#SOME HETS HAVE RIGHTS !!!

[possamble]

realizing im kind of a weirdo about laios and marcille

#possramble #ignore this im just babbling but #the thing is that like. i don't ship laios and marcille together. their relationship is so so important to me in that laios comphets himsel #and THINKS that he might be in love with her but he isn't and that's my insane obsession #platonic soulmates for real but they're so sweet together that i fully expect them to be shipped together #like i get it. that's almost the appeal for me. if dungeon meshi were any other series there'd be an epilogue where they get married #convention dictates that they're meant to be together as the male protagonist and his beloved female deuteragonist #but dungeon meshi DOESNT do that and i love it so fucking much they're the comphet besties ever for my strange little brain #like if i ever did an arranged marriage au it would absolutely be laios and marcille having a platonic political marriage and then just #the most insane mutual pining with marcille and falin while laios and marcille struggle their way into becoming best friends #the imagery of the king and his beautiful court mage being tender to each other and everyone thinking they're in love is like catnip to me #like yeah they'd be like that and have no idea people think they should be together and the subversion makes me so obsessed #the more people ship them romantically. the more i enjoy their platonic dynamic it's like some sort of weird comphet fetishism idk #people think they're in love and im outside the window like YES... YES!!! #but also the second i see stuff of them kissing on the mouth or fucking im like oh god no i went too deep in here i gotta get out #don't wanna see that. i'll go feral over the idea of laios and marcille being arm-in-arm like king and queen but they would not fuck. #i want marcille to be his default comphet beard and dance partner/plus one at official royal events but they're not kissing. #she's there on his arm because he's scared of the other noble women tryna get him and being a baby about it #and people see them muttering to each other and laughing and generally being very sweet and think that they're dating but they're not. #she's actually covered in hickies from falin underneath her dress and is gonna get dragon dicked right after the party is over #like she's in her bedroom and falin's helping her take her ridiculous dress off while listening to her complain about politics #and falin is the person she goes home to the person she falls asleep to and wakes up with #they're a triad of utter devotion to each other but only farcille's side of the triangle is romantic #it's almost like an open secret because they're not trying to hide it at all but people assume and are surprised to find out #like people are so right about her relationship with the toudens but with the siblings' roles switched #love of her life & irreplaceable life companion. does anyone get it #anyway. i don't know what's wrong with me #it bothers me that they're not the undisputed most popular het ship for marcille on ao3 #it's unnatural. marcille being paired with any other man should be a fringe case.

[copper-dragon-in-disguise]

*''once more, with feeling'', buffy the vampire slayer, season 6, episode 7.

**''face the raven'', new who, season 9, episode 10.

#hyperspecific poll #polls #hyperspecific polls #for the record #all of these are indeed true facts about me #i saw face the raven a couple weeks after it came out #i was like. 5 or 6 i think #my mom didnt know what happened in it and she was folding clothes and turned it on #and i remembered it until i saw her show up in early s8 when i was watching the whole show for the first time #(like. 8 or 9 years later) #and was like. ''ohhh so thats her name. she dies right?'' #''with a ticking timebomb raven tattoo?'' #and my mom was like #''what. why do you know this'' #it was very fun #i have wanted to do one of these for months but i was scared #now people are doing them again so #honestly im worried some of these might be too spefific #originally the roman emperor one said 17 cause thats how far i can het #*get #but i figured that was too spefific #so its ten

[elfcollector]

"i’ve put you through far too much.” “no.  you haven’t.”

#code vein #eva roux #jack rutherford #cvedit #code vein edit #vgedit #gamingedit #dailygaming #myedit #myedits #SOME HETS HAVE RIGHTS !!! #god they are so in love. godddammit

[dishsaop]

does anyone have recommendations for fictional media that has like. actual lesbians in it. not like supergirl Two White Skinny Girls, One Blonde and One Brunette Kiss media, or "its implied lesbianism!!!" but just regular fucking lesbians

#i say lesbians but i guess i mean sapphic #im just like. tired of gnawing #and of men also. sorry men in my life i love you but on god if i have to pretend one more man is butch just to get #content that isnt m/m or m/f im going to turn into a horse and run into the wilderness until im saved from the glue factory by a plucky #young woman except instead of letting her have her formative summer where she trains me and bonds w me and wins a competition w me #im going to commit horse suicide in front of her & change her life forever. just because im so tired of bland CW-marketable women kissing & #digging for scraps in a refuse bin while brushing aside 7002993829292929939292929399394 gay and het romances #m text #i will also take nonfictional lesbians if its like a story #not to be whiny on main but one of the hardest hurdles i had to jump wasnt realizing i was a lesbian. i came out to myself and to friends a #lesbian multiple times. but i would always walk it back when a friend would express doubt or a male friend would ask me out #bc i dont and especially then didnt know very many lesbians in person. and so i had to turn to examples #and all i fucking had were fictional women who liked men. or fictional lesbians who were so cleaned and sanitized and prettified #(you all know what i mean right. the 2 skinny white girls one blonde one brunette. im not crazy right) #and i would be like. i dont feel things when i look at these fictional lesbians so i guess i belong back here #(this is also bc my gender ended up being fuckier than i realized but shhhhh) #I WAS GOING SOMEWHERE WITH THESE TAGS but theyre too long and im lost. #anyway the point is if people werent so fucking weird abt fictional or onscreen lesbians maybe thered be a lot more people comfortable bein #out as lesbian #like sorry but this awful ouroboros of 'all lesbians onscreen have to be cute and sanitized' meaning that people write and believe wlw has #to be cute and pure and sanitized (OR a 'badge of honor' bc good for u u doodled two women together or had it as a background in ur fic) #meaning that therefore all portrayals of lesbianism continue to be like this. is just #and im also gonna be honest theres probably a lot of good sapphic media im just in the wrong circles to have stumbled into lol. so #yknow. personal viewer bias here #but i still like swing wildly between overly brandishing my dykeness as a badge to feel like im proving im lesbian #and like. backing up under a blanket bc i dont wanna be weird or annoying or freak people out #but if people just Saw Normal Ass Lesbians. aough. #im going to watch revolutionary girl utena one of these days even if i struggled w the writing style the first few episodes #I JUST WANNA SEE AN OLD BUTCH ONSCREEN GET SOME PUSSY. #like it also doesnt help im mostly femme4butch so seeing 2 femmes on screen is like. okay cool so what. but only femmes are 'marketable'

[angrylesbianstereotype]

Idk ab y’all but the reason I’m still pulling for these two monster bitches is that their breathtaking selfishness does not in any way extend to one another he’s a coward but he would die for her she’s only just now realized what deep shit they’re in but she would kill for him both with no hesitation no treachery none of their underhanded little games or weaselly flourishes when the other’s life is at stake they make each other braver they make each other worse but they make each other better it’s all so bloody romantic

#swoon #fine these hets can have some rights ig whatever #mcwexler #kim wexler #jimmy mcgill #saul goodman #better call saul #bcs s6 spoilers

[dandyshucks]

i still feel a lot of weird shame about being a man-liker now (i used to not be into men as a general rule for YEARSSS because i'd had one too many bad exps with them in a variety of ways) because I worry it somehow makes me "not queer enough" or smth dsjfkl but . also ... I think the way I like men is in a very gay way. like there is nothing cishet about the way I like men fdsjkl and I'm not sure HOW that is, but the friends I've spoken to about this agree that the way i like men is in a distinctly gay way LFSDHFJKL

#I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW. like what exactly differentiates it. but apparently it is very true bc ppl have told me without prompting LMAO #i am ... bisexual? idk i dont put a label on my sexuality at all. i barely put a label on my gender fdsjkl i only do it when i have to #i am aspec in some way and i like ppl regardless of gender so . shrug. #it just happens that i am apparently in my man-enjoyer era right now FHDSJKL #also mandatory disclaimer: there is nothing wrong w being cishet or het or whatever fsdjkl this shame i experience is strange and personal #it is not smth anybody SHOULD experience fsdjkl #im trying to work thru it and move past it but woof dsfjkl it rly bites me sometimes #vent // #sort of LOL #dandy.cmd

[airenyah]

i see everyone fill up the gmmtv 2024 bingo card and it's like. i don't really have any predictions and i also don't have enough things that i want in order to fill up the entire thing.

i really only have three four wishes for gmmtv 2024:

firstmix 12 ep main couple series

earth/fourth return as an uncle-nephew duo

joongdunk series, but better written and more serious/deeper/grittier/darker/sexier this time. bonus points for vampires

midnight museum s2 but make it canonically gay and also bring back nanon as The One (and KEEP him as The One!!!!)

#i was gonna say ''three wishes'' like in your classic fairytale but then i remembered midnight museum #and i just HAD to include it on my list lbr #also i'm not too big of a fan of horny/sexy series bc i'm a little too much on the sex-repulsed side of the ace spectrum for that #but!! judging by JD's dum dum performance and also how excited they were for hidden agenda ep8 #i feel like they would have a whooole lot of fun with a sexy ofts-type of series #so i want it for them #for their sake <3 #gmmtv 2024 #gmmtv 2024 wish list #airenyah plappert #adrm #actually dunk was saying only yesterday that he'd like try and act in a fantasy/magic related series #and then he gave vampires as an example sooooo 👀 #also this happened RIGHT AFTER he was asked to give some spoilers upon which he told the audience to follow gmmtv 2024 #(though i think he was asked by the presenter what kind of series he'd like to do) #(she asked him a question before he talked about the fantasy series thing) #(but i couldn't really understand the question) #anyway i'm very 👀 #i suspect dunk def has a series planned for 2024. though i have no idea if it'll be with joong or something else #might even be a het thing who knows

[daddy-ul]

THAT WAS EXACTLY ONE OF THE TWO THINGS I CONSIDERED INTERESTING DNDJJDSJJD

Full quote:

#soph you. you get it. #the mighty het speaks #ask #it feels like he actually thought abt it right? and it feels like a good definition to me bc i too have the thing #'if i love someone i want to SHARE with them all the things' and i end up talking and talking #and im not talking exlusively abt romantic love mind you. dont care abt that. #you chose a fine era and a fine moment jdjdkdkdkd #im now thinking abt that backstage vid where there are a lot of ppl around and they are on the couch near each other talking (lars while #eating some kind of yoghurt and cereals or something?) #quiet moments #jh and lu #on another note AND I WILL SAY THIS AGAIN (like the clown i am): mrulrich is kind of a romantic?in some weird ways? he believes in romance? #sorry it's 2 am here and im just randomly putting down somewhat connected thoughts sjsjsksksk

[pandoratheprocrasticreator]

ever watch an animatic so many times that every time you see the characters in it in any other context you start singing the song under your breath

#shut up pandora #*sees raeda fanart* ON SOME LEVEL I THINK I ALWAYS UNDERSTOOD THAT THESE HANDS OF MINE ARE CLUMSY NOT CLEVER #*sees any het couple with a blond* IF I COULD TELL HER TELL HER EVERYTHING I SEE IF I COULD TELL HER HOW SHES EVERYTHING TO ME #this is the same for klapollo too actually #i saw a rly good animatic with that song and klapollo but also the 200492834094 mlb animatics with that song #and the 2 mlb animatics with that song thats actually good #*sees tsumugi shirogane* IM A VILLAIN *unintelligible korean mumbling* YOURE A VILLAIN IM KILLING SOMEONE BABY YOURE KILLING SOMEONE #every time i think about hunter toh or phillip wittebane i think of that animatic about religious trauma #where phillip does the cross gesture right after he kills his brother #*sees toh coven banners* DID YOU MAKE DISEEAAAAASSSSEEEE AND THE DIAMONDS BLUUUUUUEEEEEEE #*remembers that yttd exists* I CANT DECIDED WHETHER YOU SHOULD LIVE OR DIE #im not even into yttd anymore but that edit stayed with me all these years #every time i think about sdr2 i think about that lorde song #babygirl i have so many animatics saved that ive watched for several days collectively

[faebriel]

my most controversial star wars opinion is that i think lux bonteri is not a horrible concept per se but perhaps underutilised

#by underutilised i mean not pointed in the right direction. 2 episodes and 1 4-ep arc is enough for him i think #yes ik hes annoying but it is so fucking funny to me for ahsoka to have that one random friend who definitely went to a prep school #or something and also was literally a separatist until he decided hes going to go rogue now and make the worst choices ever #like either kill the will they wont they early OR cut it entirely and they can be so funny. we are in HOT SPACE what are you DOING HERE #you are going to DIE and the guys like yes thats the plan ^-^ you see ive fallen into business with a very powerful man ahsoka you might #have heard of him. goes by the name of /hondo/. and ahsoka does the biggest fucking sigh ever #cut the kiss cut the bullshit keep the funny. and ahsoka needs more friends her age anyway #anyway i think im just soft on him bc his entry into the show meant a fucking respite from Other Ships I Really Didn't Like In TCW FFNet #(femslash was there but not as big of a presence yet unfortunately) #i dont blame ppl who hate him bc a friend in need is his problematic arc but truly hand me a spanner i can fix him #lesbian and her momentary comp het bestie......she crashed on his couch at least once post order 66 #oh and UNFRIDGE STEELA she should have been head of onderon or something. so bullshit #as he is in canon he feels like wasted space for ahsokas character. theres no point in giving her any love interest while shes in the order #and barriss riyo and the s7 gals are all better choices anyway #and you cant pull the 'well some separatists are just normal' card after s3 bc he also wants to kill dooku like. at least be funny! #or try to set up whatever the hell ahsoka does between s7 and rebels! idk man

[not-poignant]

i seriously cant get enough of your writing. every update is like a gift from the gods. part of me wants to wait until underline the black is finished so i can binge read it and not go out of my mind waiting for each chapter. but i have a weak will and cant ever resist when it comes to your stories xD

are there any writers you feel that way about? or simply love their work so much you cant get enough? either on ao3 or not

Hi anon!

Over the years there have been writers I feel that way about! Though it's muted over time (often because most of my favourite AO3 writers / non AO3 writers I've ever had has stopped writing over time). The latest author I've really loved over the past few years on AO3 is dgalerab, but he stopped writing the way he used to a while back, and now I just you know, wait and hope and we'll see what happens (though a new fic did go up recently!). So right now I have no authors I'm really like...intense about, because...authors sometimes just stop writing for years, or they can drastically change the way they write due to just time and interest and so on.

So I would say right now there's no authors I really feel the way about. There's a lot of authors I love and support, who I have subscribed to on AO3, or who I look for new updates from on social media, but even some of my favourite m/m authors stopped writing m/m and started writing m/f instead (which I can't read), so...yeah I'm sort of in flux on that right now. Which is a shame, because it's a really nice feeling to sort of drop everything for an author, and immediately read what they've put out!

I know I'll find more authors like this, and then probably years later, something will change. Most authors do eventually stop writing, or change their work so much that like, it's always a fleeting feeling. There have been years where I've felt like that for 20 authors at the same time and it's been awesome, and then like this year where I don't really have it at all, and have watched a whole bunch of my favourite published authors (particularly in m/m) depart and go on to do other things due to the lack of success they found in m/m.

I've been reading a lot of manwha lately (South Korean long-form webcomics) and there's a few that I do drop everything for when a new chapter/episode comes out, like Dangerous Convenience Store, B-Class Guide, Love So Pure, XXX Buddy, Semantic Error (the manwha, not the novel/s), Mr 100% Perfect, Define the Relationship, Full Volume, and Love for Sale. But I'm not specifically following the authors, and in some cases, these are the first works by these authors so I don't know what they might do next etc. But yeah, I check daily for new chapters, and I usually immediately read them when they come out. It's different to what you asked being more story-focused than writer-focused, but it's still a really awesome feeling, and I reread these stories all the time up until what's out in English. :D

So I suppose I do have a similar feeling to how I used to, just...kinda different to being hooked on specific authors? It could always change though! The fact is I'm subscribed to like 300 authors on AO3 (where I'd read almost anything they write) and only about 3-4 of those authors update stories nowadays, to give you an idea of how many authors do just stop writing. All your faves will almost always eventually just...stop. (I would like to say I won't be like that, but I'm also a weird exception where I'm doing original writing on AO3 as a job, and most authors on AO3 aren't doing this). And when that happens 280~ times (I'm sure there's another 20~ authors that will update in a few months or a year), you just kind of have to wait until another one pops up klsdajfas

#asks and answers #inadvertent recs #personal #honestly over the pandemic #i've been way more interested in *writing* the stories i need as a form of comfort #than looking for them? #so i've become very insular too #even this year i have some novels waiting from my favourite m/m authors #but they're no long really my faves anymore #and i'm reading a lot more manwha instead #i think because....it's hitting the tropes i love more often #and because published m/m - the landscape is changing #idk every single one of my fave m/m authors has gone off to write like #gen or het or menage etc. as is their right because it's a very difficult publishing world out there #but it does mean i can no longer reliably enjoy everything they write #and i no longer drop everything to read what they publish #i would've said Roan Parrish years ago but nope #same with Sidney Bell #their early stuff i dropped everything for #their later stuff is more 'mmmMMMMM maybe' #administrator Gwyn wants this in the queue

[jlf23tumble]

Mannnn, I’m sure I’ve said a lot of stupid shit in my life, but I’m glad I’ve never said--and never WILL say--”free him” about a stupendously wealthy white man who is actively handling the shit on his own plate in a way I’ll never know (or frankly care) enough about to get my own knickers in that much of a twist over, yeah, feels good--feels great, even! 

#i'd say touch grass #but where else are so many people gonna get that dopamine hit off of aggressively hating women #in the most het way possible while pretending they're even remotely in a wlw space #makes u think #well--not really amirite #i could rant so much in tags about people who act like they KNOW some things....then get all angry when what they're seeing #proves what they allegedly KNOW? #like why so angry my dudes? #i have a hugely unpopular read on so many popular blogs lol #but that's why only my middle toe is dipped in the one direction fandom #you can fuck right off about it #(shitty blogs only--cool blogs: you know i love you #and you also know how few of you there are le sigh) #this is about harry totin' styles

[ladychlo]

x

#@asks #sorry guys I'll just answer in tags bc I woke up to so many asks for same subject and one ask generat another 😭 #so I get lost and bit overwhelmed #but #1) theatre anon #ofccc I agree with you on that matter #you are right....movies do depend on the director and the collectively of the cast to synch with it #the context of that anon and clip I think can't do him justice? yk? bc most people are talking from recent backlash so they're ready to get #at him #but that doesn't erase the possibility that not everybody gonna enjoy it or see his performance as good #but also as you said (flo vs harry on tiktok anon) the cast is huge in their acting career you can't compare them #I adore flo she is one of my favorites actors recently like her roles are iconic you deff cant compare that #I think this movie took so much promo time and waiting and we're at the end of it I can't wait for it to be out and see #but i genuinely dont think a 0:18 clip is enough for it all #[commercial break] #yes @books anon I asked some friends what they think about it since they've read it and look I might be tempted would I read it? idk maybe? #but I have to surpass the idea its a het fanfic or something anywaaay #also btw I dont answer asks that call someone with a name other than their actual name/ ageism etc sorry about that!

[muffediller]

Jeeeezzzzzz

I truly dont know who i am + i am sick of whatever it is. Not sure of my sexuality anymore on account of sleeping with a guy and my gender seems to be on the move following that and. I just really need something stable right now. Anything. I'm also quite anxious lately but I got an appointment with a psychologist tomorrow and probably going forward. I don't know how much I can say about gender identity or anything even though like the rise in general transphobia and discussions of it is probably part of the reason I'm so anxious.

Who made everything work like this. It's so hard. I want to forget who I am. I think it would help me. Clean slate.

#something like issues disorder alright #dont worry though i will never become cis nor het #i might be a little depressed not sure #im really lonely #i miss some sort of close companionship but fear getting that close to someone #line theyve probably got better things to do right? #not right but it feels like that #and people have the ability to care about more than one thing

[morningmask27]

My brain will try to come up with every little thing in the world to make me feel guilty for having a crush

#morningcries #I'm going to start losing my shit Hard if it doesn't stop #Yeah I've got a crush on another classmate. Yeah we're not friends at all (we're kinda close but as classmates) but I still have strong #Feelings. I don't even want a romantic relationship I want to be friends with her but my brain is a fucking bitch #And every little thought. Every little fantasy every little moment in my brain and I'm feeling guilty #Guilty of just liking het a while lot and wanting to know her better and spend time with her #I'll call down eventually but right now I'm fucking pissed about feelings #And all that while I need to translate some fucking Latin #Give me a break

[many-gay-magpies]

while im already on the train of teen wolf thoughts, i might as well say that i do not get sterek. romantically anyway. that ship is so intensely POPULAR and ive been seeing stuff about it for literal years, way before i ever even considered watching teen wolf or really knew what it was. pretty much every teen wolf fic i see on ao3 has some manner of sterek in it unless i SPECIFICALLY search for something else, like its just a given part of fanon, but now that im actually watching it im kinda like. where? like yeah they had that one vaguely homoerotic wall-pinning moment in season 1, they snark at each other a lot, but like. i don't even see them together that often. and that's not even MENTIONING the fact that in season 1 stiles is 15/16 and derek is fucking,, 22 (or 20, I'm not sure on his age but ik its at least a four-year difference),,, which is just. yeah no thanks

if anything they strike me more as, like, goofy, vaguely sibling-coded friends. stiles came along as a package deal with scott and started annoying the shit out of derek and derek had no say in the matter whatsoever, and i think that's beautiful.

all this being said, stiles is absolutely bisexual

#out of all the ships ive seen for teen wolf the one i can get behind the most is scott and isaac #like. that's some MAJOR devotion bro. isaac brings scott up like every other sentence (not literally but ykwim) its cute #the whole allison love triangle is mucking that up a bit and honestly just. what even is the point of that #but WITHOUT THAT. <3 #and they dont even have a disturbing age gap!!! #(yeah it has not escaped my notice that teen wolf has some. issues. with minor/adult relationships and inappropriate age gaps) #(theres the whole thing with lydia and that deputy whose apparently like 24 or some shit that i havent even gotten to yet. not looking #-forward to that) #other random tw ship opinions: #scott and allison are actually cute! i was pleasantly surprised in season one when i actually LIKED the main het ship lmao #stiles and lydia (or what exists of them so far anyway) are also cute #i still think it would have been cute/nice/whatever if jackson had repressed feelings for danny (which i know is not an impossibility since #-he DOES apparently come back with a bf later on) #but like i dont know how much i actually see that or if i just like it in theory . really i appreciate their friendship as a friendship in #-its own right #on that note. danny and ethan: SWEET. get it danny. love the trope of 'i originally had an alterior motive for getting with you but i #-caught feelings and really care about you now oops' #speaking generally though the romance (whether canonical or otherwise) is definitely NOT what attracts me to and keeps me hooked on teen #-wolf. not by far #but i like having opinions about it anyway uwu #magpie thoughts