#lets get you out of the closet

[chrissy-kaos]

Gotta love when dudes are still in the closet and projecting on you.. it's cool, bro. All you had to say is you want to suck my girl dick 😂

#men are exhausting #men are fucking trash #99.9% of men are gay #come on bud #lets get you out of the closet

[aunmenosheteroenespanol]

2.12 Chimney Begins - 2.09 Hen Begins - 2.16 Bobby Begins Again - 7.04 Buck, Bothered and Bewildered

Tommy's family arc

#911 #911edit #911 abc #911 show #911 spoilers #911 season 7 #tommy kinard #evan buckley #evan 'buck' buckley #kinley #bucktommy #kinkley #tevan #pick a ship name you guys and thanks for picking tevan the most correct name #anyway analysis time! #looking back with Modern Knowledge tm about why tommy acts the way he does in the past... babygirl you were so closeted I'm so proud #babygirl was back there getting into narnia #he was so resistant to letting go of the pseudo-family he'd found at the 118 in chimney begins #even tho it was a good old boys club that he knew he really didn't fit into he was making himself fit because at least it was something #but then he let chimney in and then hen came around and he saw a very queer person being openly queer and not giving a fuck what they think #and I think his behavior in that episode was trying to support hen as much as he could without outing himself #because like. how do you give up years of relative safety with people who do care about you they just won't like you anymore if you're *you #then he meets buck in s7 which is like 10-20 years later timeline is fake and he's like oh. this is what unconditional family is #and he's like oh. maybe I can come back. maybe I can be part of this again somehow. maybe we've both grown enough #or at the very least he'll be close to something he never believed would really happen for him #rant over tevan my beloved tim minear pillow cold both sides god bless #my edits

[weewoo911]

Ok but Tommy & Eddie hanging out solo and the conversation turning to Tommy’s experience of being closeted.

Tommy talking about how he did have a girlfriend at one point but it just felt like a performance and he was relieved whenever she left

Eddie ‘maybe you should go home’ Diaz: … huh well. That’s. Hm.

#911 abc #tommy kinard #Eddie Diaz #on god Eddie we gonna get you out of the closet #but for real if the show wants to make them have so much in common let’s do it

[simplydnp]

Stop im rewatching why dan is leaving me bc of ur post theyre so disgustingly domestic i adore them

sometimes i watch that video just to feel something

#you are so valid for that anon #theres something about the energy of that video that really gets to me #theyre filming cause its promo and its good clickbait and its silly and fun and Them #but its also For Them yknow?? theyre like we're gonna talk about how we're gonna be apart for the longest time since we've known each other #AFTER 13 years of knowing each other #just even framing it like that really is wild. but its exactly what happens. and they're both on the same page of yeah its a long time. #which. it isnt That Long but it IS for them yknow! #the silly intro phil does in front of Dan's closet. and it starts with dan going oi if you're crying about me it better be a long video! #its goofy and ridiculous. theyre in this bouncy happy uncertain mood. because theres gotta be some adrenaline with it but also appreciating #each other while theyre still there together. then its the complete lack of intro to dan bc come on now its dan you know him. obviously. #& then its the 'sphere' convo and im like bitch. he wants to touch you cause youre leaving!!! let him!! #then dans genuine shock at the swear like mans is down BAD. and then the teasing! the so real plant teasing. but also general life concern #the heart cactus makes me feel some type of way okay #the sheer domesticity of the stair convo and the ps4 struggle #and how phil turns it right back on dan with the selfie incident and dan is bashful about it. #and how phil just. gets to say that dan cant shower in the bus. bc it freaks him out. & ofc dan wont stress him like that. #(also the closet rifling. something dan's 'nice to know you do. in a dark drawer somewhere' vs the lacey shirt being lacey underwear idea) #the bathroom being very clearly a shared space. #goddd theyre sooo smiley and soft and i Cant #dnp #c.text #dan and phil

[backonrepeat]

It's a bit annoying how little reactivity Gortash has in game to anything having to do with his past. Speaking to him after meeting his parents doesn't give you any additional dialogue options, neither does finding out about his time in the House of Hope

Like... Shouldn't we at least be able to bring it up in conversation? At that point Raphael has been stalking the party and pushing his wonderful "deal" for three acts, finding out about the connection between him and Gortash should give us *something*. If you ally with Gortash maybe you can mention Raphael and Gortash cautions you against trusting him. And if you antagonise him, maybe you could tell him something along the lines of "Raphael sends his regards".

Same with Raphael and Korilla, we find out he basically raised one of the main villains of the game and can't say anything about it (we can't even ask him to show us gortash baby pictures).

After Larian introduced Gortash as the "politician raised by a devil", I kind of expected something more to come out of his backstory.

#baldur's gate 3 #enver gortash #Larian just let me bully the stinky man #since you don't let me fuck him #i should get to pull out all the skeletons in his closet and make them dance the conga #i can bully ketheric's entire family (him included) into killing themselves #and shatter orin's entire world with the revelation about her father-granfather #i should be able to use gorty's terrible childhood to piss him off at least

[lonelyvomit]

sooooo a small update, I'm adding Rami as a name people are very much encouraged to call me by and to anybody who missed it I prefer he/they pronouns these days

k thanks bye

#Abby still works but this^ is basically what I'll be working towards if I ever get out of this hellhole and can leave the closet lol #tfw your gender is fluid and swinging somewhere on the masc side of trans identities #but you live in a place that doesn't even comprehend the existence of nonbinary people let alone fluidity of any kind lol #anyway #[headbanging to Entry Of The Gladiators]

[opens-up-4-nobody]

I desperately need to be a scene kid for Halloween this year

#idk y but i suddenly realized that im an adult and could potentially buy the goth bullshit at hot topic #that 12yo me desperately desired. and then i was like oof but i like the contrast of color #like i think i really wanted to be somewhere between scene and emo really #but thrn i was looking at scene outfits and im like woof. this is the kinda cringe i love. all thr fucking patterns. all thr colors #i even have thr 1nvader z1m graphic tees in my closet... i think #i just dont kno how tf to do that to my hair and also i dont have actual makeup lol #but i must be a scene kid for Halloween. i want the most ostentatious outfit. oh god im gonna have to go to the mall #i havent been to the mall in ages. i need to go to hot topic and claires. is pacsun still around? do they still sell skinny jeans? #i feel like everythings all bland now in stores. where tf do i go to get early 00s and 2010s clothes #good will maybe??? oh god. its like 3.30am and my hormones r all fucked up so i was experiencing like the type of fear you have when youre #like a little kid in a dark room by yourself. its not fair. when my hormones shift it goes: im so depressed to im full of rage ill kill u #to the world is so fucking beautiful im gonna kill myself. like in a not worrying way idk how else to express the feeling. to the type of #unhinged and undirected fear that belongs to a kid who doesnt kno shit. also lil heart palpitations and sometimes feeling like im gonna die #its bullshit. y does my body hate me? ugh. at least ive got a Halloween plan now #unrelated #oh god. dont let me cut myself bangs. im trying to grow my hair back out lol. im an emo with no bangs

[humanitys-strongest-bamf]

i have realized i have yet to leave a job (including my internship last semester) peacefully/on good terms and idk why that just struck me or how it matters but now im perplexed

#literally left a passive aggressive “fuck you everyone on staff hates you” letter for my first job before closing and never coming back #for my second job i had so much anxiety going in bc i got so used to people screaming at me every shift #that i just procrastinated on giving them my class schedule until they gave up on trying to get me to come in #because they were so short-staffed that they didn't want to let me quit #for my internship i literally got what i needed to for school #and then peaced out in the closet office until i got to leave and never looked back lol #lol #kat rambles

[brinnanza]

my situationship guy I've been seeing has this cute little streak of grey hair that is totally giving gorgug thistlespring but you can't just say that to a man who has no experience with d20 or dropout

#the other day at inservice they numbered us off for groups #one of the kids was like 'are you one?' and I VERY badly wanted to make a mash reference #and say in a very gay choice 'I'm one are you' #but that expression is too outdated for the kids to get it AND it's a mash reference #so i just got to enjoy that little joke myself #I will say though it's nice working with other queers #I stepped back to let someone out of the ops closet and said 'oh nathan you can come out' #and they instantly shot back 'I'm gay' #base level queer joke but a good one every time

[seilon]

it’s really funny to me how at this point kibum has implied in every way humanly possible that he’s gay EXCEPT for outright saying the word itself. like good god the unspoken forbiddance of saying The G Word in kpop is so absurd at this point what are we doing here

#at least he got to sing juice by lizzo without changing the pronouns. that was satisfying #hearing him go ‘somebody come get this man- I think he wanna be way more than friends’ and etc??? #rejuvenating. #but for real. let this man out of the damn closet the door is made of GLASS it is TRANSPARENT #SM do you even know how successful he’d be as the first openly gay Big Label idol just fucking PRIME for a western debut??? #like im just SAYING popular queer western artists would ABSOLUTELY collab if he released the gay club banger of the century over there #sm I know you don’t care about people but think of the PROFIT at LEAST #bxjffjdndndjdjdkd anyway. I’m not wrong #kibumblabs #shinee #key

[sidereon-spaceace]

Whoever designed the layout for these apartments needs to get hit over the head with a crowbar

#what a great idea! let's build the drawers INTO the wall! #arrange the rooms so the closets share a wall!! #that way when your roommate gets home at ass-o'clock at night they can slam that shit into YOUR wall and pull you out from being half asleep #does no one understand the concept of closing shit quietly. drawers. doors. cabinets. jesus fucking christ

[carcarrot]

why wont people at work understand i dont want to be disturbed when i am sitting in my little freak corner

#the little freak corner is a corner of this singular cushion thing thats set into a wall (dont ask the interior design here sucks) #and lets say 10 feet or so across from there is a longer set of cushions to sit on #and every time. without fail. even though there are many places to sit along the much longer cushion. away from my and their line of sight #someone will chose to sit directly across from me. thank you now i cant continue to eat my lunch bc You Are There #i know i bitch a lot abt work and clearly others do not think like me but is it too much to ask to have some semblance of a personal space #considering that we have no break room and there is no private room i can use #time to hide in a closet. or something #actually i should figure out how to reserve one of the big conference rooms and screw over anyone who wanted to have a meeting #but i could probably get in trouble for that lol

[milo-is-rambling]

Me vs outlining a perfect plan for my day in my head which I can be the only one allowed to change the schedule vs my mom asking me to do 2 simple tasks

#she was like hey can you take the trash out I was like ughhhh okay yeah give me a min (I was still ordering weed) #my mom less than a minute later : hey if you want to break down all the cardboard out there I’d appreciate it Me: actually I’d rather not I #was about to shower right after I put this weed order in #then she gets all pissed at me bc I never do what she asks and blah blah blah blah blah #like. girl. I know she can’t see in my brain but I was not awake last night watching cleaning videos and psyching myself up for a day full #of cleaning my room and showering and doing laundry and cleaning funks cage and doobs cage and making my bed and dusting my ceiling fan and #taking apart my box fan to clean it and cleaning the water pitcher in the fridge and deep cleaning #like GAH I HAVE SO MANY PLANS TODAY WHAT DO YOU MEAN I DO NOTHING AND JUST SIT ON MY ASS SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP #ripping my hair out and screaming banging my fists on the floor #I literally was like yeah I’ll take the trash out no I will not break down boxes right now and she went off on a whole fucking thing like #just shut up. #I hate it. why do I make plans in my head of the exact order I have to do things and if one person suggest doing anything differently or #pushing my schedule back further than I wanted to myself I get so annoyed I explode into a ball of flames #I wanted to shower dry off pick up weed let out funk refill the humidifier clean the bathroom mirrors throw sort and clean the bathroom #shelves sweep start a load of laundry clean off my desk which means cleaning and organizing my closet or my desk dresser thing to fit the #crap on my desk and I have to clean and reorganize the space next to my desk so I can fit my boombox there bc the humidifier took its place #next to funk and like I want to just cry why does everything have to be so fucking difficult for me why is everything simple for everyone #else and for me every simple task is composed of one million baby tasks that I have to do in the correct order forever or everyone around m #will think I’m stupid and dumb forever like WHAT THE HELL WHY IS IT SO EASY FOR EVERYONE ELSE IN MY LIFE WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU JUST DO THING #IN WHATEVER ORDER AND IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT DO YOU MEAN A 20 MINUTE SETBACK DOESNT COMPLETELY RUIN YOUR DAY #AHHHHHHHHHH I WANT TO RIP MY HAIR OUT #BUT INSTEAD. I WILL GO TAKE THE TRASH OUT. AND NOT BREAK DOWN THE CARDBOARD BC THAT MEANS GETTING MY KNIFE AND MY HEADPHONES AND PUTTING MO #CLOTHES ON WHICH IS COUNTERINTUITIVE #TO THE WHOLE ABOUT TO TAKE A SHOWER THING #UGHHHHHHH #I am the worst human on the planet and I deserve infinite suffering #fuck this whole thing I’m pissed I’m gonna listen to music and rage clean after I pick up weed and shower

[hooved]

i know everyone's told me to rest because i'm sick but i just can't. it doesn't feel right. i need to do everything i can rn because i'm scared that any second we'll be told to get out NOW

#there's a lot of legal shit going on so i'm really unsure when exactly we'll have to leave #my mom keeps telling me to pack an overnight bag just in case and i know she's right but there's other things i need to do first #plus i'm not leaving my computer here. i'm just not. i can't. it's my most important possession. it keeps me sane if you can call it that #i need to get everything else ready before finishing getting my ''i need these with me at all times'' stuff ready #because so much shit is in the way like i still need to take out trash and do more laundry #and get more things that have already been in boxes forever out of here. also the closet door is stuck so that's a problem #i don't even care about most of the shit in my closet like i know there's stuff from my childhood in there but i don't remember what #other than that it's junk. and decorations i bought for an eventual apartment but when the fuck is that even gonna happen #i know i'm sitting here doing nothing rn as i'm typing this but i'm like mentally stuck on what to do next without my mom's help #and she's not here rn. plus there's some dude that her shitty ex is letting stay downstairs rn ? for some reason ? #and i just don't feel comfortable leaving the room to get food or take out trash or change out the laundry. it's just weird #plus i'm sick and he has a weak immune system and like. i dunno i don't wanna be responsible for that #anyway sorry i'm rambling. i know it's understandable at a time like this but i just feel bad that this is all i'm talking about rn #i'm just so fucking depressed and stressed and tired and i've barely eaten anything for the past few days #i can't even have fun or talk to any friends like i normally do. my brain won't let me and it just doesn't feel right. i can't be happy rn #for even a second. it's just not the right time. there's nothing to be happy about. i have no hope at this point that things will work out

[sadaveniren]

Don’t you love when the answer to the discourse of the day is that BOTH sides are right and BOTH sides are valid and that it makes perfect sense for BOTH to exist at the same time?

Yeah nuance sucks for internet arguments. 🙃

#yes closeted people should be allowed to to interact with queer spaces without having to come out #and yes out people who have risked a lot to be out should be allowed to be annoyed when people they don’t know identify as gay insert #themselves into queer spaces #both can exist #there IS risk with coming out #which is why closeted people are valid #no one should be forced to come out and no one should feel they have to come out #HOWEVER because coming out is a RISK to your career - to your life - you DO get certain privileges that come with it #(I loathe to use the word privilege here but let’s just go with it) #being out means you are allowed to have MORE say than an ally #I know that stings to hear but again BEING OUT IS A RISK #you CANNOT be closeted and expect to have all the perks of being queer with none of the downsides #I’m sorry if that sounds shitty and unfair and whatever but thats…that’s how it is #in actual queer spaces #with actual queer people #in a lot of queer spaces we are aware allys are probably closeted people #but ally’s (closeted people) are still meant to make way for openly queer voices #BOTH CAN EXIST #BOTH ARE CORRECT! #and arguing about this kind of thing is just… exhausting because everyone is right #anyway clearly HSHQ is run by straight people because they couldn’t see this coming #when every queer person in fandom has seen this as a problem since 2017 #okay back to work

[feelslikegold]

.

#if you make a WHOLE fucking list #of how you want your fave to ‘reach out’ to lgbtq+ fans when every sign ever points to them being closeted #and you say the lack of doing your whole weird ass list = homophobic #WHAT is wrong with you….????? genuinely from the bottom of my heart what is wrong with you #why would someone make a detailed LIST of things to do to basically validate their queerness because they’re just not publicly gay enough #FOR THEM* like make a list FOR SOMEONE ELSE bc they’re not gay enough FOR THEM…a person they don’t know!!!! #let alone this is a musician???? which their personal lives are so fucking unrelated to being a musician #what is your fucking problem #i’d ask what wolves raised you but yk what that’d be so disrespectful to wolves #and they claim to be lgbtq+ LMFAO??????? #how do you as a queer person project that kind of disgusting mentality on another queer person just bc they haven’t waved a pride flag on #stage #you simply do not deserve to even perceive him lmfao #god that’s so fucking disgusting #and also!!! your brain-rotted little noodle spice packet of a brain doesn’t get to decide what allyship looks like lmfao 😭 you don’t speak #for literally anyone lgbtq+ besides yourself #god ****** *** #the audacity never fails to blow my mind with how openly delusional they are lmfao #yes I will still talk my shit when someone as fucked in the head as saint***** gets back on their bullshit propaganda of #‘just how disgusting and damaging/insulting to the lgbtq+ community can I be today 🥹’ agenda lmfao #anyways #propaganda and agenda lmao yeah