#gender positivity

[thedevilandhisbride]

ive been doomscrolling for a while so i needed to step-back and do a positivity post for men :]

i love you men

i love you cis men

i love you trans men

i love you man-adjacent people

i love you intersex men

i love you nonbinary men

i love you masc-alligned people

i love you men who are in someway aligned or identify with femininity and woman/girlhood

i love you gender fuckery men

i love you disabled men

i love you abled men

i love you mentally ill men

i love you neurotypical men

i love you fat men

i love you skinny men

i love you chubby men

i love you medium sized men

i love you men with stretch marks

i love you men with scars

i love you men with freckles

i love you men with acne

i love you men with eyebags

i love you men with wrinkles

i love you men with hairy bodies

i love you men with little or no hair

i love you bald and balding men

i love you men with long hair

i love you men with short hair

i love you men with medium hair

i love you short men

i love you tall men

i love you average height men

i love you insecure men

i love you confident men

i love you men who are inbetween insecure and confident

i love you men who struggle with internal misogyny and/or misandry

i love you men who are finally comfortable in their skin

i love you men who are learning to love themselves

i love you men who slowly deprogramming internalized self hatred

i love you men who havent started their journey of self love yet

i love you men who are/have something i didnt mention

i love you men

and i will always love you!!!!!!

THIS POST IS FOR MEN- ANY AND ALL MEN

ily :]

#tdahbposting #i love men #no negativity on this post or i will block you and delete what you said <3 #misandry #transandrophobia #positivity #positivity for men #masculine #men #men positivity #body posititivity #gender positivity #sexuality positivity #terfs fuck off

[celestiachan]

stop associating makeup with women

stop associating long hair with women

stop associating pretty clothes with women

stop associating pastel colours with women

men and non-binary people can like and have these things too and that doesn't automatically make them a woman

guys op supports bi lesbians and endogenic systems and is Christian and is pro choice and thinks shipping incest and writing fanfiction of real people is bad :/

ALSO transandrophobia is real. suck my spiritual cock

#xenon screams #gender #gender positivity #trans man #transmasc #transmasculine #transgender #non-binary #nb #nonbinary #getting ma'amed every time i go outside because i wanted to be a boy wearing eyeliner that morning <<<<< #everytging should be gender neutral #i just wanna wear comfortable clothes that have cute designs on them without being Girled by society

[almadebeatriz]

“Transcending gender is embracing grace and femininity with the soul, not just the body.”

#trans community #gender positivity #the woman in me #i want to be a girl #i want to be a woman #trans woman #transgirl #women s clothing #so hot 🔥🔥🔥 #mtf hrt #mtf girl #transisbeautiful

[therealamperssand]

I Love My Friends!

I love my transfem friends

I love my transmasc friends

I love my nonbinary friends

I love my agender friends

I love my genderfluid friends

I love my intersex friends

I love my questioning friends

I love my closeted friends

I love my cis friends

YOU'RE AMAZING AND I LOVE YOU!

#trans ally #trans #nonbinary #agender #genderfluid #intersex #questioning #gender positivity #positivity

[queermetalgremlin]

FUCK TWITTER, FUCK INSTAGRAM

I LOVE BULLSHIT IDENTITIES

I LOVE GENDERWEIRD MANWOMEN

I LOVE PANSEXUAL GAYBIANS

I LOVE NEUROSTARCATBOYPUPGENDER PEOPLE

I LOVE SCARING THE TERF HOES AWAY WITH MY OCDGENDER SWAG

WE HAVE GENDER SWAG, EVERYONE

Btw if you're cis but support every gender fuckery, you're an honorary Swag. Likewise, if you're trans but still have the shitface to exclude people, you're not even close to swagness. Sorry, i don't make the rules here

#xenogender positivity #gender positivity #queer positivity #exclus dni

[whydidisavethistomyphone]

#good omemes #crowley #gender #affront to god #david tennant #nonbinary #gender positivity

[artistic-redhead]

This is genuinely one of the reasons I really love Minecraft. Like, they didn’t have to add that to the splash text thing, but they did, and I know it’s gonna make somebody’s day if they see it.

#Minecraft #Minecraft splash text #lgbt #lgbt minecraft #gender #your gender is valid #positivity #lgbt positivity #gender positivity #trans #transgender #nonbinary #agender #genderfluid #genderqueer #gender nonconforming #gameing #video games #mojang

[missladora]

For context, I am genderfluid, nonbinary, and transgender, in one package. I usually just say I'm a trans girl because it's a lot easier to say "i live in queer avenue" than my specific address. My wonderful girlfriend, when interacting with me, will frequently ask me what gender I feel at the moment, and she does a pretty good job at making me feel heard and appreciated. I like being respected for more than just my easy answer. Some days I feel multigender and tell her "Go john madden dude just use whatever" and other days I'm like "fem right now" etc etc. It's nice!

#genderfluid #nonbinary #gender positivity #i love my gf #she is very nice and endearing #and i don't quite know what i would do without her #there's obviously more to her than respecting my gender ofc #but it's one of the many things i like

[our-neuroqueer-experience]

hi! hey! neurogender people don't owe anyone explanations, least of all ourselves! sometimes we know what's going on! but sometimes it's all up in the fuckin air!

we can chill, y'all. we don't gotta figure out everything right the fuck now. it's ok to be confused for a while. it's ok to be confused forever.

what's your gender? "I'm working on it." VALID

what's your gender? "IDK and IDC." ALSO VALID.

what's your gender? "How the fuck am I supposed to know? No one gave me a manual!" FUCKING VALID.

#and all other variations thereof - VALID. #not a user submitted post #neurogender #neuroqueer #trans pride #gender positivity

[xr0tt3nxc0rps3x]

what's up guys today we're doing a genderswap of [insert characters here]! *doesn't change anything because people can dress how they like and have hair of any length and a body type despite the gender they identify as*

#gender positivity #body posititivity

[peggy-sue-reads-a-book]

It bums me out to see any kid shut down for playing pretend as another gender. The whole point is that littles are concrete and need to act out roles in order to experience empathy. What you can do in your head, a child can do with the help of dress up clothes and toys. Sometimes my son likes to be a ballerina — ok, so he saw a skilled athlete who happened to be female. Now he wants to know what it’s like to be her. Cool. This will come up again in real life. Sometimes he wants to be a mommy. Well … no shit. We spend most of our time together. I would be concerned if he didn’t make efforts to relate to me. Boys playing princess aren’t having an identity crisis; they’re building social skills or very possibly just enjoying some fun colors and sparkles. There’s nothing to overthink here. I promise you that adults are the only ones making this weird.

And hey, if you do have a more serious conversation about gender later, chill support early on will have done nothing but build trust.

#gender positivity #gentle parenting #kids #I’d say more on girls but I don’t have one #the above example is a boy who has explicitly said he’s a boy #I’m sure the conversation is slightly different for trans kids and their parents

[almadebeatriz]

I want my breasts to be big so I can rub my nipples against my blouse like she does.🏳️‍⚧️🫦🌈💕💓💋

#trans community #transgirl #gender positivity #i want to be a girl #i want to be a woman #fashion #women s clothing #so hot 🔥🔥🔥 #fitness #body #big brests #sexy breast #lovely breasts

[autumnmobile12]

I finally got around to watching Requiem of the Rose King.

Let me tell you, this manga got me back into history; I read a lot on the Wars of the Roses after reading this series. I loved the story and the artwork. The creator, Aya Kanno, also did Otomen, which is an adorable manga about defying traditional gender roles and learning acceptance, so she does good stuff. Requiem of the Rose King is based off of several Shakespearean plays and the English civil war that eventually brought about the downfall of the Plantagenet Dynasty.

Keeping true to Kanno's previous work about positive messages about gender, the story also features an intersex individual as the main protagonist and the emotional strife they face in a medieval world that cruelly labels anyone who doesn't fall into the strict 'male or female' gender as 'demonic.' Richard's father declared he should be raised male, he is denied the affection from his mother who is horrified she gave birth to a 'demon,' and his brothers are unaware of their intersex sibling. In addition, Richard is tormented by his 'female half' and denounces his own body as demonic, which is a true tragedy brought about by a time period of people who just didn't know any better and couldn't see past their own prejudices.

Requiem of the Rose King is a beautiful story and I highly recommend the manga.

So the anime....

Oh, the pacing...the pacing....holy shit, slow down, slow down! Episode 1 practically raced through volume 1. Shit, if I hadn't read the manga first, I probably wouldn't have a clue was what was going on.

I'm gonna stick it out on the hope it gets better and treated the first book like a severely rushed prologue, but...wow, I am not impressed by this opening.

#requiem of the rose king #manga vs anime #gender positivity #gender roles #aya kanno #otomen #intersex #representation #lgbtq+ #criticism #defying traditional gender roles #shakespeare

[codename-adler]

In honour of this Pride, here’s a stupid little lesson I’ve come to learn on my own, that might help anyone of you out there struggling with questioning your sexuality or gender like me, and perhaps shaking some sense into some of y’all questioning the legitimacy of some letters in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community.

If a certain sexuality baffles you, as in you understand what it’s suppose to mean but you just don’t get how someone could experience attraction that way…

…it just means it’s not your sexuality. That’s it.

It enrages, appalls, dumbfounds you that someone might feel this or that way sexually because you just can’t fathom it? Not your sexuality. Therefore not your problem. Let it go, bud. Read the label and put it back on the shelf. It’s that easy. If you cannot comprehend and accept that someone might exist like this, then how is your opinion of any relevance? Newsflash, it’s not. We’re not asking you to love it, to live that way, to fight for us. We’re just telling you to get out of the way. And it’s nobody’s job to make themself palatable to you. It’s no one’s duty to justify their validity to you. It’s not a philosophy class. It’s not a math problem. It’s somebody’s existence. It is non-negotiable.

Now.

For those of you for which sexuality boggles you, like me, in a way that has nothing to do with hate and discrimination, let me elaborate with an example.

I, 24F, cis, have come a long way on my journey to understand myself. Sexually, I’ve been consciously questioning myself since I was 14. Subconsciously? Who knows how long. I’ve made peace with certain aspects, am at war with others. Lots of clarity has been reached in the recent years. The journey is still not over in that regard. Here is what I’ve come to understand in the process.

I could never get how someone identifying as pansexual could experience attraction for anyone regardless of gender. It just didn’t seem possible. Because gender matters to me when it comes to how I experience attraction. Because I was not, therefore, pansexual. So I can cross that off my list. That’s all it means.

I could never get how someone, identifying like I do gender-wise, could experience attraction only for men, and not women. It just seemed impossible. Because I could never experience attraction only for men, and never not experience attraction for women. Because I was not, therefore, heterosexual. That’s it. Cross it off the list.

I could never get how one-night-stands work for some people. How some people could genuinely find someone sexually attractive and feel horny for them without knowing them. It sounded so fake, like a lie, like something out of a movie. Because I do not work that way. Because I was not, therefore, allosexual. Cross it off, cross it off, cross it off.

If you don’t get it, you’re probably not it. That is all it means, all it should mean. And there is nothing wrong with you. If the label makes no sense to you, put it down and try another until you feel some sort of enlightenment. Something that settles in your skin just right, something that feels like a home that’s been waiting for you. I promise it exists. The search is a mess, it is confusing af, there are more trials and errors than wins. But just because those labels feel alien doesn’t mean they can’t help you. You have just begun scratching the surface. Give yourself time, and tools. Engage. Talk. Read. The same goes for your gender identity.

If something feels too foreign in a way that doesn’t sit right within you, don’t cling to it and try to make yourself less comfortable for it. Thank it, put it back out there, and move on. Don’t be sad and ashamed to let go of an old label when it doesn’t fit you anymore. Don’t be scared and closed-off if a new label seems to call for you. Don’t feel weird and wrong if labels are not something that help you. Don’t feel weird and wrong if labels are something you need. Don’t be afraid of the unknown. Look it in the eye and see it for what it is: progress.

I speak from my own experience, because it is something I wish I could have known so much earlier, especially in terms of asexuality and its spectrum. There were and always will be waves of knowledge that come and go, and I guess I just wanted to put my little piece of mind out there, in case it helps someone avoid the confusion and hurt I went through. This might be very obvious and stupid to many. It wasn’t to me. Maybe this is only for me, to evaluate my progress and see my journey in its whole. Hope it helps, though.

Happy pride everybody and take care.

#happy pride #pride month #asexuality #aspec #demisexuality #2slgbtqia+ #june 2023 #pride 2023 #lgbtq rights #lgbtq community #lgbtq positivity #sexuality and representation #sexuality and gender #gender positivity #gay rights #gay #lesbian #bisexual #pansexual #asexual #demisexual #aromatic #aroace #transgender #nonbinary #trans #lgbtq

[verypup]

i love hearing about the different ways other people perceive their genders, like the way gender Feels to someone else. it's so great especially if they have a "weird" gender

try to pause for a second and appreciate how cool your gender is & what it feels like (even if you haven't quite figured it out yet) ! like thats You, its unique, and its awesome!!

you are cool especially if your gender is "weird" i appreciate u and wish u a very gender euphoria

#weird gender squad hi im one of yall #dogposting woofwoof #trans #transgender #trans positivity #gender #gender identity #gender positivity #xenogender #neopronouns

[your-queer-dad]

Why did the genderqueer teacher end the class early?

They ran out of things on the agender

#agender #non binary #non binary positivity #gender positivity #genderqueerpositivity #genderqueer #lgbt #trans #transgender #lgbtq #lgbtqia #finch rambles #trans joy #queer positivity #trans kids #trans community #aqueerjokeaday #lgbtq memes #lgbtq jokes #gay jokes