#y'all are fucking awful for this shit

[heehoothefool]

"Are cishet ace/aro men queer" holy fuck you people are just awful huh. Really just showing that we haven't moved past the Basically Straight ideology.

As a cisgender, heteroromantic ace individual myself, allow me to tell you a little bit about myself.

I spent most of my life wondering what was wrong with me. I knew very quickly that many of the people who confessed their love for me would not want me the moment they found out I was averse to sex. I would daydream of various men I'd had crushes on over the years spending time with me in ways I was comfortable, but rarely did I confess my feelings because a simple saying rang in my ears.

"You'll never find a man who will love you without sex."

And the people in my Instagram DMs who would call me baby and then ghost me after they figured out the flag in my profile picture spoke volumes to that. I was only desirable because I was physically attractive. No one wanted to love my personality, not if they couldn't also fuck me. It just wasn't an option.

I have been ostracized. I have been told I don't belong. The straight community does not want me because I do not actively desire sex. The very people you're trying to lump me in with because I'm "basically straight" will not claim me because I am not like them.

I am The Other. I am Less Than. I am Strange. I am Queer.

A person born male, who identifies as a man, and is attracted to women exclusively but only in one way (romantic) or the other (sexual) is queer.

That is a man who either does not desire sex, and is therefore Not Really A Man by society's gender standards and expectations, or does not desire a romantic relationship/wife/girlfriend and is called a manwhore dirtbag who sleeps around or is asked eternally by family and maybe partners who don't get it When He's Going To Get Married.

To be straight requires you to identify with your gender assigned at birth, to feel romantic attraction to the opposite gender exclusively, to feel sexual attraction to the opposite gender exclusively, and to only desire monogamy in that relationship.

A man, born a man, who is not romantically attracted women, but sexually attracted to them, is not straight.

A man, born a man, who is romantically attracted to women, but not sexually attracted to women, is not straight.

There is no debate. Yes, even the Demisexuals and Demiromantics. Yes, even the ones who are capable of feeling these things only under the right conditions.

They're all queer. Every single one. Because they deviate from the idea that Every Man Wants To Fuck A Woman And Be A Loving Husband By Default.

If you disagree with any part of this post get the fuck off my blog. If you try to start shit in the notes or in my asks you're getting blocked.

We're here. We're queer. Fucking deal with it.

#slime speaks #asexual #aromantic #aspec #y'all are fucking awful for this shit #aces and aros of all sorts are welcome here

[dennisboobs]

some of you should not speak on dennis until you've rewatched sunny in full instead of just the macden-centric eps.

#literally not even a matter of like. different interpretations it's just some of y'all forget literal canon events that disprove shit #i get schooled by people abt den too i have my weaknesses w writing him #but like oh my god #some of y'all would be better off if you looked at him outside of a macden context #he's not evil incarnate #he's fucked up and he does awful shit #but that is a little boy wearing an adult face #to just make him evil for no reason completely removes any interesting bits of him. #one of the keys to sunny's writing is that #rcg always makes sure that motivation is understandable *in that character's eyes* #dennis has a very specific purpose for everything he does #he isn't just cruel for no fucking reason #he's 'brutally honest' because he thinks its his duty to break the news #he's absolutely entitled and arrogant and misogynistic #but he doesn't set out to be Mean just for the sake of it #den thinks he is doing good. he thinks he's in the right. its not him it's everyone else. #he's doing you a favour by saying you're ugly (and propping up his own decimated self esteem) #that being said he's also not innocent pookie either #but i would say its like. in a lot of ways he IS oblivious to the reality of what hes saying/doing #part of that is his privilege as a white man who grew up being supported by and continues to be supported by his parent's wealth #but the gang enables the shit he does just as frank financially enables him #they are so insular it's like impossible to break out of the gang and interact with normal people #because if they don't get it then dennis is going straight back to the gang to feel validated and to hell w everyone else #on some level he knows shit is unacceptable but he's never learned Why and never will because theres no reason to #like when mac is completely fucking shocked by den talking abt the implication dennis CANNOT let that go unchecked #he needs mac to understand him because he's realizing that it's *actually* fucked up. bc even mac thinks so. #and when dee calls what happened with klinsky Rape everything IMMEDIATELY crumbles for him #dennis is introspective but he will justify shit and compartmentalize until his friends challenge it #he looks to media; tv and movies where the protagonist gets away with shit because its schlock fiction #and dennis DOES see himself as a protagonist. it's all justifiable bc he's the good guy.

[cessmaga]

I never hated fans before but oh my god dc fans really love to kick hal and barry into the ground and treating them like irrelevant pieces of shits that don't deserve to be a dc characters

they already suffered enough since dc loves also to treat them like shit and their failed movies don't help anything at all

man being a dc fan sucks and I hate the dc fandom this is probably the most fandom that I don't enjoy on

hal and barry fucking deserves better dc and their fans don't deserve such a good characters

#flash fans loves wants to be barry as irrelevant as possible #the more I see wally fans act like this I more I stay away wally as possible #like we get it you love the dcau #also if think that one p*do shit is canon did you know the author is also a p*do #if you still reference that you are fucking awful I'm not gonna sugar coat it I hope you bang your head of how insensitive you are #I hate people #i hate people so fucking much #and y'all still mad people being misanthrope like it's y'all fault #hal jordan #barry allen #halbarry #also fuck you dc they are gay #im tired #and im angry #I really hate everyone #i'm so fucking tired

[dollypopup]

I think it's real obvious that if you actually like Colin you don't belong in the Polin fandom. y'all are all so ableist about him and think the absolute worst of him and a huge number of the posts and fics are romanticizing Penelope straight up abusing him

we should make a new tag because this one is NOT it

#polin #bridgerton #penelope featherington #colin bridgerton #there's a fun new trend in fics where instead of 'just' emotionally and mentally abusing him Penelope is now hitting him too #and the narrative justifies it and colin thinks it's his fault she hits him and everyone cheers in the comments isn't that great? #oh did i say great? i meant fucking awful #you can tell this fandom is painfully tradwife levels straight because they think women who do this shit is cute or harmless #us queer women who have been abused by other women know damn well fanon penelope is the kind of girl you run away from with a swiftness #but colin's just a big stupid dummy for 1 (one) comment and not assuming her feelings for him so he needs to be slapped around i guess #i hate it here #burn the whole fandom to the ground and start from scratch #and we're SURPRISED there's an anti-polin blog? WE'RE anti-polin ffs #everyone and their mother knows 'Polin' actively hates half their ship #and are incredibly hostile to anyone who doesn't slobber all over penelope's shoes as she mistreats her supposed love interest and friends #and yeah i'm bitter about it #also i'll say it: the way we talk about Luke Newton is fucking unacceptable too #he's a neurodivergent man and some of the shit y'all say is DISGUSTING #this fandom is actively antagonistic to nd peeps

[monocytogenes]

For What It's Worth - read on ao3

As he and the former Minister of Intelligence set his affairs in order, Cipher Nine reflects on his career.

Excerpt:

The horror he’d endured in the wake of that accomplishment, the unapologetic abuse that had led him to walk open-eyed into a bureaucratic death—it had all been one long, agonizing descent from there, but in that brief, shining moment on the Dominator, his determination, his skill, his presence had meant something. Maybe that was all any of them could hope for: a fleeting instant of potency. To stand at that precipice and affect some semblance of justice. He looked up. “I have a question.”

#pravin and the minister fuck me right up y'all #the weird paternal power relationship. the enduring hurt. the way pravin bleeds and the minister refuses to apologize #because he's done so many awful things and the only way he can live with it is by bottling that shit right up #and pravin resents him for it but they've also been through a bureaucratic nightmare together with aligned priorities #so there's nevertheless this understanding. 'i hate you government!dad but i hope we both survive this despite it all' #ahhhhh #imperial agent #cipher nine #swtor keeper #minister of intelligence #swtor #swtor fic #swtor fanfiction #star wars the old republic #writing

[ssaalexblake]

I'm really sick of Thasmin being held to a higher standard than other doctor and companion ships. It's like people like to conveniently forget every other era in this show and make out like most of this is isolated to Thasmin, when in reality Thasmin is actually imo the Most Verbally Explicit doctor x companion ship in all of nu!who, Including the one where the doctor was actually married to the other person.

Like, hate it, whatever, but don't try and act like the other ships of this ilk were masterfully designed love stories where everybody is on the same page and the doctor is honest and open about their feelings, because that's blatantly false. 13 is nigh on unique for her honesty in lotsd.

#dw shit #dw spoilers #most of the time its up in the air if the doctor even Likes river #the kisses were all fucking awful and i remain #forever thankful than chibnall doesn't find #grabbing somebody out of the blue and forcing yourself on them Funny. #which is what almost All of those other kisses y'all are talking about are. laughs. jokes. bad jokes. #and i am actually kind of pissed at the people mad bc the gay ship should he treated as well #would trade the emotional resonance and love And symbolic marriage for an awful gag kiss #you dont ship it. you want to watch them make out. those are not the same.

[godnectar]

The account of death threats he gets I doubt he cares if ppl claim to own him

#nectar's rambling #♡ anon #anon message #i've seen the threats #fucked up fr #the messages and whoever who sends that shit to anyone #disgusting #disrespectful #disturbing #and whatever dis‐ word y'all want #and I have no idea #but even if he's a masochist or not #which I repeat I have no idea about #it's still awful asf #so nah #we ain't going to mess around w owning and simping bs here #or at least not this much #and so randomly #bc dude probably has his limit somewhere too #alright? #mwah to everyone

[watery-melon-baller]

there is something so funny about me pulling up to tumblr after vanishing for a few weeks, losing my shit over spiderverse, only to log in and find every single one of my mutuals losing their shit over nimona instead

#I DONE FUCKED UP MAN #ok listen I like nimona!!! But. #Brain already latched onto spiderverse #dude I plotted out a whole au last night I'm in too deep #it's so funny like. aw shit wrong door #smthn smthn the two sides of the animation community rn be like #ive literally been having so many thoughts and just telling them to one person (Aru) because we watched the movie together #im sorry Aru i love you <3 #im not a big fan of superhero movies usually but the animation is SO good. the exception to the rule. #the art. the plot. the everything #im suffering #i have a whole fucking comic idea. maybe I'll even draw it #im confessing my sins just because if I start posting shit I want to at least give y'all a warning #lilac post

[simptasia]

i’m all for people having their diff headcanons for characters but some people have such a visceral disgust for the concept of spock being attracted to women and it makes my bi nose wrinkle

#...not just a concept either. there are three main spocks and they've all expressed attraction to women #does that mean i'm against ppl hc-ing him as gay? fuck no. have fun! #but holy shit some of you guys are MEAN about it #plus i've been thru plenty of people being awful to ppl who ship him with women #(the way ppl used to treat spock/uhura shippers is deplorable. legit fucking bullying) #so it extra rubs me the wrong way because of that #anyways yeah i see spock as a bi. i think it suits his character in terms of themes too #im not gonna Force people to see things my way. i just don't like seeing people be dicks to each other for no reason #also haven't we as a fandom evolved past the ''ewww het is gross!'' phase yet. some of y'all taking me back to 2007 i swear

[bubmyg]

the way the maknae line will never be free from any of you fucking freaks is so maddening like they either have fetishists insisting every breath in each other’s direction means they fucked or you have so called “normal” fans calling these real life interactions between two best friends of ten+ years desperate grabs for attention like i need all of you to swallow rusty nails im dead serious. these are real people @ shippers!!!!!! who are best friends @ solos/”hypercritical” cunts!!!!!!!!!!!! SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#me: awe jimin hugs people so sweetly #you fucking brain dead pieces of shit: there bh goes trying to milk attention again #i've had enough y'all are irritating me so bad #grow a backbone and unfollow some of ur mutuals btw!!!!!

[givemeafish]

OkAY forget Claude's villain arc after seeing what they did to Edelgard in AG I'm about to enter my own

Warning: Massive spoilers for the end of this route in my rant towards the bottom of the tags, don't expand if you're at all opposed to seeing that

#edelgard von hresvelg #fe three hopes #azure gleam #fire emblem #three hopes spoilers #I mean there's no spoilers in the post but #I am abt to say it all here so I figured I may as well? #Edelgard #fire emblem edelgard #Honey what did they DO to you #Seriously I'm all for her being the antagonist or even for IS writing a nightmare scenarios for her but #This is another level #I'm not even sure whether to be more mad at the writing decisions here or just how awful this is to her character #Y'all really fucking had to lobotomize her? You couldn't think of Anything else to do with her?? #They really just had her abusers brainwash her and destroy her mental state and everything she's spent her life working for #And then as a character we don't get to see her do anything else? She doesn't even get to react or express her feelings abt what happened? #Actually we never even find out if she fully recovered #And also Dimitri just fucking leaves her there to go back to the rest of his friends after all of that? Cool #Dude knows what happened he just apparently doesn't give a shit #He couldn't even check if she was okay? Maybe help her up? Walk out together? Fuckin nope #Just walks off while she sits there on the floor confused and vulnerable #Yeah fuck this writing decision #I'm not even sure I'm gonna be able to stomach playing the full route bc this is some shit #I am going to be spam reblogging her all day to feel okay with this #In the meantime I guess everyone can look forward to the inevitable fix it fic I probably will write on the topic #Bc I like angst just fine I just hate THIS like if it was any less cruel I'd be intrigued but now it's just upsetting #Like the sheer disrespect I wouldn't inflict this on literally anyone #Let's all hope Scarlet Blaze is incredible if it's gonna make up for all this #Alright I'm going back to sleep now thanks for coming to my ted talk

[derogatoryapparently]

People. Say it with me, "Jensen is not Soldier Boy. Soldier Boy is a fictional character on a TV show. Jensen is NOTHING like Soldier Boy."

Now, take a deep breath in. Hold for a count of 10 and exhale. Then, go outside and touch some grass.

He's not a terrible person for playing a character on TV. You can choose to not watch the show. However, if you do watch the show, don't get mad at Jensen for playing a fictional character on a TV show known for being wildly inappropriate.

He can't play Dean Winchester forever.

#soldier boy #the boys season three #supernatural #spn #dean winchester #get with the program #it's a tv show #not real life #we all know soldier boy is an awful shit #jensen ackles #jensen ackles is not #get in touch with reality folks #they use dildos to kill people in the show #for fucks sake #y'all really trippin on some dumb shit

[hamartia-grander]

I cannot believe I'm still having to fucking say this to y'all but adopted kids are just as legitimate members of the family as biological kids. Adopted siblings are just as legitimate siblings as blood related ones. Adopted family members are just as legitimate as blood related ones. This is not, and never will be, up for debate.

#Shipping adopted siblings is always just as fucking disgusting as shipping blood related siblings #And you dipshits saying 'but they're not blood related' are literally so awful and I hope you stub your toes #Way to try to invalidate every adopted kid ever #Get your head out of your ass. #Literally so fucking gross when I see this shit #And EVERY time their excuse 'thEy'rE nOt bLood reLateD' literally shut the FUCK up that does not matter in the slightest #You're going to look at me and say it's okay for you to ship them because you actually think their sibling status is invalid #Because one or both of them is adopted #Fuck the fuck off right now #This isn't even just about shipping this is just general attitudes towards adopted kids as a whole #Marvel #Resident Evil #I refuse to tag the ships because they're so fucking gross but I hope to go these idiots see this #I'm going to go ahead and tag #Dbh #As well. Because Hank is canonically meant to be Connor's father figure and y'all are disgusting for shipping them #Assassin's Creed Valhalla #Assassin's Creed Odyssey #Star Wars #Resident evil village #I'm hoping not to encounter any of these fools interacting w me but if I do I will not hesitate to smite them

[realasslesbian]

It was pretty funny when, during those frequent times in recent history where there's been a whole-ass mutiny in the Australian upper parliament and we get a new prime minister every other week, and I make the observation that if this happened in the US, or really any other country, there'd mass outrage and headlines about a failing government and whatever, and the reason it gets no attention when it happens here is because there's literally no difference between the political parties anyway, it makes no practical difference who is in government here, they just fighting over who gets the top job million dollar salary (the highest salary of any PM in the world btw), and every time I make this observation some neckbeard will be all 'wELL thE US ISn't tHE SAmE AS AUstraLIa' and I'll just be like, yes, actually, that's my point, the US has a robust legal and parliamentary system, and journalists with freedom of speech who know how to use it, and Australia does not have these things:)

#like #y'all think Donald Trump was some concerning ass shit? #hahahahah #AHHAHHHA #Donald Trump couldn't hold a candle to Australia's least corrupt politician #he should come over here if he wants to rule with impunity #we'll make it easy for him #like he would unironically get elected with ease here #and then maybe the rest of the world would pay attention #and be like 'yea Trump is bad but holy shit have you seen the rest of these Australian politicians fuck me dead' #meanwhile the ABC would be publishing stories about how absolutely awful Trump saying racist things is #please remain outraged by that and don't look over here at our 'left-wing' prime minister breaching the human rights of asylum seekers #handing out tax-cuts to the rich #and literally stealing money from the poor via robodebt while saying 'no I'm not uwu' #auspol #australia #authoritarian state #robodebt

[bastardsofravenkroft-blog]

for fucks sake why are we doing this again

#y'all really don't know what human beings are huh #this shit is disgusting #frank iero #ls dunes #l.s. dunes #leave! people! the! fuck! alone! nasty! asses! #poison speaks #and is in awe of yalls audacity. once again

[hoediaz]

hey. hey genuinely. genuinely from my very bottom of my heart if you think in your tiny little brain that calling arielle ugly bc she’s “old” to justify your fucked up hate for a fictional character she is being paid to play on a television show is a normal or cool thing to do i hope you have an awful fucking day for real. 

#y'all will really go blue in the face explaining why you aren't misogynistic for your unprompted hate of lucy #just to turn around and say the most vile shit about arielle who what? has the audacity to have a job? #give me a fucking break you people are genuinely god awful #fandom discourse #call arielle old again i will hurt ur feelings #turn off anon add me on linkedin so i can call u an ugly beast for daring to age in 20 years