#monoromantic

[aroxbetchio]

friendly reminder that bigender people who identify as a masculine and feminine gender are allowed to feel monosexual / monoromantic attraction and label it. and they have always. always been who you’ve been talking about when you say men can’t be lesbians. gender fuckery shouldn’t get in the way of the language people use when they experience attraction to one gender. you can be a guy and a girl and identify as a lesbian if that’s the language that feels right. you can also be a guy and a girl and identify as a gay man if that’s the language that feels right.

#multigender #bigender #male lesbian #anti-terf #elliot’s posts 🐍 #gender fuckery #monosexual #monoromantic #pangender #polygender #omnigender

[shk0lstun-flagz]

Reoriented / Adapt-oriented

A Term for folks who would be willing to re-adjust their orientation/attraction in way that would align and support their current partner(s) possible gender identity changes or transitioning

( example : a straight woman whose partner transitions to a woman would readjust her orientation to be lesbian/sapphic or multisexual out of support of her partners new gender identity.)

Mostly for any mono-oriented folks that feel like they would do this for their current partner(s) but mspecs could use it as well to show that they would be supportive of any gender change/transition their current partner(s) might go through

The opposite of this : Nonreoriented / Nonadapt-oriented

#coined term #coined by me #reoriented #adapt-oriented #mono oriented #monosexual #monoromantic #pride flag #queer flag #lgbt flags #gender change #transgender #nonbinary #allo allo #oriented aroace #allo aro #allo ace

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Monospec Pride Flag

Mono-spec (mono- spectrum): an umbrella term for identities related to experiencing attraction to one gender [plus affection/relationships involving one gender].

The spectrum includes those who are exclusively attracted to sole one singular gender only (suptilic), and those who are fluid (i.e. abro-, novo-, amplusic), multioriented/centrioriented, varioriented/variangled, also mspec (multispec), cupiospec, orchidspec, or otherwise a-spec (e.g. arospec, acespec, aplspec, etc.) [along with other possible combinations].

For example, someone who is both gay and bi could consider their homo attraction as monospec. Lesbihets/straightbians could be monospec as a result of being multigender/genderfluid (could be a form of novosexuality). Anattractional viramorics or feminamorics could be monospec because of their affection or relationships, instead of their lack of attraction.

#mogai #monospec #mono-spec #monosexual spectrum #monoromantic #monosexuality #sexuality #orientation #mod ap #allospec #alospec #monspec #unispec #bi lesbian #bi gay #mspec gay #straightbian #novosexual #lesbihet #multiorientation #varioriented #pride-flag #flags

[neopronouns]

flag id: a flag with 8 stripes, which are black, extremely dark pink-purple, very dark purple, dark pink-purple, silver, faded green, sky blue, and light yellow. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

lantamarian: one who fluctuates between multiromantic monosexual and monoromantic multisexual

[pt: lantamarian: one who fluctuates between multiromantic monosexual and monoromantic multisexual. end pt]

for anon! the flag uses colors from these multiromantic monosexual and monoromantic multisexual flags and is named after lantana camara, a flower that changes colors over time, to represent fluctuation.

tags: @radiomogai | dni link

#lantamarian #multiromantic monosexual #monoromantic multisexual #multiromantic #monosexual #monoromantic #multisexual #monomulti #multimono #my flags #my terms #new flag #new term #mogai flag #mogai term #mogai

[genderstarbucks]

https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Monoromantic is there such a thing as monoplatonic, monosensual, or monoaesthetic attraction? -1 (i remembered this time)

Monoplatonic is a term for those who only feel platonic attraction towards one gender.

Monosensual is a term for those who only feel sensual attraction towards one gender.

Monoaesthetic is a term for those who only feel aesthetic attraction towards one gender.

Had to make them myself since I couldn't find anything on them

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #monoromantic #monosexual #monoplatonic #monosensual #monoaesthetic

[sybilius]

Re listening to the Silt Verses and just heard the OG promised bride story, which comes right after the episode where Hayward talks about his fake wife (being a cop) that he hates being married to, which comes right after the Carpenter Aromantic episode. Honestly in addition to being a podcast that speaks directly to my soul in terms of religion, politics, and the maddening complexity of building a better world with other people ...the aromantic angle and the deconstructions of romantic love deeply appeal to me. Like I am deeply alloromantic, sure, but there's overlap in my personal problems with the dominant hetero/allo/monoromantic narratives -- specifically in the monoromantic aspect. When I hear Carpenter's story, the promised bride story -- I know that this is a story that's mainly falling along the aromantic lines. But I still appreciate the careful way it outlines the way that conventional romance narratives can feel like a cage that traps you. I felt the same way for a long time about them before I really understood that it was the monoromantic aspect that was really getting to me.

#the silt verses #aromanticism #polyamory #to be clear this is not to say its not an aromantic story #but rather that our liberation is intimately connected enough that i resonated on a personal level here #meta

[this-is-exorsexism]

think all anti-mspec gays n lesbians discourse is based on exorsexism.

like. 1) nonbinary people exist. multigender people exist. abinary, genderfluid n other people who can't be categorized as "non-men" n "non-women" exist. n when someone erases mspec gays n lesbians, they erase these experiences as well.

2) talks abt "derailing" terms are complete nonsense. like. u know, lesbian n gay aren't necessarily monosexual/monoromantic/monoplatonic/monoalterous/mono-other attraction terms. because what? because nonbinary people exist. n they can be included in these attractions. don't have to, but can. you can be gay or lesbian n feel attraction to nonbinary people. so labels lesbian n gay can intersect with mspec. so what's the problem?

all arguments in this discourse lead to exorsexism. because labels can n have to be "contradictory" at some point when u include anyone except binary men n women.

this is exorsexism.

#exorsexism #nonbinary #this is exorsexism #multigender #abinary #genderfluid

[vaxxy-the-raven]

I'm thinking about Vox Machina and queerness both in the canon materials and my own Vox Machina fanon...

Like damn, that's a fruit bowl.

I always focus specifically on Vax's identity as I relate to him and project on him a lot, but I have so many thoughts about all of them that I don't ever really talk or write about.

For example, I see Vex as a demiromantic bisexual woman who is polyamorous but also monogamous.

While I see Vax as a trans masc nonbinary guy who is bisexual, demiromantic & polyamorous but a bit sexually repulsed.

I see Percy as a bisexual demiromantic man who is monogamous but is open to causal friend sex for fun.

I see Pike as a demisexual biromantic woman who is open to causal friend sex but is strictly monoromantic and strictly monogamous as well.

I see Scanlan as a genderfluid man who is a hypersexual, pansexual, demiromantic, polyamorous and polygamous nightmare (self-identified).

I see Keyleth as an agender person who can shapeshift between different gendered forms at will, and she's also demisexual, demiromantic, polyamorous and polygamous with deep sexual curiosity.

I see Taryon as a gay man who is monogamous but open to causal friend sex.

Last but not least, I see Grog as an aromantic and agender man who is sexually attracted to people who have more physically feminine bodies.

Then, outside of the party, I have headcanons for Allura, Kima, Jarett, Gilmore, Kaylie, Cassandra, Zahra & Kashaw.

I see Allura as a bisexual and biromantic nonbinary person who uses starself pronouns, star's also open to causal friend sex and is polyamorous but strictly monogamous.

I see Kima as a lesbian trans woman who is monogamous.

I see Jarett as a gay man who is biromantic and polycurious but thinks he's monogamous.

I see Gilmore as a genderfluid man who explores casual sex freely as a pansexual demiromantic who is polyglorious (polygamous).

I see Kaylie as a bicurious lesbian who is monogamous.

I see Cassandra as a repulsed asexual and demiromantic, monogamous demiwoman.

I see Zahra as a bisexual and biromantic woman who is open to causal friend sex but is strictly monogamous.

I see Kashaw as a bisexual man who is monogamous, demiromantic and very sexually repulsed.

Bonus, but I also see Tary's husband Lawrence as a trans man who is monogamous, bisexual and homoromantic.

Last bonus, I see Gilmore's husband Darius as a gay man who is also polyglorious.

#also the way that vax is me #vax is so fucking gender #critical role #cr #cr spoilers #vax'ildan #vex'ahlia #percy de rolo #pike trickfoot #scanlan shorthalt #keyleth of the air ashari #taryon darrington #grog strongjaw #allura vysoren #kima of vord #jarett howarth #shaun gilmore #kaylie shorthalt #cassandra de rolo #zahra hydris #kashaw vesh #lawrence darrington #darius gilmore #cr headcanons #lynias shut up challenge #cw sex mention

[identitty-dickruption]

there is a difference between a lesbophobe telling you “maybe you haven’t found the right man” or “you just need to get better dick” (real things I have been told) and a queer person identifying themselves as a lesbian who is sometimes attracted to men

queer people who tell monosexual/monoromantic lesbians that they should try dating men are just as bad as the cishet people who say similar things. don’t get me wrong, I definitely have experienced and witnessed lesbophobia within the queer community

but individual people identifying as a bi lesbian is functionally not the same thing as them saying that all lesbians are secretly bi. an individual person identifying as a transmasc lesbian is not the same thing as them saying that straight transmascs aren’t valid

there is lesbophobia in our communities, but it doesn’t come in the form of people using the labels that work for them

#queer #tw lesbophobia #tw homophobia

[equestriancounterparts]

Name: Sludge Gender: Female Age: 20s Sexuality: Monoromantic Homosexual Species: E̶̛͕͆͌ͅă̸̺͇̙̦̿̉̇ͅȓ̷̼͖̜̣͌t̸͖̬͑̅͠h̵̼͈̘̺̖͌̔ ̸̮̮̅P̵̼̜͌ö̷̤̥́̀͌̊̕ñ̴̨̺̞͛͐̆̕ỷ̵͕͋͗̌̅ Personality: Loyal, little bit impulsive and reckless, determined, sympathetic towards others, courageous, trustworthy, rude and surly towards others that are rude, picks fights with those who are malicious, and loves to rock out either by herself, with friends, or with family. Skills: Super strong, lots of stamina, can memorize all of the lyrics of every song that she has ever listened to, somehow can memorize and speak an entire eldritch language, strong tolerance towards spicy and sour foods, and ǫ̷͓̃t̴̮̼̑h̴̩̮̩͛̏͑e̷̝̰̅r̵͈͎̞͒ ̷̥̊a̶͖̩͗͆͛b̵̟͎͐̇̀i̷̱͐̀l̷̯̋į̶̤͓̈̽t̶̻̀͗̐i̸͉͒ȩ̴͈̯̅̔͑s̴̻̰̓͝ ̸̙̽͂ü̷͉͍̂ǹ̸̝̂̽k̵̬͉̔̈́͝n̶̈́̔̑ͅo̴͇̘̎w̶̪̻͗͒̂ñ̵̢̗.̷̼̘̠̏͛ Currently Living: Undecided (travels around the Equestrian Wasteland) Jobs: None (Equestria)/Backup Guitarist of a Punk Rock Band (Earth) Equestrian Universe: Fallout Equestria Equestrian Universe Info: For those of you who've never heard of this universe before, then imagine a Fallout version of Equestria.

I adopted her from mack.dogg on Discord last year.

Glitch text came from here.

#mlp fim #my litte pony friendship is magic #mlp au #alternate universe #fallout equestria #counterpart #mlp oc #Sludge mlp #mlp oc art #character profile

[shk0lstun-flagz]

QueerStraight/Het Flag

For any queerhets : transhets, enbyhets, a-spec hets, gnc hets. Queer and het as in not in the standard cis-het or allo normative way

Queerstraight Symbol

Represents all queer straight ppl

#pride flag #lgbt flags #queerhet #straight queer #queer #queer men #queer women #queer flag #transgender #a spectrum #nonbinary spectrum #enbyhet #transhet #straight trans #aspec het #monosexual #monoromantic #t4t het #trans heterosexual #oriented aroace #heteroqueer #mlw #wlm

[redtail-lol]

Proper Blog Introduction

Hello, and welcome to Redtail's ramblings and occasional coinings! Enjoy your stay.

Free Help for Palestine - A communal document created by me and editable by everyone for finding free ways to help Palestine! Mostly composed of petitions at the moment. If you can't donate or just want more ways to help Palestine it's very helpful.

About Me and the Blog:

I mostly will be coining orientations instead of genders because there are so many genders and the orientation market is low, and will mostly be coining labels that apply to me. However, I am willing to coin labels that don't apply to me. Please feel free to ask, and if I'm uncomfortable, I will just deny it.

Some posts aren't centered around me coining so sorry for any clutter

I am a perisex bigendermeld girl + enby and I use she/they pronouns

I have a label collection/hoard of 300+ that I loving named The Boxfort Palace. I may start a third blog just for my hoard. Or I may just keep it on the doc

Some of my important identities are asexual (fully, absolutely no sexual attraction), cupiosexual, demiromantic, lunian/mspec lesbian, bi lesbian, poly lesbian, and omni lesbian, and I specifically use full-moon springtide versions of all these labels. I do not identify as an mspec mono because there is nothing monoromantic about my lesbian attraction. I don't have an issue with the mspec mono label existing but I don't think it applies to me.

This blog supports aspec people, xenogenders, mspec gays/lesbians, gaybians, mspec hets, gayhets/straightbians and lesboys/turigirls. I am an mspec lesbian and ace.

This blog is NOT anti-paraphilia. I believe people with genuinely harmful and nonconsensual paras need access to help and support, and aren't inherently evil. I also believe paraphilias that are strange but not harmful or nonconsensual are fine. Do what makes you happy. Pro-contact harmful paraphilias, this is NOT about you. Please seek help and do not abuse.

I am Crit-Inclus and seek to understand people before I fully accept them. If I ask you questions about your identity, I mean no disrespect

I am predominantly white and am not comfortable with making things specifically for any POC because it does not feel like my place. If my blog grows big and people want to use my blog for visibility, post on your own blog and I will reblog it.

Because I am perisex I will not coin intersex specific terms, though you may ask for flag design help and reblogs for visibility

I am autistic and self diagnosed, I haven't updated this in a while but I've given up on not saying I'm autistic without diagnosis a long time ago, lmao. I got 153 on my most recent RAADS-R taking I def have autism

Still anti ABA and anti autism speaks fuck those guys

This blog is anti Boeing we hate Boeing in this household (if you're confused ask me about the 737 MAX I'll go on for hours)

I am a singlet so I'm not gonna do system specific labels. I will reblog system labels upon request

I do NOT coin radqueer identities. Radqueers can request non-radqueer identities because there's no reason to say you can't request something because of a belief. Even if it's harmful it's none of my business I'm the coiner. But I am anti-rq so you choose if you want me making the term

You may ask me to coin anything you would like if it isn't on here. It is my decision if I do it.

I am an adult, but the blog is safe for older minors

People in my DNI are allowed to use my flags and labels. I don't believe in gatekeeping who's allowed to use a term based on personal beliefs and opinions. I just don't wish to have personal interactions with you guys. It's up to you if you want to use flags made by an mspec lesbian who accepts xenogenders, lesboys/turigirls and the like, gaybians, and other complex contradictory identities.

I would appreciate if everyone who follows me can like, reblog, or comment on a post before or shortly after following. This is to make sure I don't follow back porn accounts that won't read this. I might block people who do not follow this rule because I will assume you are a porn account that just wants to send me spam links, especially if you're a blank blog.

Free Palestine. Fuck Isreal.

DNI:

Pedophiles (I'm not calling you MAPs.) Whether you're non-offending or not, please just don't interact with me. I support you guys getting the help you need but as a minor I think it's best we don't interact beyond maybe some likes and a request or two. I'm still too close to being a kid

Anyone who is going to start discourse. I don't care if you're proship, antiship, exclus, radinclus, radqueer, or anything. Don't start discourse. You can only continue discourse that I start. You can use my terms if they apply to you, like my stuff, reblog it, and comment, as long as you aren't starting an argument.

Solicitors looking to promote any sexual services. I am asexual, leave me alone. I don't want your porn. I will bodyshame you.

Anybody looking to e-date. I'm arospec, specifically demiromantic, so approaching me with romantic intent means you'll have to wait for something that'll never happen. I'm taken anyways.

DO NOT FOLLOW:

Queerphobic people

Racists/ALM/Anti-BLM.

Sexists/anti feminists

Radfems (you aren't real feminists, you're misandrists, AND you're misogynists, all at once)

Zionists/Pro-Israel

People who believe in transmisogyny but not transmisandry/transandrophobia

People who believe trans men hold any significant power over cis women or over trans women

Idiots who think only transfems can use the tr slur

People who think femboy is a slur or is about transfems. There is a 0% difference between calling a transfem a femboy and calling a transfem a boy. Femboy is an identity. It's entitled to think trans women can dictate what men identify as based on the bigotrd actions of others weaponizing gnc men's identities to misgender others.

Exclusionists (including mspec lesbian/gay/enbian exclus, lesboy and turigirl exclus, and gaybian exclus.)

Incels of any type. This doesn't refer to anybody who just hasn't lost their virginity yet, but specifically the kind of people who hold it against the people they're attracted to. This is usually straight men and incels are often a misogynistic hate group.

Radqueer/transx/transid and supporters

Pro-contact or Comp-contact Big 3 Paras

Anti-contact non-harmful, consensual paras

Pro-AI art

Proship/profic

NSFW blogs

Anyone in the DNI

I follow people back blindly so please don't follow me if I'm going to have to see gross things on the feed.

#welcome to my blog #mogai coining #mspec lesbian safe #bi lesbian safe #inclus

[redheadbigshoes]

'bi lesbian' supporters will say that actual lesbians are mono-lesbians (monoromantic/monosexual). but then what would regular bisexuals would call themselves in that viewpoint?

They probably think mono bisexuals exist 😭

#stephanie answers #anon #‘bi lesbians’

[kayforpay]

monoromantic people when you mention polyamory in concept: oh wow I could never. I respect it but I could never do it myself. I would get jealous. I don't understand how it works. I don't get it. I could never enjoy it. I don't want my partner to sleep with other people. I don't date poly people because I can't do it. I could never do it myself.

#kay talks a lot #I wasn't ASKING

[bilesproblems]

I'm gonna preface this post by saying this is specifically about full moon springtide mspec lesbians like myself.

Being a bi/mspec lesbian is hard because either people will try and exclude you from being a lesbian and shove you into bi/pan/poly/omni by themselves OR they'll try and pull you out of the mspec label even if your attraction is mspec and force you to just ID as a lesbian.

Sorry I don't think bisexual means men and women only sorry I don't think being attracted to women and several nonbinary genders is monoromantic sorry I am complying with your definitions of bi and lesbian and still being a bi lesbian

[neopronouns]

Flag for Abro people who aren’t ever Mspec? Just Monosexual/Monoromantic or Aspec

queued!