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aroaceconfessions · 1 year

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// sex mention (idk if thats smth to tag im not very sure but im gonna mention it here as a heads up!)

biromantic ace here! random question but do any other aceallos worry about their words being taken in a sexual way?

i feel really heavy romantic attraction and i'll obviously express it a lot when and wherever i'm comfortable (e.g online where i scream abt how much i love a certain character/person lmao) but i'm always scared that people are going to think i mean it in like, a sexual way.

like i have the BIGGEST celebrity crushes on taylor swift and conan gray but obviously i'm ace (sex-repulsed!) and im scared people are going to think i mean it in a strange way, especially when its images where they're showing a lot of skin. same goes for any fictional characters or irl crushes.

like, i don't think they're sexy, i just think they look really hecking pretty and it has nothing to do with whether or not they have a shirt on or not or if they say/do anything 'seductively'.

i'm a simple person. i see someone very pretty, i lose my mind :)

(haha sorry for the very stupid little rant i wanna find more asexuals who experience strong or even just experience romantic attraction bc a lot of people just assume that bc i'm ace i'm also aro, or if i freak out abt ppl so much i must be completely allo when i'm simply bi/ace)

Submitted February 5, 2023

#alloace #aceallo #asexual #ace #aspec #acespec #aromantic #aro #arospec #aroacespec #biromantic #sex repulsed

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ayyyez · 1 year

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I'm so glad that you're back! I genuinely missed your headcanons (especially Neji ones since I simp for him as much as You). What about naruto boys reacting to reader being lithosexual +/or sex-repulsed? I can imagine Jiraya being flabbergasted lmaoo

a/n: aww thank you I really appreciate that! I'm glad to be back. Haha yes gotta love our mans Neji he's just the sweetest, awkward (beautiful) bean. Now I actually hadn't known about lithosexuality before this so it was really interesting to look into (especially as someone who also identifies on the ace spectrum - demi) so I hope I did this justice! I did do both. But yeah someone like Jiraya would probably be flabbergasted first hearing about it but then again once he's older he's probably the one who has heard it all lmao

I picked a couple random characters I was feeling I hope thats okay!

I'm going to chuck a definition on here for those who may also want to know more information but also keep in mind like with everything it's different for everyone who idenitifies and deeper than this mere definition:

Lithosexual is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum. Someone who is lithosexual may experience sexual attraction but does not want it reciprocated. The lithosexual person may be uncomfortable at the thought of someone being sexually attracted to them, or they may lose their sexual feelings if they learn it's reciprocated. As such, lithosexuals do not feel compelled to seek out a sexual relationship. Like with any sexual orientation, lithosexuals can have any romantic orientation.

Tags: discussing sexuality, lithosexuality, demisexuality, sex repulsion, pansexuality

Characters: Neji Hyuga, Madara Uchiha, Shisui Uchiha

Neji Hyuga

Neji honestly doesn't know much about different sexualities and identities when he is younger thanks to the conservative environment he grew up in. He doesn't even know what he identifies as until later when his world view gets opened up tbh.

That is exactly what happens the day you sit down and explain to him your sexuality. It's very blunt and to the point. It ends with something along the lines of 'So yeah, that's me.'

Yeah that's you. As if you didn't just blow his entire world view. 'Oh.' He says as if he doesn't want to ask But how did you figure all that out by yourself?

If he did ask that you could have bonked him on the head and told him of course you didn't. You figure it out through other people. By reading, talking, etc. But he didn't he just sits there stunned looking out at the trees while you try not to laugh at his lopsidded expression.

But its through this stunned encounter and many more conversations that Neji learns he is demisexual. Huh so there was a word for what he was after all? He feels? Satisfied? No. He feels a little more certain. Of himself and the world. A lightness in his step.

If you told him you are sex repulsed Neji is the type to be the most understanding and respectful. (You also have to tell him exactly what it means though because he's a little confused at first but he's got the spirit) Finds out your boundaries the second it comes up. Never strays from them.

Madara Uchiha

A who what when where how? Confusion. However, he's an attentive listener when it comes to all things serious. Especially if you're someone important to him. Doesn't mean he's not all smirky and making jokes to ease to tension. They're not in poor taste but he's so awkward lmao.

He makes talking about it fun nonetheless. But he also feels bad for all the times he flirted with you because he flirts with everyone (he's a natural flirt) and now he feels like he needs to apologise bc he's that guy. You can take it or tell him to stop trying to be a gentlemen it's not for him lmao.

I can see the conversation just casually going into the lighthearted territory after this. The two of you just talking about sexualities in general. Madara casually being like oh pan? Yep that one. Mine. Okay congratualitions sir. Label yourself to your hearts content.

Real talk though this bastards a little smug just by the fact that you trusted him enough to tell him. He feels important. Special.

Tell him that you're sex repulsed and he's also confused. Like he can put the words together and he THINKS he knows what it means but you really should make sure because his mind can just take off sometimes. So yeah he's sitting there like the pikachu meme politely while you explain it to him. And once your done it clicks and MADARA IS BACK he's cool and understanding.

He's definitely on the opposite end of the spectrum with that sort of thing which is fun because he gets to learn! He didn't know it was a thing until now. He's very big on respect so he'll respect you for telling him honestly. Won't cross any boundaries. Make jokes about him though being a gremlin he deserves it lmao.

Shisui Uchiha

I feel like he's going to be the kind of guy who knows a little about this sort of thing? Like you think he's going to be surprised with that carefree front he puts up but he always just knows everything about everything. Damn anbu man.

'Oh yeah that's kind of like when you don't want someone reciprocating sexual attraction right?' He just drops on you in reply. and all you have to say back is 'Yeah kind of.' To which you go on to explain exactly how it is for you.

And he listens. LIKE ACTIVELY LISTENS. Eyes watching. Head nodding. Absorbing everything like its a damn assignment. Such a sweet guy. The best friend like ugh. The best. Asks questions too when he doesn't understand.

'Does that mean you don't ever want to date either?' and then 'Oh wait is that to invasive? Sorry I got to curious don't feel like you have to answer.' Like super curious but also considerate. He's just super interested in finding out more about but also learning about you since you're in his life.

Since the discussion was so deep and serious he'll end it with. 'Well that was great lets go grab some dango.' As if it were just any other day. It's the pure acceptance and sweetness for me.

As for sex repulsion he'd probably also know what it is but want you to clarify what it is for you (if it was something you were wanting to discuss since you brought it up) He wouldn't say to much other than 'Aw thanks for telling me.' But would ask questions again if they were prompted.

And of course if it was a seperate conversation yaknow this man is taking you for food again. He was taught that deep conversations should end with good food.

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that-stingray-moved · 4 years

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I feel like a big disconnect between ace&aro ppl and exclusionists is that they dont understand, truely, what ace&aro ppl want. Most aro and ace ppl who ive encountered simply dont want to be discounted due to their sexual or romantic orientation. They dont want to have to explain themselves for why they feel more comfortable in a queer space than in a nonqueer space. They dont want to have to justify their existance to other people just so they can be left in peace

#aro #ace #ace positivity #aro positivity #aroace #asexual #aromantic #yeah im tagging i genuinely want other aroace opinions on this #theres more i wanna say but i dont know how to say it #and tbh i dont kno if im ace or aro anymore bc exclusionists have forced me to be alienated from my own identity #i was sick if having to explain my own attraction to the point where now i just tell ppl im queer #so if theres any ppl who want to add on that are ace or aro or both pls do #since ive become to disjointed from the aroace label im not sure if my feelings are universal in the community #i feel like i could write an essay just from my own experiences within the community and how exclusionism severely Fucked Up my development #but thats for another day (probably never) bc its 2:30am lmao #stupid.txt

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quilfish-swan · 3 years

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I was hoping you wouldn't mind being tagged! And plz id love to hear abt the Nami and Luffy bonding thats my shit 👀👀

omg yes of course!!🥺🥺 love them. bestie vibes🥺🥺

im just gonna put everything under the cut lmao. (op marineford spoilers below)

okay so. this is a nami pov oneshot where luffy comes back from amazon lily after the two years and wants some advice about the whole boa hancock situation?? (like i can't imagine that he wouldn't at least think about how the most beautiful woman in the world fell in love with him and he didn't feel anything about it. (luffy is aroace in this.)) so he goes to nami and kinda awkwardly brings it up. they talk and nami tells him he might be aroace and luffy gets excited about that. and of course bc the nickname for asexual is "ace" they get on the subject of ace the brother (it's corny i know I ALREADY KNOW). so yeah😭 i probably won't ever post it. (especially without an aroace person to like. proofread it, since i'm not aroace) but i liked writing it and i like a lot of the moments in it

anyway i'll shut up heres the end

* * *

Nami watches him bring his hand to his chest once again, a false smile still masking what she knows must be a storm underneath. She waits for him to say something, and when he doesn’t, she speaks.

"Luffy," she says, "you know I'm here for you, right?"

He nods, his hair now slightly obscuring his eyes. Nami studies him closely, searching for some kind of clue as to how he's really feeling.

"Nami." He still isn't looking at her, but as if guessing her thoughts, he says, "I'm okay."

"I know." She doesn't believe it, but nevertheless she repeats, "I know." After a beat, she asks, "Luffy, can I give you a hug?"

He meets her eyes briefly before looking down again and shrugging. "Sure."

She puts her arms around him, and at first he just sort of leans against her. But after a few seconds he shifts to fully return the embrace, wrapping his arms around her waist and burying his face into her shoulder.

After another moment, Nami feels him grip her shirt, and for some reason it makes tears spring to her eyes.

"It's been so long, but it still hurts so much."

The words pierce Nami's heart.

"Luffy…"

She puts a hand on the back of his head to keep him close.

"Luffy, I am so sorry." She holds him to her, rocking him slightly. "I'm sorry we weren't there. I'm sorry I couldn't be there for you."

Luffy maintains his grip. "It's okay. There was nothing anyone could do."

They stay that way for a minute or so, Nami stroking his hair.

She knows little about Ace apart from what she remembers from their meeting in Alabasta, and of course what she'd learned from the newspapers since his death. She recalls a freckled face and eyes that squinted just like Luffy's when he smiled. (She'd been surprised to learn in the paper that the two were not, in fact, related by blood.) She also remembers Ace falling asleep while eating which had greatly alarmed everyone until Luffy informed them all of his narcolepsy.

(She tries not to think about the photograph from the paper, of Ace's broken body and Luffy's lifeless eyes staring towards the sky. It shook her to her core when she saw it two years ago, and she has not been able to purge it from her mind since.)

She holds Luffy a bit tighter.

Her captain attracts companions like light attracts the lost. Those who know him love him—and while Nami and the others had all only known him for fewer than six months before they parted, she knows that he would give his life for any of them, and that they would do the same for him. She can only imagine Luffy's devotion to someone who had loved him and whom he had loved for years.

Suddenly Luffy chuckles, bringing Nami from her thoughts.

"What is it?" Nami asks, pulling away from the hug.

"What if Ace was ace, too? Ace Ace. That’d be funny," he says and giggles. "But he definitely liked boys."

"Oh, really?" Nami smiles, comforted by Luffy's familiar lightheartedness. "Now that you mention it, I thought he was flirting with Sanji when we met him in Alabasta."

Luffy laughs. "Too bad Sanji only likes girls."

Well, Nami has her suspicions about that, but she only rolls her eyes and says, "Tell me about it. Speaking of Sanji," she says. "Are you hungry? Let's go pester him for some lunch."

"Good idea!" Luffy grins. And before she can say another word, he has flown out the door. Nami shakes her head and smiles. Just as she moves to follow him, he pops his head back in the doorway.

"Nami," he says. "Thank you."

Her smile grows, at the same time as something warm and overflowing swells in her chest.

"I'm so glad you're back, Luffy."

#thank u for the ask😭😭❤❤#spacebabe💕#my writing #quilfish txt. no. yep.

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ao3feed-todoroki · 3 years

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“That's it?”

"That's it?" by i put the ace in disgrace, spring day sunrise

“Kirishima. Kiri-- Eijirou. Breathe. What do you want to tell me?”

“I, um, I'm asexual.”

“Okay.”

“That-- that's it?”

Words: 1130, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English

Series: Part 3 of Battle Scars

Fandoms: 僕のヒーローアカデミア | Boku no Hero Academia | My Hero Academia

Rating: General Audiences

Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply

Categories: Gen

Characters: Dabi | Todoroki Touya, Kirishima Eijirou

Relationships: Dabi | Todoroki Touya & Kirishima Eijirou

Additional Tags: Coming Out, Asexuality, Asexual Character, Asexual Kirishima Eijirou, tetsutetsu slander, LMAO, Mild Hurt/Comfort, Acephobia, Aphobia, im sorry i kinda disappeared lol, this ones for you bestie, even tho youve already read it bc i sent it to you, big bro dabi, League of Villains Are Not Villains, League of Villains as Family, Protective Dabi | Todoroki Touya, Hurt Kirishima Eijirou, Sad Kirishima Eijirou, i think thats everything, nvm i forgot some, Kirishima Eijirou-centric, POV Dabi | Todoroki Touya, But also, POV Third Person, bc i never write in anything but third person

Read Here: https://archiveofourown.org/works/32310853

#AO3 Feed #FanFiction #AO3 Dabi #♠#Dabi #Touya Todoroki #Eijirou Kirishima #🔥#🏮#R:G #A:I Put #A:Spring #Hurt Comfort

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ao3feed-bakusquad · 3 years

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“That's it?”

"That's it?" by i put the ace in disgrace, spring day sunrise

“Kirishima. Kiri-- Eijirou. Breathe. What do you want to tell me?”

“I, um, I'm asexual.”

“Okay.”

“That-- that's it?”

Words: 1130, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English

Series: Part 3 of Battle Scars

Fandoms: 僕のヒーローアカデミア | Boku no Hero Academia | My Hero Academia

Rating: General Audiences

Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply

Categories: Gen

Characters: Dabi | Todoroki Touya, Kirishima Eijirou

Relationships: Dabi | Todoroki Touya & Kirishima Eijirou

Read Here: https://archiveofourown.org/works/32310853

#AO3 Feed #FanFiction #AO3 Kirishima #♠#Eijirou Kirishima #Dabi #Touya Todoroki #💎#R:G #A:I Put #A:Spring #Hurt Comfort

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autisticmob · 7 years

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Rules: Answer the 20 Questions in a new post and tag the 20 blogs that you would like to get to know better!

Tagged by @pundeserving, a fucking Weeb

Nickname: uhhhh i mean kc is TECHNICALLY a nickname but its literally what everyone calls me like... WAY moreso than anyone calls me kendall, u know?

Pronouns: who Knows tbh ive been using they but im thinkin he is pretty alright too lately

Star Sign: aries/taurus cusp

Height: 5'6″ ishhh?

Time right now: 3 in the Got Damn morning

Last thing I googled: no-bake cookie dough!!!!!

Favorite solo artists: hmmmm... OH amanda palmer for sure.

Song stuck in my head: fuckin... my life would suck without you by kelly clarkson lmao its so OLD idek why its stuck in my head!

Last movie I watched: i think shrek 2 lmao

Last TV Show I watched: brooklyn 99 or steven universe im not sure

When did you create your blog: like freshman year of high school?? idk it had to be, bc it was AFTER i started reading homestuck, but BEFORE i got caught up. so... late 2011? JESUS its been over 5 years... ew...

What kind of stuff do you post: bullshit

Do you have any other blogs: i mean i have a bunch of old abandoned rp accounts from a million years ago lmao. got my old dave askblog, my art blog, my stim blog, and... some other assorted urls that im not actually using for anything in particular.

Do you get asks regularly: not regularly no

Why did you choose your URL: BECAUSE IM ASEXUAL AND I LOVE ARADIA MEGIDO and also shes ace like? youll pry this projectiony headcanon from my Cold Dead Hands

Following: 404

Posts: ah jeez lemme look.... holy shit 91,425...... Jeez....

Hogwarts house: hmmmm ive always said ravenclaw but as time has gone on i like... lean more towards hufflepuff bc ive gotten a) dumber and b) gayer

Pokemon team: instinct bc im a meme

Favorite colors: i mean various shades of red, but also, not to be too Edgy, black is just? rly nice? its a nice color it goes with everything, its neutral, its like, pretty soothing? idk yall

Average hours of sleep: idk im on summer break now so like. 9-10?

Lucky number(s): shit uhhhh 420 blaze it

Favorite manga characters: moB!!! MY SON MOB from mp100 hooly shit hes... my boy.... i dont actually read much manga tho like ill watch the anime adaptations but i dont generally have the attention span to actually READ things anymore. mp100 i definitely keep up with tho bc i love my boy......

How many blankets do you sleep with: like 3. tbh i only ever have one of them on me but i like to switch out every couple nights

Dream job: tattoo artist tbh

Dream trip: uhh world tour of Dope amusement parks. gimme... the rollercoasters

Who I tag: jeez ok do i even know 20 ppls urls on here? shit idk i might just go through and tag my first 20 mutuals well see

@whentvsfly @mauvile @imhereformysciencefriends @pizzapartyplusprofanity @littlestkohai @universalblips @margoslxix @draconicmentalist @stokerbramwell @tinybuckthorn @aradiadefensesquad @thegreathomestuckreread @asexual-mermaid @local-gay @acekarkat @turing-tested @skysharks @marvel-marble @27teacups @round-bird

i think thats 20 but tbh? if you follow me and u wanna do it? jus go for it and say i tagged u

#words

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