that to whatever call-outs or "why are you supporting X" messages I happen across. If I end up dismissing something based on the conclusion I draw, that does not necessarily mean I think the accused did nothing wrong, but rather that what was brought before me to accuse them does not hold up.
Just because we reblog from or talk to someone doesn't mean we agree with them on every discourse opinion they may have. In fact, we may disagree with and criticize their views, perhaps even openly – we've done it before.
Trying to explain our thoughts on every little discourse point is not worth the time or effort to us. If you can't find our public opinion on something, assume we either have a private opinion and have thought it over amongst ourselves, or don't feel we know enough to say something on it or form an Official Opinion™ (assuming we know anything at all). Discourse is not one of our hobbies, and we don't intend to make it one.
On a related note, stop assuming that everyone on the internet is fully and wholly informed on every single discourse argument going on at all times. I have a life outside of Tumblr and try not to make myself miserably overwhelmed by all the horrible things in the world; you cannot possibly expect me to understand what the hell you're talking about if you come onto my blog and start randomly accusing people of just generally being horrible with no context or explanation. I am not omniscient, I am just someone blogging on the internet.
Might add onto this in the future if we feel the need to, but I think this establishes most of our bases. Part of me can't believe this is necessary, but it's Tumblr, so better safe than sorry when it comes to discourse. Especially considering people have already tried to start shit with us many times in the past. Good to have a sign to tap for when it inevitably happens again.
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HSMTMTS S3 EP2 : Into The Unknown
This episode was great!! I don't even know where to begin!
I think I will begin with Gina: yes she reminds me of her old self, but with a change, I don't disagree with Kourtney and Ashlyn, but I don't totally agree! Gina wants to shine, she wants to have the first role, and it's her time! She wasn't Gabriella nor Belle, but now she really wants to be Anna (or Elsa, she's the first role too). A part is because of the documentary, but another part is for her, she wants to prove to herself that she can do it!
I absolutely loved the two girls who were Gina's fan, and I really hope that someone will talk to them after what happened to the audition because I feel like one of them will have a good role while the other don't... I mean, Ash and Kourt saw that scene, they could have said something...
I really liked the way Gina looked at Ricky in the audition, I know people will freak out and pointed like "see Rina is endgame", but for me, Gina was like a proud mom/friend. She is the one that pushed Ricky in the first season, she just wanted him to realize he have talent and that he was born to be on stage!
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About Ricky now, I liked the conversation he had with Gina, it was akward but I'm happy they decided to forget everything that happened! They are just friends and now the air is clear!
I absolutely love what Carlos said to him in the bed, that line about the fact that he always come unprepared and has the role because he is talented can't be a thing in Camp. This is not Miss Jen, and he needs to understand that he can't do this anymore.
But when he came late in this ski suit, I laughed so hard. Yes he was shown with it in the trailer, but the way he entered and Carlos said it was tradition... Epic 😂
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What I also love in this episode is what happened with Jet: yes he has some attitude problems but his voice was so great!! And Ricky making a comparison with him, was cool to see!
I also really like the sort of conversation they had, because since the trailer I already ship them. I mean Ricky is definitely bi, the way he ask what were the relationship between Hans and Kristoff by saying "lovers?", is another proof to that.
About the other campers: I need to see more of Val before having a real opinion, but I don't like how everyone is saying she will make Portwell break up... I didn't feel this vibe from her, she was just happy to her friend! And I liked that she asked about Nini, because it's obviously a thing you will ask your friend if one year he is with a girl, and next year with another!
I liked that Gina was the one who said that Maddox was nice and just wanted everyone to be friend! I definitely could relate to what Maddox said about not having a lot friends because she doesn't know how to be with people! And I don't think that the last scene was a bad thing like they want us to think! It's just another weird tradition! And if Maddox is a witch, then it would be cool! I really want to see a good representation of modern witches!
Anyway, go back to the campers: I don't really know what Carlos changed, but I have a feeling it's not the final cast list just a draft! Val wouldn't have left the real list here, right?
About EJ's, I loved the Portwell scenes, the beginning, and the scene were he said to Gina that their couple was the only thing he was sure about!! I liked seeing him stressed because he was always this super confident guy, and seeing him freak out for once was great! Plus, anyone else wouldn't be able to be a director for a show like that... He's still a high schooler!
Now, let's talk about Nini in LA. I didn't expect at all that Jesse Tyler Ferguson would play the "father" (I don't want to say sperm donor because it's kinda a thing you said to a father who isn't great... Plus, he tried to be a father to Nini, and it was nice). I liked learning more about Nini's family, her moms weren't really shown in the series so far! Plus, this meeting inspired her a new song !
Speaking about the songs, I will first talk about Gina's : it was great, I really like the dancing, the lyrics really shown that she is determinate! But I must say that it didn't resonate with me, like "A Dancer's Heart", that song was so good that I was kinda hopping this new song to be as good... But it was still great !!
The audition songs were great, I love that everyone shine, their voices were great, and I don't want to be at Val's place because I couldn't even said who was better!
Jet impressed me, he had such a great voice, and Ashlyn joining him at the piano was nice!! I really loved how everyone was genuinely happy that he was this good, when he is a concurrent! At first I thought he could be Hans, but I don't know if it will be fair, knowing he didn't read any text... 🤔
And then, there's Nini's song. It was sooo good! I'm very happy to hear a song that isn't sad, it was full of hopes for this summer, and it's all I wish to Nini: to have a great summer! Definitely my favorite of the episode!!
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Man Only now did I realize that because of Lance the crystal was not only one time in danger but two times!😭 If only he could have not destroyed the crystal 8 years before nothing of this would have happened. And we have to fix his bullshit those two times? By sacrificing ourselves??? 😂😭 I need to hit him even harder or make a petition to HH so he can be the new sacrifice 😈😈😈
Well, yes. A fair point. He can definitely be blamed. I'll not jump to his defense and tell you he isn't, even if I've always been on his side.
I don't think anyone should sacrifice anything. You know, we don't just harvest every healthy organ from fresh corpses if the person didn't give consent when they were alive. By pressuring them to give up their body and life, they granted Erika and Leiftan less bodily autonomy than what we give to a lifeless body. I'm not sure how it happened exactly, I didn't have it in me to finish the last episode, but I know that this is some serious monkey business.
Lance might be a nutcase sociopath with every last one of his screws lose, but he still has the right to decide if he wants that. Eldarya was never supposed to exist, it was born of hatred and cruelty and it was destined to fail right from the start, he knows that and he was trying to rip the bandaid off to get it over with.
The fae may claim whatever reason they want for why it was necessary, but that will never make it be worth it. It's not the aengels fault that their food is inedible, they had the right to not die. The fact that they were massacred by the fae is proof to me that humans were never the problem. These pieces of shit, entitled bastards doomed their descendants to a slow and painful extinction in a world that's botched beyond words. They teach it in schools that the humans were hateful and hostile, they say that's why they left, but who's really the problem if they're willing to do the exact same thing to the aengels? This is a clean cut textbook example of hypocrisy.
On a smaller scale, it's like having a drunk guy flirt with you and asking you to go home with him, but when you say no he assaults you. He took what he wanted anyway, even if you had the right to refuse.
Lance is not very nice, but he's definitely a good person. He does his thing and let's others do theirs unless it's his business to mind. He has some less than ideal methods but in the end he just wants to make everything right. What he thinks is right, at least.
Isn't that what everyone is doing? Well, some people want what's best for themselves and they step on others, but clearly our main characters are not like that. (some might be) Miiko did what she could to stop him because she sincerely believed that the crystal is their lifeline and she thinks that the best thing is to keep on living. They disagreed, they thought each other to be equally wrong, yet only one of them was condemned. She was unfit to lead, she should have gotten more help but for some reason she was the only person good enough. Apparently only rich people are allowed to lead the light guard. It's a wholesale size can of worms that I shouldn't open, let's talk about something else...
Erika us not that smart. She doesn't know how to read between the lines and doesn't see below the surface. She's attached to the guard because she doesn't know any better, she was never exposed to anything but the guidance of her inadequate leaders and of men who have no business getting into a relationship with their employee. They call her weak, they treat her like a child, they control her life completely, and yet she's equal enough to them to give consent? Weirdos. It's perverted, honestly.
They groomed her to think what they do is the only right thing and she gave up everything she had to please them. Somehow whenever she questioned them she could be coaxed back into their arms and made to forget it ever happened. She's a victim, and now that Lance works for the guard, he's just as gaslit as her.
The guard of El is a cult that manipulates it's members. They play with innocent lives like they have the right and they only allow people of high class to become their leaders.
Eldarya is unsustainable. Everything that's meant to be can sustain itself by nature, if this world is only kept alive artificially then it's time to take it off life support. It's not anyone's fault that it's dying, especially not Lance's.
If I may refer to Fullmetal alchemist, let me just say that this abomination of a world is like that thing Ed and Alf created when they tried to resurrect their mother.
It was never going to live, it's every moment is agony, let it die.
I know I said I won't jump to his defense, yet I did. Oops. He might seem like a vigilantee, but think about it. What makes him any less worthy to take action than the guard? Nothing. The guard is exactly like him and his army, but lead by leashes instead by good reason.
Anyway, moral of the story is: Don't complain when you get arrested after violating someone's consent. You're not the victim, you asshole.
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starry-pierrot · 5 months
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Help Wanted 2 Ideas and Theories (spoilers)
I'm going to start this off by saying that I'll be disagreeing with a lot of theories I've seen around, but this is in no way meant to attack or invalidate those theories. At this point no one can claim anything as fact as the game in my opinion makes everything much more confusing and nothing has been actually confirmed.
But there are things we can talk about : 3
From here on out there will be ending spoilers and basic spoilers in general. And just another quick reminder these are just my thoughts and I'm in no way refuting other ideas or theories as if it's fact.
So I guess I'll start off with the one I've seen most.
There is a theory going around that we the player are a child, which just doesn't make much sense to me. I get where the idea came from, specifically from Sun calling us a child, but the rest of the game doesn't fit this narrative.
I've also seen people talk about how in Help Wanted (First one) that we were playing a game the whole which is true but the game itself was meant only for Fazbear employees. Not children. I personally chalk Sun's use of the word 'child' to either a writings mistake or that part of the game is actually a game and not at all real.
You see in HW2 we have two realties, the mask one and the real one and each side has their own games. The Arts and Crafts specific game has two versions, one being in the Mask Reality and the other being in Reality. We can tell the difference because one is in a very clean environment while the other seems to take place before Ruin.
So my problem with the child theory is that...it just wouldn't make sense. The program we are playing is again only meant for employees, the game I believe takes place just before Ruin (Sun's broken down, Roxy gets her mask in game, Chica is busted up). It's the in-between for the two games.
With this in mind what kid would be around the Ruined Pizzaplex and somehow managing to figure out and work said program to even play these games? Let alone getting down into the old location. The game starts off directly speaking to an employee and no one else besides Sun mentions anything about the player being a child.
So if we're not a kid-what are we? Well I have a few ideas. First the most usual answers to this could be Cassie's Dad, she speaks about him in the past tense meaning he's either already gone or could have left recently. Personally I'm not sure if i subscribe to this idea, it's not a bad one and I can see it fitting but I don't have any or seen any proof to this being the case.
Another idea is...that we are playing as a staff bot. And this isn't just because of the ending where a Mask Bot gives Cassie her mask it's that Fazbear has replaced almost all their employees with bots. Clearly the system is still up and running and you'd think that if some bot was supposed to go through the training, ended up surviving either the fire or earthquake (Not sure which is true) then it would just resume as if its a normal day once the shaking or fires stopped.
I don't know how much water that theory could hold.
But there's one more idea I had. Before in Ruin it was discovered that a backpack had been left behind with Gregory's name on it. Clearly there have been repeated returns to the pizzaplex (allegedly) so maybe we are playing as Vanessa. She would know how to operate the systems. I can see her going back to make sure that the Glitchtrap virus was fully gone.
We also know that Gregory was able to get into the systems so maybe they hacked a staff Bot and are playing remotely?
Not to mention the dialogue eluding to us looking like we would have a kid.
At this point I don't think the game gives us enough clues to really be sure what is going on and who we are actually playing as. There's a supposed DLC attached to the files so until we cover more things I would say who we are playing as is up in the air. ---------------------- Vanny Virus
Glitchtrap is dead. He's gone. Vanny quite literally squashed him and now the new big bad virus is Vanny.
Nothing really substantial here just wanted to write this part down.
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Sun's personality
Am I the only one who didn't quite see him as an asshole? I swear everyone just equated being sassy with being an ass.
We know how he was with Gregory, he was very kind and playful at first. But since we are playing with a program meant for staff only I suspect he's just sassy with the employees.
I still love him.
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Okay I've ran out of steam with this one but yeah! Those are basically my thoughts. Again I'm not posting this to attack anyone for their ideas, I'm just sharing my own thoughts like everyone else.
Feel free to reply and discuss!
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Regarding people responding to the Gnarlrock scene between Imogen and Laudna by only focusing on how sad it makes Laudna, I have to wonder if it's another symptom of people ignoring what Laura Bailey does with her characters in favour of their own headcanons. There's a trend in fandom I've noticed, particularly in shipping spaces, that really "owo smol-bean"-ifies Imogen. Her problems exist not to drive her character forward and to give her conflict and development, but to be something Laudna can kiss and make better. So now that Imogen is having a (completely reasonable) issue with Laudna, people don't know how to reconcile that with the watered-down version of the character that exists in their heads.
I agree completely, and I'm grouping this with this other ask with which I also agree and then choosing extreme violence, after which I require that any further questions on this topic that aren't just "oh yeah makes sense" or whatever be both a. off anon and b. well-articulated with a reasoned argument and a thesis statement; anything else will be deleted.
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Like, that's it in the end. How dare Laura's character be a independent being whose existence doesn't begin and end and fully center around someone else, whether it's her dead brother or a person with whom she's shipped? How dare she disagree with characters people like more? How dare she exercise any measure of agency that conflicts with the fandom's stupid-ass desires?
How dare Vex get married without Vax there even as he started his own relationship first and actively encouraged her to pursue her own romantic interests with her eventual husband? How dare she continue to live out her remaining 150 years of life without him and experience joy?
How dare Jester react positively when the person she'd indicated interest in reciprocated? How dare she choose a life of ongoing adventure and a home near her beloved mother instead of living as a housewife in a faraway foreign city where her god is illegal? How dare she not read the minds of the people who have crushes on her and know how they feel and respond accordingly?
How dare Imogen focus on her own, lifelong, painful problem and the loss of a potential solution instead of dropping everything and focusing on Laudna's problems instead? How dare she feel upset about this? How dare she get in the way of my fabricated picture of perfect girlfriends who have zero problems or obstacles?
How dare this woman be angry? How dare this woman have feelings I don't share about the situation? How dare this woman display even a shred of self-interest that isn't completely in service to someone else's goals? How dare that dumb bitch do what she wants and not what I want?
I deleted an ask this morning that was like "it feels like you're invalidating people who are sympathetic towards Laudna" like first off I'm specifically calling out people who are sympathetic towards Laudna and not towards Imogen which is absolutely crucial context and second of all yeah. I do not think you're valid. That's the fucking point. You're not entitled to my validation, and you don't have it. If you act like this? I think your opinions are garbage. If you need my agreement to feel valid, that's extremely not my problem (and, honestly, you're just giving me more proof as my whole point here is "sometimes people disagree with you and that is entirely their right and if you think the mere existence of disagreement is invalidating, you suck so fucking much.") Develop a sense of inherent self worth and/or develop better opinions, and either way, leave me out of it.
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I like the idea of Therese and SJ reconnecting if the Revolution ended well.
I want Therese and Maximilien to meet and SJ to panic
Don't get me started with a joke post that’s actually my pet conspiracy theory that I like to ramble about!
Ok, so SJ and Therese didn’t have to wait for the Revolution to end to reconnect. According to SJ’s village, they totally did reconnect in summer 1793, when Therese left her husband and went to Paris to live in a hotel that was like 5-10 minutes away from SJ’s place. 
There is no indication that they did meet in Paris, but we have a letter from SJ’s friend Thuillier informing him that the village believes that SJ had kidnapped her. Thuillier also gives SJ Therese’s address in Paris. To which SJ basically answered something along the lines of: “wtf? Tell everyone it’s rubbish, gotta go, very busy, bye”. Now, I believe SJ that he did not kidnap Therese, (especially not against her will, which were serious accusations; like Fabre was sentenced to death for that in the 1770s) but idk if I agree with historians who conclude that SJ’s reply proves that they absolutely, 100% did not meet in Paris. 
The whole thing is just so weird, with too many coincidences to simply reject the possibility that they did meet. Plus, Therese was in Paris to meet SJ (I guess? Why else would she go there?) and I assume she’d make an effort to see him. And there’s also that later rambling from SJ about how “if a couple don’t have children after 7 years, they are to separate” (Therese left her husband exactly on the 7th anniversary of their marriage, and they didn’t have children). So yes, I totally believe that SJ and Therese met in Paris 1793. 
There’s nothing indicating they were romantic* at this point, though - maybe he helped her as a friend (they did knew each other since they were kids, after all), and SJ talked so much about protecting women from unwanted marriages that I like to believe he’d help a friend. But as much as SJ/Therese super shipper Madeleine-Anna Charmelot would disagree, there is no proof that they were in a romantic/sexual relationship at this point. 
*There are no indications of any romantic or sexual between them except, maybe, that SJ’s short story, but that one was prob written close to Thermidor and there’s zero proof it’s about Therese (was she in Paris at all at that point?) It’s more that people assume Therese because we only know of few people ever linked to SJ romantically.
(But if the short story was about Therese, it hints at not everything working well for them and her being reluctant to fully commit (to what? the story is unclear) and SJ losing it because he was ride or die for people/ideas and expected others to be, too).  
I want Therese and Maximilien to meet and SJ to panic
I don't understand what you mean by this. Why, do you think that there is some chance that SJ was romantically
involved with Therese at this point? 😛
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(Part 1) Do you think Beth will be exactly like Dawn or Pamela, or even Alpha? She is so much associated with villains (not only, but still...), that I sometimes wonder that the "Bethyl romance" in 4x13 is all we ever get? It will be more about that Daryl will help Beth to overcome her demons... They show now Lydia being able to move on from Henry with Elijah, that I don't think a romantic relationship between Beth (or what she became) is what Daryl wants anymore. It will be more about healing
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Well, I mostly disagree with your analysis here.
Don't get me wrong, I love that you're looking at dialogue and symbolism and trying to draw conclusions. And I think you're barking up the right tree. But I just interpret it differently.
Beth has definitely been associated with villains. I think that has everything to do with the CRM and that she'll be a part of that organization when she appears. Because they'll be seen by Daryl and TF as "evil," I think that will disturb those who knew Beth and they'll wonder if she's like Dawn. But that doesn't mean she actually is. Though it may appear so on the surface, I think she'll be something more like a double agent, pretending to be simpatico on the surface, but secretly working to undermine them.
Of course we can't know for certain. It's just a vibe I get from all the symbolism I've analyzed. I do think she'll be a leader of some kind, because of Gorman's line about there someday being another leader who isn't Dawn.
But no, overall I don't think she'll TRULY be like Dawn or Alpha.
I disagree that she would come to believe in and live Dawn's philosophy of things. Most of us have come to believe that her "I get it now" probably referred to her truly understanding the negative basis and results of Dawn's philosophy, which was why she stabbed Dawn: to try and put an end to it. She saw that, even though Dawn tried to convince Beth that she was a good person and doing the best she could by her people, when it came right down to it, she was still power hungry and manipulative, as evidenced by how she tried to force Noah to stay.
So, that specifically shows that she DOESN'T adhere to Dawn's philosophy.
Now, I do think the way she approached things in the hallway at Grady was flawed. She came directly at Dawn and embraced a violent act, and that got her shot. I think she'll learn from that. That she'll still fight injustice, but will do it in a different way. Perhaps under the radar and less direct (hence the secret agent persona).
As for Bethyl, I do think there might be some demons she needs to overcome--being left behind by her family, if nothing else--and that Daryl might help her with that, as she once helped him. I think that would bring the entire arc full circle in a really beautiful way.
But I also do 100% believe Bethyl will be a thing. Just the fact that they put Beth in the ep 18 montage the way they did is practically proof in my mind (even though it's really just strong evidence).
Even putting aside what Daryl wants, or what Beth wants, and anything else story-related, I can promise you the writers would not have done everything they've done, set up the arc and the romance in S4/S5, waited all this time, put tons of clues in, and then gone to the trouble to write Beth/Emily back into the story...only to NOT have Bethyl happen.
Neither Gimple nor Kang would ever do that.
Put simply, if she's coming back, Bethyl is happening. End of story. If she doesn't come back, then obviously not, and it's a moot point anyway. But I'm gonna point you to that ep 18 montage one more time. 😉
Sure, sometimes writers set up things they don't pay off, but guess what happens to them? They don't get to write anymore shows, and the audience hates them for it. Check out LOST, the end of Dawson's Creek, or reviews on the final Sookie Stackhouse book if you don't believe me.
But we have ample evidence that the writers have planned this since S4, if not earlier, and that they've kept Emily in reserve all these years so she could return to this role. In short, I'm not worried in the slightest. Bethyl is very close, now. I can't wait! Xoxo! 🍁💖
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salt-volk · 1 year
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an apology to p0ppy
a little while ago, ch1 commented on another post that she was disappointed no one had come forward to apologize to p0ppy. i wanted to sit and reflect a bit before saying anything, but now that i have, i would like to offer her an apology.
two things: i am not affiliated with the people who sparked the harassment campaign against her; i do not know who they are, have never spoken with them, and never personally started any rumors or brought p0ppy's name up after the "p0ppy discourse" quieted down. (i did reply to posts about p0ppy and send in asks after she was brought up by someone else, which i take responsibility for, but i mean i was never the "instigator" and do not know who the instigator(s) is/are.) also, i do think i sent a shorter ask apologizing to her when she first posted here off anon to clear the air? but it's possible tumblr ate the ask. so i'm sorry this is coming to you a bit late p0ppy.
anyway, i wanted to apologize for sending negative asks about you and participating in the "p0ppy conversation" in the first place. while i believe in free speech and open conversation, and i think everyone has the right to feel however they want about other people, i was also totally misled by the p0ppy harassment campaign. i believed some of the false asks, such as the allegations that p0ppy was making people pay for m0on bunnies in advance and then skipping ahead in the waitlist to send bunnies to select users early. obviously if p0ppy was actually scamming people or running her custom distribution dishonestly, that should be called out so people don't fall for a misleading trade post. but the anons had no proof of their accusations and i realize now i should have stopped and waited for proof to emerge before joining in with the anons calling her out. (for those of you who weren't there, the "proof" never came out because the anons were lying lol.)
i also fell for the user or group or users who were making "pro-p0ppy" accounts meant to look like p0ppy's secret accounts to defend her and smear anyone who criticized her. i truly thought p0ppy was in the comments of this blog being nasty to anons, and that gave me a negative impression of her. but that impression was totally wrong and it was wrong of me to let those people color my impression of p0ppy. now that i see how p0ppy interacts with this blog, i'm certain those people were not her. she is very articulate and polite, and those accounts had 0 nuance or fairness to their posts and would just snap at anyone who they thought was vaguing p0ppy even if the posts didn't name her and weren't about her. 
i hope it doesn't sound like i'm pinning blame on p0ppy's harassers to avoid accountability. i'm not, i shouldn't have trusted those people in the first place, especially because they were anonymous and didn't offer proof of almost anything. and i am the one who sent my own asks in, nobody did that for me.
my point is just that there's a lesson here: you should never trust unverified anons, ESPECIALLY if it's a situation where you already have a negative or suspicious impression of the person. for me personally, i already felt like p0ppy's clothing custom was overpriced and felt slighted that she had claimed to be critical of the custom system, then turned around and tried to make 1mp apiece off her custom. so when people came forward alleging she had done other shady things or painting her in a bad light, it was like confirmation bias for me. see? p0ppy can't be trusted.
but i never should have let ONE issue i had with p0ppy spiral into my believing everything negative anyone said about her. there was never any actual evidence of her being rude, shady, or scammy to anyone. and a person can do ONE thing you disagree with without being a horrible person who's actually doing bad things on site (doesn't go for issues like abuse or bigotry lol).
note: i really debated on whether or not i should mention the custom situation, as i don't want my apology to lead to ANOTHER wave of discourse about p0ppy. however, i decided to include it because i wanted to be honest about how one imo fair topic of conversation (not saying it would excuse the harassment - but "why do some custom owners claim they think the system is unfair to poor users, then price or trade their customs in a way where only other rich people/custom owners can access them?" in and of itself is, imo, a fair discussion to have) can spiral into toxicity. just because you have one issue with someone, don't jump on every negative thing said about them, because it may not all be true or may not all be a valid/actual problem. 
also should be stated that p0ppy stopped pricing her tea shop background at 1mp after anons, including me, spoke out about why that was inaccessible/unfair. just in case anyone wants to send angry asks about the topic, it's loooooong closed lol. and i should have left it there and accepted that the only ACTUAL issue i had with p0ppy was resolved instead of believing all these other fake accusations that popped up. i'm sorry for not doing that.
on that note: while i am generally against custom 4 custom trading, p0ppy, i hope you know that doesn't mean i hate you or wish any harm or harassment upon you. i do still have a commitment to discussing systemic issues with the site, however, i think we can all focus on dv itself and the problems with the way it's run rather than debating over whether or not a custom owner's reasons for distributing a certain way are "valid." i believe dv should put more boundaries into place to prevent custom owners from using customs as money printers, make non owners feel more included and valued on the site, discourage addictive gambling behaviors, include more mechanics to allow for first time owners, AND end the huge custom-focus that leaves people who never want to own their own custom maker out in the cold. i think a lot of us here share some or all of those goals, and i hope we can focus on those goals themselves rather than bickering about which owners are "doing it right" or "doing it wrong," something that can never be agreed upon anyway. especially because i think having custom owners speaking out against the system lends some credibility to our side of the issue, and i would like more owners to feel empowered to make different/more accessible choices for reasons other than pressure/harassment, and to know that systemic changes on dv would be to the benefit of all.
i also hope we can all take unproven allegations with a grain of salt and turn out focus to things we have actual proof of and to important conversations about the way dv is run.
all of this to say: p0ppy, i'm sorry if any of my asks ever hurt you, made you feel like your stalkers were "winning," made you feel unsafe in the dv community, or made you feel like you couldn't come forward to share your side of the story on the salt blog. i appreciate your presence here and i'm glad you were brave enough to share your truth. but i am truly sorry if anything i ever did contributed to silencing you or making you hesitate to stand up against the harassment.
i would like to echo ch1's sentiment that i think a LOT of anons owe p0ppy an apology. contrary to popular belief, i don't think ALL of the negative anons were sent by one or two people. i think 1-2 instigators (maybe 3?) would "spark" discourse, and then at least 2-3 more of us would hop on. i sadly don't think p0ppy's harassers are likely to take accountability, but i do believe several of us were misled about her character and could/should realistically apologize. if you are in this boat, i encourage you to apologize as well. 
this has gotten long but i will be available to discuss this further if anyone needs further apology from me or clarification. please note i don't expect any level of forgiveness and it's okay if you still feel negatively towards me (whether "you" are p0ppy or someone else). i don't need to see any anons or commenters or whatever jumping to my defense if anyone isn't ready to shower me with forgiveness lol, so please just don't bother, you'll only give me secondhand embarrassment.
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