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louis-sj · 12 days
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КАК ВЫБРАТЬСЯ ИЗ СМИРИТЕЛЬНОЙ РУБАШКИ?
Google Translate: HOW TO GET OUT OF A STRAITJACKET?
A Russian escape from a straitjacket & strait-coveralls.
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Googles closed caption translated to English worked for me.
Zipper back closure. Many repairs. 15 minutes and 21 seconds long.
Google Translate: Finally, the long-awaited straitjacket has arrived. Today we’ll check whether it’s possible to get out of it without outside help, and if so, we’ll show you how to do it
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ksjanes · 2 years
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Spirituality is not something that you add to yourself. Even when you become a 'more spiritual person' you're still a person. And the ‘spiritual self’ is the ego's stickiest, trickiest, stinkiest manifestation of all.
Spirituality destroys the self; it does not add to the self. It deconstructs the false image, smashes everything unreal, everything second hand, every object, every mind-made identity, everything that isn't really who you are. It leaves you naked and humbled and unaware of any finish line.
True spirituality cannot be taught and nobody owns life or has any privileged access to Truth, despite the ego's protests against this basic fact. True spirituality must be lived, lived with a total commitment to the living moment, lived to its fullest conclusion and then the living itself becomes an effortless teaching and a day-by-day learning; you're like a baby again.
I have lost everything now including the identity of the one who has lost everything and the false belief that there was anything to lose in the first place, and any shred of belief in myself as any kind of authority on life.
And now there is only life, unfolding moment by moment... raw, pulsating, undeniable... rich, full, intimate... and the shock and awe of waking up each morning.
And here, instead of oblivion,
a new day, ready to be lived.
Jeff Foster
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1introvertedsage · 7 months
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Yesterday is but a memory Tomorrow an uncharted course So live today so it will be A memory without remorse. ~Unknown~
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nunanamtae · 1 year
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누나는 정국이가 집 밖에서 활동할 수 있어서 매우 기뻐합니다. 건강 조심하시고 정국이 시키는대로 해주세요. 군대는 항상 당신을 지원합니다. 보라해. 💜🥰😘
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poniz-lettering · 9 months
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tonyjwash · 2 years
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Enthusiastic Living!
Life requires energy to live it and your level of energy is connected directly to your thoughts. Children seem to have an almost unlimited amount of enthusiasm, but children also don’t waste too much time thinking about the wrong stuff. Adults do that. There is a competition that rages daily and that contest is for the allegiances of your mind. You spend or reserve your energy by the thoughts you…
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afhzz · 3 months
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Tak 'Kan Kuulangi
37 Hari menuju Ramadhan 1445 H, atau 2024. Sebulan lebih seminggu lagi kita bertemu dengannya. Entah apa yang kupikirkan di setiap pergantian tahun aku selalu berusaha memutuskan hal baru. Bukan suatu hal yang aneh atau sulit dipertimbangkan, ridho mama pun sudah kudapatkan, dan berbagai nasihat Ustadz-Ustadz yang kudengar di setiap ceramah, membuatku tambah yakin akan keputusan ini.
"Tak ingin aku menyesal lagi" menjadi tagline terbesar dalam hidupku tahun ini. Sempat gagal di tahun lalu membuatku tersadar, bahwa tak ada yang lebih penting dari mencari kedamaian dan ketenangan hati dalam melakukan setiap hal, dalam melangkah, dalam mengajukan pilihan baik dan benar. Aku pun tak ingin bersadar pada seseorang manusia manapun untuk menanggung konsekuensi dari pilihanku.
Harus aku yang memilih dan aku pula yang menanggung segala resiko yang ada setelahnya. Bukannya berat, diriku justru lebih tenang dengan keyakinan itu. Hatiku ringan sedikit demi sedikit, meyakini Allah sebagai satu-satunya pemberi solusi bahkan ketika solusi itu belum terlihat ujung dan hasilnya, aku yakin.
Aku yakini, Allah tak pernah salah menurunkan takdir kepada setiap orang. Pastilah lengkap dengan kesanggupan orang tsb menanggung resiko dan konsekuensi yang ada di setiap pilihan. Itu semua di luar kendali manusia, dan ranah kendali kita hanya pada pilihan sikap dalam merespon semua hal yang Allah takdirkan dan tetapkan.
Allah Tahu yang Terbaik, maka jangan berburuk sangka dan yakinlah pada ketetapan yang Maha Baik. Lepaskan pilihan lain yang membuatku tergantung pada diri, atau orang lain. Kusadari hal ini lebih dalam setelah melewati seperempat kehidupan dunia, yang ternyata selalu terlupakan kembali setiap ada masalah.
Tak kusangka, Allah membawaku ke dalam berbagai pengalaman kehidupan yang akan sangat mahal jika dibuat workshop berbayarnya. Memahami dan mempraktikkan apa yang menjadi pelajaran berharga, tentang makna menguasai kendali diri dan melepaskan hal-hal yang di luar kendali.
Sadar, begitu banyak hal yang belum kuketahui, begitu banyak orang dan pengalaman hidupnya yang belum pernah kudengar. Termasuk orang-orang tersayang yang hidup di sekitarku. Ku tak ingin menyesal lagi, melepaskan seseorang tanpa mengenalnya lebih dalam. Tak kan kuulangi lagi, menunda niat-niat baik untuk mengistimewakan orang-orang yang kusayang, memberikan waktu yang berkualitas dan menjadi pendengar terbaik bagi mereka.
Masih terlalu jauh ternyata kualitas diriku yang hari ini dengan yang ideal. Masih sangat jauh ternyata jalan yang harus kutempuh menuju kebijaksanaan sikap, dan kecerdasan emosi yang maksimal untuk menghadapi dan memberikan akhlak terbaik untuk setiap orang yang kutemui.
Semoga tahun ini aku menjadi lebih sadar diri, siap mengaku salah dan segera memperbaiki. Baik dilihat manusia atau hanya bayanganku yang menjadi saksi, kuingin hidup dengan penuh kesungguhan, mendekat pada Allah di setiap keadaan, dan membagikan kasih sayang pada setiap makhluk yang Allah titipkan. YaaAllah, tolonglah aku memenuhi janjiku pada-Mu, dekatkanlah aku dengan impian terbesarku, yaitu bertemu dengan-Mu dalam keadaan sebaik-baiknya, bersama orang-orang tersayang sebanyak-banyaknya.
YaaAllah, Yaa Rahman, Yaa Rahiim, ampuni dan terimalah taubat orang-orang yang kusayangi, dan diriku yang hina ini.
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coldmermaidhologram · 4 months
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Enter my Healing Girl era
I have decided i deserve all the love coming my way. Nope, nothing's going to change my mind. I deserve good things in life and i'm gonna get them; no river is too wide, no mountain too tall.
I'm gonna spout poetry and make art and dance and go all out. I've been sad and punishing myself for far too long.
I'm going to romanticize every second of my life and no-one can stop me.
I'm changing my life in the best way possible, to become the best version of me.
♥️♥️♥️
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friendchie · 6 months
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You can keep me @ my lowest but I’ll B on top
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nammatamilnadu · 7 months
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clown-owo · 3 months
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Happy deletion day
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andthebeanstalk · 1 year
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
#hlep#original#mental health#my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it#i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support#and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of#huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the#longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel#i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop
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poniz-lettering · 8 months
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The weekend passed so quickly. I want more rest🌄✨🫂
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tonyjwash · 5 months
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The Good Ole Days...
The other night I woke up with Minnie Ripperton’s song, “Back Down Memory Lane” playing through my mind. Oddly, when I was a young man, the song always seemed to make me want to cry. Yet here it was again, in my head in the middle of the night for no apparent reason. You have to admit, reflections on good times from the past do seem to carry with them a certain nostalgic angst that hits you right…
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