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Here is my current idea of Dating. Left alone Dating can be very difficult and hard. Especially for those who have disabilities. I don’t know if my current idea of Dating has changed since last time I posted a blog. But my current idea of Dating is mostly a combo of waste of my time/effort and why can’t I find someone to Date.
The problems are Dating apps are obvious. The problems are you don’t…
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🔍𝟯𝟬 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗠𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗼𝘂𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀 𝗔𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗲 1.- Not knowing when to apologize and shut up. Sometimes it really is your fault, so accept it, own it, and move on. Dwelling on a point, arguing, or over-explaining does no one any good. 2.- Keeping score. “I did the dishes three times two weeks ago, you only did them once last week.” It’s never going to be completely even, things ebb and flow. Both sides should feel like they’re getting a fair shake overall but if you keep track of every little thing (even if it’s just in your head, I don’t necessarily mean like an actual list) it’s just going to guarantee that somebody is always “losing”. It’s not a competition. 3.- Not speaking up the first, second, or third time your partner does something that bothers or harms you or makes you uncomfortable, etc. The longer you wait before saying something, the more ingrained it will become for them and the more likely you will fly off the handle over it later. 4.- Lie. Don’t do it. The uncomfortable situation you avoid now is far better than what’s down the line. 5.- Being unhappy before a relationship and going into one thinking it will make you happy. ... 👀 Click on our profile's link to read more about it 🎯Come with us through our journey and learn things nobody else will tell you nor teach you, connect with yourself, build your dreams 🍀Take control of your life and help yourself understand how your enviroment can affect you in taking decisions 🥂Follow @eaglebeaglespirit for daily news, education, motivation, and knowledge. - - - #datingcoaching #relationshipadvice101 #relationshiplove #datingishard #datingtipsformen #datingadviceforwomen #onlinedatingtips #datingblogger #datingcoach #relationshiptips #relationshipexpert #datingblog #relationshipcoaching #datinglife #datingexpert #datingwithpurpose #datingtip #datingtips #relationships101 #relationship101 #relationshipbuilding #datingadvice #relationshiptalk #datingwithapurpose #healthyrelationships #relationship #relationshiphelp #relationshipsayings #relationshipblogger #relationshipmanagement https://www.instagram.com/p/CLzIZj3Hp0s/?igshid=7egdbcvmn58o
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I have completely given up on dating because I’ve not found anyone yet. I’m starting to think I’m supposed not to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. And that I’m supposed to be alone forever.
I really do believe this. The only way that this thought that I have can change is if I get into a relationship. Or if it’s proven to be fake.
But right now, I don’t think that is possible or even is gonna…
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