#It’s hurting people live your dreams

[purplehanfu]

I've been watching My Journey to You for all of 20 minutes and I’m calling it right now, Eldest Young Miss is going to be my favorite character. This would basically be me if my family ran a secretive martial arts sect- very involved in the business! 😍🙃🤤

don’t get dressed on my account!

er, I mean use protection

you boys are gonna need a lot of practice- I can feel it. Come here and let me feel it.

#my journey to you #it hurts to see other people living your dreams

[napping-sapphic]

Insane how you can’t just get online and post about how bad you want to fall in love to make it happen and end up in a perfect relationship within two days

#wlw #wlw mood #sapphic #sapphism #lesbian #what do you mean i can’t speed run a committed healthy relationship just by making a lesbian blog on tumbler dot com #also if this DID somehow happen to you pls be respectful of us single people just trying our best😔 #it hurts to see someone else living your dream😔 #im gay and i like sleeping

[sillypiratelife]

When Sanji sacrifices himself he's aware of what he's doing. He knows exactly what is at stake and how much he's given and why his act is bad to others or himself, why it must be done either way. From what I see, it's a reflection of his self-esteem and his desire to put others first, it's guilt and it's self-punishment and he knows, okay?

When Zoro sacrifices himself he's insane, batshit crazy. He doesn't want to die per se, he doesn't hate himself and doesn't do it out of punishment. His dreams are bigger than his life, they are more valuable, so he's never afraid to put his life at risk when it comes to fulfilling what he thinks his duty is. You could say it's his honor or his code of life— Zoro can survive the deadliest wounds, the worst circumstances, 'cause he doesn't seek death, it's just that he won't avoid it either.

I love that contrast and how clear it is during the encounter of Zoro and Mihawk in Baratie.

#they both live to carry other people's dreams that are also their own #Zeff's dream of finding the All Blue and Kuina's dream of becoming the best swordwoman ever #They both fight with the techniques snd experience that were passed down to them by Zeff and Kuina #The difference is that Zeff cutting his leg and giving all the food to Sanji made Sanji feel eternally guilty and unworthy #he thinks he has to sacrifice himself for others so much #Zeff hates seeing how he drags himself down when other hadn't even asked that of him #Meanwhile Kuina's death drove Zoro to go all out never fearing his death #He could die trivially in some accident like Kuina did but the difference is that Kuina died reaching for her sword #Call it whatever you want but Zoro learned from her to don't let desth stop you it can catch you whenever anyway #Fear of death can be the thing that stops you from reaching your dreams so you need to teach yourself how to live plenty #Zoro's opinion on sacrifice is closer to Luffy's #The insanity of those two #It really hurts to see Sanji around them because of that #He's position is closer to Nami's in that sense #She who sacrificed everything for her village and her people #shan blogs about one piece! #one piece anime #roronoa zoro #black leg sanji

[brionbroadway]

another opportunity for brennan to play survivor inside

#game changer #brennan lee mulligan #dropout tv #survivor #sam reich #katie marovitch #carolyn page #it hurts to see other people live out your dreams

[romansmartini]

only one thing i want for christmas: old man to fuck

#hurts to see other people (clara oswald) living your dream :/

[birchbow]

Might’ve missed this in my first read through, but I remembered gamzee’s narration mentioning that goatdad died some time before gamzee was conscripted, but do we know what happened to crabdad? Sorry if you’ve answered this question before!

I've been working on the assumption that if your lusus is still around by conscription time, you're expected to leave them on-planet unless they're like, very small and docile OR useful as some kind of war-mount/weapon. Tavros could get away with bringing a tiny little fairybull with him if he wanted, and I could imagine Nepeta and Equius even managing to bring Pounce and Arthour with them, but cramped quarters and dangerous, austere lifestyles would make it pretty hard to keep your lusus with you and alive.

Essentially I don't know if Crabdad is dead, but even if he's not he's presumably running wild and/or creeping back to the caverns to see if he can find another little mutant grub to take care of.

#ask time! #sorry it's sad! #Sometimes I have dreams where some kind of hard time is coming and half of the people I know decide to leave on emergency spaceships #and half of them stay behind #and even in dreams the hurt of leaving somebody behind knowing that even if they live you'll never see them ever again is. powerful #ANYWAY if your lusus is like. roommate sized or smaller and docile you can maybe swing it but if they're bigger they would've gotten left

[bunnihearted]

🐰🌧️

#so on my way home.. #i walked by a school and besides the fact that i felt so depressed bc just looking at these kids and adults i have NO hope for the future #i saw two boys on a bench as i walked by... and i just thought they were talking. and too late i realized that no one of the boys were #bullying the other boy. the bully walked away and the other boy just sat there looking so lifeless and dejected #a teacher came and sat down w that boy and i just kept walking. even if i wanted to say smth it's like what would i even do abt that situati #that made me so sad both bc that boy.. he looked so dejected and used to it. that anxiety going to school knowing you're bullied is awful #and like i imagined talking to him and saying heyyy if you're lucky you'll grow up to be 25yrs old #live like a parasite off your mom and be on wellfare and never have had a job :) #you'll have no education or highschool diploma :) you will still struggle to finish hs even at an easier level :) #you will also not have had friends in 10yrs and you'll be terrified of ppl and getting close to anyone and even going outside!! #you'll have no interests and hobbies and skills! you'll simply be a waste of space loser being a burden on everyone around u! #whoop whoop stay alive buddy it will only get worse ❤️ #god i just wanna cry. how did i let my life turn out this way??? i used to be full of dreams and life and passion and HOPE #i used to believe in things and in people. i had so many dreams and i wanted to try and do so many things #now all i can think is 'i wanna die i wanna die i wanna die'. im miserable wherever i go lmao #there's this bridge over the highway i have to cross when i walk to school and every time i look down at the trafic and when a truck drives #by i feel my entire body vibrate. i just wanna jump and get mauled by it. #or i dont *want* to but i feel so deeply and desperately that it's the only way for me #only way to make it stop hurting. and i am weak. i dont know how to just 'stop' or take control of my life. thats why i wanna die #bc i know that i wont be able to. that my life will never amount to anything #for fuck's sake my dream now is just to have my own 1bedroom apartment and have a shitty job - like in a grocery store or whatever!!!!! #not even that can i make happen! bc im so worthless i cant do anything. im also stupid so i wouldnt be able to do my job right #i dont know... i dont know... these feelings and thoughts are too much i just wanna relax #but i cant bc my ribs hurt and idk if it's heartburn or an ulcer 💀 why am i even alive???? what am i doing all this for? 😭 #my thoughts ran away but i meant like seeing that reminded me of how much of a failure i became #bc of my circumstances and all the shitty ppl around me thru out my life

[kiseiakhun]

Every ship that's like "histrionic character who can't love themselves constantly pushes away the one person who always steadfastly loves them and then begs for affirmations of love from the person they keep pushing away and constantly denies their feelings and refuses to believe anyone could ever truly love them and despite all that their partner keeps loving them anyway and helps them get better and lets their partner belittle and attack them and deny their genuine feelings and never utters one word of complaint and only has positive things to say and endless patience even when their partner is acting like a demonic monkey from hell 🥺" is literally like the trope version of nails on a chalkboard to me. If I told someone I love them and their immediate response is to be like "that can't be true, you're lying," I would just be like you're right. I am. Bye.

#the patient all loving partner is like a mannequin #they never have needs they live for their partner who has every problem under the sun they never complain about anything they will always #come back to their partner no matter how much their partner hurts them #UGH #i get that it's the wish fulfilment of having someone who will love you through your lowest moments but it's awful. to me. #hate hate hate hate hate #and people always project on the one having mental breakdowns. meanwhile me projecting on the one who apparently has no personality #whatsoever and no life outside of their partner and no dreams or ambitions of their own and is just there to be a sexy lamp: ok. #:| #t #I'm not actually cheesed i just saw someone gushing over This Specific Trope and I'm like wow. #we have fundamentally different tastes in media.

[seventeendeer]

adventure time, baby, I'm going to keep it real with you: you had the perfect meta setup (a spinoff of a children's cartoon made for adults who grew up with said cartoon) for a story about two characters desperate to return to simpler times (fionna longing for the subconscious memory of a fantasy land where nothing is complex and she won't have to face the trials of young adulthood in her now-mundane world, simon longing to lose his mind again so he won't have to remember his grief) coming to realize that the "simpler times" they remember were never as straightforward as their idealized memories (fionna realizing that her black-and-white worldview was actually just deeply biased and ultimately harmful, simon realizing that ice king was just as miserable as simon himself and simply lacked the tools to parse his own emotions), the idealized past they want to return to was never real, and in order to move forward, they have to face the painful realities they've been trying to avoid, mature as people, and learn to see beauty and value in their own respective lives, even if they're not the lives they'd hoped for

and then that didn't happen. there was a perfect metaphor for the false allure of nostalgia using THE "whimsical at first glance/shockingly grim under the surface" children's cartoon RIGHT THERE. How Did You Fuck That Up

#deerchatter #adventure time spoilers #i liked this series a lot but i was SO hoping the plot was a setup for a message along the lines of like #hey we know growing up is hard and you may well be tuning back into adventure time to escape the horrors of now being an adult #but this show was never the digestible silly good time you remember and neither was your childhood #don't you remember the pain? you were sad back then too except it was worse because you had no emotional tools to help yourself through it #did things seem simpler? they weren't. you hurt people and made poor choices without realizing it. you were young and didn't know any better #but you know better now. you have a responsibility to grow and learn and make better choices. this is a GOOD thing. #like do you see my vision!!!! the meta layers!!!! the potential for a painful but necessary message about choosing to grow+change+LIVE #taking a kind-but-critical eye to our childhood dreams and learning from them and applying nuance and learning to value complexity #fionna stagnating emotionally in early adulthood because of fear of the future+simon stagnating in his twilight years due to regret #aghhh i wish they'd gone for this SO BADLY it would have been the show of ALL TIME OHH #i did still like the ending a lot but. i was soooo hoping for this

[daydadahlias]

Luke showing his privilege

#do you know how many people would pay to wear that wet hoodie #UGH!! #hurts to see other people living your dream /j #so question #does this mean he meant wear Ashton’s hoodie #just dry ?

[jakeperalta]

people I went to school/uni with already owning houses should be illegal actually

#same goes for uni people still getting to live in my uni city #hurts to see other people living your dream and i am BITTER #talking

[saltandskeletrons]

Pete wentz Patrick stump Joe trohman Andy Hurley count your fucking days

#for legal reasons this is a joke #it really hurts to see other people live your dream #fob

[bluebellhairpin]

She's planning to go to university :) and study art history :)) with museum curation :)))

#it hurts to see other people living your literal dream #especially when they live in the same house as you #and are you younger sister #i get to be stuck at home forever. unable to get a job. taking care of our grandparents and parents. and never have graduated high school. #im never going to get to do what shes doing #literally never #might as well just settle into the fact im doomed to lead a lifeless life of serving others amd never getting to do what i want #couldnt finish school #cant get a job #will never move out of home #no romantic prospects #will never have enough saved to travel anywhere that requires a passport #why am i even living #why am i here #something in the universe just come and kill me now bc heaven knows ill never be strong enough to do it myself #and HURRY UP ABOUT IT #im so sick of this life

[bitchfitch]

Somedays you can't sleep and just have to have a crisis for a bit. Anyways I'm once again seriously considering quitting doing art as my day job and becoming an accountant.

#why accounting? #work from home. nobody gives a shit if youre a stuffy shut in. im good with numbers and details #Stability that you just dont get with an art career. #actual pay checks. like Actual pay checks and a salary that isnt based on hiw quickly you can destroy your ability to create #more brainspace for my own projects #like #at this point im just waiting until im 24 so i can qualify for a local colleges financial aid. #15k for a field with an average of 70k a year isnt like. bad. #its not Great. but like. #idk man. #im burning out and just want to have a job that doesn't hurt. #I want to be able to fix things when they break without having to panic and call my parents for loans. #I know im living a lot of people's dreams and i should be greatful for it. but like. its killing me. #Im not as sick as I was back when I first started having to look at colleges. I'm getting the adhd treated. #I just want to worry less. #and being an accountant seems like a way to do that

[officialjimmybuffett]

if i start a gofundme so i can eat at every margaritaville in the us and canada like those guys on youtube would anyone send me money

#i’ll do it faster than them too #user officialjimmybuffet commits to the ultimate bit #it hurts to see other people living your dream. god i’ve seen what you’ve done for others

[lecliss]

Started using hoyolab for the rewards you can get in hsr but my god it's baffling how people act on there. It's like I entered another dimension or something. People have to add disclaimers explaining what headcanons are and that they're not a threat and people are legit freaked out and disturbed by headcanoning sexualites like that's a disgusting invasive inappropriate foreign concept they've never heard of and I just saw someone get horribly bullied for editing official art of genshin characters so they would be black. Like. These people would not survive five seconds on Tumblr. It's like anti-Tumblr over there.

#the disturbed responses to sexuality headcanons was the most baffling cuz i was immediately like. this is not my home. i dont belong here. #you all are another species and i am very threatened in this environment #genuinely just another fucking planet man. you people live like this???? i would die not living like this #truly just built different man. my god. you dont know what your bubble is really like until you leave it and see the other bubbles. #tumblr: we all agree this character is gay with no proof #hoyolab: imagine if that was a real person and how inappropriate that would be to say about a stranger you know nothing about and- #i cant. i cant. i cant. this is evil. youre evil. this isnt real. people arent really like that. no one would ever really be like. RIGHT?? #ITS JUST A BAD DREAM. THEY ARENT REAL. THEY CANT HURT ME #i swear everyone on there has to be 16yos who think being in fandom means reposting stolen memes #and not doing everything they think is disturbing and inappropriate #personal