#dysphoria is a bitch

[monorayjak]

I want to come out to the people I care about. I want to be honest with them. I've written and rewritten a letter to my mom about all of it tens of times now; I just... I'm scared.

What if they don't believe me? What if they try to convince me I'm wrong? What if I am wrong? And I just went through all of this because I tricked myself? What if its the exact opposite and they try to pull me farther for my own good without realizing this stuff takes time? What if my extended family finds out? I mean one of my uncles is already a mentally unstable bigoted religious freak who's considered killing people and himself before because he can. What if people I care about get hurt? But also... what if I can't keep going like this much longer? It hurts. So much. Its fucking with my grades, I'm scared. I feel like I'm fucking up so much.

It just... it feels like no matter what I do is wrong.

Holy shit

I'm living in a trolley problem.

If I take action, it's untelling how many will be affected; but if I don't take action it will just be me affected at first. But even if I don't take action, I get the feeling the people I care about will be hurt as well, just later on. You know... now that I've thought that through... maybe I should make a list of things that could happen depending on the choice, kind of like a pro-con list, but... is that stupid?

#idk #lgbt+ #i'm writing more #transfem #trans #help #transgender #transfeminine #mtf #lgbtq+ #queer #gender queer #queer as in fuck you #queer stuff #dysphoria is a bitch #how much longer can I put up this charade? #anyone got tips? #or advice? #or anything

[queenofqueernerds]

Who decided to make me genderfluid but not make me a shapeshifter? Seriously, that's just unfair!

#genderfluid #lgbtq+ #shapeshifting #gender dysphoria #Why? #It's just unfair #Dysphoria is a bitch #And my gender has been all over the place today

[sillycatt8]

this. it’s not ‘feeling insecure’ it can send me into a panic attack and it will sometimes make me want to harm myself.

#trans thoughts #trans man #transgender #trans guy #transmasc #trans tumblr #chest dysphoria #gender dysphoria #afab dysphoria #ftm dysphoria #dysphoria vent #dysphoria is a bitch #dysphoric #tw dysphoria #dysphoria cw

[playawner]

The only thing that keeps me from crying in the shower with dysphoria over my body is...

My autism, because it seeks sensory comfort in anything that is warm, and yes, it includes water.

#otherwise I would merge myself to the floor #dysphoria is a bitch #I hate it here #literally this 🤏 near to come out because I can't stand the pain #actually autistic #autism #autistic #autistic things #dysphoria #dysphoria tw #transmasc #bigender #trans #transgender #zash's stuff

[phoenix-18405]

trans memes bc im bored and dysphoric

#trans #transgender #ftm dysphoria #dysphoria is a bitch #trans dysphoria #trans memes

[irradiatedpiratebooty]

dysphoria has been absolutely kicking my ass lately. tried to do something with it instead of sitting here and letting my emotions fester

#my art #dysphoria is a bitch

[welcome-to-the-agender-agenda]

I feel like a wolf cut would solve all my dysphoria but at the same time it's pretty irreversible and high maintenance so I'm going to create a new Gender Envy Pinterest board instead :(

#wolfcut #hairstyle #dysphoria is a bitch #afab dysphoria #dysphoric #nonbinary #enby #demigirlflux #demigirl #lgbtqa #lgbtq+ #lgbtqiia+ #fluid gender #genderqueer #gender euphoria #gender dysphoria #not a girl #not cishet #gender envy

[jason75666]

A constant silent battle between me and myself

know by some felt by many of us🧠

#transisbeautiful #transgender #dysphoria is a bitch #dysphoria memes #dysphoric #i am in pain

[creetcheer]

dysphoria is punching me in the packer rn

#trans #transmasc #shitpost #has this been done? probably #ftm #transmasc memes #transgender #dysphoria is a bitch #dysphoria memes #ftm dysphoria

[tylerurdad]

being a little trans kid growing up not knowing i was trans or even having any sort of definition to what i was experiencing was so traumatizing honestly. being embarrassed about doing “girly things” not relating to my friends who were all girls. being embarrassed to tell my mom when i got my first period so i hid it from her for like 6 months. i never associated myself with my dead name even as a little kid i understood that i didn’t feel like that name meant Me as in that’s me im *deadname*. it still makes me so sad i wish i wasn’t trans. discovering i was trans and realizing tyler was my name was one of the lowest point in my life. I wanted to be like the other girls so bad. i never identified with anything they felt or understood about being a girl. being so sad as a 11 year old because i didn’t know what was “wrong” with me changed my whole life. i still haven’t told my family even at my big ass age because thinking about coming out makes me feel like an 11 year old again ashamed and embarrassed and confused and so sad

ok i’m done being emo!

#transmasc #ftm #trans #feeling emo #gender envy changed my life #closeted for my own safety #dysphoria is a bitch #dysphoric

[bird-the-introvert]

hi guys and welcome to dysphoria tips with bird!

(this is sort of a sequel to my Anxiety Tips With Bird post I made a couple days ago)

note: I made this list with gender dysphoria in mind, but it works for just feeling down/sad about yourself

first off, MUSIC! This is a really well known one but it helps so much. (Listening to it and making it! making music is excellent for venting) My personal recommendation is Cavetown, they make great music and sing a lot about being transmasc

Second, another well known one: get yourself a hoodie! Hoodies are just great when your feeling down about anything.

Third, blankets. Wether your just curling up in bed, or making a huge fort, it's a good strategy to feel better

Watch/read/listen to media with queer representation! It helps you remember you're not alone in your struggle

Sort of distract yourself with a hobby. I like to game when dysphoric, and if possible make my avatar a guy.

Watch a comfort show/ YouTuber/ streamer/ ect. My comfort streamers are Ranboo, Aimsey, and slimesicle.

Vent! You can do this by drawing, writing, making music, taking to someone, ect

Remember you're seen, loved, appreciated, SO VALID, and definitely not alone!

Another note: this is my personal experience, and everybody's different! Also please feel free to add your own tips!

#chest dysphoria #Dysphoria #bottom dysphoria #trans #nonbinary #trans pride #non binary pride #transmasc #transfemme #I know it's hard but you got this!! #please take care of yourself #dysphoria tips #dysphoria is a bitch #love you all

[forget-me-not-automaton]

The world would be SO good if I didn’t have a fucking girl voice and girl body and girl personality. If god was real I wouldn’t have been born the way I was!! 😀

#trans #transmasc #transgender #trans ftm #ftm trans #gender dysphoria #tw dysphoria #dysphoria vent #trans dysphoria #dysphoria is a bitch #cw dysphoria

[punkybutnotwierdguy]

Damn I really gotta get something off my chest.

This is not about feelings.

#trans guy #top surgery #lgbtq #gayguy #trans ftm #transgender #dysphoria is a bitch

[akashigadabi]

Why am I thinking about trans Dabi now and how him being a trans man would add an extra layer to his trauma because imagine the dysphoria and trauma and invalidation and dysmorphia and depression he’d feel if he thought his dad abandoned him on a dime for his “real” son with a “perfect” quirk. Like I can low key see Endeavor being mildly transphobic even if he accepts Dabi as a son, and I can see how Dabi would see it as Endeavor ditching his disabled trans child for his abled cis one and damn.

#please note I’m saying this as a trans person myself #I’m nonbinary and I’ve literally felt dysphoria over not having a dick in addition to my pussy like #for some reason my chest doesn’t bother me but what I lack does and just #I’ve literally felt like an alien inhabiting a vessel that’s not mine when I was younger like #the disconnect was real #the FEELINGS of trans Dabi #Dabi #todoroki touya #anti endeavor #trauma #ableism #transphobia #afab dysphoria #dysphoria is a bitch #dysphoria mention #dysmorphia mention #trans male character #trans pride #minors dni #not safe for church #rue after dark #abuse survivors #does anyone dare me to write trans dabi #do you dare me #do you #I always see trans hawks talked about but no trans Dabi in sight #what an injustice

[maehem-1]

Not to be uncouth on main but if I wasn't such a depressed tranny bitch (aka a happy tranny bitch) I would be writing so much smut right now. Literal anthologies. If I had ADHD meds? Babygirl I could be inventing new fetishes.

#trans #transfem #dysphoria is a bitch #t slur reclaimed #t slur

[popfishjr]

That one dysphoria-inducing t-shirt that wraps around your body and makes your chest obvious and shows your curves but it's expensive and everyone says it looks good

#trans #trans ftm #trans ftnb #top dysphoria #gender dysphoria #dysphoria mention #dysphoria is a bitch #transmaculine #transmasc