#past is past

[scottlores]

Poor Past Brahm.

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#oc lore #lore #past is past #moots #scotts #“Do you think I'm Scary?”

[moodswings-101]

The past is the past and you're so last year, boy.

#over you #break up #heartbreak #heartbroken #deep thinking #sad but true #sadbeautifultragic #over him #past is past #sad boi hours #poetry #poem

[mindhustles]

Still pondering over your past?

It happens quite frequently with me. I won't say it was bad or hype about the things that didn't go as I thought. From one perspective, it seems like a lot of learnings had come through that phase whereas from other angle it seems like things could have been different. But here's the thought that strikes my mind every time I think it could have been different," Every thing happens the way it is meant to be". If I'll keep on complaining about the things, I would learn nothing from it. After all, I have to take the responsibility of my actions and reactions.

I really don't like to blame God for anything. There's no doubt that it feels irritating and frustrated at times but I trust the divine and believe that everything happens for a reason. One thing that I would really like to discuss here is whenever you feel sad about any situation or trying hard to overcome from depression, just notice the actual facts that happened. Either write them down or recall in your mind because mind has ability to play false memories. I feel that sometimes people tend to over-exaggerate things which create false memories in mind. And the significant fact about the past is that it has happened. We cannot go back and change the things now. All we need is to forgive ourselves and others. Of course, everything cannot be forgiven so easily but what's the fun of carrying hate in your heart.

Are you waiting for someone from your past to play cameo in your life and apologize you. My dear friend, these are just thoughts in your mind that have become your habit and you are feeling them and living them. Try to see the reality which is now, here in the present. Your state of mind is your responsibility. If you think you gave an honest try, then don't cry. Let it go. I know it hurts and its not as easy as being said. But remember the power is within you. That is why I keep saying that be there for yourself every time. Don't loose yourself ever. Its ok to be upset some times but don't get carried away by emotions. Use them to strengthen yourself. 

I am saying all this from personal experience. There are very few people who accept you because understanding is something that is developed over time. You can understand any person you spend time with but its more about acceptance. So value your emotions and don't try to validate yourself to everyone. You are easy to love and deserve all the happiness in life. Trust the process and make peace with your past. Those traumas need to be treated gently. Be consistent with your affirmations and self-love routine, only then negative feelings and fears of past would be healed. 

#past is past #overcome depression #let it go #self healing

[radhachip]

(via Forget The Past For A Reason Coffee Mug by cosmicreative)

#redbubble #forget the past #past is past #quoteoftheday #coffee mug

[butchfalin]

the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again

#yeehaw #1k #5k #10k #posts that got cursed. blasted. im making these tag updates after... 19 hours? #also i have been told it should say speech loss bc nonverbal specifically refers to the permanent state. did not know that! #unfortunately i fear it is so far past containment that even if i edited it now it would do very little. but noted for future reference #edit 2: nvm enough ppl have come to rb it from me directly that i changed the wording a bit. hopefully this makes sense #also. in case anyone is curious. though i doubt anyone who is commenting these things will check the original tags #1) my friend did not do this on purpose in any way. it was not intended to distract me or to hit on me. im a lesbian hes a gay man. cmon now #he felt very bad about it afterwards. i thought it was hilarious but it was very embarrassed and apologetic #2) “why didn't he use 🫵🏼?” didn't exist yet. “why didn't he use 🆗?” dunno! we'd been using a lot of hand emojis. 👌🏼 is an ok sign #like it makes sense. it was just a silly mixup. also No i did not invent 👉🏼👌🏼 as a gesture meaning sex. do you live under a rock #3) nonspeaking episodes are a recurring thing in my life and have been since i was born. this is not a quirky one-time thing #it is a pervasive issue that is very frustrating to both myself and the people i am trying to communicate with. in which trying to speak is #extremely distressing and causes very genuine anguish. this post is not me making light of it it's just a funny thing that happened once #it's no different than if i post about a funny thing that happened in conjunction w a physical disability. it's just me talking abt my life #i don't mind character tags tho. those can be entertaining. i don't know what any of you are talking about #Except the ppl who have said this is pego/ryu or wang/xian. those people i understand and respect #if you use it as a writing prompt that's fine but send it to me. i want to see it #aaaand i think that's it. everyday im tempted to turn off rbs on it. it hasn't even been a week

[spockvarietyhour]

Star Trek: Deep Space Nine "Past Tense, Pt. 1"

#Star Trek Deep Space Nine #DS9 #Star Trek #Past Tense #Past Tense Pt 1 #Benjamin Sisko #Bernardo Calvera #2024 #startrekedit #ds9edit #2024edit #GIF #my gifs #scifiedit #tvedit #1990sedit #Hide and Queue

[loathsome-sickness]

"people show their true colours in life threatening situations" no, they show you what they act like when they're mortally terrified, an emotion notorious for literally turning your entire brain off to the point where people who go into those situations as a profession need to be literally trained on how to not have that happen

#am i arguing with random 'philosophical' type villains in my own head? #yes #it's a favourite past time of mine i hate every one of those 'i know the true nature of humans because i did horrible things to them' types #with every part of my soul

[taffywabbit]

they should invent a new type of "staying in bed for 2-3 hours after you wake up repeatedly opening and closing apps on your phone" where it makes you feel awesome and energized and emotionally fulfilled

#buny text #I'm fine i've just been staying up too late playing bg3 the past few nights #and then wanting to wake up before noon so my parents don't say anything rude to me so i end up getting less sleep to facilitate that #and it's catching up to me #i feel like this explanation maybe undermines my previous statement of 'I'm fine' a bit but I'm fine i promise #look at my lop posts boy

[i23kazu]

how i feel when someone reblogs my stuff with a really really nice tag

#[📍regular broadcast!] #the sillies #thank you to everyone who has interacted with me over the past few days HEHEHE #asks will be put off until tonight ; i have 2 more meetings hehe

[starbuck]

i say i like tragedies and everyone’s all like ‘why do you like sad stories? are you depressed?’ and never ‘how was the catharsis? was the catharsis fun?’

#i don’t know how to explain this to normal people 😭😭 #for the record my coworkers didn’t directly question me on this #but i think i have vastly overestimated the amount of the population who is aware of like. Films. #NOT claiming that i have seen a lot - but i’ve mentioned three *REALLY* well-known films in the past four days #and got blank stares each time #the one of them was a REALLY good reference too… someday my top-notch association skills will be recognized #my first act as Mansion Acquaintance of the [redacted] Director will be to force everyone to watch a 40s romcom i didn’t even like #i’m getting off the point #the POINT is that It’s About The Catharsis

[caffeinatedopossum]

Me when I remember something I said ages ago that was wrong or my values no longer align with

#my path of self improvement has been less self righteous and personally gainful #and more just. a lot of embarrassment and pain #like i wouldnt change the path i took to get where i am now but i wouldve chosen to travel that path sooner because omg #nothing hits me like the fear that future me will feel the same way about right now me that right now me feels about past tense me

[redvelvetwishtree]

#the past couple of days really laid bare everyone's hypocrisy #and Netanyahu is saying with a straight face that he is a peacemaker #??? #iran #Palestine #israel #david cameron #kay burley #free palestine #gaza #middle east #gaza strip #free gaza #fuck israel

[intezaarlily]

the ache of nostalgia

#web weaving #quotes #i think about 'haunted by a past i cannot go back to' allll the time

[pyrrhuria]

meme i made years ago still holds true

#rambles #idk what made me think of this again #but past me was right

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Must be a Sugondese joke.

#dungeon meshi #chilchuck tims #laios touden #senshi #Looks like I won't be able to post this on dungeon meshi thursday so instead I will have a fun past/future conversation #This is wednesday me who has not seen the episode yet but I have such a strong feeling that it is going to be extremely special. #*This* fight is what the first arc has been building up to and it has *so* many incredible moments. #We're going to see the chilchuck knife throw! The leg sacrifice! The bones! #Watch them ramp up the quality this episode and go wild with the frantic action of 'oh god our plan is going to shit'. #Hello. Me of the future who just watched the episode. #I knew it was going to be good but that...that blew my mind completely. My high expectations were beyond met. My god. #I'm just speechless at how well they handled everything. The leg. The tension. That ENDING. #If you have not already: PLEASE watch Dungeon Meshi.

[lackadaisycal-art]

I'm getting so sick of major female characters in historical media being incredibly feisty, outspoken and public defenders of women's rights with little to no realistic repercussions. Yes it feels like pandering, yes it's unrealistic and takes me out of the story, yes the dialogue almost always rings false - but beyond all that I think it does such a disservice to the women who lived during those periods. I'm not embarrassed of the women in history who didn't use every chance they had to Stick It To The Man. I'm not ashamed of women who were resigned to or enjoyed their lot in life. They weren't letting the side down by not having and representing modern gender ideals. It says a lot about how you view average ordinary women if the idea of one of your main characters behaving like one makes them seem lame and uninteresting to you.

#feminism #media criticism #this doesn't apply to media with large casts of female characters where one or the other is uncommonly outspoken or ahead of her time #and it is dealt with realistically in the setting #im not saying women in the past couldnt be wild and headtsrong and revolutionary #i just think treating it as an essential whenever a female love interest gets added to a historical story about some man is wearing