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the-sun-is-evil · 11 months

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im neither cis or trans, but a secret third thing

#gender is a social construct #thank you very much #but srsly #im not cis #but the word trans doesn't rly feel right???#mostly because im nb #and dont rly get gender dysphoria #it just doesn't feel right #because i dont struggle like trans ppl do #but at the same time #struggling shouldn't have to be part of the trans experience #my feelings on this are rly complicated #this should be a post #not just tags #but im too tired to write anything cohesive rn #trans #nonbinary

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peasantexchangeprogram · 1 year

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I rly hate this post like anyone gives a fuck abt neurodivergent ppl as if accommodating for us is the norm. I get where ur coming from but like an adhd diagnosis didnt help my teachers when i was failing classes or i coulsnt do my homework or focus in class. a diagnosis helped me get into a half-school-half-psychward that made me basically government property that forcibly detransitioned me and denied me medical care and lied to my face about my rights. a gender dysphoria diagnosis didnt help caretakers (who were mental health professionals) give a shit when my classmates made sexual comments about me and my trans body. no acronym helped any system to not tell me to suck it up and get over it. and im speaking as a very privileged person so i dont know where the fuck you live where thats ur experience

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cupidyeosang · 16 days

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ateez nsfw would you rather

notes: doing this bc i seen the lovely @yuyubeans do it <3 also im v much a sub snfjfhfb. link to the og post is at the bottom :3

~Make out with Yeosang or dry hump Yunho?

dry humping >>>

~Give Mingi a lap dance or have Wooyoung do a sexy dance for you?

woo is such a tease n it wld b the perfect way to rile me up ><

~Tease San under the table at dinner or Jongho tease you under the table?

that depends on where- like in a restaurant? neither. in-dorm/in-house w the other boys? jongho. in-dorm/in-house one-on-one? san.

~Give hickeys to Yeosang or get hickeys from Seonghwa?

the idea of being marked makes me dizzy (/pos)

~Praise Hongjoong or receive body worship from Yunho?

yunho praising u and telling u how gorgeous/etc u are while touching and kissing u all over?? yes please ><

~Blindfold Mingi or be blindfolded by San?

blindfolds arent rly my thing but the idea of san tying a knot for a blindfold is >>

~Sexting with Wooyoung or send dirty snaps to Seonghwa?

i turn into putty w sexting but ive had more experience w it and i dont rly have enough confidence to send pics ><

~Choke Yeosang or be choked by Jongho?

jongho has pretty hands and is v strong

~Pull Hongjoong’s hair or Yunho pull your hair?

the idea of yunho grabbing my hair and yanking me around as a way to manhandle me . . 😵‍💫

~Tie up Wooyoung or Jongho tie you up?

see: i am a sub

~Beg for Seonghwa or Mingi beg for you?

see: i am a sub. also i am a good boy

~Ride Jongho’s thigh or sit on San’s face?

>:0 i dont wna choose >< but if i HAD to, jonghos thighs r godly

~Dirty talk with Seonghwa or Mingi?

both at the same time?

~Spank Wooyoung or Hongjoong?

neither- see: i am a sub

~Get spanked by Jongho or Yunho?

im yunho biased :"D

~Deny San his orgasm or Seonghwa deny you yours?

the orgasm after being edged >>

~Have Yeosang as a master or Hongjoong as a pet?

im a puppy sub ><

~Touch yourself and make Yunho watch or Mingi touch himself and make you watch?

hngngng . idk man but 😵‍💫

~Call Hongjoong ‘daddy’ or Seonghwa call you ‘mommy’?

not rly fond of the 'daddy' title but fem terms like 'mommy' r dysphoria inducing >_< did i mention. i am a sub. just mayb.

~Receive aftercare from San or and give aftercare to Wooyoung?

both at the same time pls 👉👈

~Skype sex with Hongjoong or phone sex with Yeosang?

not v confident in myself visually and id prolly melt w hongjoong BUT i am confident in my voice :D id still melt w yeosang but. yk.

~One night stand with Mingi or friends with benefits with Wooyoung?

being fuckbuddies w wooyoung is like a dream to me ngl

~Studio sex with Hongjoong or practice room sex with Yunho?

neither, im not into exhibitionism.

~Receive nudes from Seonghwa or a sexy video from San?

i dont wanna choooooose not fair >< but if i had to, nudes from hwa bc i prefer pics over videos

~Cowgirl position with Jongho or doggystyle position with Yeosang?

being pulled back onto yeosangs cock >>>>

~Hot tub sex with Mingi or shower sex with Yunho?

neither, i have sensory issues :<

~Give oral to Yeosang or recieve oral from San?

the idea of san between my legs and sucking my tdick gives me so much gender euphoria ndnfnfn

~Seonghwa cum in your mouth or Wooyoung cum on your face?

cum in mouth seems icky to me ><

~Jongho cum on your thighs or Hongjoong cum on your stomach?

feels a lil more claiming to me. idk

~Car sex with San or sex under the stars with Yeosang?

neither. too much anxiety abt getting caught x_x

~Take Mingi’s virginity or Yunho take yours?

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~Library sex with Wooyoung or movie theater handjob with Yeosang?

neither, not into exhibitionism

~Lazy morning sex with Yunho or late night sex with Jongho?

late night bc i always get sleepy after cumming ><

~Wear a collar for Seonghwa or San wear a collar for you?

im a puppy sub. the idea of wearing a collar makes me 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

~Rough sex with Hongjoong or romantic sex with Jongho?

hgngngngn. thats all

~Receive anal from Seonghwa or give anal to Mingi?

i am also strictly a bottom. oops

~Suck on Yunho’s fingers or San suck on your fingers?

have you seen his hands???

~Wall sex with Jongho or mirror sex with Wooyoung?

hes so strong 🥰

~Hongjoong finger you or give Yeosang a handjob?

esp if hes guiding me on how to do it 😵‍💫

~Overstimulate Mingi or be overstimulated by Wooyoung?

i cant b overstimmed but can u imagine the sounds mingi wld make 😵‍💫

~Woosan threesome or Seongjoong threesome?

being seongjoongs good boy sounds sooooo [heart eyes]

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mordcore · 1 year

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i just saw the most confusing post. i dont rly get it but someone was saying that cis lesbians who use he pronouns are gender larping and making fun of trans people and dont understand dysphoria??? sorry what planet are you on. has it ever occured to you to maybe be like. open minded to people with new experiences you havent heard of before.

when people talk about their own genders the smartest thing u can do is listen cuz i promise you they know more abt themselves than you do.

if u think someone needs to have the right label or identity to deserve autonomy over their body and pronouns then that tells me that ur authoritarian and should stay far away from queer spaces :/

#my stuff #rant #i literally knew a cis woman with she pronouns who wanted to get top surgery #just like that #its not that hard to understand once u let go of gender essentialism #ur worldview should be shaped by the world..... not the other way around

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tired-inyxe · 3 months

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WHATS UP FUCKS - AKA My Ultimate Masterpost

Hi! I realized I never really introduced myself. My name is Inyxe (i-n-y-x-e, pronounced like Lynx but with an i (accidentally swapped the y and n once and didn't notice until it was too late)), but you can also call me Jay! I'm a proud anarchist and punk, swear like a sailor and love sharing my opinions well knowing I won't be hunted down with pitchforks and torches (I mean I could still be here but it's not as likely as, let's say, twitter). I've only been here for a couple of years but this is basically my first social media platform (Amino doesn't count). I also was put through the shredder when I was created and have a slew of issues, both mental and physical, so you will be subjected to the whims of my brainworms. It/they/fae pronouns. I have no sidebloggs so you get a smattering of my thoughts, have fun~ Feel free to dm or ask me anything! I may be so so tired but I like human interaction as long as I don't initiate it. Expect me to talk about prehistoric animals tho This will most likely be edited later, but that's future me's problem All of my tag masterlists! I have a lotta custom tags, like a LOT, so if u see weird ass tags on me post it's probably related to these (also useful for digging thru my stuff!)

General -my basic bitch tags, tag is #wing anatomy (subject to change)

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Extra info under the cut! has discussion of my mental/physical disorders so if u dont like that feel free to skip dw (I love to overexplain the stuff under here isn't important)

Stuff I have (been diagnosed for all of these, but that doesn't rly matter, just saying that because I don't want to deal w self diagnosis discourse atm): Autism, Adhd, Depression, Anxiety, Gender Dysphoria and Insomnia Stuff I suspect (talkin w me doctor abt it maybe): Tachycardia, depersonalization/derealization disorder, chronic fatigue, possibly a lung condition (not asthma but my lungs are fucked), iron deficiency anemia, some other vitamin/mineral deficiencies most likely, panic disorder, OCD, uhhhh idk ill add more later? maybe. its 1am my brain slidey yeah m doing this when m more awake gah

#bird anatomy #so eepy #i'll see how i feel abt this later #gonna sleep #mhhhhhhhh

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the-woild-is-y-erster · 9 months

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help i don’t ever openly speak abt my “dysphoria” it’s not really dysphoria but it’s literally like

WHY CANT I BE JESSE TUCK WHO SAID WHEN I CLIMB TREES I CANT SING TOP OF THE WORLD? WDYM THE PARK IS CLOSED AND IM TRESPASSING…

this sounds so bad but as a joke one time my friend said ‘you would break your leg if it would make you look like crutchie” and i was Like WOW, OKAY, LETS NOT SAY THAT BUT WTF?

the next day i nearly broke my foot falling over i guess foreshadowing but MAN I HAD TO SIT DOWN AND THINK FOR A SECOND AFTER THEY SAID THAT

i really just wanna be a silly boy but i am comfortable as a girl that’s why i use she/he but not they bc im not an inbetween u fucking nerd LOL

like some days i’m like “ooh shit if i was a dude wowee” then other days i’m like “wtf whyd i think that “

but nevertheless this year my skl is putting on a production of Wizard of oz..and i’m gonna go for the bold role of the scarecrow i think.or the wizard. or elephaba. BAHAHAH IM SORRY OK I WOUDLNT

i reccomended newsies to my theatre teacher who hates me and she was like “okayyy i’ll look into it…” and she never fucking did thanks 👍 picked to do ur GSCE and for what 😭😭

brooo we did a mashup of alice in wonderland and wizard of oz called dorothy in wonderland a few years back and i was the tin man and the cheshire cat!!! great roles except i had to paint myself entirely silver for the tin man💀💀

and one of my dream roles is jack(or davey im not picky) just so i can sing santa fe from some fake scaffolding!!! like let me wreck my voice but have the literal time of my life doing it!!!!

i sang an elvis song for a contest a couple of months ago (you dont have to say you love me if you care) and won and it was one of the best moments of my life??? and i was wearing this 1890s vest i sewed with elvis-patterned fabric and it was just dhjdjj but like??? cant i just be a guy?? cant i just have a deep voice and facial hair and get the roles i want??

but then i also get these days where im rly feminine and i love wearing dresses and makeup, but sometimes i also just want to be like a gnome

like no perceivable gender, pronouns menace/hateful(/j lmao)

me and a couple of other kids in my theater class had recommended newsies too but she said there was too much difficult choreo (half of us were dancers and gymnasts but ok) but i just

gashhdhjgaahhkkdlj i want to be. male

yknow?😘

#sometimes i feel like a silly little boy #sometimes i want to be like a rich wine aunt who wears pearls and sleek black dresses #and sometimes i wanna be a newsie idk what to tell you shdbhdjbahah

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icarusgf · 10 months

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ur rant abt pregancy is so real!! childbirth is so scary to me, its less abt my body changing and more of the thought of carrying around something in me and also all the pain and gender dysphoria. i also get frustrated when its obvious that cis men can just be like 'oh yes i get to have a child that has my features' without thinkingg abt everything else because they dont have to go through all that. also, how a lot of the times cis men dont think abt the responsibility of having a child cuz their partner would be the one to do it and they get to show off about their child and spend time when they feel like it without actually Caring for them. and i Hate when they downplay ur fear because "it's just the way it is" like maybe it shouldnt be for ppl if they dont want to?? like if i do have children, id 100% choose the adoption route, and i hate that its such a taboo

sorry for ranting a bit but yea just.. i feel ya

late response but yeah lol i rly hate the way cis men talk abt pregnancy and having kids so easily and inevitably bc like. i don't want that to b inevitable for me and i don't get to indulge in that nonchalance how can i let myself myself make baby name lists and think abt where i'll take my kids when i have to deal w the reality of pregnancy and giving birth and knowing i'll likely never want to put myself thru that. i probably will end up adopting regardless of who i end up with (but also i can imagine a fair portion of cis men wld be like .. why should we adopt if we're perfectly capable of physically having kids ourselves. which sucks lol)

#answered #anonymous

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intergalactic-chameleon · 11 months

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gender stuff once again

SOOO ive finally come full circle and am now considering hypothetically one day getting top surgery (if not just breast reduction) and maybe also going on T at some point.

literally about a year ago when i was discussing gender with my roommate at the time, she asked me if i would consider getting top surgery after i told her that i was going to get a binder just to “try it out” and see “how it feels.”

i thought abt it, but told her “no, not really” because my boobs had never rly bothered me before and they made me feel “more like an adult” (im really short and tiny and would occasionally get mistaken for being a teenager rather than someone in their twenties, so my boobs were often the one age indicator for people). besides, they also made me feel attractive - i had long, wavy hair and taking topless photos of myself was a hobby of mine because i just looked fucking good. ultimately, my tits, which have always been somewhat disproportionally big (i think im a 34D), helped feel me more feminine and sensual as i grew up. though i definitely had a hard time trying to find cute tops that fit me and give me enough support sans bra, i still built a good wardrobe of interesting feminine clothing that i really enjoyed.

but despite all of this, i still wanted to try out something different. at the time last year, i had only just begun to think about being more transgressive with my gender presentation. i had realized that i wanted a shorter, boyish haircut (specifically to look like steve harrington) and kind of started to wear less feminine clothing overall. i also was discovering how attracted i was to men in an undeniably queer (ie. faggy) way, which further propelled me to explore masculine identity even more.

anyway, i was prolonging ‘the big chop’ until after my sister’s october wedding, so i began to grow my facial hair out in order to grow more comfortable with gender non conformity. and to my surprise, my mustache became very noticeable and at some point i realized that i could genuinely grow a little baby chin beard. ofc, by the time of the wedding, i shaved all that off, but went right back to growing it out.

then, the big day: i got my first ever short cut in january. it was shorter than i was expecting, but i immediately felt something shift. i started to feel a lot more confident and got tons of affirming compliments from loved ones about how well it fit me. i also finally felt comfortable enough to dress more “masculinely” and my facial hair didnt make me feel ratty and unkempt anymore; it just fit.

in the coming months i continued to feel more confident and expressed myself more openly around my peers. additionally, a lot of my trans peers started identifying me as trans (which was honestly very validating because i kinda felt like i couldnt loudly identify as trans unless other ppl saw me that way). thus, ever since i’ve been thinking about myself as a trans person and continuing to develop my identity around that.

however, now that ive been actively presenting more masculine/andro for about 6 months now, ive now run into several things about my appearance that i kinda struggle with, such as my height, my shoulder width, my small little arms, fussing with my hair, and of course, my chest. and so i now have this conundrum where im not necessarily experiencing intense gender dysphoria that leaves me feeling depressed, but i have this voice in my head that’s just like “hm, yknow, it’d be nice to maybe not have my tits” bc i’d really like to show off my chest / torso but my tits are so big that it’s distracting !!! and if im binding then i cant rly show off anyway…

so tl;dr: my tits dont make me hate myself but they’re getting on my nerves bc i feel like i’d be hotter without them but that doesnt feel like a good enough reason to gather all the resources needed to obtain a reduction/removal !!!! i also get sad thinking abt how pretty n feminine i used to look and how getting my tits altered (and/or if i went on a low dose of T) would make it hard for me to “return” to how i used to look … idk. how do i find out what i truly want for myself….

#personal #gender #long rambling rant type post #this is basically just a reiteration of the last gender post i made lmao

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with-the-same-tattoos · 3 years

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Drawing myself w a flat chest is both incredibly satisfying and just like..... hundred yard stare glassy eyes