#This is the shit I didn't knew I needed

[horseb4porsche]

Sooooo hear me out on yesterdays JO concert in Munich i saw Nace and Krisko being pretty 🏳️‍🌈 together

But as we know Jan and Nace are married

But what if...

#nace jordan #jan peteh #Jace #kris guštin #New couple??!! #joker out #We need to let this ship sail #Please dear tumbler help me make this a thing I need it in my life #This is the shit I didn't knew I needed #i'm serious btw #hear me out

[inkskinned]

so one of the things that's so horrifying about birth control is that you have to, like, navigate this incredibly personal choice about your body and yet also face the epitome of misogyny. like, someone in the comments will say it wasn't that bad for me, and you'll be utterly silenced. like, everyone treats birth control like something that's super dirty. like, you have no fucking information or control over this thing because certain powerful people find it icky.

first it was the oral contraceptives. you went on those young, mostly for reasons unrelated to birth control - even your dermatologist suggested them to control your acne. the list of side effects was longer than your arm, and you just stared at it, horrified.

it made you so mentally ill, but you just heard that this was adulthood. that, yes, there are of course side effects, what did you expect. one day you looked up yasmin makes me depressed because surely this was far too intense, and you discovered that over 12,000 lawsuits had been successfully filed against the brand. it remains commonly prescribed on the open market. you switched brands a few times before oral contraceptives stopped being in any way effective. your doctor just, like, shrugged and said you could try a different brand again.

and the thing is that you're a feminist. you know from your own experience that birth control can be lifesaving, and that even when used for birth control - it is necessary healthcare. you have seen it save so many people from such bad situations, yourself included. it is critical that any person has access to birth control, and you would never suggest that we just get rid of all of it.

you were a little skeeved out by the implant (heard too many bad stories about it) and figured - okay, iud. it was some of the worst pain you've ever fucking experienced, and you did it with a small number of tylenol in your system (3), like you were getting your bikini line waxed instead of something practically sewn into your body.

and what's wild is that because sometimes it isn't a painful insertion process, it is vanishingly rare to find a doctor that will actually numb the area. while your doctor was talking to you about which brand to choose, you were thinking about the other ways you've been injured in your life. you thought about how you had a suspicious mole frozen off - something so small and easy - and how they'd numbed a huge area. you thought about when you broke your wrist and didn't actually notice, because you'd thought it was a sprain.

your understanding of pain is that how the human body responds to injury doesn't always relate to the actual pain tolerance of the person - it's more about how lucky that person is physically. maybe they broke it in a perfect way. maybe they happened to get hurt in a place without a lot of nerve endings. some people can handle a broken femur but crumble under a sore tooth. there's no true way to predict how "much" something actually hurts.

in no other situation would it be appropriate for doctors to ignore pain. just because someone can break their wrist and not feel it doesn't mean no one should receive pain meds for a broken wrist. it just means that particular person was lucky about it. it should not define treatment.

in the comments of videos about IUDs, literally thousands of people report agony. blinding, nauseating, soul-crushing agony. they say things like i had 2 kids and this was the worst thing i ever experienced or i literally have a tattoo on my ribs and it felt like a tickle. this thing almost killed me or would rather run into traffic than ever feel that again.

so it's either true that every single person who reports severe pain is exaggerating. or it's true that it's far more likely you will experience pain, rather than "just a pinch." and yet - there's nothing fucking been done about it. it kind of feels like a shrug is layered on top of everything - since technically it's elective, isn't it kind of your fault for agreeing to select it? stop being fearmongering. stop being defensive.

you fucking needed yours. you are almost weirdly protective of it. yours was so important for your physical and mental health. it helped you off hormonal birth control and even started helping some of your symptoms. it still fucking hurt for no fucking reason.

once while recovering from surgery, they offered you like 15 days of vicodin. you only took 2 of them. you've been offered oxy for tonsillitis. you turned down opioids while recovering from your wisdom tooth extraction. everything else has the option. you fucking drove yourself home after it, shocked and quietly weeping, feeling like something very bad had just happened. the nurse that held your hand during the experience looked down at you, tears in her eyes, and said - i know. this is cruelty in action.

and it's fucked up because the conversation is never just "hey, so the way we are doing this is fucking barbaric and doctors should be required to offer serious pain meds" - it's usually something around the lines of "well, it didn't kill you, did it?"

you just found out that removing that little bitch will hurt just as bad. a little pinch like how oral contraceptives have "some" serious symptoms. like your life and pain are expendable or not really important. like maybe we are all hysterical about it?

hysteria comes from the latin word for uterus, which is great!

you stand here at a crossroads. like - this thing is so important. did they really have to make it so fucking dangerous. and why is it that if you make a complaint, you're told - i didn't even want you to have this in the first place. we're told be careful what you wish for. we're told that it's our fault for wanting something so illict; we could simply choose not to need medication. that maybe if we don't like the scraps, we should get ready to starve.

we have been saying for so long - "i'm not asking you to remove the option, i'm asking you to reconsider the risk." this entire time we hear: well, this is what you wanted, isn't it?

#where's the word woman in this u might wonder if u suck #good news i am nonbinary and have a uterus so that is something that can happen #im also gender fluid tho which means im immune to certain psychic damage bc if u call me a woman i'll be like <3 okay <3 #writeblr #the tightrope of ''ppl need access to this'' #and like also #''what the fuck is going on over there'' is like. so difficult as an activist #i was <3 punctured <3 during mine #and almost bled out on the table :) they didn't have anyone standing by bc it's ''just a little insertion'' #so i started crashing and i vaguely remember apologizing for the fuss as i heard my heart rate monitor start going <3 tachycardic <3 #she wasn't even a bad doctor tbh #ps btw the reason i even HAD a heart monitor is that i have a genuine heart condition and they knew GOING IN that there was a chance #i'd crash on the table #like my heart just likes to do fun little tricks and <3 stop working <3 (i do not want to discuss the specifics ty i am okay im ontop of it #and they were like 'oh u will be fine' and then she did do a puncture thru my uterus . pop! #and im sitting there dizzy and feeling my heartrate start to drop bc it feels almost. beautiful. like. the whole ground just #woosh! out from under you. and shit is like grey's anatomy. i'm looking up at her grey eyes #she's old she wears this nice shawl she's like got Cool Lesbian vibes and people are sprinting into the room #from other parts of the clinic unrelated to me. while the monitor is like a little aria singing #and shes like hey youre okay stay awake stay with me something went wrong we have to keep trying #and i remember thinking - i was trying to think of nice things. i have so many beautiful places that now overlap #with this terrible memory #i became dimly aware that there was too much on her wrists and hands. like #that was too many liters #and then when they had finished all this. i packed up and drove myself home #i have had (bad thing) happen to me. and the same feeling happened after #that numb almost lamblike bleating. you cry without noise. like. ur body is so shocked and ur mind so empty #you just stare at the road and everything everything is happening behind glass and static and you are standing so far away from it #while you hold ur hands at 10 and 2. and something in ur brain is SCREAMING at you - IT WAS BAD AND IT SHOULDNT HAVE HAPPENED #and ur just watching the alarms in your body going off and youre thinking. a little pinch! ha. i think i just lost something important.

[bg3-npc]

Walking out of the theatre after watching two hours of Dev Patel kick ass, fueled by grief for his mother, the power of trans people in India, and his own righteous fury:

*sobbing* "I forgot movies can be good."

#monkey man #the monkey man #dev patel #guess who has a new favorite fight scene? #didn't know I needed to see a bunch of trans women #beat the shit outta bad guys #while Indian metal plays in the background #but DEV PETAL KNEW #and I will be forever grateful

[front-facing-pokemon]

#oooohhh hell this generation is gonna be reeeeaaally rough on me. the textures on these models are Completely different from the 3ds #versions. and i do not!!! know how to do it!!!! #grookey #ANYWAY. welcome to generation eight!!! this generation will always hold a special place in my heart because it's the one that #reintroduced me to pokémon as a whole #i've talked about this multiple times in small references in the tags so i'm sure you all already know this but #when i was younger‚ i had a Passing interest in pokémon. didn't really need to play every new game or know every pokémon #but when i turned 18‚ on the SAME day pokémon sword & shield released‚ i ended up getting it for my birthday #mostly because my parents hadn't figured out what to get me for my birthday and heard that the new pokémon game came out the same day #which‚ now that i look it up‚ apparently it actually came out 5 days before my birthday. and i was just Told it came out that day #who knew. anyway‚ i got swsh for my 18th birthday. and i played the shit out of it. hyperfixation material #and that's what got me back into pokémon Properly. back into it as an Autism Special Interest type beat #and now it's stuck with me ever since. so swsh is probably always gonna be one of my favorite games in the series‚ and gen 8 one of #my favorite generations just because of what it means to me personally #gen 8 was also the last pmd game we ever got so .

[introspectivememories]

i wish you guys could feel the way i felt when reading HOO and realizing in real time that "oh, riordan clearly does not care about the romans". like the downplay is insane!!! as if the greeks and romans were not two separate cultures!!! you cannot one-to-one the gods!!! jason never gets all his memories back, percy ends up remembering everything. jason struggles to fit in at chb, they make percy praetor in one fucking week! not to mention the very weird addition of saying that camp jupiter was part of the confederacy???? like he very clearly does not care about the romans

#i would say smth about rr having a very clear bias for percy but im not sure if yall are ready for that #like the minute i knew that he didn't give a shit about the romans was when percy decimated the cohorts during the war games #bc of his superior greek fighting style or whatever #like just say you like the greeks and go!! there is no need to sideline the romans like this #the way he writes them it's like the romans were just a knock-off copy of the greeks #as if they weren't two fully-realized separate cultures #whatever #jason grace #percy jackson #pjo #hoo

[mokeonn]

Before I go to sleep I leave you all with this piece of advice: sometimes you don't actually have to answer big political questions, sometimes you can just say "I am not smart enough to know that, I just know the small things I do to help." Like you can often times completely avoid making a fool of yourself if you just say you don't know.

#simon says #to explain here and not in a reblog: #sometimes when you try to explain big picture solutions you're gonna sound dumb #you might not have done enough research #you might not have a rebuttal to a counter argument #you might not be articulate enough to explain why you think this #sometimes you gotta take a step back and give the simple solution. the one man solution #you do what you can to fight against the problem #you talk to people to help spread awareness and how to fight the bad problem #and you vote and invite others to vote for bigger steps towards solving the problem #like you can talk about theory and how you believe we need to do a huge drastic thing to solve and issue #but people will disagree and argue til you're blue in the face #they'll poke and prod until you mess up or lose your temper and use it against you #and you'll feel dumb and they'll learn nothing #sometimes the best thing to do is step away from the big picture and just say 'idk what the solution is I just know the things I can do“ #sometimes you gotta admit you're not a scientist/expert and you can't answer that #i used this while talking with my Dad tonight #he brought up our climate crisis and space travel as a possible solution #and I said I think that's just addressing the symptom and not the cause and we need to care for our Earth now #and he asked me what solutions I think would fix it #and knowing my incredibly smart Dad who is articulate and ready to throw rebuttles at a moments notice to play devils advocate #and my past experience in struggling in this topic with him before #i just told him I didn't know. all i knew is the little things I can and do do to help #and that hopefully by spreading the word and habits and encouraging others to vote for those bigger solutions I could help make a change #but all I really could do is the little things I have control over #and the topic became much less stressful about the little things we have control over #like planting native plants and recycling and adopting habits that are healthier to our planet #which was 100% more preferable to if I tried to give a big solution. because I would reveal i didn't have all the knowledge needed to argue #and my articulation would make me sound like a stupid kid who only thinks they know what's best #so yeah I basically suggest that if you dont wanna feel like shit after debating someone just step away from the big picture for a moment

[twstwonderlandstuff]

calling the twisted boys your husband/wife! [4/7]

scarabia wife supremacy idc idc I'm correct and right gender neutral reader! established relationship tw: none also jamil's part is a story than a drabble ;p edit: i am incapable of counting Heartslabyul | Savanaclaw | Octavinelle

kalim al-asim

“look, look! isn’t my wife just so cool?! right, he’s amazing!”

as soon as kalim hears the words ‘wife’ and your adoration whispered to another’s ears, he pauses and feels his face burn. this isn’t something you see very often, you know, a blushing Kalim.

normally he’s very chill and casual about the pda and affection you give but when he hears your nickname… it’s something he totally doesn’t expect… but really loves! I’m sure he immediately went and bragged about it to Jamil like:

“JAMIL?!!? GUESS WHAT HAPPENED?!”

Jamil, absolutely deadpan: “oh noooo what happened? don’t tell me… they called you…?”

“THEY CALLED ME WIFE!!!! WIFE!!!!”

“oh, really? I never would have guessed from the yelling and shouting… hehe, kidding.”

“KJHFBAVKJSDFAKJSBVF IM THEIR WIFE OH MY SEVEN //////”

he’s SO going to refer to himself as your wife every chance he gets- so much so that some people are actually convinced y’all are married (which is happening soon! ^^)

jamil viper

“my wife and I, jamil viper, serve the Asim family household faithfully sir, I assure you.”

jamil wants to pull the non-existent hoodie over his head and it takes his all not to grow embarrassed at this very official meeting. you just had to mess with him like that, huh?

“what was that?”

“what was what?” you’d say, all nonchalant. “I was just introducing you, jamil, there’s nothing to be embarrassed about.”

“you know exactly what I’m talking about.”

you burst into a laugh, and jamil groans, burying his head on a pillow. “I can’t believe you went and said that, at a meeting no less.”

you laugh, squeezing him in a side hug. “but you know, I do mean it.” you caress his hair, daring to press a kiss against it. “I want you as my wife, by my side, for as long as we live, and before you say anything, no, I don’t care if we’re going to be under the Asim’s forever, either. it’ll be you and me, and I’m more than happy with that.”

if you felt a stray tear drop fall against you when he drapes against your shoulder, you don’t comment, and neither does he.

#twisted wonderland #twst #twst wonderland #kalim al asim #jamil viper #kalim al asim x reader #jamil viper x reader #twisted wonderland x reader #twst x reader #gender neutral reader #gn! reader #gn reader #stuff hits the fan #BSAGTRASEVF WIFE JAMIL IS SO RIGHT #what more could you want??? #he needs to be spoiled #we (as a collective) should spoil the shit out of jamil #and kalim #so they both know how loved they are #that aside heyyy tq for the support like goddamn i knew calling them wives was a power move but i didn't know it was THAT much of a power #move you know #PISS OFF TUMBLR LET ME RANT #anyways <3

[cementcornfield]

https://x.com/oliviaraytv/status/1792351489773752635?s=46&t=4nsvGMTnbYsCN_2D0a2rJg

Joe and Ja’Marr worked out together 😭 I know it’s not that special but Joe did asked Ja’Marr when he was ready

Actually me and Joe threw one time in California. I actually took a trip to go take a chance to go see him and hang with him for a time. And that was our first time throwing after, I think that was his fourth session when he first started to throw. So I caught him early.

#SCREAMS IN TRIUMPH #I KNEW IT I FUCKING KNEW IT #I KNEW THEY WOULD HAVE THROWN TOGETHER ALREADY #was it the time ja'marr posted a picture of just grass like a day or two after it was announced joe was able to throw again??? #was it after that weekend they were in miami together?? or maybe right before?? #god of course they were quiet about it #but i knew #i knew there was no way joe was out there throwing with rookies before he was throwing with ja'marr #and the PHRASING HEREE!!! #'i took a chance to go see him' #as if he thought maybe joe wouldn't let him see him all vulnerable and learning to throw again #maybe joe didn't want to at first #but he's not gonna refuse ja'marr if he just shows up #(i've entered crazy person territory) #(not that i've ever really left it) #god god GOD #anon you have no idea what oyu've just done to me on a previously sleepy sunday night #i feel like i've taken a bump of coke #WOOOOOO BOY #THEY THREW TOGETHER THEY HUNG OUT #GOD #um #anyway #do i tag this #yeah i need to tag this for future reference #not like there's not more insane shit in the tags right now anyway #joe burrow #ja'marr chase #!!!!!

[arcticwaters]

something something reckless dangerous decisions something something confronting mortality

#critical role #cr spoilers #ashton greymoore #laudna #laudmoore #my art #critter role #i drew this right after ep77 but the parallels i saw between them got more confirmed for me in 78 #i spent the ep trying to figure out why laudna was so upset (betrayed was such a strong word for something that had little to do with her) #(like yeah the shard was important but like it wasn't hers it wasn't imogen's it was his journey not theirs. i get being upset but THAT?) #''why didn't they learn my lesson'' was very telling to me and all but confirmed my theory that she saw herself in him #she made a choice to kill bor'dor in a way that risked waking up dalilah but did it anyway because she needed it; a sense of control #the same day she learned that dalilah had become extremely strong and could not die without /her/ dying she watches #ashton make a choice that they knew risked everything but did it anyway for a sense of control. and he dies. #he dies right after she realizes she may have to die to protect her loved ones but it will HURT #and it does hurt; fearne gets hurt they all get hurt #''why did they break her rock?'' #ANYWAY it's like i said in another post: 'they are a child' she says as she cuddles a toy and asks an older woman to hold her #also so sorry i'm shit at effects

[destinyandcoins]

lmao i know it’s 2 seasons later but it just occurred to me: what if, at the beginning of s1, instead of deciding his funeral was the best way to get everyone back in one place, reginald decided to have a wedding instead

not only do we get the entertaining side-plot of this poor person reginald has bribed/blackmailed/begged to marry him For The Con, but the only reason any of the kids show up is because they got a wedding invite and immediately went “oh now this i gotta see”

#the episode is titled ''we only see each other at WEDDINGS and FUNERALS'' #i'm just saying it could have gone the other way #the umbrella academy #half the kids are there to check in with their new stepparent and make sure they're there of their own free will #''idk what he told you but you don't have to do this. say the word and i'll get you out of here'' #''no i promise i. definitely....want to...be here :) :) '' #i can't decide if it's funnier if five knew because time travel and he's already had time to adjust to this concept #so is perfectly polite and accommodating if slightly confused because the personality he built for them in his head isn't accurate #while the rest of them are going through the 5 stages of grief over discovering their dad is capable of romance #or if through some time fuckery five came from a timeline where he saw the news that reginald is dead #and then drops into the timeline in the middle of a fucking wedding and is COMPLETELY blindsided by this #but doesn't have time to deal with this shit #somehow THIS is the timeline where they do manage to prevent the apocalypse #and at the end of everything the new stepparent divorces the fuck out of reginald ASAP because holy shit they were not paid enough for this #and yet they're like ''well i did what you asked (even if you didn't mention the LOOMING APOCALYPSE) #but holy shit i'm taking these kids in the divorce because what the fuck dude what the FUCK. idc if they're all adults #they need a better family and now i'm obligated to be that for them'' #and reginald was playing fast and loose because of the LOOMING APOCALYPSE and didn't sign a prenup #so the new stepparent gets the academy (the property AND the actual kids) and reginald has to move out and live on the streets #tua meta

[tricoufamily]

while i'm thinking about it, i'm not sure if i'll finish a new edit before horses, so i'm posting old renders again :) a compilation of my beckett and connor western au :))))) this au really does slap i wasn't joking i'm not gonna be humble about it

#i've developed it more since making these i didn't have a specific time period set and i didn't know how they knew each other #that'll be a real horse!!! western beck's horse is a black stallion. and he's also got a little bay horse with him #you know. red headed stranger etc. glad we could have this talk #except the bay in this beck keeps trying to sell and he cannot get rid of it he just has to keep lugging this my little pony around #something something some kind of symbolism it's a long story #connor has a 1920 rolls royce he doesn't need horses. beckett's never even seen a car that close up before #connor /used/ to be on the run with a gang with horses and camps in the woods as a teen. but he's rich as shit now and lives in the city #ts4 #ts4 render #ts4 edit #beckett #connor

[fedorah-the-explorah]

my inability to take anything about "the crackle goes kiwi caper" seriously vs. my adoration for that scene... FIGHT

#carmen sandiego 2019 #please i cant with this episode #its so dumb im sorry 😭😭 #but its also one of the best episodes in the series #i love you ballerina!carmen 😍 #also neal definitely cracked that bitch's ribs #that kick was PERSONAL #sorry guys im live tweeting in the tags #also i love player in this episode #ver hands on here #i love it #i HATE this episode but i LOVE it but i HATTEE it #ejeiduejejsijdkekekd #im going to eat glass /pos #i need an exorcism #“you... dont run a children's charity” #yeah no SHIT you love blind FOOL #anyway carmen and gray fucked after crashing that glider #who said that #shut the FUCK up suzie #why did my little sister just ealk in and say she has a crush on gray? #i didn't even know she knew this show #wait shes telling me she hyperfixated on it like 3 years ago #HELLO #how could i have forgotten this #anyway #HES JUST SOME GUY

[cynicaldesire]

Almost all of the coverage I've seen regarding Polin has been centered around how Colin Learned to See Penelope and how She fell first, He went completely unhinged. All the nice, good, positive things about friends-to-lovers and two people falling in love.

But one thing I haven't seen discussed is Penelope's actions between hearing that he would never court her and his apology.

She thinks after he goes out of his way to save her from her cousin's fake ruby mines and dances with her and "You're special to me, I'll always look out for you" that Colin must've finally come to see her as a romantic option. But then, when confronted by some toxic dudes about their relationship, Colin is like Ew, no, never in your wildest fantasies.

She's been in love with this boy for years at this point and this is the final nail that he, and by extension the rest of the Ton, will never see her as anything other than a joke. She has no respect, she is not viewed as a romantic option, her and her family are a joke. And it was Colin that said it.

This is her final straw. She's hurt and so she hurts him. Either on purpose or in an attempt to protect herself. She never says whether she read his letters, we only hear that she never responded. He said to her before that she is a constant in his life, that she would never forsake him, and she does just that. Because he did it first (without knowing). She withholds her friendship and affection because he doesn't want to court her.

Sounds a lot like a certain subset of men. Men who befriend women and are nice with the expectation of sex. (I don't truly believe this, but it was brought to my attention in this way.)

She withholds her letters, the one thing that he looks forward to on those trips, because he unknowingly hurt her. Cutting him off from her affection is what causes him to realize some measure of his feelings for her, so it ends up working in her favor, but it's still an abusive move.

It does help her find the strength to finally confront him about his behavior last season, which is the communication they needed to move forward. But it is in her anger and giving up that she is able to find the strength to even remotely touch on her feelings for him, and his feelings for her.

#polin #bridgerton #this was brought to me by my husband #i've done this to him as well #ironically #there was an instance when i went to visit him #i had written a fanfic and was trying to get our friends to be supportive #i knew they didn't respect it but i hoped they respected me #and thus would be nice to me about my fanfiction #and so i framed it with “oh it's so dumb i wrote this right lol” #and they all said yes but weren't kidding #none of them offered to read it #none of them said good job that's a lot of words #they all just made fun of me #my husband the chameleon people pleaser #joined them #finally at the airport i tried one last time to seek a connection about that fanfiction #and when he continued to make fun of me i withheld my affections #i didn't hold his hand #i didn't kiss him #i was leaving for an indeterminate amount of time #he asked me what was wrong and i told him #this is something i'm proud of and i don't appreciate you and your friends making fun of me #i thought you of all people would support me #he realized then that i was genuinely hurt and apologized #sometimes oblivious boys need a grander gesture to understand the depth of your hurt #colin said some inflammatory shit and penelope withheld her affections #when confronted #he repented #she repented

[uncanny-tranny]

So I saw this show I used to watch as a kid on a streaming service, Hoarders, and it's about, as you'd assume, people who compulsively hoard.

When I watched that show as a kid, I remember how you were invited to almost... judge these people, "Oh, how could you live like that?! I'm glad that's not my house..." and I remember this shock factor that sunk you into the episode, at least in the early seasons.

I think it's a product of the attitude we have about these sorts of things. When I look at that now, all I see is trauma, people who are suffering, and then essentially being shamed on television, no less. It just feels like watching somebody at their lowest for an hour, recounting trauma, disability, loss and grief, mental illness, and so many things.

#mental health #mental health advocacy #ask to tag #man though... i was super young when i actually watched that series though like this is like maybe 2010 we're talking #and look maybe i'm a hashtag snowflake who is too concerned about this shit but... i'd rather be a snowflake #i just remember the tears and the person who was compulsively hoarding being stressed and pressured #and it just makes me think about how entitled people are about mentally ill people #i'm not saying that these people didn't need help. i'm just saying that a camera crew probably shouldn't be part of it #i think about my worst episodes of mental illness and it's like would i have wanted a camera crew? like even if i had said yes in the past #i just think it's complex and nuanced and that's why i'm not trying to shame anyone about this based on opinion #i concede that i am not an expert and i also can say that i personally don't think it (the show) was done in good faith every time #feel like my words may/will be misinterpreted/misrepresented about this but i hold true #like i tried watching an episode just in case i was wrong and. i was not having a good time. even when the expert they got came on #really didn't like the way she introduced herself with 'ooh i KNEW i came to the right place when i saw the yard' like it was funny :/

[cosmic-kaden]

imagine gatekeeping

Imagine setting boundaries so you have a safe space for yourself.

Block button is free. <3

#you don't know the shit/hell I went through in the past so sit the fuck down. #I didn't just decide oh this is a thing I need to have in place. I've literally been hurt by people I thought were friends in the PAST! #I had someone send me a platonic fic of my f/o only for it to turn out it was a romance in the end- even tho they knew full fucking well #that I didn't like to share my f/o but they still felt the need to show me because they wanted to be smug #So sit down and shut the fuck up because I assure you don't know the shit I've been through with some people and their lies- #I'm setting a boundary. Those are allow.. It's not a crime to want to keep myself safe! #Next ask from a shit hole like you gets block #Sorry mutuals but I'm pissed off at people who are like this- imagine being an asshole over someone setting a boundary- jfc #negative;;

[arklay]

MR. & MRS. WESKER 🤍

i was able to commission the lovely @rcehb-art on twitter for this piece of diana and wesker during their strange after-the-fact reception for their very private wedding. i am just so in love with this and how it turned out, and i can't thank rc enough !! she is so kind and amazing to work with and i can't recommend her enough if you're looking to commission artwork ♡

#commissions. #oc: diana #pair: ewskers #or should i say drs. albert & diana wesker 🖤 #i literally haven't stopped staring at this since receiving the final product !! & just the whole process was so much fun & i loved seeing #it all come together 🥺 i'm just aaaaaa i adore this sm !!! also okay i think i have talked about this on here before but these two didn't #actually have like a ''wedding'' but they eloped then a bit after that alex & the birkins found out they had gotten married without telling #anyone (they knew they were engaged but yeah there were no wedding talks so to speak) so then they sort of pushed them to have some sort of #reception at least & celebrate things kinda...like they thought he would've made a big deal out of things but these two aren't all that #fussed with the idea of weddings or marriage in general (there's a lot of lore here i swear. especially on diana's part like some of you #know) so they were very private about it all !! but yes here you can see them gossiping & talking shit about umbrella employees 🤭 #also this goes without saying but pls don't use or touch this at all as it's a commission & diana is my oc !! i didn't think i would need to #say that but precautions now after things that have happened on here & unfortunately made me less active...diana is very very special to me #so yeah :] and ofc never repost art that isn't yours !! that being said please go & support rc !!! she's amazing & all of her art is so so #gorgeous & she's just the absolute sweetest & a beloved mutual of mine 🤍🤍