#tw: my gay opinions

[local-library-cryptid]

Happy Pride Month!!

Ship Blackhill and stan Furys lesbians <3

#blackhill #natasha romanoff #sharon carter #carol danvers #maria hill #nick fury #marvel #mcu #pride #tw: my gay opinions #saw someone say that helen cho was also one of furys lesbians and honestly yeah

[breadandblankets]

here's a bat assortment as cars I associate them with:

alfred: columbia victoria, old ass car, looks like they just let the horses loose, also early electric car and the first car to be included in a presidential motorcade

bruce: dodge challenger, a gorgeous piece of american muscle that has been thoroughly ruined by cops

kate: ram 2500 diesel, theoretically a reliable truck with a moderate tow capacity, in reality owned by alcoholic dads

babs: subaru outback (i know what you are)

luke: audi r8 idk i always associate audis with fashionable people and tech bros and idk luke fits that overlap to me..... i just found out this is what tony drives in the mcu..... i swear i didn't pick this on purpose

dick: mclaren spider, pretty, sporty, and really fucking maneuverable like if i had to ask for a (street legal) acrobatic car its this one

jason: Mercedes-Benz 300 SLR jkjk Toyota Hilux an excellent truck that will work forever and also is v good for strapping guns onto

cass: dodge viper, insane power plus tiny body equals a car for people who want to kill themselves

steph: 00s Honda Civic, reliable, dependable, will never die, unfortunately created to be intentionally looked over and driven by people who don't fear death

tim: Lamborghini, expensive, pretty, but if you know you know

duke: Volkswagen Thing, yes this is a real car, yes they look like a toy, theyre technically military vehicle so they come modifiable stock, not very comfortable but it doesn't need to be, it gets its job done and it does it Very well, utilitarian and cool as hell

damian: a Buick coupe, they send him a complimentary AARP membership with it not knowing he's 12, it doesn't much matter though, he appreciates the discounts

#batfam #all the links are wikipedia #im not tagging them all i hate that #if you want to see this post you will come to me #these are not what they would Drive this is what they Are To Me #dick and duke were the hardest im ngl #i wanted it to be Right #anyway lemme know if u want clarification or if you want my car opinions #as a car gay TM #tw suicide ideation #but like its cass so.... #tw canon #bread talk

[batsarebetterthanpeople]

can we talk about how the dialogue in episodes 3 and 4 and the way that we see Izzy and Blackbeard interact in episode 3 implies that Ed doesn’t really get out much and relies on Izzy to filter most of his interactions with other people and Izzy manipulates that to his advantage just all the fuckin time. Like I might be misreading this but they don’t really show us Blackbeard interacting with Fang and Ivan ever really, despite the fact that they’ve presumably been sailing together for some time. And Ed sorta vibing telling ghost stories is the most open and available they’ve ever seen him, despite Ed being pretty open and available generally even when Stede’s not around which makes me think that until Ed and Izzy started fighting, Ed was letting Izzy do a lot of his social interacting for him. And we only see him do this for one episode (episode 3) and in that Episode, Izzy manipulates the way that Ed is perceiving the situation at every possible opportunity. By failing to tell Stede who his boss is so that he’ll get Stede to say something stupid that he can bring back to Ed and by telling Ed unequivocally that Stede knew who he was despite this. He also lies about his own behavior and Ed seems to just take his word for it. He says “I’ve massaged this crew when they were worried about your judgement” but the only time we see him responding to a crew member worried about Ed’s judgement is when Fang asks why they have to follow Stede and Izzy’s response is “How should I know, the man’s half insane. No one asked you to fucking think” which is exactly the opposite of what he says he’s doing.

Ed also seems to think that he needs Izzy. When Izzy tries to leave at the end of episode 4 Ed says all the things he knows will make him stay. At the beginning of Episode 7 Ed is ready to leave the revenge, and I think it’s because Izzy is no longer around. Episode 9 the first thing he does, even after Izzy’s betrayal, when he gets back on the revenge, is save Izzy and reinstate him as first mate. Even after the move with Calico Jack, even after selling him out to the British and then using him as a bargaining chip (Izzy didn’t buy Ed’s freedom in exchange for Stede, he bought Ed. Ed was turned over into the custody of captain Hands by the British which I do think is probably an important distinction) After all of that, Ed still puts Izzy in a position where he can control how the crew sees Ed, how Ed sees what’s going on on the ship, and who Ed talks to.

All of this of course culminates in Izzy being able to completely flip Ed’s emotional state in just one conversation. He basically breaks Ed’s spirit when Ed was honestly doing so well recovering from one of the most intense heartbreaks of his life. Every time Izzy hurls his verbal abuse at Ed, Ed either compartmentalizes and distances himself (”That’s Blackbeard, I’m Stede, remember?”) or he is violently reactive (”Chose you’re next words wisely, dog”) It’s fight or flight, and no one else has that reaction to Izzy’s verbal abuse. Lucius doesn’t give a fuck, Stede matches his energy. Like Izzy’s not a scary character, everyone but Ed treats him like an angry chihuahua when being insulted by him and yet he put’s Ed into survival mode with a word.

I also think it bares mentioning that as soon as Izzy looses his control over Ed he responds by doing something that could kill Ed (i.e. selling him out to the Brits.) He’s going to get back control by any means necessary.

I think what I’m saying is that Izzy is Ed’s abuser, and a lot of people just didn’t notice that because Ed has power over Izzy in that Ed is the captain and Izzy is the first mate, and because the show depicts Ed enacting physical violence on Izzy (i.e. punching him, choking him, and feeding him his own toe). Traditionally when you see an abuser and their victim in media the victim doesn’t enact violence unless it’s in the context of getting rid of the abuser for good and freeing themself, but Ed does it in the context of succumbing to the abuse, which I find fascinating. This show is really good at depicting complicated and messy relationships, and I think Ed and Izzy might be one of the most complicated and messy that there is. It depicts an abuse that isn’t a helpless woman and a domineering man and it flew over some people’s heads but I can’t think of another reason for Ed to behave the way he does around Izzy. And once you see it you feel dumb for not seeing it because Izzy really pulls out all the stops short of hitting him. He gaslights Ed, he manipulates Ed, he isolates Ed from his community, he yells at him, he threatens him, he forces Ed to walk a tightrope and if Ed doesn’t stick exactly to Izzy’s expectations of him he actively tries to do Ed harm. And It’s effective, even when Ed should kick Izzy to the curb he doesn’t because he’s fully convinced he can’t live without Izzy.

#It's also very interesting how Ed's neurodivergency fits into all of this #Like if I may get on my autistic headcanon for a moment #Izzy uses his neurodivergency to make ed feel and appear less compitent #when he's not calling ed week for being in love he's calling him crazy #I also wonder if it's easier to get ed to self isolate because he's autistic but that's more in head canon territory than media analysis #ofmd meta #tw abuse #izzy hands #edward teach #edward teach ofmd #blackbeard #blackbeard ofmd #also making blackbeard and abuse victim is a 10/10 move in my opinion #like anyone can be the victim of abuse even the greatest pirate of all time #Our flag means death #our flag means gay #ofmd

[physicallyherementallykissingmen]

im sorry.. i can’t take the smut fics of jonathan crane where he’s big and throws the reader around seriously 😑💀

that man is the most fucked up twink this is inaccurate!!!! his bones crackle and pop when he fucks!!!! batman (a big buff guy🙄) literally grabbed and pulled him by his hair and just smiled 😑

THE NILE IS A RIVER IN EGYPT YOUR HUSBAND IS GAY!!!!!!!!!

#tw my opinion #hes undeniably gay. #OH MY GOD #lars please when you inevitably see this no you didn’t 😟 #uhmmm #jonathan crane #cillian murphy

[shadowedresolve]

also. should i make a persona 5 oc. place ur votes now. more details in the tags so if you're interested, i'd appreciate your input!

#ooc #specifically; for a game about outcasts; it's often a point of criticism that p5 doesn't tackle lgbt issues at all (or worse; is bigoted #in itself) and i agree with that criticism #the game still has a lot of good points to make don't get me wrong but. #i think it'd be fun to create an oc who's outcast (like the other PTs) from society due to their gender or sexuality #and who rebels against society's bigotry and accepts themselves; similarly to the other pts. however. #i do worry about being a cis woman writing about gender or even writing about sexuality when discrimination isn't something i've experience #myself. (i'm aroace; and a-spec people definitely do experience significant amounts of harm from bigotry imo; but i personally have been #very lucky.) #I kind of feel like it's not my place to write a character who's strongly impacted by these issues as a result?? out of fear of talking ove #actual lgbt voices; i suppose. this mostly applies to if i decided to write a trans character; i think. #so i'm asking for your opinions I suppose. #i'm very tired so i apologize if i worded any of this awkwardly as well; feel free to ask for clarification if i've been unclear #tl;dr i would love to make a gay trans woman phantom thief but i worry it's not my place to write a character to whom #their struggles with the exclusion they face from society are a major part of their character #as a cis woman who's faced little discrimination herself. #homophobia mentions tw // #transphobia mentions tw // #aphobia mentions tw //

[ifwebefriends]

Damn I’d probably be a really interesting House M.D. patient

#house md was made for chronically ill bitches and gay people only #I’ll fist fight house for being an aphobe then get his opinion on my general condition #chronic illness #breast cancer survivor #cancer survivor #cancer patient #cancer #tw aphobia #aphobia #aphobia tw #house md #dr house #Gregory house #dr house Ms. #hate crimes md

[bunn-iiii]

I hate majority cis white rich gay men. You're not oppressed for voting for Trump you asshole. It's not funny and quirky for you to be gay and go to Chick-fil-A all the time. You're not better than trans people and we deserve a place in the community just as much if not more than you do.

#yes this is targeted twoards Ricky Rebel #I'm in a downwards spiral about the amount of white cis rich gay men being asshole conservative Trump supporters #why can't you just think about what you're doing for a few minutes and realize how horrible that man is #my opinion #opinion alert #and one that i think should be talked about more #lgbtq #lgbtq community #my posts #anti trump #trans pride #transgender #gay men #tw transphobes #tw transphobia #tw trump

[theolddivorcedzukka]

izumi with no gaydar should have a day of the week. like it’s more than just a part of the divorcedzukkaverse not everything has to be about them

#it’s like zuko and sokka are living through one of the best love stories ever told (in my humble opinion) #and izumi is rooting for her lesbian aunt and her gay dad to get together #vee keep talking #u know what i’m sick in the head enough to make it a wednesday thing #why knot? #divorce tw

[mrs-kelly]

Man I wish I could control the faces I make but when someone around me says some homophobic stuff my face just stiffens and I cannot stop myself from rolling my eyes

#I don’t wanna fight I don’t wanna fight #but when someone says they don’t trust someone at their job because they say they’re an lgbtq ally #(their coworker. they don’t trust their coworker because the coworker is an ally) #and so they don’t ‘feel comfortable telling them jokes or about their life’ #‘or their opinions’ #damn dude. sounds like you’re a homophobe #you always say you support people’s rights to ‘be whatever they want’ but that says everything doesn’t it #damn I’m mad #hard to keep my mouth shut but I gotta keep the peace #and if I fight about it it will only perpetuate their belief that lgbtq people are just on the lookout to be oppressed #and can’t be ‘civilized’ #this is bs man there’s no winning this game #ren speaks #homophobia tw #off brand ren cereal #also idk I feel like I’m saying this without specifying why I’ve labeled it as homophobia #basically because this person thinks it’s just this guy being woke #and this person refers to being lgbtq as a choice of lifestyle #they use ‘gay’ and the f slurs as jokes and they are cishet #so :/ #this is just an extension of it

[kazoo-the-demjin]

Oh lord pls teach me how to deal with the openly and "proudly homophobes and islamophobes" you place in the seats next to me and in my life

#im seething #irritated annoyed done im gonna pull my hair #bitch really high-fived- #you're islamophobic? me too! #like #rigHT in front me #i gagged #the act like i shouldn't bother about their 'opinions' because im not muslim and supposedly not gay #istg #tw Islamophobia #tw homophobia #tay shit #tay rant

[lixiehugs]

Wow can’t you have 1 oc that’s not gay? I don’t understand why you are pushing this gay agenda down our throats ffs

this is honestly disgusting to me. i create the type of content that i want to see more of and because i love it. if it bothers you, then feel free to block me !! i don't want your opinion if you are going to be queerphobic like this. and please do explain to me how i am shoving this down your throat. i made a pride post, simply because it is pride month. one singular post. i have never made any other post about my ocs' sexualities. if you need to be so rude and ignorant, please either block me or maybe send an ask without being anonymous so i can block you <3

please refer to my dni page because i do not ever want to see you in my asks again.

#nale.replies #tw homophobia #shut the fuck up and take this bullshit elsewhere honestly !!! #reasons why i hate people #like bro ?? you follow me???? #why are you complaining about my content if you are the one following????? #and WHATS WRONG WITH THEM BEING GAY ?!??!?!! #A GROUP OF ONLY STRAIGHT PEOPLE IS THE MOST TERRIFYING THING EVER !!!!! #gay people make me feel safe <333 #okay so update : everyone except people like this with matching opinions are safe on my account <3

[batsarebetterthanpeople]

I hate Hamilton and all that it represents but here’s what I will say. The music does go hard and Lin Manuel Miranda was absolutely goated for the idea of a hiphop opera (I.E a musical where there’s never a dialogue break and it’s all set to music no speaking) and I will do anything for one that isn’t about the founding fucking fathers. Someone put this man in a blunt rotation with Snoop dog, a theater gay, a drag queen, and someone who has a special interest in an obscure historical figure that didn’t do slavery or genocide so we can get ideas flowing right now.

#tw hamilton #my theater gay opinions #Lin Manuel miranda is going to hell for making the first hip hop opera about the founding fathers #I don't even believe in hell and yet

[maaaxx]

Small rant ✨️✨️✨️

(Tws in tags)

Speaking into.the void rn bc im having a small crisis but im talking to this boy and im having a lot of complicated feelings about me bc one thing about me is i dont know what kind of queer i am bc of so many different things, like we have the religious trauma going 'your not actually queer your making it up for attention' and then i have the autism/introception issues like 'maybe youre not aroace maybe you just dont pick up on those signals differently' bc like i like the idea of a relationship as a concept but like when i think of the reality of it im just like??? Who would want someone living in their house??? Who would want to have to put that much effort into someone??? Like i do genuinely feel happier on my own and being able to not have to consult someone else on decisions that effects my life. But its also like 'oh yeah i have a partner :)))' 'this person loves m:)))' 'this is someone who will always be in your corner and values you and is attracted to you :)))' so theres that and THEN theres like 'good father figure? Hardly know her.' Like i genuinely dont know a single (cis)man in my life that i dont despise to some degree. Not to be like terfy and misandristic. What if my brain just makes me sunconsciously think im not attracted to people as a trauma response???

And so like everytime i start talking to someone with romantic intentions i feel like a shitty person because theres a chance i cant reciprocate that and i am VERY MUCH for qpr's and i understand that aromantic people can be in very healthy romantic relationships but i feel like those things just arent for me. So i feel like im leading this man on and its not as simple as 'oh yeah just communicate with him' like im not out yet to basically anyone irl. What if he tells someone??? 'Max you shouldnt be with someone you dont trust' but its just the talking stage i think thats the stage where your trying to figure out if you trust them or not??? Like i was in school with this guy for 13 years but we were acquaintances at best. And hes always been kind and he seems progressive enough but posting pro choice stuff on facebook is different than being a decent person.

Then theres also the whole 'i dont even know if i like him platonically thing, let alone enough for a relationship. Hes sweet, like i said' and has interests which seems to be rare for a man but im not clicking with him at all. I cant tell if i find him attractive i cant tell if i like his personality i dont know anything about him but his first and last name tho.

I dont even know if im ready for a relationship. Like im still a christian despite all the issues i have with church. So i dont know if i should still try to find someone with the same faith as me but my denomination is extremely conservative so doing that i risk getting with a man who tries to tell me what to do with my body and doesnt believe i (as a queer woman) should exist. But if i date outside my church thats going to be somethinf i will always feel shitty about.

Having contradicting identities is hard because half of me is like 'i need to stop entertaining the fact that im queer and just ignore it.' And the other half is like 'fuck the christians, i want to be happy with my own life and not have this omniscent entity tell me what to do'

#tw religious trauma #tw homophobia #(the internalized kind) #having these types of problems is genuinely so annoying becajse no one has an unbiased opinion #either im going to have my church people be like “pray the gay away and keep your dating life inside the church” #or the queer people i know trying to convince me im brain washed #and that i need to do what makes me hally #happy* #the only person i know that doesnt fall into either of those two categories is my best friend and her response to everything is basically #'i dont know what to saylol' #or 'wow that sucks' #also i think therapists are chronically stupid so thats out of the picturw

[thelocalconstellation]

I think the most baffling opinion my dad has in regards to trans kids is that he thinks there's this massive peer pressure to be queer or something. When I first told him I thought I might be gay in 8th grade he sat me down to talk about making sure I think I'm gay for me and not because my peers said I was or should be or something.

I. There was people tearing down the posters for the GSA earlier this year and actively being homophobic in the halls. Every single queer mf I know is just trying to survive being called a slur in the halls what the hell is he on about.

The drama teacher did an entire display on the back of the backstage door with a glitter booby trap in case somebody decided to tear it down (she's great, teacher of the year guys) and it was just a horribly snarky retort to the homophobia. one of the lines was "do you hate trees as much as you hate people different than you"

what the hell does my dad think happen in high school. there's not twinks jumping the 10s at every damn corner asking if they've considered taking puberty blockers. what.

#canadian and my dad heard abt the shit going on in the west rn and there was an interesting discussion abt it the other day #tw homophobia #tw trypophobia #He's so good at using logic to explain things I need to make a podcast about it one day or something but his political opinions are. #certainly something. “hm. there's a lot of trans teens all of a sudden. it must be peer pressure” #dad buddy i prommy there is no gay agenda

[floatybug]

Researching people who hugely influenced queer community is sometimes very overwhelming. I looked up Alison Bechdel and her thoughts on trans ppl because I've been seeing her comics around lately and they seemed so cool. But bc of the whole Bechdel test obsession in radfem terf twitter circles I was super anxious. So I wanted to check. And found: an interview abt gender that is paywalled and I can't access it, some angry tweet talking about how "idk why Bechdel is so popular with trans people, they probably never read what she created", another tweet sharing her comics that seem to have Good takes on trans people (women and men), said comic strips, a really cool paper talking about her comics and an analysis of who even "qualifies" as a lesbian (pointing out that trans lesbians Do), and a blog post made by a terf abt how afraid she is that Bechdel test might now includes genderqueer and trans ppl and steals the word Women from cis women. Just. Holy fuck that's a lot of different things. I just wanted to know if she is like, a terf or not bc the whole Bechdel test obsession makes me worried. She seems like a smart person tho? I know these things are often complicated. I dunno I like her Dykes comic strips and I wanted to check if she is against my people or if she's normal bc I can't fucking take Not Knowing nowadays. Like I said the whole Bechdel test thing. Kinda gave her a reputation in my eyes bc of all the radfems on my old twitter timeline talking about it. I'm so glad I read that paper and that I deleted twitter years ago tbh

#i said i say #queer history #perhaps it's a very 2023 thing to just look up if a person is a transphobe but i am not ashamed #i need to know if a person thinks my people are trash or if they're a normal human being #that comic strip about Jerry the trans dude is really good tho #i know people's opinions change like we've seen with j*kr but I feel kinda calmer now #like it's harder to imagine a person who wrote the “he doesn't feel like a butch dyke he feels like a gay man” being a terf #if anyone has any coherent info let me know tho #tw terf mention #also if anyone comes here to yell at me I'll block them #I'm just trying to figure it out i have the right to know #she's done a lot for the lesbian community clearly no doubting that

[cranberryjuice-posts]

Abby Anderson head-cannons/ relationship HC’s

An: this is like my modern Hc! Only the cannon in game apocalypse version

Tw: nsfw towards the end

Humble about her title in the WLF

Goes to the gym twice a day, once in the morning once at night plus gas break days once or twice a week

High Proteine girly

Knows Damn well that the gay girls at the WLF thirst over her

COUGH lesbian COUGH

Will keep Alice after hours sometimes just because

It’s literally cannon her and manny have competitions for who do what in the apartment

Is a perfectionist

If your in a relationship she’ll take you to the gym and make you try to lift her weights

Actually really likes to cook

If she wasn’t a solider she would of became a medic like her father

Has a shitty green thumb, can not keep a plant alive if her life depended on it

Speaks Spanish to a small degree bc of manny

Once her and manny had hooked up with the same girl — NOT TOGETHER I meant like Abby hooked up with someone THAT FUCKING SCIENTIST first then manny ended up hooking up with the same woman later on down the line.

Makes the worst jokes ever but ppl laugh bc their to scared to offend her

Street smart not book smart

When fall comes around mannys dad still celebrates dia de los Muertos, being that manny and Abby are close manny invited Abby one year to celebrate with them and they made an ofrenda for Abby’s father

Relationship wise she’s actually really caring

You and Abby met most likely in the WLF, whether it’s from you helping her on an assignment, nursing her to health in the infirmary or her helping you with the animals you two just met at the WLF while helping one another

You of-course had heard of Abby multiple times but you.. this was Abby’s first time meeting or hearing abt you and shit she knew she was heads over heels in the first moment you met

Abby spent months deciding over if you were actually into her or not — one night after you two got drunk together Abby confessed and one thing let to another you two decided to plan a date

Abby freaked out like actually leg shaking anxious breath worried if she would fuck up.

She did, the day of the date she had bailed on you due to being put on an imporant assigment by Isaac

After wards she found you had a small argument with you before finally kissing you

That’s how you two ended up together

(I’m writing a fic abt this btw wait for that coming soon 😈🙏🙏🙏🙏)

She’s the type to find you souvenirs while she’s out patrolling

Will make deals with the gardeners to get you a bouquet of flowers

Every Saturday she kicks manny out and sets up the apartment so you two can have a date, doesn’t matter if your fighting and not on speaking terms you two always have the date Abby makes sure, once you Didn’t show up and Abby actually picked you up- threw you over her shoulder and carried you to the apartment

Most ppl when they write smut for Abby is alays like she’s fucking the ever living daylights out of you and calling you names but personally I don’t think Abby would do that (not that’s there’s anything wrong with those fanfics I eat that shit up everytime)

I think Abby is more of a soft lover. She takes her time and whispers sweet nothings, she’ll tell you how perfect you are and how you were blessed by the goddess of love herself

She can get a little rough though, she’s the type to while nuckles deep into you she’ll praise you for how well your doing

She’s a switch, she loves to make you feel good but also wants to be told how much you love her and her body esp her muscles

Abby’s not submissive though it’s just not her style

Went into an abandoned mall once and found a Spencer’s that’s where she managed to find a strap on

She doesn’t really like to use it since in her opinion it takes away from the experience, she doesn’t really like the fact that you want to get off on something that isn’t her

Would never let you use the strap on her tho lmao

Once Owen had drunkly said something to insult you and Abby decked him right then and there mel and manny made her apologize the next day

Insanely protective of you like I said previously she would deck Owen for just insulting you (I also don’t like Owen bc he sucks for cheating on my babe Mel)

If you two argue which is rare Abby’s stubborn but after a while she’ll force you to talk to her. She’s also gonna make you come to an agreement with her and actually communicate how you feel

GODDAMN ABBYS ASS IS FAT sorry I’m watching the remastered version of tlou2 while writing this 😭

Abby’s heavy on communication like she refuses to let one of you go to bed angry

She swears that your the most beautiful person she’s ever met

Abby will go on rants about her dad and tell you silly stories

Your the most important person to Abby and she makes that very clear— if you do patrols she refuses to let you do dangerous patrols only east already cleared areas or only if your with her so she can protect you

Deep down Abby’s scared to loose you like she lost her dad

Every night before she lets you go back to your apartment to sleep or if your sleeping over Abby will give you soft kisses and tell you how much she loves you before letting you go

That’s its 😝

#lesbian #wlw #abby anderson #abby anderson x reader #abby the last of us #abby tlou #the last of us fanfiction #abby headcanons #abby x reader #tlou