#asexaul things

[peculiarwhiskers]

Happy pride month to anyone whose had to argue with dumb fucks who think the A in LGBTQIA stands for ally (it doesn't)

#aroace #aromantic #asexaul #agender #i cant think of anything else but im sure theres more #homophobes dni #transphobes dni #radfems dni #terfs dni #acephobes dni #also people who take out letters and say things like lgb or gbt in an attempt to exclude certain identifys

[lora-flora]

I posted 11,736 times in 2022

That's 10,017 more posts than 2021!

886 posts created (8%)

10,850 posts reblogged (92%)

Blogs I reblogged the most:

@cotton-glass

@catboychuuuya

@dingdongyouarewrong

@catboydavidbowie

@elytrians

I tagged 2,920 of my posts in 2022

#lora laments - 850 posts

#kit this is for u - 34 posts

#killing eve lb - 31 posts

#hannibal lb - 27 posts

#unreality - 25 posts

#sorry - 24 posts

#supernatural - 22 posts

#stranger things - 21 posts

#fleabag lb - 21 posts

#prev tags so true - 19 posts

Longest Tag: 139 characters

#dude i listened to that p!atd album for 4 days in a row after my first kiss (which i regret™ btw) and now i can never liszen to those songs

My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

Shout-out to asexuals who dress slutty as fuck, you have sooooooo much swag it's unimaginable

70 notes - Posted May 15, 2022

#4

Fruit bat aka gay vampire, is this anything

121 notes - Posted April 6, 2022

#3

Better quality repost? Click on the pic probably

131 notes - Posted January 8, 2022

#2

Ace culture is seeing someone wear a black ring on their middle finger and IMMEDIATELY starting detective work to figure out if they're asexaul or just fashionable

276 notes - Posted January 14, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

Having a Jonathan Harker moment thinking "I love Dracula, he sounds like a friend! ❤️"

319 notes - Posted May 7, 2022

Get your Tumblr 2022 Year in Review →

#tumblr2022 #year in review #my 2022 tumblr year in review #your tumblr year in review

[ollive919]

Me: *makes so, so many disgusting dirty jokes*

Also me when people talk about actually having sex:

#asexaul things #asexuality #asexual #asexual memes #undercover ace

[i-am-alloaro-the-cat]

If you’re making a thing for all aspec people, and only title it with asexaul/ace/acespec then it’s not actually inclusive to all aspec people

#how many times do i have to say it #there are a lot of aspec people who don’t identify as ace! #that doesn’t make them any less aspec! #sincerely a pissed off alloaro #aspec #asexual #aromantic #allo aro

[romqnticstylez]

https://youtu.be/eUSo6kB4__w

The first few videos is literally from FRIENDS

I have don't like it I don't know why people like it either but the show is fucking sexist and many other things I don't find it funny cause many people's mental health as well self confidence is fucking low because of shitty shows like this

And again fun fact I have seen almost many of the most popular series and none of them has;

A fat character

Asexaul person

Bisexul which they outright say

Transgender even if there is then they act according to the stereotype

And much more

wow i was gonna watch friends idk now tho sjxdhjhdsja

ugh ikr

the only show ive seen w a fat character is austin and ally and not ONCE was one of those awful fat jokes made

#ask #harryandginnydeservesbetter #havent seen any with the others tho

[your-mom-says-hi]

You know the fucking fandom vs cannon thing well fuck that cuz for Ranpo I see him as this :

Tiktok : Ranpo is Asexaul,he loves cuddles,snacks,just wholesomeness!

Tumblr : He is a fucking horn dog like dazai

#bunguo stray dogs #bungo stray dogs #bungou stray dogs ranpo #ranpo edogawa #bsd ranpo

[the-cinnamon-snail]

Instead of seperating the 20 other picrew creations, I did 10 more-

Yellow. Chose everything yellow, here is the intersex beauty that came out of it.

Traumatized Nonbinary Aromantic Killer. Who is a royal. What did i create-

Lesbian Mushroom Woodland Angel thing. I like them-

Mushroom i created-

Jacket clan #1, Asexaul Queen is jamming out to MCR while probably sneaking a lizard in her pocket-

Jacket clan #2, Polysexual Pinky Person. Don't you love alliterations?

Jacket clan #3, Work it you firey goddess-

Jacket clan #4, finally, the chaotic ginger lesbian-

Random vampire or elf creature-

Another Loveable Demon (now from space!)

I really need to seperate the 30 soon-

#Lesbian #polysexual #Pansexual #Bisexual #Asexual #Vampire #Elf #Aesthetic #Demon #Woodland Angel #Angel #nonbinary #Ruler #Killer #Intersex #no thoughts head empty #Jacket Clan #Bee #OCs #All Characters in this and previous 2 posts are mine made from a few different picrew character creators #Picrew #Picrew.me #Aromantic #Fire #Trans #Transgender #Trans MTF #transgender mtf

[aylaspeaches]

okay, not to be dramatic, and, just cause I wanted to put all this in one post, on the subject of again, a big FUCK YOU to the arcana DEVs, Remember the time they said had said “the courtiers were supposed to be made to unattractive” of course, this backfired as there's a ton of people who find love and find the courtiers attractive. And as we see they constantly taunt us on this fact. None the less, it’s been stated that its funny how the “unattractive” ones, are fat, small in height, an asexaul skinny to the bone, and extremely tall characters, all of them having somewhat dead appearances with how white their skin is. All things that society has decided as “unattractive” and this tells us that if the main 6 had looked like the courtiers, they wouldn't be considered “attractive” which, in my opinion, kind of seems like a pattern. Nonetheless there's a possibility that the courtiers are nerodivergent. At this point, they just dug themselves a huge whole, that their constantly digging deeper, every time they mock us or make fun of us, for liking, or find the characters that they deemed unattractive, attractive. And, good for everyone who possibly may get a Valdemar or Volta, or Valerious route, but ill be honest, be careful, we have no proof they wont fuck it up, and also, fuck them for not even giving us a route option for vlasty or vulgora. fuck them.

#The Arcana Game #y'all suck #>:(

[warrioreowynofrohan]

So, as far as I know being aromantic is about not feeling romantic attraction towards anyone. So if you're in a relationship with kissing and hugging and whatsoever it's still not a romantic relationship because you don't feel the romantic attraction. Which doesn't mean that you can't love at all. Like, you love your siblings or friends or your oartner but in a platonic way.

Also aromantic and asexual are two different things. An aromantic can still feel sexual attraction towards people (like kissing or having sex with them) whereas asexauls don't want to do these things.

On the other hand asexuals can still feel romantic attraction towards other people.

So basically aromanticism is about not feeling romantic attraction and asexuality is about not feeling sexual attraction.

Things might differ from person to person though, because everyone is different.

I hope that was helpful to you.

Thank you! I’m still unclear though - what precisely do you mean when you say “romantic attraction”? What distinguishes it from feelings of friendship or from sexual attraction? That’s what I’m trying to understand.

[fruitbur]

Okay so....I think I might be asexual? Like I already knew I was at least demisexual but I’m questioning it now. Idk...do you have any advice? Do your followers have any advice?

hi there lovely anon!! first know that questioning is always a good thing. my advice would be to try the label out, call yourself asexaul. see if there is a connection.

i've known i was ace for 80% of my life, even if i didn't have the word for it yet. my friends or my mom would talk about how hot some guys were and i'd.. never get it? i wouldn't be able to relate to the attraction they'd have to those men. i've had "crushes" on people before, but only on people close to me. and it became more apparent when i started dating. my ex was very sexaully driven, while i'd only ever had bad experiences.

no matter what, you. are. valid. i love that i'm asexaul, i'm proud of this fact. i find no shame in this part of myself.

being asexual is more than not wanting to have sex, don't believe what the exclusionists say.

@in-honor-of-you @darkwarfy what do you guys have to say on the matter? i feel like i'm not the best to ask :///

#ask alec #alec answers #alec speaks #alec talks #mutuals ♡ #alec loves his mutuals #alec loves his anons #alec's birthday bash!!!

[isabel3710]

Ace-Spec Pride

Sander Sides Fanfiction

Summary: Virgil thinks up a way to celebrate Ace Week.

Word Count: 340

Virgil starred in the mirror, not knowing if this was the right idea. It was Ace Week and Virgil had thought that maybe it would be a fun idea to wear something a little bit different in order to celebrate. But he was nervous about what the others might think. He was going to need some advice before he did anything.

Draping the piece of clothing over one arm he made his way to the local side’s room and knocked on the door. The door opened to reveal Logan wearing the tie Virgil helped him make for Aro-Spec Awareness Week.

“Hello Virgil.” Logan greated.

“Hey specs,” He said “It’s been awhile since I’ve last seen you wear that.” Virgil commented, nodding to the tie. The last time Virgil had Logan wear it was during Pride Month. The logical side had worn it for the entire month.

“Yes, well” Logan said adjusting it “since it is Ace Week I thought I would wear it.”

“Cool.”

“I’m guessing that is a way for you to show your own pride during this week?” Logan asked, gesturing to the jacket Virgil had draped over one arm.

“Uh yeah… but I’m not sure if I should wear it or not..”

“Why not?”

“I’m just worried about what the others will think….” He admitted.

“I doubt that.” Logan said “after all they already know that you are Ace and they are all very accepting.”

“Yeah.. yeah that’s true.” Virgil admitted before carefully pulling off his hoodie and pulling on the jacket he had brought with him.

The jacket Virgil now wore wasn’t handmade like his hoodie, he had conjured it. It was a purple and black letterman jacket with deep pockets. The only thing he had added was a Asexaul patch that he had sewn on the right side of the jacket, right by his shoulder.

“What do you think?” He asked Logan, slipping his hands into his pockets.

“I like it.” Logan gave him a small smile. “And I think that the others will too.”

#virgil sanders #thomas sanders #logan sanders #sander sides #sander sides fanfiction #fanfiction #isabel's books #asexual #ace week #asexual awareness week

[joyfulkingdomqueen]

Okay so I've no idea how things work in this app so if someone comes across this post please help me out. Okay so let me introduce myself. I'm Minarva a random girl who has stumbled upon this app while reading about it in Wattpad. I'm an asexaul and aromantic female so if you are homophobic then please get out. I don't know where I'm going with this but I'll be experimenting alot while I'm here. I'm extremely introverted but that doesn't mean I'm antisocial I'm always looking for friends so if you want you can message me and I'll be happy to respond :)

[drongos-n-dragons]

Junkrat was at breakfast eating a bowl of oatmeal. Working on another crossword puzzle D.Va gave him after she found out he has a hard time spelling and writing. It was not that he did not know how to do either he just had the knowledge of a child in grade school on either subject. He loved his gift from his best friend. Hana even gave him books to read in korean after she found out Junkrat could speak in 10 different languages. She did not make fun of his past of not going to school and learning how to read and spell well and he was thankful for it. Before Hana and other base members, Roadhog was the only other person who took the time to teach Junkrat to read. 

Today puzzle was a read brain teaser  for Junkrat. He smiled at himself while reading out the questions. "a person who has no sexual feelings or desires" He frowned at the question and wrote in his name "Junkrat" the name fit in the seven letter box but it did not fit the other words he already wrote. This angered the Junker he threw his book and food off the table. Making a mess of the dining room. He punch kick and knocked over everything in his way to his favor spot to throw bombs off of. 

Brigitte was called to clean up Junkrat's mess. After they started dating a few weeks ago. She was always the first person they called when Roadhog busy. She looked at the mess, clearly someone or something made him upset. Lately Junkrat has calm down from this type of outburst after being on base for the last year. Brigitte started to clean up the mess trying to figure out what was wrong. The oatmeal was fine. It was full of sugar and berries like always. Junkrat got to sit in his favorite chair. It had marker stating "property of Junkrat" nothing to strange till she got to his puzzle. The page was torn and wet from teardrops. Brigitte knows he can get upset if things don't go his way, but this one was different. This clearly woken up deep hate. Reading the page and see "a person who has no sexual feelings or desires" and junkrat writing his own name hurt Brigitte. Did he grow up not knowing the word Asexual?

After cleaning up the mess and running to grab a book from the liberry. Brigitte ran to find junkrat at his spot off the beach. He was throwing cherry bombs into the air watching them pop. Usually he was all giggles and laughs but today he was in full tears and screams. Not wanting to startel him Brigitte whistle to him. Roadhog told her that is the best way to get his attention. Junkrat stop what he was doing quickly wiping his eyes and puts on a forced smile.

"Brig, what brings you out here." Junkrat laugh trying to sound happy as always. He made a hard sniff trying to stop tears from falling down. "I thought you were off base today." 

"I was going to go out to buy some yarn but something more important came up." Brigitte pull out the torn cross word out of her bag. The junker face frowned. He knew he messed up and was going to get yelled at like always. Seeing his hurt face pick next words carefully "Jamie I'm not going to yell at you. I don't mind cleaning up after you once in awhile. I can see you're trying to be cleaner. I wanted to ask you about this." Brigitte pointed to his name he wrote. 

"You don't have to remind me that I am broken!" Junkrat snapped. Tears started falling. "I know what it means to be different! Even back home people call me a freak for not wanting to root. I just want to be like everyone else, but I can't. The thought of being bed other than sleeping sounds wrong to me." He looked at his girlfriend eyes read and defeated, "Guess this means you are going to break up with me just like my ex."

Brigitte looked at him with a sad face. How can anyone be so cruel is beyond her. "I would never do such a cruel thing just because your asexual." 

Junkrat looked at here like funny, "Brig I just told you I'm a virgin. I can't have an STD."

Brigitte laughed. Junkrat got up to leave but she grabbed him by the arm."I'm sorry I know I should have laughed, but it was just to funny. Being asexaul does not mean it's an STD. I means 'a person who has no sexual feelings or desires' see it fits in your puzzle just fine." She pointed to the word she wrote in. "You're not broken just a little different. There is nothing wrong with being who you want to be. Anyone who tells you different you can blow them up." Junkrat's eyes lit up. "I am going to regret those words aren't I?" Junkrat smiled and nodded. Brigitte let out a sigh knowing he is going to take those words to heart. "I brought you a book to read all about it if you want. It talks about the history of being ace. I think you will like it." Brigitte took out a book the size of a dictionary. "If you have any questions you should talk to Mccree. He knows more than anyone about the subject. 

Junkrat took the book and his puzzle. "Thanks Brig." Junkrat open his puzzle back open. "What is a four letter word for 'an intense feeling of deep affection'."

"Love?" Brigitte smiled.

"Yeah I think you are right." Junkrat smiled back.

#brigitte #brigrat #brirat #drongos n dragons #junkrat

[ollive919]

Listen, it is so so important to talk about asexuality and have representation, but representation has to be RESEARCHED. So here’s some quick facts:

Asexuality DOES NOT mean aromanticism, an asexual person can still have romantic attraction

Asexuality IS the lack of sexual attraction, which means we do not see someone and want to have sex with them, regardless of their gender.

Asexuality DOES NOT mean we do not enjoy sex, some of us do.

HOWEVER!

Asexuals can be sex repulsed, asexuals can be aromantic, but BEING ASEXUAL DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY MAKE YOU THOSE THINGS

It is so so fantastic that people are finally realizing that asexuality exists and are trying to give us representation. But in order to properly represent us, please please PLEASE do your research! It helps us a whole lot.

*quick note: education is gradual, if one is misinformed at some point, it is so important to learn what asexuality really is. Basically, learn and don’t be scared to change*

*edit: this also applies to aromantic individuals, they do not have to be asexual as well and they can be in queer platonic relationships. again, PLEASE DO YOUR RESEARCH BEFORE WRITING AN ASPEC CHARACTER

#asexaul things #asexuel #asexuality #aromantic #asexual #aphobia

[the-friendly-quilava]

Lot of things on my mind that vary often.

Yesterday i had a parent at work tell me the i looked like i lost weight (well technically true, I've only lost a pound but still i have the 40+ I've gained from surgery), she told me that i dont need to lose any more. And i get it. If you look at me, you don't see how I'm the weight i am, but it bothers me not only mentially but it physically hurts my knees sometimes. And i want to tone up again. but over and over I've had people tell me that I look fine and anytime I try to mention that I want to lose weight all I get are eye rolls or scuffs. Just because to you i look healthy because I'm shaped the way i am, doesn't mean i am. I don't hold fat like most.

recently I found out that my mechanic, is a father of one of my employees that I'm a manager of over the summer, which I found cool. but then when we went to the manchani again to pick up Mom's car, they were talking and Albanian and Mom mentioned the fact that i cannot read or write and how good it is that his daughter can. She then turned to me and said "we stopped when she was little because she got English and Albanian confused, but now she's all grown up but she's still holds this childish thing of that she can't read. and she doesn't try. it's not cute anymore, you're not a child." Like, I'm sorry. the language actively confuses me when i look at it. I'm trying, I've been searching for a while to see if there's any classes that I could take so I could get better because I work best in a school setting, and there's not. I already feel shame, you don't have to make it worse.

I'm lonely. I love that i got past one of my friends barriers and we got to be a bit closer friends. I wish i could understand him more. I love my online friends. I love my irl friends. I understand that i don't have time really for a relationship and i know i feel selfish for wanting one. I just want to fill the gap that's inside me. It's been a few months since i had broke up with my ex, and we're still friends, but I've been dating someone for so long and then to go a few months without is diving me. And it's only been since the middle of July, that's not too long ago. I..i just want someone that's good for me and i hope I'm good for them too.

i understand dad cheated on mom. and i understand she has every single right to be mad, and not want to know anything about him or how he's doing. it just, i don't know what to feel. My family is gone, and i just don't know. on top of the personal relationship feeling being void, my family feeling is void too.

i miss my old house. more and more i don't like this new one. i miss being to have service even if we lose power, i miss having my computer room being somewhere not in my room. i miss having space. i miss not being as close to my mom's room as i am. i miss being further from my neighbor. i miss the easier way to get to school and gas and even pokestops. i miss the memories, good or bad.

i really need to start and finished that commission someone wants. but i have no time.

on the upside, I've already explain to two people about asexaulity and the spectrum. that was cool.

i got to be closer to an online friend. i told him my abuse and everything and he promised not to give me pity.

I'm going on a legit school field trip on the 7th. I'm in uni. we're taking a bus.

we're doing the fun pumpkin thing at work starting this weekend.

after this winter semester, I'll be 83% done with uni. I will only need to take 7 more classes. i cold graduate Spring of 2021, that's super exciting.

I've realized that i think negatively a lot when i do these rants, so i wanted to bring in some positivity with them. I'm trying to not just think dark.

[fluffymamabird]

In honor of the month of pride I’d like to talk about for the first time my sexuality

I am Asexual

Every so often I’ll see posts railing on others on how Asexuality shouldn’t or should be included in Pride Month or the LGBTQ+ Community. But I’m not going to talk about that. What I’m going to talk about is my perception on what Asexuality is and what it means to me, as well as how I finally decided that I was Asexual.

I’m sure most of you know what the official definition of Asexuality is, its often brought up in the discourse arguments I mentioned before.

“Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity”

This was a very confusing all be it comforting definition for me. I’ve not been a very sexual person my whole life. Senior year of high school I went to an OBGYN to get birth control for my terrible periods and when asked if I was sexually active or have experimented on my own I said no. And my mom, I remember quite clearly feeling a bit confused, seemed shocked at the notion. It wasn’t even until much much later in life that I even stumbled across the term asexual.

Often when I would look up media or posts regarding Asexuality and the people involved seemed completely devoid of sexual desires as well as even sex repulsed. Many even identifying as Aromantic and everything sort of being jumbled together. I didn’t fit into that. Because of it I was identifying as Grey-A because there would be occasions in which I would feel a little arousal, usually around my cycle when my hormones are already out of control.

But recently I decided to focus on one particular part of that definition. “Lack of sexual attraction to others” I can say with great certainty that I have never looked upon anyone and thought about having sex with them. Not once have I found a person so attractive that I wondered for even a moment what it was like to sleep with them. I have never desired a person in that way. My first and only thoughts have been of a Romantic nature. What it would be like to kiss or hold hands, how our life would be like together, quiet cuddles and the like. But never sex.

And that’s really helped me come to terms with what I feel inside, sex in itself doesn’t excite me, the idea of it sorta puts me off. But I’m not repulsed by the idea, I’d probably give it a try if I had a partner who really wanted it but would respect my boundaries if I wanted to stop.

The thing with Asexuality is I feel that people get hung up on the idea of someone not feeling any sexual desires or arousal and I think that what it really needs to be treated like any other sexual identity. The Arousal of a person in regards to another person or persons. Homosexuality the arousal of an individual in regards to another person or persons of the same gender only. Pansexualty the arousal of an individual in regards to any and every possible spectrum of gender. Asexaul the lack of arousal in an individual in regards to another person or persons.

There is a lot of confusing media in regards to asexuality, and I think part of it is those with a sexuality can sometimes have a hard time understanding the general lack thereof. Its not a bad thing. Just like I’ll never really understand what its like to be sexually attracted to someone. Its just a thing.

I’m Asexual, I’ve never been sexually attracted to a person. And I’m okay with this.

Happy Pride.

#asexual #ace #asexuality #pride month #lgbt #lgbtq+ #long post