#they don’t have parents in the area

[itstimeforstarwars]

I think I should write a marriage story where the involved parties are just buds. Just two homies getting hitched for the legal benefits. They love being married to each other but they’re not in love, so to speak.

#chit chat #they’re trying to afford housing on coruscant and you get better options if you’re young and married and look like you’re starting a family #idk #they want scholarships for higher education and there’s lots of scholarships for stay at home spouses #they’re in the military and you get better housing if you’re married #¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #they don’t have parents in the area #so they get married in case one of them gets hit by a speeder and the hospital only allows legal relatives in #just a very practical marriage for very practical reasons

[gaylittlebillionaires]

thinking about how shiv looks like a person logan’s lost (rose) while kendall and roman look like a person he’s discarded (caroline)

#connor is kind of a grey area because we don’t know what his mum looked like but he obviously doesn’t have the same distinctive hair as shiv #honestly i think the casting was pretty good in terms of getting the sibs to look relatively similar to their parents #this is probably super obvious but whatever #succession #succession hbo #shiv roy #roman roy #kendall roy #logan roy

[wholesomepostarchive]

the most wholesome thing is seeing that the wholesome post blog runner is probably one of the nicest people ever :3 i’m generally Terrified of sending asks especially to a blog that Does Things like this but seeing you talk in the tags instead of just reblogging and moving on makes you seem very friendly and approachable !!!! and i hope u know i appreciate that :] i hope you have a wonderful day and both sides of your pillow are always cool and that if you see a random cat on the sidewalk it won’t run away from U ♡

woah, META-WHOLESOME!! thank ya for the compliment, i try my best to carry out those kinds of traits i value!!!!! i’m SUPER super glad that ya did!!! THANK YOU THANK U!! always appreciating how much of an impact this lil blog has on top of appreciating u for sharing as much with me :-)

it’s always a TRIP getting to hear that something i do that i wasn’t even really mindfully doing makes all the difference?? i’m just really, REALLY grateful for all the different kinds of posts that get sent my way and seeing cool + uplifting + sentimental + OVERALL WHOLESOME posts that i express my thanks + ramble a bit in the tags haha !!

i ALSO hope you have as terrific of a day as you’re able to! and i hope you’ll enjoy seeing more posts pop up!

AND YOU’LL NEVER BELIEVE but i got new pillow cases like a week ago THAT DO JUST THAT! AND THERE’S A NEW CAT ON THE STREET WHO HANGS OUT WITH ME SOMETIMES (i’ve been planning to see if he has a microchip, but i know for a fact that the neighbors who feed all the stray cats on our street already have a cage + are well-versed in TNR, so i’ve been thinking about asking them first because the thought that someone could be out there looking for their pal is enough for me to “do it scared”) !! SO THANK U NOT ONLY FOR THE SWEET SENTIMENTS BUT ALSO FOR THE UNEXPECTED HILARITY OVER THE FACT THAT THEY’VE COME TRUE???

#and i get it!! running a gimmick blog (as i’ve heard it be described) is v v different from the other blogs i’ve got going!! #ik i’ve said it in the past but i genuinely think what makes for the lack of ambiance is the fact that i didn’t really? start this blog out #as a gimmick blog in mind?? it was kind of just for me to ‘archive’ Solidly Wholesome posts in one place #by the dates i saw/read through them + let them flow over me. because there’s already a timestamp ya know? #but the Vision was that i’d go through this blog + see that a year ago on a particular day was Important #which is still something i do when i have the the time BUT now i ALSO get sent wholesome posts!!! which WOAH #became a collective effort whether you’ve mentioned me in one post or climbing up to the triple digits now haha!!! i appreciate them all #TRULY :-) #and i’ll also admit that i don’t really remember if i kept the ask + submission channels open because i thought ‘hey maybe i’ll get one #or two someday from someone?’ or if i kinda forgot to close ‘em because i think i only block Anonymous automatically for all the blogs #i’ve got?? THAT will probs be a mystery for a long time to come if not forever BUT am glad it’s all worked out in ways i never saw coming!! #also APOLOGIES FOR NOT ONLY RAMBLING IN THE TAGS BUT THE ASK!! #Apple Pie is defs a priority for me rn and i’ve done some research + talked to my neighbors about TNR being the best bet in our area #last we spoke anyhow which was some time ago #also my parents apparently got into taking stray cats to a TNR program a few cities over so i’ll ask ‘em too probably??? #BUT FIRST THING’S FIRST: checking for a microchip #10/13/2023 #asks #wholesomepostarchive

[theres-whump-in-that-nebula]

Just applied for a summer childcare position (like for a camp type thing) that pays 20–28 dollars an hour based on qualifications (I should be towards the end of that scale because I work in a school; and the only requirement the job lists is to be 16 and have experience with children). So hopefully they’ll consider me. That would be wonderful.

#I hate applying for jobs so much. Everyone uses a different website that makes you sign up for newsletters that clog your email #that you have to manually unsubscribe to #But yeah that’s way more than I get paid as a para lol #which is kind of sad because being a para or teacher is a lot more strenuous and complex than supervising kids during structured play #Because usually the kids enjoy stuff like rock climbing and swimming #so you don’t have to guide them through ten different layers of mental gymnastics to complete their work #or sometimes physically keep them from leaving the learning area after every problem they complete #(of course I do the last thing very gently; and I don’t like having to carry kids from under tables back to their seats #but they’re not going to learn anything if they stay underneath tables all day long… that kind of defeats the purpose of being in school. #I give a lot of verbal warnings before too. Some kids just refuse to learn all the time regardless of their mood because it’s funny to them #Anyway: Kids should not be playing video games past bedtime on a fucking Oculus Rift #Like seriously the tech withdrawal in some of these babies is palpable #Horrifying #Anyway this summer job will be a breeze if I get it #Hopefully no one will be begging me for chromebooks during rock climbing #(I know it sounds like I’m irritated with the kids; and I am. But it’s more irritation with their parents letting them become addicted #to iPads for the sake of convenience; and also frustration directed at capitalism that makes the parents so tired #that they let the iPad babysit their kids so they can rest. It’s the whole system man. It’s fucked.)

[animalsandskyyy]

when you find an interesting job listing, show your dad, and then he’s like “oh doesn’t *person* work there?”.

and he immediately calls that person and she’s essentially like, “oh that’s so amazing, it’s a great company. I occasionally work with that specific department that the job is for. send me grace’s resume and have her draft a cover letter and i’ll look at both and I’ll double check them. oh and also I know the hiring manager so name drop me”

and so yeah. i’m sincerely hoping good things happen. hopefully this doesn’t jinx it lmao

#i’d have to move back to where my parents are though. #which would be a good thing and a bad thing. #I hate the state I live in rn. but I like my immediate area #and if I got it this job would pay enough for me to get my own apartment in the same state as my parents #but I could live with my parents for free and save money. #but then i’d have no privacy again #ughhhhh idk #it doesn’t even matter if I don’t get it #and I just got approved for a raise + 5 months of back pay at my current job that I hate #so idk #anyway #grace is dramatic #ramble ramble ramble

[joestarfucker420]

going from being ashton all week to being my legal name again is honestly one of the worst feelings in the world

#ashtonstfu #also i either have to quit my job and move to illinois with my parents in like less than four months or uh hope i can find a job that can #support me AND a place to live based off that salary before they move and honestly #i’d rather fucking die than have to move with my parents but i have zero job prospects so #idk i guess i’ll just hope i die in my fucking sleep #and like i can’t blame my parents like i know it’s a good paying job my dad has and like he likes the area but like #CAN YOU FUCKING GIVE ME TIME #i won’t even offically have my degree til like may even tho i’ll be done in march #i’ve applied to literal hundreds of jobs but since my skills aren’t the best cause i don’t have any real world experience no one wants to #even interview me or train me or ANYTHING and the only way to get better is my practicing but i need more structure or something and if #someone would just be willing to train me at a fucking job i could do it!! but no one wants to do that except fucking sales jobs and i cant #do that shit again it is soul crushing #anyways i’m gonna have a full on mental breakdown cause uh #i’m too fucking overwhelmed i don’t have anything and i can’t move with them it’ll be a nightmare #if they would just slow the fuck down i might have a chance but we have a fucking realator coming thursday and i have so much shit to clean #i don’t know what the fuck i’m supposed to do #even if by some miracle i get a job i have no credit and no money so fuck finding a place to live #it’s impossible #i’m gonna go throw up probably

[pinkfey]

parents exist to take u on trips to guilt town 🚦🚏🚗

#i’ve refrained from venting here as much as possible but ​today has been so bad #my whole life has been them treating me like dirt and me excusing it with ‘well they’re going through a lot’ #my dad accused me of neglecting the dogs as soon as they got home today #when i’ve been getting up every single day at the same time to feed them and refill their waters #but because he didn’t see me on the camera on the side of the house that means i didn’t do it?? and i could have killed one of them?? #but i explained that i don’t feed him in an area the camera can see and i used a different bowl for water #bc the bowl they left me with was mossy and gross #but he says i’m lying and he can’t trust me and that he doesn’t ask much of me and ??? #it’s just so mean. i didn’t do anything wrong. i know i didn’t. i don’t deserve to be yelled at #it’s like whiplash because last week they said i was perfect and i did a good job #they should invent parents that are normal and kind and say nice things and don’t make their daughter cry 👍 #anyways.txt #delete later

[kalach-cha]

something very funny and kinda annoying is that the acronym for my university is the exact same as the acronym for the college that nearly everyone in my hometown ended up going to. and these are on different continents

#whenever i see those three letters in the bio of any of my friends from high school i do a double take #bc my instant reaction is like huh??? you ALSO moved across the atlantic??? #but yeah i was one of literally 2 ppl in my graduating class who went abroad and. the other one went to canada lol. #shows how much usamericans hate anything not american. bc out of 625 ppl only 2 of us left the country #and i grew up in a VERY international area??? which makes this even weirder idk. but my school system growing up was VERY anti-study abroad #like we were constantly pushed to do either in-state or ivy. those were our options lmao #my school admin dragged their feet so much when i said i wanted to leave the country i literally had to get my parents involved #bc they were like ‘no you should go in-state’ ‘but i don’t want to’ ‘well we don’t want to give your transcript to another country’ sigh. #anyway. i have a lot of issues with the US public school system but this is so funny to me #michi.txt

[foolsgender]

where the trans guys at who don’t wish they were cis men

#i see so many on tik tok who wish they were cis and I’m like idk I don’t feel that way!! #granted I live in a very accepting area and my parents and friends have been great about it #but like. dysphoria wise idk I’d rather shape the body im in #it does a lot of stuff right too #idk #back to reblogging cas pics

[rosicheeks]

💖

#I’m v v v proud of myself tbh #I talked to my parents #and literally just shot everything straight #I was like cannabis/marijuana is a plant dude #it’s so much different than a chemically made substance like cigs and totally different than crack and meth #like they want to put all ‘drugs’ in the same area #and sorry but that’s not right #weed isn’t the same as crack and meth #weed is a FUCKING PLANT #I’m sorry but I don’t think weed is a drug #I think it’s a medication #I take it for my anxiety / depression/ chronic pain/ headaches #I take it for so many different reasons other than ‘just to get high’ #I was like bro buddy pals if I ever get pulled over it would be a ticket maybe and they’d take away my shit - I would never get impounded or #any of that bullshit cause I would need pounds of fucking weed and I’m broke likeeeeee #I’m never going to have that much in my life #they are just blowing everything out to MAJOR proportions and I’m sorry but it’s just fucking weeeeeeeeed #we fine #I’m all over the place #but I’m so so so proud of myself #I’m happy I brought it up and was straight and to the point #also cause I was smoking before and a little high thank you weed 💖 #shut up rosie

[ethanhuntfemmefatale]

idk about you guys but dadzlo from today’s ep was just. Not it for me. Like i have no problem with the show portraying the characters doing/supporting messed up shit (aka 90% of the show lmaooo) but. As the child of a Music Mom who had me in tears every day for 5 hours of practice growing up…punishing me for anything that got in the way of being a musician…Laszlo’s “rehearsals” are wayyy too non-consensual at this point without nearly enough self-awareness from the show for me to feel good. And again (not me traumadumping on main here) as a kid who brought books into the bathroom to read as an escape from practicing, and as a kid whose mom would come in and take them away and make fun of me and get angry….really not loving the way Laszlo is handling this whole parenting biz. I might be too close to the material, but shitty parenting played for laughs is um not super funny. I love Laszlo so much he’s one of my favorite vampires but wanted to scream at him this ep. Just bc Colin has the face of a middle aged man (still can’t believe that sentence lmaoo) doesn’t mean he actually is one, y’know? Still a helpless child in their care. Don’t throw his fucking book.

#idk #all laszlo’s other bad parenting choices were #Really far fetched #lasers #fighting rats #and it wasn’t like Good Parenting but it was funny #maybe for ppl who don’t have trauma in This Specific Area it would be better? #just I know these bitches are unhealthy but #kinda sucks to watch an autistic kid get abused and exploited on my favorite tv show #If I wanted to watch that I just have to eat dinner w my family #lazlo wwdits #laszlo what we do in the shadows #wwdits #colin wwdits #baby colin robinson #cw child abuse #tw child abuse #tw child exploitation #child abuse #bad parenting #wwdits s4 #wwdits spoilers #what we do in the shadows

[the-starlight-papers]

Oh boy just found out that politics are coming directly to my conservative college campus this fall.

Yay.

#well thank god I’m cooping so I won’t be there I guess. #I still might drive in to protest because presumably there’ll be one #annother fun session of having people yell transphobic shit while we chant stuff like ‘hate has no place here’ #if I’m lucky the campus barstool account will post a picture of me at the protest again (this is not a good thing) #also sucks because my parents are just kinda like ‘well that’s how it is. people are allowed to have different political beliefs’ #like yeah they can have different political beliefs but I would like to medically transition and these guys want me to not #also I love working with kids and being a camp counselor and stuff #and some of these people would want me arested as a p/e/dofile because I’m trans and indoctrinating their children #so yeah sure they can have different beliefs but they don’t seem to understand that there are certain groups that want trans people gone #honestly my parents are both upper middle class white people. they come from a long line of college educated people in primarily white areas #both of them tend to preach tolerance to the point where I have to have the paradox of tolerance picture on my phone to remind myself that #tolerance is a social contract not a moral principle #(a good example of this is when I found out that a girl on my xc team had to move schools because she was bullied out of my hs #becuase she was homophobic. and he was like ‘well bullying is never the answer’ #ok but like you understand that she was probably harassing gay people at my school right) #in conclusion: pro tip for queer students choosing their college: yes they may give you lots of money. but is it worth your mental health

[clanoffelidae]

This whole thing really has made me think about Just How Many people I’ve met through fandom DISCORDS specifically that tried to gaslight me/my friends like damn what’s in the water man

#ah ah ah #this is not about The Recent Conversation you lot #it is because The Topic Was Mentioned In The Conversation #and so i am thinking about it #ContemplatingTM #it is not a vaguepost about you lot #bad thoughts don’t listen to them -bites- #it’s your anxiety making you Catastrophize #-bites the bad thoughts- #adding this in the tags since y’all are still following me #just to Be Sure #it is not about you #it is a vague - general post bc y’all i don’t even know where to START #and like i know it’s not actually me having an Area Effect or something bc some of this shit happened long before i entered the picture #-looks over at Ms. ‘i have a right to kill and eat my own dog if i want’- #-‘i want to lock my parents in cages sometimes’- #-‘i made out with my brother when he was little as a ‘social experiment’- #-‘triggers arent real’- #-‘if i give this male character who identifies as male and appears male and has always been treated as male’- #-‘bc he had a dick from the start and only recently gave himself a vagina for sexy times’- #-‘he is now an authority on woman’s experiences’- #which are all unfortunately very real things done/said by One Singular Person #who also gaslit like 6-7 people in the server to the point they have to bring it up in THERAPY #and i wasnt even THERE yet like #what is in the fuckin water my god #like again i know these things are not directly tied to them being in fandoms and are not a ‘fandom’ thing #BUT WHY ARE THERE SO FUCKING MANY???? #jesus christ y’all goddamn #it’s madness out there - be careful you three #that wording makes me feel like an npc sitting alone by a campfire in the middle of your long journey at night lol

[theres-whump-in-that-nebula]

I guess I can start with some of the kitchen items, and maybe some craft supplies; since their loss will be the least noticeable. I’ve decided I’m going to take the smallest, most insignificant objects first, then work my way up to the most visible ones, ending with my bicycle and helmet.

#exjw #ex jw #ex cult #the only things I could see going wrong are #1.) My parents need the car and drop me off at work after I’ve loaded the trunk with my things #or 2.) JWs in the area see me moving my stuff around #Thankfully I was recently made aware that someone I’ve been interacting with is a witness so I’ll have to be careful around them #They are related to someone who is friends with my parents so I’m sure they’ll hear of it #I hope they don’t harass or stalk me #Actually… I hope they do so I can collect information and take it to court

[goldkirk]

i feel like I’m dying but life is objectively much better in many factual ways and I’m working to remind myself of that at least once a day ✍️

#my photos #personal #no like i actually started feeling like my chest was gnawing itself and my lungs are heavy and I’m nauseous tingly #chill on a sofa listening to upbeat music and petting a dog #but the Feeling Like You’re Dying doesn’t care it’ll just hit when it hits #Im going home for part of June/July and there’s a lot of unknown and my family not talking abt things #and honesty vs lies battles #and a lot of messy radtrad/fundie influences continuing to strengthen but like #things are also better in a lot of areas #and no matter what everyone is speaking to me more politely since I moved #although it’s frustrating too bc #i nos feel like Im going crazy going this long without some undolicited Soul Concern email or anti gay email coming from my parents or #fight baiting coming from my sister #it’s weird #i feel like I made it all up since I haven’t gotten any evidence/proof now that I finally thought ‘i should document when they send me #stuff next time’ so I’d be able to confirm to myself that they DID say xyz things or w/ever #anyway NO SELF. LIFE IS GOOD AND WORTH LIVING AND YOU HAVE A DOG YOU COMMITTED TO AND YOUR URGES TO GO BE IN DANGER AND HURT DO NOT NEED TO #BE ACTED ON YOU CAN STOP FREAKING OUT ABT THEM THEY’RE CONSTRUCTION AND DEMO CRAP. CHILL. THEY’LL GO AWAY SOMEDAY #AND YOU ARE NOT AN OPINIONLESS KID WJEN YOU HO BACK YOU CAN LITERALLY JUST TELL PEOPLE NO #also don’t FUCKING forget to pick up a box of those cookies. future me I swear to god I’ve wanted them for like six months #if we come back to WA without them for another year #i will murder you I s2g #not really but I will be SO sad at some point this fall or winter #don’t make me sad #journal

[eatyourdamnpears]

I hate the fact that I couldn’t get out if I needed to. I don’t have a car or license. I can’t work. I can’t afford any rent in my area with disability. I don’t have control of my finances. I can’t take care of myself. I’m just… stuck here. I’m stuck living in a house that can become so easily volatile and I don’t know how to get out if the time comes where I need to

#vent tw #but yeah shit is scary #before my older nephew was put in a place for kids with severe psychological issues (brain fog woop woop) it was really scary here #just so much yelling and throwing things and self harm I had to step in and stop and it was just. a lot. #just the constant fear of him going too far and hitting one of us because we knew he was capable of that with his parents #he even swung at me at one point and even my mom before my brother stepped in to protect her #I’m fearing for the day he comes back #because his parents pushed him onto us and they don’t want him back but like. we don’t either #he’s a good kid he’s just going through some shit that makes him an unsafe person to be around #and then there’s my mom who’s emotionally volatile and living with her is leaving me in a constant state of fight or flight #like even if I was lucky enough to get on section 8 I probably still wouldn’t be able to afford the cost of living in my area #at least not safely #fuck I hate this shit #living is just really hard sometimes #I keep hoping for the day I’m able to work and afford an apartment and have a good life but every day it seems less and less possible