#nsft topic

[craycraybluejay]

You know how a pretty obvious majority of kinksters are submissives? You want to know a big part of the reason why it's hard to find a dom that's into the same hard kink you are?

Ask a hardcore masochist what they think of being whipped.

Then ask a hard sadist what they think of whipping someone.

Do you notice that the sadist/dom will often either dance around an answer or try to use soothing language/euphemism not unlike the way how in many places people are still expected to discuss sex if at all. Gentle, calculated language.

The issue is, especially with a new surge of purity culture overtaking so-called "leftist" online circles, is that fantasy becomes a moral judgement.

Sub with a noncon kink: "I want to be raped" (cnc but like. People can talk ab it how they want don't cancel me fr.)

Response from Normies: "well that's weird and kinda dark but ok"

Dom with a noncon kink: "I want to rape"

Response from Normies: "I'm calling the police and you should kys and you're also a sexual abuser and even though you haven't said anything about kids you're also also a pedophile :)"

Not only does the attitude of murderous hatred against doms/tops with hard kinks/fetishes/paraphilias make it difficult for them to practice those kinks (safely and ethically) out of fear of social backlash if it's ever found out even if both they and their partner[s] had a great time and are fine-- but, it actively puts innocent people in danger by equating thoughts and attractions of ANY KIND to the act of hurting others against their will. It equates fantasy, which can oftentimes be played out safely if in a modified way with real harmful actions.

Also, kink is still illegal in many places, so don't "its illegal" me about harder kinks. Law is not morality, none of us are free until all of us are free, etc. You get the gist.

You want to see more doms? Meet someone who can indulge your "scary badwrong" sexy feelings? Then maybe don't actively promote a culture where you put ANY kind of attraction or kink under fire. It doesn't matter if it'd be unethical to act out in real life. Some of the most common kinks worldwide are unethical as fuck to act out irl, including rape. That's why we have cnc, come on, guys.

You know what? In fact, you SHOULD actively shun people who shame others for their sexual feelings. EVEN if you think it's gross. EVEN if it wouldn't be ethical to act on irl. Let these types know that their puritan ideals are NOT accepted here. Let them know that if they want to go to church they can do that but not in your space, not forcing other (non consenting!) people to listen to their hateful and repressive ideology.

Like, hey, I'm not into ABDL, for example. But I will defend to the death other people's right to be into that. To think and feel whatever they think and feel. You think diapers are sexy? Great! I don't personally see the appeal, but you do you boo. There is no Correct Way to be sex/kink negative. Either you believe in thought crime or you don't.

And yes, this post includes "harmful" paraphilias (I put it in quotes because they're only harmful if acted on), sadomasochism, mutilation fetishism, etc etc. Every "gross" or "evil" kink, fetish, para you can possibly imagine. The stuff that makes you horny is just stuff that makes you horny, and being horny is normal. Being "weird horny" is also normal. No one deserves to experience shame, let alone public harassment or hate over feelings they most of the time don't Choose to have. Be mindful of puritan rhetoric and strike it down when you see it.

#important #psa #hard kink #nsft topic #pro para #pro kink #the 'dom shortage' #obv there are other factors but this is just a connection I'm pointing out #purity culture #purity wank #puritans #sex and sexuality #tw r@pe mention #p3d0 panic/the trend of calling everyone you don't like a p43d0phi13 despite that that's as i said before #NOT the same thing as csa or ANYTHING like that and simply an experienced attraction #attraction is not r@pe; foot fetishists r not going to randomly hump ur foot and same w ever other kink #thought crime #puritanism #the purity culture wave #discourse #except if you disagree pls block me this is a pro kink blog forever and ever #thoughts are thoughts #anti para people scare me bc if u think someone cant help but have sex with someone/something theyre attracted to... #what EXACTLY are you going to do if someone romantically rejects you???????????? #turning the argument around here. if this is your belief then i do not trust you around me and my loved ones #because if attraction is action then i am scared for the people you are attracted to #because it isn't. and the fact that you think it is says more about you than anyone you hate for their attractions

[crtvirus]

sorry im still not done on this but "you have a fetish/indulge in 18+ content" is not the gotcha that you think it is espeically if you are a minor or are triggered by this content and are actively putting yourself in spaces where you should not even be in the first place. like i agree that seeing a guy on the internet make a stupid political take while being a chronic coomer is a tale as old as time and extremely funny but when you start targetting queer kinksters completely out of left field and outing their private enjoyments you come off as nothing but a piece of shit with no better argument to hold

#nsft topic #suggestive

[cedarkiller]

I think one of the most interesting experiences I've had, especially after starting t blockers a few months ago, is that I've lost my libido but not my ability to be turned on. It's more like the things that were forcing me to be horny are gone. So now what gets me going is strong emotions. I feel like I've been a slave to the insane amount of male hormones I had in my body (they really were really really high) and now I can finally feel the way I want to feel. A few years ago, before I started HRT, I got to experience this kind of feeling once. It's intense. It's insanely intense. It's so intense that you burst into tears. It's so intense that your body shivers. It's so intense that you become incredibly weak. It's so intense that you feel it deep into your core. It's so intense that your heart goes wild. It's so intense that you can't help but feel happy and happy for hours.

It's different from rubbing genitals. It's so much more. And now that I no longer have that deep annoying male feeling within my body getting in the way of my heart, I can purely experience that. I've lost all interest in porn and any media related to it. And that might be why sexual things are far more intense for me and I desire them more than I used to. Because it means something to me. Because it makes me feel like I connect to my partner. I'm not enslaved by my genitals. It's my heart that gets to decide this now.

#trans #transgender #nsft topic

[turbidapoplexy]

happy valentine's day

#daverose #dave strider #rose lalonde #.png #nsft #<- the only topical tag i can think of

[dicklesscatboy]

Hay do you occasionally watch tumblr videos on YouTube?

Have you heard of OzMedia?

He is currently being sued by another YouTuber and said person is trying to FOR-CLOSE HIS HOUSE by Christmas cause he’s trying to spread information about them.

PLEASE WATCH THE VIDEO. It doesn’t have the full story but it’s not hard to find. He currently has a GoFundMe campaign for helping his legal fees and preventing losing his house.

#extremely important #signal boost #pls boost #not nsft #important #oz media #ozmafia #the click #one topic at a time #Youtube

[dogfem]

god i'd absolutely hate it if someone decided to bend me over their lap and slap my clit until i was wet and crying then slide their strap into my ass just to watch my dumb cunt squeeze around nothing while they use me to get themselves off and then pull out just so they can cum on my pussy and listen to me whimper and beg for them to fuck it inside of me

#sorry i got desperate writing tghis what was i saying #butch bait #lesbian nsft #sapphic nsft #men dni #minors dni #wlw nsft #femme4butch #messages/asks are open to discuss this topic further lol #denial #pain play #a little i wanna hurt #💋

[mock-arts]

Finally getting to post up my work from the @vodeanzine and the nsfw add on!

Here’s alpha 17 in the shower.

#alpha 17 #star wars clone wars #Star Wars comics #him big #male pinup #firmly in the alpha batch is 7ft tall camp #this is more ripped than I usually draw the clones but it felt topical #nsft

[crtvirus]

+ btw if you think calling someone out for having a fat fetish while being skinny is a reasonable and valid thing to do im going to kill you with five thousand hammers to the skull ok?

#suggestive #nsft topic

[vasiktomis]

Doctor Zayne letting Dawnbreaker fuck MC when they switch bodies bc MC doesn’t exist in Dawnbreaker’s timeline…..✊😔

#let’s be real though they’re both Zayne so they’d be too gentlemanly to approach the topic without MC suggesting it #love and deepspace #brb I gotta write something #nsft

[thornsnvultures]

"Oh I love that band!"

*Eddie looking down at his Bush tshirt* "It's a band???"

#eddie munson #*eddie walking into a hot topic for the first time* 'they have bush merch??? sick' #'does he listen to bush?' 'no.' #someone's made this joke before right?? lol #nsft

[tired-fandom-ndn]

Okay okay okay.

This is an extremely specific kink complaint to have but

if you are writing erotica that involves lactation, human breastmilk is pretty much universally described as very sweet, creamy, and comparable to almond milk. It's not watery or bitter unless there is something very seriously wrong with the lactating person's health.

This is not hard to find information. Breastfeeding parents often try their own milk at least once, partners of breastfeeding people may drink from their partners, and you can literally buy breastmilk online to drink. We know what breastmilk tastes like. Please give humans more credit in your erotica.

#nsft #every single time i read a kink fic that describes breastmilk as bitter or SALTY #part of my soul withers a bit #vaguely off topic #but there was this show years ago about a gay couple and their surrogate #and the surrogate's daughter found out that she hadn't been breastfed as a baby and was very upset about that #and she went online and bought breastmilk #that is literally the only thing i remember from that show and it made me so research on this

[neige-leblanche]

this is mean but. if i'm looking @ someone's profile considering if i wanna follow them one thing that will make me click the back button very fast is strong opinions about who tops in their ships

#txt #nsft #its not like i dont have some of those hcs either but ppl who are loud about it ick me out sm #like ok. hopping on my high horse w full self awareness rn but imo saying 'let [character] be stone' isnt quite the same as #saying '[character] CAN NEVER bottom' even tho semantically they are the same #does anyone understand me. [wind howls] can anyone hear me #self awareness cont'd it doesn't help that usually when i do have hcs on the topic they're the opposite of what these ppl seem to think😭