#the term gold star is

[mobius-m-mobius]

#too soon NASA... too soon 😅🎄

#loki #tom hiddleston #nasa #mcuedit #lokiedit #marveledit #loki spoilers #had this in my drafts for a couple days bc i keep coming to terms with the fact that tree references make me sad now lmao #but even then what beautiful a coincidence not to mention #the tree shape? loki's colors?? the two horns crowning the top the HEART OF GOLD 🤩😭 #space news is fascinating regardless then adding such a cool fandom link this time of year is kind of surreal #anyway loki's all festive in the stars in honor of mobius' first christmas on the timeline and that's what i'm sticking to #the gift of being seen again for a moment :')) #sending best wishes for everyone to have a lovely and happy holiday season 💖 #marvel #dianagifs

[ultimateplaylistmaker]

BASED. Finally someone actually acknowledging Tenko`s sexism and making her overcome it instead of unfunny jokes or ignoring it.

Making unfunny jokes? Lame

Ignoring it? BORING

Having Tenko run a primarily woman's shelter during the literal apocalypse which forces her to see actual genuine families that she in her heart cannot bare to turn away when she has resources to help, forcing her to interact with guys more then she had before and getting to observe them be good people trying to help their mothers and sisters. When clearly troubled by how this is changing her world views a nice older trans lady sees this young teenager trying to help everyone but clearly having gender essentialist views correctly blames her guardian for her teaching her those views then goes over to help/adopt her, slowly working through it and kindly correcting her when she messes up or says something bigoted and while Tenko's progress is slow and she still makes mistakes, a lot of them, its clear she's trying and she's growing and she'll get there one day and you just cant help but be proud of her while Tenko learns to be more then just what her master wanted for her and learns who she is outside this role she was molded into causing her to question herself in ways she never was allowed to before? BASED AS HELL

#my tenko has a very long journey that ends with a very poignant moment where she switches her label from lesbian to sapphic #giving her a sense of nuance and fluidity she felt lacked before in her old label that felt more assigned to her then naturally picked #this is of course not demonizing people who do identify as lesbians kirumi is right there being gay as hell there are several lesbians here #but for TENKO SPECIFICALLY the change is a sign of fluidity and growth learning that things arent always black and white and unbending #i think its really boring to insist tenko has to be a gold star lesbian #i think shes more interesting if she gets a chance to explore her attraction at her own pace even if that means actually giving boys a shot #and if she comes away still unattracted but now more solid that her attraction is just who she is and not who she is made to be thats good #and if she comes away thinking maybe she could theoretically like boys thats fine too! she deserves the chance to find out on her own terms #not her masters terms of isolating her and only exposing her to the worst for some god forsaken reason she deserves to explore herself #gender and sexuality is so much more fun in fanon when you realize its like water to splash around in #ever changing and very stimmy! #ndrv3 #uh oh this got long #anon chaos #my dr lore #tenko chabashira

[illegiblewords]

I'm an adventurer, just like you.

#baldur's gate 3 #baldur's gate iii #bg3 #bgiii #the guardian #Edited his design to fit more thematically in terms of the relationship I picture with this Tav #I mentioned before but basically visual mirroring but ocean vs desert motifs #Wet vs dry cold vs hot alive vs barren distant star vs the sun #I knew I wanted him to have eyes that kept unnatural black sclera to share something in-common even if human #but overall design became way more subtle and faded which I'm liking more #and! his eyes mesh with the red-gold in his armor so HOORAY

[gendertarot]

Inviprideadam / Inviprigolst: An inviane identity that can only be described by this specific version of the High Priestess, by witchinstore. This card is found in the Gold Star Tarot and the Alleyman's Tarot. This may be used on its own, or as a gender, aldern, or any other aspect of identity.

[ID: two rectangular flags made up of 5 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, tan, leather, dirt brown, dark grey. In the middle of the first flag, there is a High Priestess tarot card. The card depicts a skeleton in priestess clothing. The priestess’ headpiece resembles a crescent moon. Behind it are simple dots of stars, and beneath it is text that reads “the high priestess.” End ID]

#mogai term #mogai coining #liom term #liom coining #inviane #tarotgender #deck: alleyman's #deck: gold star #major arcana #card: high priestess

[daemonhxckergrrl]

what we were meant to have been taught:

a wider vocabulary allows for greater writing. it offers precision and craft.

what we actually got taught:

more similar superfluous oft-innacurate fancy adjectives means more good !!! more synonyms is more betterer !!!

#daemon.md #i figured this out on like primary school i think #bc people kept getting praised for clunky writing (yes ik kids < 11 aren't professional authors lmao) #like actively commended for overusing descriptive terms and weak metaphors #so i deliberately packed a short piece of writing full of as many as i could #no regard to how it read/sounded and i won like a gold star or whatever they gave out #which provee my point

[lostryu]

whats the issue with gold star lesbians?

It's a TERF talking point and its dehumanizing. I don't trust anyone who uses the term in a positive manner. If you reduce it far enough back it basically means "lesbian who has never had any romantic/sexual relationships with men/trans women".

#ask #anon #transphobia #lesbophobia #comphet is not something that should be punished #and people are not better for realizing their sexuality sooner #thats why i hate when bi lesbians say “oh just call yourself a gold star lesbian” #like no that is a loaded term and we are NOT bringing it back

[oatbugs]

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#i havent come to terms with the fact that one of the people i held closest to my heart has graduated and i wont see him for a good while #until i can shell out the money to fly to singapore. i get the feeling this is the conductors first shift on the train. #(all the black and breathing rapture) so welcome to charing cross? are you ready? an adminstration error #you are covered in the metallic stench of the rusty chains of command. its time to make four thousand pounds. i thought of you. #here in the garden of england she scrapes the shards of glass from the black sea. first with a spoon and then a knife and the with the #hairdryer that belonged to his mother. in the back of his car i can feel the stutter and jutter of the wheels the same shaky-straight path #of a beginner driver. i love you and the trees. hes finally growing his hair out. here is an enclosed metal room #more man than machine. i wont see you for another year. driving dangerously close to an 8-wheeled tall box i feel safer with you #than i ever will at home. weve already started a campfire in the backseat of your car ive got you didnt i? #we laid in the luxury of a four-person tent next to the mass of campfires and stars and i told her i thought you hated me #I've never hated you. ive never hated anyone except my father. here is how to forgive unspeakable things. #i am really all that ive been looking for. youre not a narcissist baby youve just got a lying problem. take molten gold #and glue the fragments of yourself back together. we cant stop crashing into the sky. drink wine straight from the grapes in the vineyard #and when you give it give it all. studies have shown you view your own future self as a seperate person #and oftentimes you have less empathy for this other person than for a friend. it is time to extend your kindness unequivocally. #the aviation tax attorney on the train floating on water told us a short story of her life. a smile full of charisma and #feeling old retiring at 47. theres a lot about you we shouldn't know. GRAB A GUN AND SHOOT THE IMAGE OF YOURSELF STRAIGHT IN THE MIRROR.

[cantankerouscatfish]

my dad's really funny bc he asked my mum if she wanted to go for a walk through a local, large park. my mum, who needs a cane (or someone to cling to) if she goes anywhere outside the property lines. honestly she should use a walker sometimes, but you can't tell her that or she gets mean.

but anyway yeah no she's not gonna slip and die in Big Boardwalks Park as a fun afternoon activity, dude. think before u speak.

he's also invited me out for walks, but I am so tired and hurting all the time. mostly from standing/running in wet shoes on concrete all day. sure I CAN walk an additional 3 miles but like I could also Not do that. guess which I'm gonna choose. :)

#he's like. in the middle of the two of us in terms of walk distance ability and also in terms of willingness to do things. #I can walk for ever and ever but I don't want to man jus' leave me alone. she can't walk far but likes going to parks and wherever. #just not with him LMAO #and he likes to trek around and brag about it and show photos. and we pat him on his lil head and give him a big gold star. good job buddy. #he and his girlfriend do hikes so we're like okay great! go with her! tf you bothering us for??

[introvertgoat]

was listening to IN LIFE and im crying ,,, skz made Real Good Music back then u guys 😢😢😢😢 like obv the old stuff (tm) isn’t easily beatable and noeasy is crazy delicious cohesive album but in life js works soo well in a way the most recent albums js Don’t for me 🫤 granted, i have yet to listen to 5 Star in its entirety, buttt idk from the clips and snippets i’ve heard online it’s looking uncertain

if i had to rank all 2020-2023 korean albums, excluding GO LIVE bcs we’re trying to not be TEWW biased here, in my frankly Correct opinion it’d go smth like this (things might switch up if i went into more detail and ranked the pros and cons, but not by much LOL) :

1. IN LIFE ( i don’t even listen to this 1 often but u have a banging title track and banging unit and b side tracks like cmon wtf !)

2. NOEASY ( listen it’s not js bcs this is probably the only Good title track they released since ( for legal reasons this is a joke 😪) but because it’s so sonically enjoyable like u have to see the entire picture ! even the order is important it takes u thru a slightly nostalgic journey and also i might js be a tad but emotional and biased bcs hyunjin made his return w this album and it was the most Perfect era EVER in kpop for skz to skz like

3. MAXIDENT ( ok it was a little boring for me at first i’m ngl but there’s a reason it was one of my most played albums of 2022 by my calculations ! like it lacked a lot in some places, did so much in others ( queens chill GMYTMI and superboard we thank u for ur hard work ) but it was Fun i liked it i vibed i chilled and case143 wasn’t really awful js wacky

[brick wall]

4. ODDINARY ( i never say this on main but i absolutely abhored this mini JEJDJDJ to this day i still have a huge hate boner for it LMAO like it js felt like a copycat of the prev albums and not in a Good way i rarely play it except for when i wanna listen to lonely st and waiting for us like it’s that serious for me. also, the concept hair everything EW EW we did not give there at all i find maniac era to be a scourge on my life and everyone else should too ! it’ll kill u trust

there u have it everyone this is why u should all go stream top 3 and ignore ordinary w ur very dying breath 😢🙏

btw replay value is good for everything EXCEPT ordinary like i’m ngl that shit was not good

#me listen to 5 STAR when ?? #never most likely #can’t have a single civil constructive convo w stays on twt bcs they really believe everything skz put out is gold #like NO I WISH 😭😭 #maybe 3racha need to hand over the reins for a bit yk get the creative juices flowing by doing smth else besides living in that studio 24/7 #anyways in my head skz have been in their flop era since 2022 like i luv u maxident but ur not strong enough to save them all #han tho he’s doing js fine in terms of music like whatever he makes i tend to like #stray kids #pls get skz out of their flop music era god PLS i beg of u #they need a 6 month hiatus vacay and then maybe we’ll allow 1 (han) back into the studio to cook smth good up 👩‍🍳 #also i know the Noise music is their thing like i understand i really do and i’d HATE (lie) to take away their idnsitu away by suggesting #they try another concept but … #well they need to do smth else quick 😛 #kpop #personal #thoughts #criticism

[sar3nka]

Why do people have a problem with gold star lesbians anyway it's so silly

#i dont think i know a lesbian irl who isnt a gold star by definition #though none use this term afaik #normalest coolest women on earth. whats da problem.

[starsketchez]

black, pink gold-ish

the starrizz is immaculate

-mystery mutual

This is the third time I've received these answers from a mystery mutual, except now it's called Starrizz? ‘,:) this could also make for a fun guessing game by now...

#Ask Stars #mystery mutual.. hmm.. #who uses the term rizz #really.. none of my mutuals say rizz.... #well- #except for maybe a few #.. starting to narrow it down 👁👁 #well- whoever it is #black pink and gold-ish right back at you <33

[selfidentifiednerdyprude]

Rose404

The complete lack of romantic/sexual attraction, affinity, or interest, in both a theoretical and practical sense. Etymology from “rose” meaning “romantic and sexual”, and the internet error code “404: File Not Found.”

This is not meant to be a “gold star” type label for aroaces. Rose404 is not about your past experiences or whether you have been in a sexual or romantic relationship before. It’s a community label for those who feel that their internal subjectivity lacks a romantic or sexual component and would like to not have to pretend that it does, those who feel pressured rather than reassured by the constant “aces can still have sex!” and “aros can still be in romantic relationships!” messaging on this webbed site, those whose answer is “hard no” rather than “if it makes you happy.”

404romantic and 404sexual variations under the cut for those who feel that only one half of it applies to them.

404romantic

404sexual

#aromantic #asexual #new term #if you misinterpret this as being exclusionary or trying to do a gold-star thing for aroace people I will eat your kneecaps

[0x-hazel]

*sees a post condemning "lesbophobia"*

ah, I'm sure this person has normal opinions on queer identity (this has never happened)

#gold star #lesbian #and like I'm sure there are things that could be properly considered that #but it just seems that every time someone uses that term you look closer and they're shitting on bi/pan lesbians #for... not being 100% or whatever? #fucked up imo #bi lesbian #pan lesbian

[weirdlynotspecific]

The term "Gold star (insert sexuality here)" is so weird to me. Like... What if I wanna be a purple triangle. Don't put me into a box with your weird shape shenanigans!

#lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbt pride #hi im very gay #lesbian #nonbinary #gay #homosexual #like raging homosexual #*angrily waves a pride flag in the distance* #also the term is just problematic lol #gold star

[stevethehairington]

Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had the sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)

getting up close and personal i see lol

kind of curious what made you think/ask this because i definitely don't hide the fact that i am bi on this account, but uh yeah i am very much attracted to women AND men so the answer would be a resounding no.

#asks #anonymous #ngl i went back and forth on whether i was going to answer this one #mostly bc it feels sort of fishing?? #and like i dont mean to offend you anon if it is not and is a genuine question #but ive just rarely ever seen the term 'gold star lesbian' used in a positive way? #im not saying it cant be and im not saying that everyone that uses it does so in this way #but every time ive seen it used its been in a very 'im better than you because ive never been with a man' kind of way #as if being with a man is something to be looked down upon (it is very much NOT) sooooo #(again not saying that was your intention with this question!!!) #(but if it WAS then you can kindly keep that shaming bs to yourself please and thank you 😊)

[silkplay]

as someone who refers to lauren as a lesbian in her bio let me just make it clear that she herself does not identify with the term consistently. she considers her sexuality fluid and has a lot of internalized lesbophobia that deeply impacts her interactions with any potential partners. she's frequently intimate with men, women, and nonbinary/gnc individuals. tldr; in writing / canon, lauren is clearly queer, but has no label beyond that (unlike paris and andie who explicitly identify as lesbians.)

#also we dont believe in the term Gold Star Lesbian here. thats bs #not all queer people / lesbians have the same journey. we know this #plus labels r touch and go regardless #just felt like this needed 2 be said bc its a distinction from how i talk abt the other two members of silk and an important one #: /‏‏‎ ♯ out. … it's kitty time. '