#a crying shame

[mrchalamet-mrstyles]

Nice. Apparently Charmie did their usual in the comments of Nicole’s Mother’s Day post, leading up to her deleting it. 😡

It's a crying shame that Tim has to have such a shitty subsection of fandom ruining it for everyone else. Tim deserves better and his mom definitely deserves better. How can they be so disresepctful??

#timothée chalamet #deserves better fans #a crying shame #a few bad apples #truly spoil the bunch #charmie #needs to die #a fiery death

[bitchofdarkness]

I hate how fandom has become "if you haven't created anything in this very specific time frame after the release of the show/movie, everyone will have moved on"

And call me old fashioned, but that's just not me. I sometimes take ages to create and publish. And I will love a show or movie for such a long time (years, babes, years) that I just can't relate to the fast consumerism that's going on.

Because, let's be real, it can get really lonely in a fandom if most have simply moved on to the next shiny thing. Is what's created less worth, just because it was created outside the hype? Why is it such a taboo for this new fandom generation to love an old or "late" fic or art?

It's so tiring and I'm too old for the 30-seconds-hype-tiktok-shit. Just tired. So, so tired.

#semi rant #cry into the void #and no i'm not shaming young ppl in general #it's this new wave of people entering fandom which can happen at any age lbr #and I don't understand them nor do I want to atp #if you're wondering why you can't rb anymore: I switched it off bcuz people can't fucking read and piss me off with their dumb additions

[dec0mposing]

#A Crying Shame #HLAH #Head Like A Hole #music #Blood on the Honky Tonk Floor #1990s #1996 #New Zealand #Aotearoa #New Zealand Music #Rock #Spotify

[inkskinned]

the thing is that they're so fascinated by sex, they love sex, they can't imagine a world without sex - they need sex to sell things, they need sex to be part of their personality, they need sex to prove their power - but they hate sex. they are disgusted by it.

sex is the only thing that holds their attention, and it is also the thing that can never be discussed directly.

you can't tell a child the normal names for parts of their body, that's sexual in nature, because the body isn't a body, it's a vessel of sex. it doesn't matter that it's been proven in studies (over and over) that kids need to know the names of their genitals; that they internalize sexual shame at a very young age and know it's 'dirty' to have a body; that it overwhelmingly protects children for them to have the correct words to communicate with. what matters is that they're sexual organs. what matters is that it freaks them out to think about kids having body parts - which only exist in the context of sex.

it's gross to talk about a period or how to check for cancer in a testicle or breast. that is nasty, illicit. there will be no pain meds for harsh medical procedures, just because they feature a cervix.

but they will put out an ad of you scantily-clad. you will sell their cars for them, because you have abs, a body. you will drip sex. you will ooze it, like a goo. like you were put on this planet to secrete wealth into their open palms.

they will hit you with that same palm. it will be disgusting that you like leather or leashes, but they will put their movie characters in leather and latex. it will be wrong of you to want sexual freedom, but they will mark their success in the number of people they bed.

they will crow that it's inappropriate for children so there will be no lessons on how to properly apply a condom, even to teens. it's teaching them the wrong things. no lessons on the diversity of sexual organ growth, none on how to obtain consent properly, none on how to recognize when you feel unsafe in your body. if you are a teenager, you have probably already been sexualized at some point in your life. you will have seen someone also-your-age who is splashed across a tv screen or a magazine or married to someone three times your age. you will watch people pull their hair into pigtails so they look like you. so that they can be sexy because of youth. one of the most common pornography searches involves newly-18 young women. girls. the words "barely legal," a hiss of glass sand over your skin.

barely legal. there are bills in place that will not allow people to feel safe in their own bodies. there are people working so hard to punish any person for having sex in a way that isn't god-fearing and submissive. heteronormative. the sex has to be at their feet, on your knees, your eyes wet. when was the first time you saw another person crying in pornography and thought - okay but for real. she looks super unhappy. later, when you are unhappy, you will close your eyes and ignore the feeling and act the role you have been taught to keep playing. they will punish the sex workers, remove the places they can practice their trade safely. they will then make casual jokes about how they sexually harass their nanny.

and they love sex but they hate that you're having sex. you need to have their ornamental, perfunctory, dispassionate sex. so you can't kiss your girlfriend in the bible belt because it is gross to have sex with someone of the same gender. so you can't get your tubes tied in new england because you might change your mind. so you can't admit you were sexually assaulted because real men don't get hurt, you should be grateful. you cannot handle your own body, you cannot handle the risks involved, let other people decide that for you. you aren't ready yet.

but they need you to have sex because you need to have kids. at 15, you are old enough to parent. you are not old enough to hear the word fuck too many times on television.

they are horrified by sex and they never stop talking about it, thinking about it, making everything unnecessarily preverted. the saying - a thief thinks everyone steals. they stand up at their podiums and they look out at the crowd and they sign a bill into place that makes sexwork even more unsafe and they stand up and smile and sign a bill that makes gender-affirming care illegal and they get up and they shrug their shoulders and write don't say gay and they get up, and they make the world about sex, but this horrible, plastic vision of it that they have. this wretched, emotionless thing that holds so much weight it's staggering. they put their whole spine behind it and they push and they say it's normal!

this horrible world they live in. disgusted and also obsessed.

#this shifts gender so much bc it actually affects everyone #yes it's a gendered phenomenon. i have written a LOT about how different genders experience it. that's for a different post. #writeblr #ps my comments about seeing someone cry -- this is not to shame any person #and on this blog we support workers. #at the same time it's a really hard experience to see someone that looks like you. clearly in agony. and have them forced to keep going. #when you're young it doesn't necessarily look like acting. it looks scary. and that's what this is about - the fact that teens #have likely already been exposed to that definition of things. because the internet exists #and without the context of healthy education. THAT is the image burned into their minds about what it looks like. #it's also just one of those personal nuanced biases - #at 19 i thought it was normal to be in pain. to cry. to not-like-it. that it should be perfunctory. #it was what i had seen. #and it didn't help that my religious upbringing was like . 'yeah that's what you get for premarital. but also for the reference #we do think you should never actually enjoy it lol' #so like the point im making is that ppl get exposed to that stuff without the context of something more tender #and assume .... 'oh. so it's fine i am not enjoying myself'. and i know they do because I DID. #he was my first boyfriend. how was i supposed to know any different #i didn't even have the mental wherewithal to realize im a lesbian . like THAT used to suffering.

[peggy-sue-reads-a-book]

All these people drawing Odysseus and none of them tying him up to his mast all bondagy

#disgraceful #crying shame #greek mythology #the odyssey #odysseus #tagamemnon #classicism

[ignitra-za]

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[yallemagne]

Mina every time she experiences a negative emotion: “I almost cried, which is quite unnatural for me. I’ve never cried a day in my life. Not even as a baby. That’s how “not like hysterical women” I am.”

Jonathan every time he experiences an emotion: “Woke up today, realized I was still living, and found no reaction more reasonable and appealing than sinking to the floor in loud agony and staying there until someone came to drag me from my wallowing. After that, I went to the post office.”

#so the detail that mina is not a crier? okay #and then she does cry several times #and repeats every time *I swear I'm not hysterical* #bram can you stop overcorrecting your misogyny? #let the woman CRY without SHAME #dracula #dracula daily #mina harker #mina murray #jonathan harker #incorrect dracula quotes #shitpost

[trevorphilips]

Leave me and go, if you don't want to be trapped in the Demon World. I'm staying, this place was our father's home.

#dmc #devil may cry #vergil sparda #dante sparda #dmcedit #gamingedit #devil may cry 3 #mine #❤💙 #there's so much to be said about this scene #the glove that vergil sliced being the only reminder dante has left of him for years #vergil telling him to save himself but refusing to be saved by him in turn #because he can't bear the shame of it #it's just so sad!!!! i love them so much man

[notahorseindisguise]

I'm so sorry you're hurting yourself like this. You're clearly an autistic young woman. I hope you get the help you need ❤️

thank you so much!! i really needed this encouragement. it means so much to hear you call me a woman, especially since im a cisgender male.

i will get the help i need! ill look into hormone replacement therapy and become the beautiful autistic young woman you see inside me!!

#corntent #i cant. i cant breathe oh my gosh #this is so funny #a terf found my acct ig #and im assuming they saw my face from the video i posted earlier today with my really fluffy hair?? #and ig they assumed i was afab and a trans guy #holy shit im gonna cry #this is such a major compliment ?!?!?! #i cant even tell what ur trying to say #so you think. i dont. pass. as a guy? #im too feminine to be a guy so i must be a transguy says the terf #also #i did in fact interact with a terf earlier today #only one #i liked one of their posts (by accident. i only realised i liked it looking at the acct who i think sent me this) #and im sure its them. theres nobody else it could be #idk why im not naming and shaming. @terven i know this was you #open your asks or your dms or something i want. i wanna know what u was thinking here LKJDSAFAS

[saewokhrisz]

got so stressed with my hades piece i started drawing lego yaoi im sorry

#me and my friend went insane for some reason we're literally sitting next to eachother drawing lego yaoi...crying.. #copes #if the shame gets me ill delete later #ninjago #my art #fanart

[humapkehaikaun]

I take it personal when innocent live is lost, I am hurt because as society we failed again to tell him, that it's okay to do whatever you want, whatever you want to be. If you can't spread love please don't spread hate.

To all those people who trolled him, I hope this haunt you forever, who the hell are you to tell others how to live, how to be a boy or a girl. To all those I want to say just try to be a "Better Human First" please be kind. He always says no matter what people say about you please don't give up, do whatever you like, whatever you want, is mentally tortured, bullied and abused by the youth of social media users. He had a supportive mother, but imagine how much this child was going through that her support wasn't enough for him to live. hope that this sweet innocent boy rest in peace. Just keep scrolling if you don't like.

#justiceforpranshu #life matters #desiblr #spilled heart #spilled words #feelings #spilled ink #spilled tears #female writers #spilled feelings #crying inside #broken #shame on them #lgtbqia+ #lgbtq community #lgbtq #text post #bisexual #indian community #queer #queer community #homophobic #heartlesspeople #suicide

[tumatawa]

#mp100 #mob psycho 100 #shigeo kageyama #tumatawart #I dont draw this guy enough. Crying shame!

[tranny-fragrance]

sometimes someone will reblog just the most attractive tranny you’ve ever seen onto your dash and then you supposed to just keep going on with your life somehow

#i am not immune to pretty trans gals #said retweet instead of reblog in the original and i am forever shameful #someone reblogged saying something along the lines of 'erm we dont retweet here we retweet' and it made me so mad #crying #ive been on this website for like 2-3 years im not a twitter or reddit refugee 😭😭😭

[furiousgoldfish]

abusers will go 'it makes me feel sooo upset when you live your life the way you want to and do the things you want to do, actually what you're doing is victimizing me by not existing only as a support and validation to me you are so abusive and selfish and you should think more about how your sense of freedom and boundaries is negatively effecting me'

#psychological abuse #emotional manipulation #reverse victim and offender #emotional abuse #victim shaming #trying to convince victims that they're at fault for not existing only how the abuser demands them to exist #emotional exploitation #you're not abusing anyone by wanting freedom and boundaries #nobody has the right to take that away from you #not your parents not your partner not anyone #you do not exist for them #and you never will #and if they cry abuse at that #they can simply find someone else to control and manipulate #gross behaviour

[kaiabolical]

happy monday

#ill cry if this gets removed #me #gay #gayboy #gay men #boys #gay boys #gayguy #black boys #black gay #black men #gayhot #gay pics #gaytwink #my ass doesn't look that fat here don't body shame me please :)

[ryanthel0ser]

I need to take a moment to appreciate Ogata's artwork for DMC because what did they put into that artstyle oh my god (also I have a bunch of the art they made when they first started to work on Visions of V and I want to share the ones I have saved)

#btw if you have a DMC artwork that you can't find or was lost to Tumblr and you posted it around 2019-2020 I might have it saved to a folder #before i had social media I would literally save everything I found #i dont have the credits saved for any of them though because younger me did not think to do that #shame on her #dmc #devil may cry #if there are more now send them to me they are like drugs to me #i love this style so much #visions of v is just eye candy the entire time