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sending you happy easter wishes with bunny!Niko 🐰
how did you get the perfect timing when I'm in the middle of my soft Niko feels
Happy easter Bec, love ya 🥺🤲💐🖤
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lonelyvomit · 2 days
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sure I could become a slut. but you see, I'm scared
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lonelyvomit · 4 days
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lonelyvomit · 5 days
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MASKING MYTHS BUSTED: “Masking = Acting NT.”
FALSE.
Autistic masking does not necessarily mean “pretending to be allistic/neurotypical," although you’d definitely be forgiven for thinking it does.
Non-autistic researchers have been referring to it as “camouflaging” for years, framing it as an intentional choice to suppress autistic traits and replace them with allistic ones in order to “blend in.” Doing an internet search on the term will return several similar results.
But now, Autistic researchers are in the game, and their take is much more nuanced and comprehensive than that. (Funny how that happens, isn’t it?)
They’ve found that:
- It CAN be intentional but is often subconscious and involuntary 
- It is a protective response to trauma and feeling unsafe 
- It is often about suppressing more than just autistic traits 
- It is about identity management and being able to predict how people will treat you, not just “blending in”
Some people will lean into being “the bad kid” because they know that’s what people expect of them. Some people will even act “more autistic” because they know that’s what people expect of them. Others still will do things to attract attention in controllable, more “acceptable” ways to avoid attracting attention in unsafe, more stigmatizing ways. Not because they WANT to be that way, but because it lets them predict people’s responses better, which feels safer.
Also, there are Autistic people who can’t “pass” for non-autistic no matter how hard they try. That doesn’t mean they’re not masking. They may actually be working hard to suppress A LOT, they just can’t do everything to neuronormative standards.
None of these people will be accused of “blending in,” yet they are still masking their hearts out. When we assume they are not, we miss all the harm that masking is causing them. But they are suppressing themselves and suffering the consequences of that just as much as any Autistic person whose mask successfully says, “Hey, I’m just like you!”
(For more on this, please see the work of Dr. Amy Pearson and Kieran Rose.)
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lonelyvomit · 6 days
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smol 🥹
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lonelyvomit · 7 days
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lonelyvomit · 8 days
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@because-its-eurovision
   ∧ __ ∧ (`•ω• )づ__∧ (つ  / ( •ω•。)   しーJ  (nnノ) pat pat
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lonelyvomit · 8 days
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fanfic titles be like “we have not touched the stars (nor are we forgiven)” and then you look at the tags & the first one is “anal fisting”
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lonelyvomit · 11 days
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you would fuck that old man. i would fuck that old man. we are the same. hold my hand
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lonelyvomit · 11 days
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the feminine urge to hyperfixate over an old man and download 1000+ pictures of him and look at them lovingly in your spare time
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lonelyvomit · 12 days
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tonight's interesting math problem is "how many times could I get busted for driving without a license for it to still be cheaper than getting a motorbike license?" and the answer is 4. which, in a small town like mine where cops rarely patrol and obvs only driving during summers, would probably translate to 10-15 years give or take.
inch resting
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lonelyvomit · 12 days
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it's all about dad bods but what about the mummy tummy huh. where's the love. cowards
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lonelyvomit · 12 days
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im gonna complain about the tiktokification of cosplay for a bit
i have 2 main issues with this
1: it's FUCKING IMPOSSIBLE to just find still images of people's cosplays anymore! everyone's just making goddamn lipsynch videos with seizure-inducing cuts and effects on them! I can't see the work you've done, how something was put together, how your wig was styled, your props and makeup, etc!!!!!
1.5: this extends to tutorials too! fucking stop with the 3 part tutorials that spend 5 seconds on each step and literally just amount to "sew a costume! you're done!"
2: Because the main way people show off their cosplays now is through social media instead of at conventions (I used to see extremely elaborate cosplayers at anime conventions ALL THE TIME, now it's mostly casual to mid-level cosplay-- which is not a dig at them at all, just listen to me for a second), I seriously feel like the art of balancing quality with long-term wearability is dying. You are not wearing that heavy ass wig constructed from 4 other wigs, a full face of makeup, a tight vinyl costume, and platform stilettos FOR 8 HOURS AT A CONVENTION, don't bullshit me. All I see are cosplays built to be worn for maybe 30 minutes of filming a 2 minute video.
2.5: AGAIN, TUTORIALS. I DON'T NEED TO KNOW HOW TO MAKE A FRAGILE ART PIECE, I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO MAKE A PROP THAT I CAN CARRY OR SHOVE IN MY BAG AND PROBABLY GET BUMPED INTO SEVERAL TIMES. WHERE ARE YOUR POCKETS MY GUY. HOW ARE YOU HANDLING VENTILATION AND OVERHEATING IN THAT COSTUME THAT COVERS YOUR HEAD AND HANDS AND FEET AND MOST OF YOUR SKIN.
#fr
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lonelyvomit · 13 days
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niko´s ig story 14.03.2024
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lonelyvomit · 14 days
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maybe your computer doesn’t work because you fucked it with your ponis
i did not fuck that computer with my ponis
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