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im reading omegaverse for the women who dominate and men who are pregnant; what is happening to the world. this is cultural appropriation 😔👊

i keep seeing ads on tiktok for this crappy new omegaverse show and it's genuinely bothering me. like. why did the cishets get their hands on this??? 'big strong alpha male love soft submissive omega girl' NAHH NAH GET BACK, BACK I SAY

#omegaverse

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i keep seeing ads on tiktok for this crappy new omegaverse show and it's genuinely bothering me. like. why did the cishets get their hands on this??? 'big strong alpha male love soft submissive omega girl' NAHH NAH GET BACK, BACK I SAY

#omegaverse #fanfiction

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ill keep writing about surviving because i don't know what else there is

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it’s a new week!!! let’s do this!!!!! (cries uncontrollably)

#sysiphus

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i am a loser in ways you can’t even wrap your head around

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He is fighting a war. Just got his arms back. Has been fighting for his life so intensely that even we as the audience are unaware of the passage of time. And still has time to fanboy.

#that's my boy #he's so adorable *sobs* #mha #midoriya izuku #mha manga

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not giving up is the bravest thing you can do in this life.

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hey man I found a piece of your soul stuck in the text messages of old friends you don’t speak to anymore. do you want it back

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The act of loving charges my ability to love, so no it’s never a waste, and yes my love will always come back to me

#love #quotes

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marry them first 🙏 

The aroace fear that all your friends and your best friend will eventually leave you, because they get married.

#aroace #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #aromanticism

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I am fucking sick and tired of seeing porn listed under ace tags. Just. Fucking. Stop.

#no its actually infuriating #i know that its bots and were not being targeted #but its terrible #Asexual #asexuality #ace #acespec

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ofa trio

#mha #midoriya izuku #bakugou katsuki #yagi toshinori #fanart

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#quotes

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Well i Love you if that helps

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Even after all this time and awareness, it feels like asexuality is still not treated like a proper sexuality. Recently had a girl tell me that she was at a place where she ‘felt so asexual’ because all the other girls were so beautiful and guys were ignoring her because of it. She didn’t know I was asexual and I didn’t take offence (I know she didn't meant it in a malicious way) but it does feel uncomfortable that people are using ‘asexual’ in lieu of ‘unattractive' or 'lacking sexual appeal.' It's really giving 90's/early 2000's slang of using 'gay' to mean 'lame.' Even shows like Brooklyn 99 which took immense pride in being progressive with their comedy, had an episode where one of the characters says "Oh, and I'm sorry if we implied you're both asexual nerds who can only be friends with service animals."

I have mentioned this before also, when I talked about how I feel like people are more comfortable erasing the identities of canonical aro/ace characters in media but act like it's unacceptable with other sexualities... but it does feel like asexuality (and aromanticism tbh) are still not considered 'real' sexualities. In the case of shipping fictional characters, I understand there is nuance to that issue and so don't want to get into it, but it does kinda add to my point.

Why is it that people treat asexuality like it's not a sexuality? Why is it that when I come out to people I'm met with insistence that I'm wrong about my sexuality, that I'm 'self diagnosing' (it's not a medical condition), that I'm probably 'just inexperienced' or haven't 'met the right person' or have a hormone issue? Why can't people just accept that it's a sexuality like any other??

#asexuality #asexual #ace #this #aroace

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Shirley Jackson, We Have Always Lived in the Castle Vincent van Gogh, Garden at Arles (1888)

#quotes