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chuuyyass · 2 years

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People that don't understand that when you're an introvert, you need to take a rest from social events, even if we are best friends ????

#I've been all this week meeting and talking with people bc I'm moving to another city #and I'm tired of socialising #i just want to stay alone 1-2 days before classes start on monday #but my bff is having a birthday party for her boyfriend and sincerely i dont feel very motivated to go #and i notice she's a bit annoyed at my lack of interest #plus all her boyfriend's friends smoke and i dont want to stay in a flat that stinks to weed #jenn talks

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ardri-na-bpiteog · 2 months

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Also increasingly aware that a LOT of people "manage" getting through the 40+ hour work week by sleeping less than is healthy and relying on stimulants like coffee and energy drinks to keep them going.

For people who are unwilling or unable to do this...work really does just dominate your life. Like we really should not have to rely on unhealthy practices just to have a social life or keep on top of housework or whatever.

I know I post about this a lot but I'm so TIRED all the time and it's just so depressing that this is how we're expected to spend the one life we have.

#i have to get at least 8 hours of sleep a night to even barely function #with sleep #getting ready for work #commute #cooking #and errands #I typically have maybe 2-3 hours to actually do what i want in a day #and I'm usually too tired to actually do the things i want to do #and that's with a very short commute #if i actually had a long commute I'd basically do nothing but work #i see my friends like once every few weeks or months #because we're all so fucking busy with work and have such little time for socialising #and none of us even have kids or anything!!

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sunnymainecoonx · 2 months

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Been thinking 'bout Fresh lately

If you guys didn't notice I got high on crack through the middle of this

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muddiestpath · 7 months

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I want friends but fuck if I have energy for bonding.

This post is about chronic illness & disability!

#.mudd #me/cfs #chronically ill #The hidden price of invisible disability. Too tired to socialise but want to already have ppl who like me #Edgelord/mean loners dni. This is for the disabled/ill!#I'm adding this to the original bc the context is being lost.

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cwarscars · 1 month

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Heids hair being a mullet when he's younger, his stubble short and as he gets older, his hair gets shorter and his beard gets bigger

#mans like a pokemon evolution #started as heid then went to heider then heidegger!#a lvl 58 rock pokemon that has an attitude but is v loyal #gonna make a pokedex pic of him #god im so fucking tired wnd dreading work so bad that I'm chatting utter shit lol #cba with office i fucking hate socialising honestly

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nimilla · 2 months

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4, 11, and 15 for aelf from that ask thing u rb’ed PLEEK 🙏🏼

Hiya, Bunny! 🌟 AELF, MY GENTLEMAN ELF!! 🤭

I haven't talked much about Aelfdene for a while now, especially now that I have made this new blog, haha. Here you go!

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🩵 Aelfdene Marsden 💚

I had to draw him in his summer wear ^ Also, haha, don't mind how I wrote here. I don't want to use too many emojis here because it clutters my writing and I also still trying to seek a better format for writing since I'm lazy or too tired to draw most of the time, unfortunately. I also tried to be professional, hahahaha.

I hope the answers are good to go! 🙏🏼✨️ Enjoy! ^^

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"Does Aelfdene have a failed friendship or relationship he still thinks about?"

Aelfdene had some failed friendships back in his youth as he grew. And yes, while he has already moved on from that, there are still times when he thinks about his old friendships and a relationship that he could have gotten into if he realised it sooner...

But that thought eventually disappeared when he met his true life partner, though.

"What happened?"

Before he became who he is now, he was incredibly kind and naive. He was so good-natured that people often took advantage of him, even his own friends. When he finally realised that he was being used, he felt like he didn't belong anywhere.

"Is it an unresolved regret, or is there a chance for reconciliation?"

He regretted not being able to become mature sooner, but there might be a chance if his old friends have changed like him that he would like to have a reconciliation. However, that is something he doesn't see anymore now that he has moved on and that they are nowhere to be seen yet.

As for his possible past lover, it can be a possibility if she is still alive and that they meet again.

If fate decides to...

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"What does Aelfdene believe in? God(s)? Monsters? Love?"

Like anyone else (in the universe), he believes in God; Yoba! Being able to survive so many tragedies and almost death situations, proven by the scars and corruption he had on and in him, he believes Yoba has been protecting him. It was unexplainable, but he believed in Yoba.

He kills monsters, so it's unlikely that he believes in it, while for love, he never experienced it deep enough to believe in it... yet.

"Does he believe in the power of unbreakable bonds of friendship to overcome any obstacle? The ability of money to open any door?"

After his experience, there are two things that he despises the most: the 'power of unbreakable friendship' and the 'power of money.' He has learned to lose hope in people and never depend on them again due to the former, while the latter seems to be able to solve many human matters, but never brings much happiness to one's life. As a result, he does not believe in either.

"Or is he indifferent?"

Nope, he believes in Yoba, but not as much as Rousseau (another OC of mine that is paired with Alesia in the future, hehe) does.

(So, yeah, he believes in Yoba, but doesn't show much in public, unlike Alesia, who always wishes the Farmer well with "May Yoba guide you" dialogue.)

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"What places hold significant meaning or memories for Aelfdene?"

The first one would be his hometown, Mossgrove Village, Castle Village, and the ocean; the Gem Sea.

"Does Aelfdene have a positive or negative association with those places?"

Aelfdene has a special attachment to his hometown, Mossgrove Village. He spent most of his life there and has many fond memories of living and exploring the area. His family and true friends still reside there, and the moderate temperature suits him well. Regardless of how far he travels, he always returns to his beloved hometown.

Castle Village was the place where he spent his teenage and early adult years. His father sent him there to improve his skills in magic, combat, and weapons knowledge. However, it was also a place where he learned some harsh realities of life, including betrayal and deceit.

The Gem Sea, or the ocean in general, has an inexplicable positive impact on him. When he visits the beach and gazes out at the horizon, he feels a sense of peace that he can't achieve through meditation or other means. Even when his intrusive thoughts bother him, he can find solace at the beach.

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#➷ Art of Nimilla #Farmer Aelfdene #Original Character #Stardew OC #my art #my oc #artists on tumblr #doodle #sketch #Huhu I haven't drawn for quite a while now NGL #I just moved into a new place with my family and well we got busy with unpacking and stuff and I got all tired to socialise online...#so I feel like I'm slowly becoming a stranger to the community... sorry about that...#it's really hard with everyone being busy/inactive so it's likely I get detached from everyone for now...#Anyway Aelf!! My man! It has been so long since I talked about him or think about him TBH #The moving has taken too much of my online interest and strangely not much thought for my OCs came and that worries me... ._.#is this what it feels like to be truly busy with life? Hm...#ah I hope everyone is doing okay with life :D #I'm happy that I managed to sketch Aelfdene fast enough haha #Also internet sucks here :'))))

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cecilyacat · 7 months

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Tfw you leave a party and regret every social interaction you had

#my actual life #my friend invited me to his birthday party and each year there's fewer people i actually know #also I'm tired and stressed and do not have the energy to socialise with people i don't know #aaaand i put my foot in my mouth twice with people i actually know and like 🙃#god i need a vacation

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running-in-the-dark · 1 year

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I've spent over four hours with a bunch of people, and I don't know most of them, and now it feels like my brain is trying to crawl out of my skull. Fun!

#I'm so tired I'm so overstimulated everything is so much #when we were inside the music was too loud. now we're outside making burgers and nature is always a lot anyway soo #I just want to curl up on the couch and watch TV and not move for fourteen days #though we've got plans tomorrow too so I can't 😔#ugh and now several raindrops hit me!#and the vegan burger patties have a really really weird texture #I am not good at this. I should never leave the house or meet people or do anything new #but that's boring and I don't like it #but doing things is awful too #ahhhhhhh #I'm going to implode #yes it's gotten so bad that I'm just on tumblr now. I can't socialise anymore 😭😭#might also be looking at blorbo pics. it calms me down 😔 pretty man makes brain better or something idk idk #I think we need to leave very soon because if we don't I definitely will not be able to leave the house tomorrow #personal

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bbnibini · 7 months

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HI! You don't have to respond to this, I just wanted it to let you know:

Your CYOA fic was actually the first fic I genuinely love and enjoy when I got into the OBM fandom back in around 2020 or 2021 ish?? I genuinely, absolutely love the amount of effort your put in. like FR, links embedded in the phrases or texts??? Multiple choices??? The story too???? SECRETS???? Your CYOA is incredible and I certainly don't mind having to wait years for it because I know without a doubt, it's going to be such a banger of a fic, its so full of life. So yeah, take as much time as you need, we all have our own lives, I, myself haven't caught up to the latest chapter because of work and life, but I'm glad you wrote it <3

Thank you! It makes me happy to have readers like you who understand. I'm just happy you enjoyed my series. c: Feel free to go back to it (or don't idrc; just really happy you took your time, went out of your way and placed a nice ask here. Really. You made my day c:) at your own pace! I used to have more time to write the CYOA but life happens so what can you do? Lmao it's a struggle the working class understands really well. 🫂 Let's get through this together! ;v;

#ask #blurbs #and THANK YOU for telling me it's ok if I don't reply. I'm really tired of people pressuring me to socialise with them #pls treat me like a feral cat who makes unhinged tags and fics sometimes #fun fact:one of my closest online friend is my friend for almost 8 years now and she still doesn't know my real name nor my face #but she's super chill about it. never comes into conversation. we reply to each other on discord and LINE when we can. I love her very much #and she's the normiest normie I know idk why we're friends lmao anyway obligatory oversharing hashtag lol #EDIT: Just realised I sounded completely asocial in my tags. I want to clarify people pressuring me to socialise are people I know irl #I'm already tired of dealing with it irl I can't have virtual mimic reality im not strong enough

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umilily · 11 months

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i'm back. (and i didn't commit murder, but it was close.)

#lily talks #i took some nice pictures that i'll probably post later #many creatures to be seen #but all that really needs to be said is that it was exhausting and i'm done socialising for the rest of the month #i am so tired of dealing with extroverts #there was only one bed but unfortunately instead of a friends to lovers fic this was more like strangers to enemies lmao #(not quite that bad but oof)#like my roomate was alright even if we ahd absolutely NOTHING in common but she was incapable of talking in an indoor voice #or just not saying something for longer than 2 minutes #and this one dude nearly chewed my ear off with his whining about having to walk places and do things #like you know #as is to be expected of a course like this one #food was the shit though #today i ate my weight in Kaiserschmarrn and that is the type of life i want to lead #also once again bavarians are on a whole other level #suffered a cultural shock talking to them #(why would you mix dark beer with coke and cherry liqueur??#that was probably the first time since i moved here that i felt understood by the austrians #also shout out to the woman running the inn we were staying at who saved us all by literally putting our shoes in the oven to dry #ironically the only day of this trip that my feet were dry was today when i had to put on a chest wader and get into a river up to my hips #in conclusion #i am not made for conducting research outside #(i nearly died on our hike and almost had to crawl towards the end bc it was so steep and uneven before giving up entirely)#but the perfect job for me is work where you have to pay attention to detail and can take as long as you'd like #i had to check riverbed samples for larvae and stuff today and that was the most relaxing thing i've done in ages

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dykegeology · 2 years

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Basically all the gay people at my school are either 'let people enjoy things!' mcyt fans or people who are like 'ugh why do the loud gays shove it in everyone's faces they're making us look bad' and then all the gay bars or whatever open at 10pm which is when I'm asleep...

#that hannah gadsby 'where do the quiet gays go' thing but it's 'where do the butches who are haters and have chronic fatigue go'#literally hate it here yesterday someone from the first group of people was like 'actually misandry and reverse racism are real issues also #saying hozier is a straight man is invalidating lesbians in his fandom <3' and then this morning I woke up and see a series of messages #from one of the people in the second group being like 'ugh those loud gays make me embarrassed to be queer' and it's like mate you're.#sending this to The Only butch lesbian in the school and expecting me to... agree with you??? like Who are the people the cishets say are #making the community look bad again <3? I dislike them because they are quite conservative but think they aren't I think they should be #much queerer actually. hope that helps <3'#luckily I graduate in 3 months and will never have to see anyone again. but at the moment I am SO bored.#I'm just way too tired at the moment to socialise outside of school particularly in the evenings on weekdays...

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liefst · 2 years

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me when my roommates come home