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seohwang · 3 months

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Hey! I really like your writing and I especially liked the bedroom mishaps series, it’s so refreshing to read something more realistic.

I’ve been thinking about what Ateez would be like with an autistic partner, as an autistic person myself.

I feel like Hongjoong would be really aware of and intuitive about his partner’s sensory difficulties, and always have things handy to help, like headphones or sensory safe hoodie. Would enjoy seeing his partner listen to Ateez’s new tracks on repeat for days/weeks.

Both Hongjoong and Seonghwa would love listening to their partners ramble about their special interest/hyper fixation, as well as finding their stims super cute.

Seonghwa would be aware of the social and sensory limits of his partner, maybe even more so than his partner themselves. Would be very good with helping his partner through meltdowns/shutdowns.

Woosansang would just be very intuitive, understanding, really good and comforting and helping their partner through meltdowns/shutdowns as well. Woosan especially would be very openly/loudly supportive and trying to always encourage their partner. And also knowing when their partner is too overstimulated for physical touch, or they just need pressure hugs. Would also find their partner’s stims super cute.

Mingi would listen with his big puppy eyes when they’re rambling🥺 and would indulge with them with their special interests so enthusiastically

Yunho would ALWAYS have a massive grin on his face when they’re rambling. Massive encourager, always encouraging them to unmask and stim as much as they need.

Jongho would be quietly but acutely aware of his partner’s needs all the time, whether they’re overstimulated, or wanting to unmask but being too uncomfortable to do so. Always aiming to help them out silently but with devotion.

I just know they’d all be very understanding and caring. I’m wondering what you think of this? And what Ateez would be like? Anything you disagree with or would add? Feel free to add anything nsfw.

(Sorry it’s so long😅 this has been brewing for a while)

Feel free to ignore lol

Hi!! Thank you so much for the kind words, I'm really happy to hear you like my fics!! I love writing about the more real and awkward parts of relationships, so it's lovely to hear that my readers enjoy them as well!! ♥

(I didn't want to clutter the searches too much, so you can find my response to your headcanons under the cut! ♥)

Now, I'm not autistic myself (or, like, I might be somewhere on the spectrum, but I haven't gotten properly diagnosed or anything), so I don't really feel like I can confidently write much about the topic, BUT I really like the headcanons you have written! There's honestly nothing I disagree with since you picked up each member's personality pretty well in my opinion. Especially with Woosan, since they definitely seem like the types to proudly ramble about their s/o to everyone around them, lol. Oh and don't even get me started on Hongjoong, he absolutely feels like someone who'd carry around a bottomless bag full of the most random things like all moms do, lmao.

Also, I definitely agree that they'd all be very open and understanding!! I think that some of them would pick up on your habits and cues much faster than others (Hongjoong, Seonghwa, Jongho), while others might need more time to learn when to tone things down (San, Wooyoung), but they'd all be trying their best nonetheless.

As for nsfw headcanons, I think that most of the sfw headcanons would transition into the bedroom pretty much identically. They'd all make sure to ask for your limits and preferences (either beforehand like Yunho or in the moment like Yeosang) and would try their best to remember them whenever the time comes. The biggest obstacle, in my opinion, would be with San. He seems like someone who'd love a lot of eye contact during sex, and if that's something that makes you uncomfortable, he would have a harder time getting used to that. Other than that, I think that all the members would be very good at working around any troubles or needs you might have, as they're all very patient and loving anyways ♥ :)

(Lastly, I hope it's okay for me to publicly share your ask like this - if not, just tell me and I'll delete it!! Either way, thank you so much again for the lovely message and headcanons and take care!!!)

(Also, if you have a writing blog, please tell me the name!! I'd love to follow you, you have a nice way with words :) )

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willowwhispersspeakeasy · 2 years

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Hi there!

Gosh, I'm so happy to see you're open to neurodiverse headcanons

I asked for something before with another blog and they apologized and added it to their "will not write" list. And I understand if they don't feel up to it, of course!! It just kinda sucks when something that's part of you is pushed/turned away, even if it's because the person is trying to be respectful.

on that note haha

Can I ask for more (I was so excited when I saw you did some x3) headcanons for a S/O with ADHD wiiith

Rook, Cater, Jade and Ruggie? Thank you for making me feel welcome :)

ah yeah, that must be disheartening to be turned away like that. of course each author can set their boundaries, but! that is why we're here~

-Onyx, the bartender

twst! ADHD mc

characters: Cater Diamond, Ruggie Bucchi, Jade Leech, Rook Hunt

warnings: gender neutral mc

Cater

I headcanon Cater as having adhd himself so, y'all are practically made for each other. this man is always doing three things at once and he absolutely can talk a mile a minute so its nice to have someone who can keep up with him easily.

Cater often stims with his nails tapping on his phone, or tapping on desks as well. the pair of y'all are horrible study buddies because you end up doing a deep dive into something completely unrelated and useless to your original assignment.

oh and he also forgets what hes doing half way through and that's part of why hes always on his phone. he makes notes in the notes app. yalls shared experience means you can lean on each other and hes so happy and supportive of your interests.

Ruggie

this baby also has some adhd tendencies sooo. hes a lot more strict with himself than Cater, not having the luxuries of openly stimming or forgetting things.

please please please pet his ears and his hair. its so calming for him and such a nice stim it can help him focus better. Ruggie enjoys engaging with you when you're unmasked. it makes him nostalgic for his own childhood and playing with the other puppies in the slums.

however you won't see him fully unmask much. that was dangerous where hes from, so its hard for him to fully relax. he has a huge amount of coping mechanisms hes happy to share with you though, just little things to make yalls lives easier.

Jade

he deals with Floyd. what ever you do he will be completely unfazed. he finds your stims and rambles charming, quietly observing. Jade adapts to your communication style suspiciously quickly as well.

it means a lot to Jade that you dont mock him for his special interest. he does love talking about mushrooms, and in return hes happy to listen to you info dumb about your latest hyper fixation.

he knows what you'll forget and he covers your weaknesses as second nature. any activities that give you anxiety he either offers to help you with or helps you avoid. its might even look curious to others how quickly the pair of you adopt a symbiotic relationship.

Rook

oh darling, hes in love the first time he sees you. your forgetfulness and lack of object permanence his charming to him. as absent minded as a bumble bee. your stimming is simply as wonderful as the wind rustling the leaves of the trees. the man is smitten.

Rook can also talk for ten years about nothing in particular, or he can fall eerily silent while you info dump about whatever has caught your fancy. he likes taking your hand and playing with your fingers.

he can end up bombarding people with information or seaming to talk around them and yet you can catch every word. he simply adores you and he understands your communication style flawlessly.

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