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fibrefox · 9 months
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Paused King of the Hill on an interesting frame
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macleuqar · 5 months
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confused about my gender
i've never really questioned my identity in this way before, but I now find myself, 27, and questioning if I might be trans... or at least non-binary...but, I've always felt too gendered to be non-binary. I'm always too feminine or masculine to really relate to that identifier... Aaand I'm too masculine to ever really have related to being female.
I'm just so confused. I've never questioned my gender like this I don't think, not that I can remember? I do remember once being 13 and staring at my body in the bathroom just before a shower and dissociating. I just don't know if it's related to my ED or any kind of gender/body dysmorphia...
Is it normal to question things like this you've never questioned before? I just can't be sure...
I thought at first I might just be lesbian, but I don't relate to that label either, it just doesn't sit right. I'm very unsure of who to talk to about this, I have open people in my life but i just don't feel safe talking about this with them - maybe one person, but...I'm still unsure.
I did identify as she/they for long while, and I've been trying to identify more as they/them but again, I just don't feel ungendered in that sense... I know GENDER in and of itself isn't SO important - just how I feel, but sometimes the label helps i guess?
shit... I've never made a post like this before anywhere, but Tumblr is the safest place to do this... daag
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the-nebula-sys · 10 months
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Okay, so my gender has always been in flux, so for a while I've identified as quoigender due to it being the most fitting label for my predicament. However, I've slowly been realizing that I may be transfemme.
It all started a year ago, with me noticing that I did (and liked) things that society would deem feminine. I then immediately thought I was trans due to me being a fucking idiot. I even came out to my mother about it. But that night I immediately regrettet it because I though it was going too fast. From then to this week, there was always an aura of masculinity to my gender. I changed my labels a lot, from identifying as cis, to being a demiboy, to being quoi, to now.
I realized now (due to r/196 (thanks)) that I thought about things like, "what would my cup size be", and "maybe hrt would get rid of my bosy hair for good", and even dreaming about having a vagina multiple times. And now I have the courage to say all this on the internet for strangers to read. So think of this as me coming out to y'all. And 196ers, thanks for helping me realize this. I truly appreciate it
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moonysfavoritetoast · 6 months
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i’m transgender?
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friendlyfaded · 1 year
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for anyone wondering my gender is male slut. i have made it easier on myself and others by saying that my gender is gavin redacted.
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sea-bunn · 3 months
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Going through another identity crisis ✨
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katiajewelbox · 7 months
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The Lil Guy in question from my previous post is the absurdly named Rivalz Cardemonde. His name sounds like the title of an unreleased Gorillaz album combined with a misspelling of a delicious seasoning found in Nordic bakery items. I have only seen a few episodes of Code Geass and some AMVs so I don't know much about this dude who is emulating Dilandau's iconic hairstyle. Is this hairstyle a coded signal that the character is a transgender male? Who knows but it is darned weird seeing this character design.
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achickennamedcheese · 7 months
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Bro someone behind me on the bus asked if I was a guy, I then said no and then they asked if I was trans, I also said no and they said I looked like a guy
I'm a girl btw, it was kinda a funny experience ngl, especially with how much my face gets compared to my dad's.
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daydreamer0444 · 7 months
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okay am i the only one cooking on the idea of transgender jeremiah? like just imagine conrad being like yeah i used to have a sister *looks at jeremiah in a silly way* and corrects anyone that uses jeremiah’s dead name. is it wrong that i get a transgender vibe from him 😭 (god i’m mentally unstable over this show)
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staff · 2 months
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A message from a few of the trans staff at Tumblr & Automattic:
We want trans people, and LGBTQ+ people broadly, to feel welcome on Tumblr, in part because we as trans people at Tumblr and Automattic want it to be a space where we ourselves feel included. We want to feel like this is a platform that supports us and fights for our safety. Tumblr is made brighter and more vibrant by your presence, and the LGBTQ+ folks who help run it are fighting all the time for this, for you, internally. 
A few days ago, Matt Mullenweg (the CEO of Automattic, Tumblr’s parent company) responded to a user’s ask about an account suspension in a way that negatively affected Tumblr’s LGBTQ+ community. We believe that Matt's response to this ask and his continued commentary has been unwarranted and harmful. Tumblr staff do not comment on moderation decisions as a matter of policy for a variety of reasons—including the privacy of those involved, and the practicalities of moderating thousands of reports a day. The downside of this policy is that it is very easy for rumors and incorrect information about actions taken by our Trust & Safety team to spread unchecked. Given this, we want to clarify a few different pieces of this situation:
The reality of predstrogen's suspension was not accurately conveyed, and made it seem like we were reaching for opportunities to ban trans feminine people on the platform. This is not the case. The example comment shared in the post linked above does not meet our definition of a realistic threat of violence, and was not the deciding factor in the account suspension.
Matt thereafter failed to recognize the harm to the community as a result of this suspension. Matt does not speak on behalf of the LGBTQ+ people who help run Tumblr or Automattic, and we were not consulted in the construction of a response to these events.
Last year, the "mature" and "sexual themes" community labels were erroneously applied to some users' posts. An outside team of contractors tasked with applying community labels to posts were responsible for this larger trend of mislabeling trans-related content. When our Trust & Safety team discovered this issue (thanks largely to reports from the community), we removed the contracted team’s ability to apply community labels and added more oversight to ensure it does not happen again. In the Staff post about this, LGBTQ+ staff pushed to be more transparent but were overruled by leadership. The termination of a contractor mentioned in the original ask response was for an unrelated incident which was incorrectly attributed to this case. We regret that the mislabeling ever happened, and the negative impact it has had on the trans community on Tumblr. 
Transition timelines are not against our community guidelines, and weren’t a factor considered by the moderation team when discussing suspensions and subsequent appeals. We do not take action against content that is related to transitioning or trans bodies unless it includes violations of the Community Guidelines.
When it comes to the experience of trans folks on Tumblr encountering transphobic content, and interacting with bigoted users, we understand and share your frustrations. Tumblr’s policies, and Automattic’s policies, are written to ensure freedom of speech and expression. We prohibit harassment as defined in our Community Guidelines, but we know that this policy falls short of protecting users from the wider scope of harmful speech often used against LGBTQ+ and other marginalized people.
Going forward, Tumblr is taking the following actions:
Prioritizing anti-harassment features that will empower users to more effectively protect themselves from harassment.
Building more internal tooling for us as Staff to proactively identify and mitigate instances of harassment.
Reviewing which of the tags frequently used by the trans community are blocked, and working to make them available next week.
We’re sorry for how this all transpired, and we’re actively fighting to make our voices heard more and prevent something like this from happening again in the future. We know firsthand that having to deal with situations like this as a Tumblr user is difficult, particularly as a member of an already frequently targeted and harassed community. We know it will take time to regain your trust, and we’re going to put in the work to rebuild it.
We appreciate the space we have been given to express our concerns and dissent, and we are thankful that Matt’s (and Automattic’s) strong commitment to freedom of expression has facilitated it.
We will continue to fight to make Tumblr safe for us all.
— This statement was authored by multiple trans employees of Tumblr and Automattic.
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Right, considering the current state of corporate politics on this site, and that it seems that only those affected seem to be actively speaking on the matter, this needs to be dragged out to a wider audience.
This extends to refusing to believe in bogus call-out posts for frankly minuscule thinks such as being horny or kinky, especially if the target is presenting in an ‘unconventional’ manner, (therians, etc.) this double standard where it is seen as ‘degenerate’ for transfemmes to merely exist in certain spaces, yet everyone else is fine to do so is disgusting and part of the reason for the backlash.
PUTTING TERFS DNI IS NOT THE BE ALL AND END ALL, YOU GENUINELY HAVE TO PUT YOUR MORALS OF BEING RESPECTFUL INTO PRACTICE.
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REBLOG IF YOUR ACCOUNT IS A TRANSFEM SAFE SPACE.
We need to show these higher ups how much we truly value them.
Edit 1: Changed the wording of the post and decided to put in a reminder.
Edit 2: Further Re-iteration on the wording and format edits.
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alwek · 2 months
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Remember all you. THIS is the post that triggered Rita's ban.
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socialistexan · 2 months
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t4transsexual · 9 months
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was talking to my gf about my fear of dying young for being trans and my mom putting my deadname on my gravestone, and she said "i hope that never happens, but if it does, i will carve your name into your grave myself if i have to." and i think theres something extremely raw about that sentiment and trans community in general. you can kill only our bodies, but you cant kill transsexuality
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"homosexuality is unnatural! there's only two genders! it's a sin-"
I'm sorry, have you seen NATURE???
ALSO THE ARTIST IS HUMON, FIND THEM AT HUMONCOMICS.COM!! was so sure I had included that but apparently I forgot, so sorry!
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and there's so many more species than this that exhibit homosexuality, varying genders, etc. SO! MANY!
it's very much a natural thing. it always has been. unfortunately, while homosexuality is found in many species, homophobia is only found in one
EDIT: added a keep reading cause this is a long post lol
EDIT: everyone in the comments needs to shut up or I will turn comments off, stop arguing, jeez
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