There will not come a day when we suddenly have acquired the qualities we are seeking.
No matter what one aspires to be -- happy, healthy, rich, confident, etc. One must act like it to achieve them.
Read about people who have accomplished what you want to accomplish, who are what you want to become. Start thinking and doing as they do.
You must practice it.
You become that quality while practicing / application of it.
Imagine / ask yourself, how would happy, healthy, rich, successful, confident, (or whatever you want to become) people act if they were in my situation, and then do it!
Be it and you will become it.
“We first make our habits, then our habits make us.”
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